₦airaland Forum

Don't go emotional! The women folks raised the men. They even prevents fathers from disciplining children so much so that children run to their moms after committing atrocious acts

sisisioge:
All these irrational people sef! You offended someone, you havent apologized and you expect her to tender the pusssy happily and joyfully? Hian! Isnt the darn pusssy part of her body? How can someone unhappy with you happily give one part of her body while the rest of her is not in it? What the fork is wrong with these male forks bayi? Who the hell raised these people? Dang! For most of you, your greatest achievement on this planet earth is being born with a dick! How lame!


Whew! I'm so sorry, but can we have emotional intelligence added as a compulsory course in schools at all levels? One of the things that astound me the most is how irrational people try to explain their irrationality to themselves and others. It is well.

Were you a virgin when you married your wife? If no then you shortchanged her. The fact that she's a woman doesn't make her less than a man

Gbolarshow:
I married my wife of six years a virgin after ten years of friendship. I never and will never for a day doubt her chastity or question her whereabouts. Forget westernization or modernization, virginity is a virtue and our ladies should strive to keep it for their own good. I will respect and care for my wife till eternity.

God greated biological systems with reproductive capabilities and also gave them intellect.. the rest is history.

Now who has warped logic?

Franking:
And where was God when all these were happening?

Who created u? (For those of u who believe he exists) Was it God or ur parents? According to ur warped logic.

Are they not always using security? Don't know that one's name

nokspos:
please which pastor is this with all the security men ?

God did not make you a Nigerian, Luggard did.

God created you a human being, Europe decided Africa as we know it today and we're killing ourselves to insist on Britain's experiment

jesusjnr2020:
I don't know how it happened that I'm a Nigerian, but it's a such a blessing and I'm proudly a Nigerian.

So I thank God for making me a Nigerian.

And God bless Nigeria.

Absolutely! They're usually possessed by the demon of idolatry.

Seeing the pastors as God. They do nothing unless the scamming pastors give the go ahead. Fake pastors sleeps with their wives and fiancees and all you hear is that don't judge a man of God( god of men actually).

They eat your tithes and hire security with high tech security systems at home, flying private jets but tell you to pray.

Sharia which is the origin of terrorism in Nigeria started from Zamfara state. They had it coming alright!

Have you heard the word allergy? Even oyibo people wey get allergies nor dey eat everything wey fellow country people dey eat.

Your father's brother is allergic to monkey meat, that's all.

You're living in the past(old ways)!

Sufferingboy:
Impostor Dey deceive yourself.....I already told you the reason which I know you don't know.

If we mistakenly eat monkey,the person will vomit blood and be sick until they go go do some rituals to stop him go dieing.It happened to my father brother wey unkownling go eat monkey meat.He vomit blood until them go do some rite for am .The juju to strong.

If you deliberately eat monkey meat na straight death for the person.

Even Agbpr people nor dey eat monkey.An agbor guy go use strong head eat monkey deliberately,and their juju pump water put for him body.The boy bacame fat and them come use motor carry go Dein palace,dein use hand pack sand from his shrine put for the guy body before the guy started urinating out the thing out of his body....

You dey argue with people who made integrated circuit(electronic chips) powering communication over millions of miles from silicon(sand). And the funny thing is that you're taking pride in your ignorance

Ever8090:
This people will always have one nonsense thing to say..who measured the distance to note that it is exactly an inch and half..I know before opening the trend that they will definitely mention "billion years" and they did not disappoint at usual...

Wetin concern me, with my 100 naira, I just win 75,000 naira on bet9ja I needed the money so bad and God did it for me..I am greatly happy

Who care about monkeys? You don't eat monkey because you elders told you it's forbidden. I don't eat monkeys because they look like humans..

The history of Ika is not tied to monkeys...go do proper research and cure your ignorance

Sufferingboy:
If you bring fact to an argument,an Igbo man will deviate.

Dmerciful continue to dey pretend to be Ika.

When I asked you why Ute-Ogbeje,Owa,Ute-Ogbeje nor dey eat monkey you nor gree tell me.

Have you stayed in Igbo land before, how were you treated? I'm from Delta and schooled in Imo, never had any problems.

To form a new country now, the country will be negotiated and these negotiations and agreements would be documented with the UN unlike Nigeria that the negotiations and agreements were not properly documented because we were in a hurry to get independence.

During agitation for seccesion, secessionist groups tends to use force or other tough means so that they'd listen to them but not so after the victory is achieved. Mandela was called a terrorist and locked up for 27yrs because he was fight for his people....what did he do when victory was achieved? Extremely peaceful and forgiving

richmond500:
its not about the people but the mentality.
Ipob has shown that the new country will be worse, opinion will not be respected, criticism won't be welcomed.

If u think Biafra will be heaven, then I feel sorry for u, the minorities will be ruled by Igbos and last time I checked, Igbos are not that welcoming? They are the only tribe that will never allow other to invest in their land, the marginalization won't be funny.

