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SE issues are always magnified to ensure quick resolution because if the Igbos leave Nigeria, Nigeria as we know it will be no more!

You can't fight nature no matter how hard you try. The liberties men have were not given by men but nature. In the hierarchy of creation, men are at the topmost, nothing can change that,
not even feminism!

cococandy:
You’re going to be eternally frustrated if you expect these double standards to lead to anything but dysfunction

There are no extra women hidden in a cave somewhere so that y’all can have one and some extra on the side. The more sex you have, the more women are having sex. Expecting low body count is you being in denial and having absolutely no sense or logic in how you operate. Sorry to break it to you.

Most people have no grasp of history so they think now is better. When Marwa was there, they said he was the best, Tinubu came, they say he is the best, Fasola came they said same thing. Read the history of Lagos and look at old pictures, you'll know Lagos is falling vis-a-vis others cities in her category like Cairo,
Nairobi, Cape Town, Johannesburg etc.

Dsalvo:
You cannot be a genuine Lagosian who was aware of what obtained before Tinubu became Governor. Either that or you were born after 1999.

You have something personal against the Op before?

Lollittaa:
You're too old to be talking like this. Whether women choose to have babies or not, is not your business. It's probably because you're not a good fellow yourself, else you should be preaching to your fellow men to man up, and take care of their relationship life instead of jumping from one vagina to the next.

I think she might be unto something. Now tgat she mentioned it, I think I reason along the line of Victorian

Toks2008:
I don modify that part to avoid erroneous conclusions. So let's focus on something else.

You may be right

Iyaebe:
Read his post again, he stated it there that she unfortunately passed on before their agreed time

Victorian has passed on.

Iyaebe:
How did you know it's not her

I do not believe you believe in juju.

pocohantas:
1: Use juju and hook one man.

Don’t waste your time going to Shiloh or all these scam pentecostal churches. They will end up hooking you up with one boring evangelist that suffers premature ejaculatiôn.

It is better you use your hand and hook the one you like. But treat him well.

Nothing wrong in hooking husband. Even the bible says the kingdom of God suffereth violence.

2. If you are open to polygamy, give it a shot.
As you get older in Nigeria, it gets harder to see a never-been-married man with noble intentions. So if you don’t mind polygamy, if you just want to have your kids by one man, find one polygamous man and have all your kids with him.

Why are guys getting triggered at the mention of juju? I thought we are all here to advise advanced spinsters on how to get husband. All angles must be covered abeg.

Men are women do not have the same liberties and this goes for almost all animals including humans

cococandy:
Well men believe they are the only ones who should have untouched partners while they hoe about town.
The math isn’t mathing

Was it not El Rufai that said international observers would leave in body bags? Was he not the one that said they paid fulanis to stop killing?

ItsTutsi:
Lol. Most these people u see claiming exposed are educated illiterate, I have lost the patience and ability to argue with a Nigerians(especially southerners).. how people let the media to dictate to them in this century is mind blowing

El-rufai government is the most diversified in this country, some ibo states Don't have even one single non ibo in their cabinet.. but they want us to believe his the tribal bigot cos his none apologetic about his policies and he happens to be in APC

Bubu is doing well? You're out of your mind!

Proudlyngwa:
Bros, Atiku is a capitalist, forget about him.
There is a reason he has been loosing ganye, his LGA back to back, I stayed there.

I repeat Obi can never do well for Nigeria , forget about blowing big grammar. He is an economist, he will rather save than invest, and Nigeria needs investment more than anything.

As confused as Osibanjo is, he is better than those two, what he needs to build is his own team into to.

Amaechi and ElRufai are they only people who will do what is on their mind dem no send you.

And Buhari is doing very well, don't let sentiment becloud you.

We have shortage of dollars, because of wickedness of certain operators for their selfish gains, Buhari gave Nigerians opportunity for self sufficiency in agriculture, because of our spoonfed mentality we rejected it.

How many governors keyed into the agricultural program except Ebonyi state, whose indigenes are reaping the benefits.

We were spoilt by the military era that everything must be done by the government, we are not yet ready for change, development or improvement.

Lagos has always been great..in fact Tinubu weakened Lagos. Go and look at historical pictures and writeups about Lagos!

yemolingi:
I beleive Tinubu will do great as a leader if given a chance, with what we are seeing in Lagos today is built on the basis of what Asiwaju laid down

Osinbajo is a 1000 times better than Bubu whom the North regard as their best foot they brought forward

AtikuNetwork:
I don't hate him. Why should I hate him? I think he's a good man. Just not fit enough to be president of a country like Nigeria at this point. That's just my opinion.

There's nothing like the country's unity. Nigeria is not united and will never be!

AtikuNetwork:
That was just grandstanding. His real test would be his response to Ipob and Boko Haram. He may even have more success with fighting boko haram than ipob because igbos will jump on any decisive decision he tries to make against ipob as an attack on their tribe, and use social media and other medias to demonize his person. I just don't see him having the guts to take tough decisions.

Nigeria needs a leader that doesn't mind making enemies for doing the right thing. Not a populist that would only wants to look popular at the expense of the country's economy, unity, and security. Osinbajo is a nice man, but I see another Goodluck Jonathan in him. Nigeria is too complex for a Mr. Nice guy. A Nigerian president has to be willing to give orders to the military to kill bandits, kidnappers, and terrorists like boko haram and ipob when it matters. Can pastor do that without minding the backlash from blackmailers? I seriously doubt it.

Bubu during 2015 presidential election campaign said he'd sell some of the presidential jets or transfer them to Nigeria national carrier.

He has done that because he is a man of impeccable integrity according to Zoombies

Unbelievable!

You could DM me you know perhaps there's a reason you wanna discuss enduring. I'm merciful

pocohantas:
Good you know. I would never buy that concept of enduring, especially when it is one party expected to keep enduring the excesses of the other (and his family).

You can't wake a man pretending to be asleep.
Suit yourself.

pocohantas:
I don’t need endurance for that. They need common sense to be good visitors. If they behave well, we would all be fine. No one would need to ENDURE bad behavior because we all have a breaking point.

I don't mean it in a bad way. Sometimes you need endurance even for yourself. Endurance in the Bible is a virtue. When inlaws or visitors come, you may need endurance to cope throughout their stay without transferring aggression to your husband due to their shortcomings.

pocohantas:
Back to sender

You have brought this endurance talk again, I thought I answered you in that other thread?

I believe you're now in the marriage institution, you'll know how important endurance is as time goes on.

pocohantas:
Good you know that. Now you can fo further to explain to us why men look for women that can ENDURE and celebrate anniversaries with them. Why men get very angry when they see women walk away, despite claiming to be the party benefiting less from marriages.

Woman to woman, e nor concern men. At least they won't blame men this time.

What percentage of women being abused initiate divorce vs the total the total women being abused? This is the statistics and not versus men because most times men are the abusers. Men being abused may not initiate divorce, they just separate and get a small chic outside and they start coming home late or rarely.

Popular opinion suggest women have a higher tendency to stay in abusive relationships than men.

pocohantas:
Women initiate most divorce. How can these same women be the most hesitant to leave? Is it not on this NL that we see men hailing women who ENDURED abusive husbands?

Why do you say men prefer to celebrate 50yrs anniversary with unhappy and vengeful wives. I would think women are the most hesitant to leave abusive relationships. Why the reversal?

pocohantas:
There is no good enough reason to subject yourself to such a life. This is how we end up with toxic parents who