Imagine me going to Anambra and everyone is speaking Igbo to me, won't i feel disturbed?

I tire for the guy o. Na really sufferingboy

Bendeco02:
Ignore that mumu na... Can't u see his username; SufferingBoy

He is born to be slave and suffer.


He said that Ika is 80% benin yet 90% of Ika speak Igbo dialect and answer Igbo names that can't be understood by Edo people.

Even inside that edo state some Igbo speaking towns are still there... A man that doesn't know his origin is a lost man.

The future of generations thousands of years to come cannot and should not be dependent on the small business of today's generation.
Common, Facebook started in 2008 or so and it is bigger than many companies of 100yrs so companies do come and go.

Imagine a new country free from bokoharam, bandits, horsemen. Imagine a country with freedom of expression, where meritocracy is the criteria for selection, where quota system does exist, where the government is decentralized....you can't imagine what can be achieved.

Nigeria is a country of stagnation and nothing can fix it

richmond500:
its not about political elites.
Anyone with a business or a company will not agitate for seccesion.
Na only POS attendants and Okada drivers with bet9ja people deh agitate

Those political elites benefits from the status quo so won't support secession because they'd be irrelevant in a new country.

Have you wondered why the support of the Igbos are for the PDP and the political elites cannot change it? Once the Igbos have decided on a path, it must be achieved no matter how long. Igbos will eventually decide Nigeria's fate again, just a matter of time!

richmond500:
tell me one person in Igboland that agitates for seccesion.

I am not talking about those pencil mouth trouser boys o

You have not stated how the Ika language came to be 80% Igbo and you've not also stated where the man that founded Ika came from. All these relationships with Benin you mentioned is due to proximity

Sufferingboy:
Oga you nor answer my question.Impostor do you know why we forbid monkey?

I hope you know the Obi of Ote-Okpu,Obi of Owa,Obi of Ote-Ogbeje are all blood relative? They have the same ancestor "IJUE".

Ijue was the name of the man save by monkey from his benin people chasing him.He later made peace with the benin and sent his senior son "Odogwu" to assist the benin in war and before the senior son will return,IJUE was dead and his younger son was crowned as king,thinking Odogwu was dead but when Odogwu return he decided to leave found his own kingdom.He took some element out of their ancestral shrine which represent authority and power


A boy was asked to carry the native pot of charm which was directing them to present day Owa.But when they came they met people in Owa-Ofie.The people was lead by "Adagba" The Odionwere of Ofie.

Odogwu buried his charm there in Oyibu and till this day those things are still intact.

It was later when an when odogwu was invited to Ofie for Festival,he was happy and decided to replicate it in Oyibu.

Igbos do not want power, they want out of the mere geographical shit hole

richmond500:
sure, I believe they deserved a term but it won't be in 2023, they have to make peace with Nigeria before convincing Nigerians to vote for them.

Someone who has threatened to burn down the country, someone who doesn't have respect for the sovereignty of the country cannot preside over the affairs of that same country.
Once trust is broken, it may never be amended or if it will, its gonna take a looooonnng time
If Igbos want power, they need to wait for at least 12years, we need time to fully trust them.

Ika was under Benin influence due to proximity. This Benin you're attaching yourself to were oppressing other ethnic groups in Bendel State until Delta State was created. Why is Igbanke and other Ika speaking communities left in Edo State, just to make Edo bigger than it actually is.

You know Melekwe street? We have a house there. You know Word of Faith street, we have a house there. My friend go rest.

Sufferingboy:
Make I go buy data,I need to put this Dmerciful where he belong.Shameful impostor.

I am not saying there is no Igbo blood among us.Both majority and our early ancestors came from benin.

There are evidents and proves for all this.

The current Obi of Igbodo was not allowed to marry an Igbo woman from Ebonyi before anscending the throne.

He was force to divorce her and given two option.

1.Marry an Ika woman from any clan .
2.Marry a benin woman.

An Igbo woman can not be mother of any crown prince or king in Ikaland,we don't allow that.

For you info, different parts of ika claim different origin. Ute-Okpu people trace our roots to the East (Umuleri), You people from Owa traced your root to Benin, Abavo might also traced their roots elsewhere but the truth remains that Ika language is 80% Igbo language!

Sufferingboy:
I am free today,I will be revealing differents ancients things of my people.

Dmerciful you only full your fellow Igbos.

I go give you many questions today,Igbos should learn from hausa.How many times have you seen hausas claiming other ethnic groups as hausa?

Rubbish history! You're attaching yourself to people who has less than 2% language similarities.

Do proper research so you know your roots.
Me impostor? You know of Ute-Owerri right?

Sufferingboy:
This impostor you don wakeup up? Nor be only umuleri.Let me ask you.

What century was ute-okpu founded?

The founder of ute-opku was actually from Igodomigodo, during ogiso dynasty. There is a reason Ikas from Ute-okpu,Ote-Ogbeje,Owa don't eat monkey.Our who founded Ute,was been chase by the benin after he did some wrong in benin,the monkeys marched through the path he passed when the people chasing him got there they were confuse and stop chasing him.That is why today we don't eat monkey and there is a deity for that.

Now tell me the century he founded Ute?



Also tell me the name of the founder of ote-okpu?


He is the man monkey saved when he was been chase by his fellow benins when he did something bad.

You're just ignorant and take pride in your ignorance. The way you're shouting we are Ikas, you'd think there's diamond in Ika. I'm from Ute and we traced our root the Ika people to Umuleri to a large extent.

You're attaching yourself to Urhobo or Benin because previous military govt drew artificial borders that placed you in Bendel state.

Ika founding fathers migrated from the East!

Sufferingboy:
Hmmm this people done start again......Na wetin we Ikas do those people.

We are not Igbos leave us alone.For your info.The Ika language have different dialect...depending on your clan of origin or even your village......

We are Ikas.

Luckydubby7 .

Can you see how refined the guy you're quoting is? Giving you quotes by the founding fathers where they at one point or the other faulted our unity. You're here saying you're one Nigeria even with people you hate

Rexwalters1:
No one forced your parents to give birth to you in Nigeria, you are not ashamed of yourself, mentioning your Great Grandparents lords, why you no mention Fela Mama, Madam Ransome Kuti?

I just dey laugh you. I'll be 10yrs in marriage with 3 kids in February.

AutoC:
Okay I hear u... If u like, don't put house keep+money to look good down for ur wife when u marry and be expecting bum ass sex from her... Na average sex u go dey get plus insult... I'm talking from 8 years experience n if u dnt like don't listen...

Nobody will select the highly explosive Wike as pdp presidential candidate

seunmsg:
I don’t think Jonathan can defeat Wike. Wike is the man to best as far as PDP presidential ticket is concerned.

So if I follow your logic, the wives that bears their husband's names belongs to their husband?

And still on your logic, if the husbands owned the wives, can't they dictate the tune( he who owns the piper dictates the tune)

FutureIsFemale:
Whose names do the children's bear?

Women birth children for men? So you're saying the children belongs to the men only? Wonderful!

FutureIsFemale:
Since it's a man's world, why do you allow women to birth children for you?

You're wrong. Not everyman pay for sex....change your mentality. Sometimes in marriage, the woman pays more ,not necessarily in monetary terms but other resources

AutoC:
Know that and know peace... Every man pays for sex(even with your wife indirectly) .. Otherwise, the woman call the shot

You picking 1 specific point but all-in-all, the average man loves women and treat women better than the average woman does

FutureIsFemale:
Can you compare the gender who gives fake marriage promises more?

You're too emotional. You yourself know that men love women more than the average woman love women. This is a fact!

FutureIsFemale:
Can someone help me tell Reno that virginity does not guarantee a good home.

We are talking about virginity and you are bringing in gender. Are women the only ones to keep their virginity till marriage?

Honestly the hate on the female gender is so much.

Is the man a virgin?

If no then her own virginity was just wasted on him besides virginity is irrelevant as far as marriage is concern provided the woman is a good woman.

Sonnobax15:

In a society where women tend to celebrate their promiscuity,a woman who has preserved her only dignity for a man who's worthy enough to take it should highly be valued

The pain is cos she's lubricated. She's not lubricated because she doesn't like sex or interested in it.

Staying and hoping it ends quick actually makes her dry. She should find a position she enjoys or one where she can control the depth of penetration like woman on top(cow girl). But someone thats not interested won't think of solution other than to avoid.

Common, some ladies have sex with several men per night for a living and they're not dead!

goodmorning40:
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She is not frigid
She is not just interested in sex with him because it produces her pain and discomfort, she dreads the act and so would just stay and hope that it ends quick,

Banging a frigid woman might also delay evacuation. It's egg and chicken scenario

goodmorning40:
Staying too long and gboola too big are the two red flags that will make her not to be the sex type . those attributes are for wild girls not for normal home girl. However if you can have normal sex without prolonging time big gboola wouldn't be much of a problem. So your aim should be shortening the thrusting time. Work on your system in order to attain ejaculation quicker. If you experiment with drugs, alcohol, sex enhancers you should stop and try not to demand sex frequently

Comparing sex to food is ridiculous! Sex in marriage is far more important than food.

How many great men have fallen because of food? Have you heard of any that traveled from Lagos to Calabar because of food? Common, food is common, you can get it from anywhere!

ShishaPipe:
Sexual incompatibility is a huge stress in marriage. I am not sex-sex type while my ex was. I could stay a year without sex but she would want sex 24/7, I couldn't cope at a point and we have been separated for 7 months. Leave the poor woman alone. Sex no be food.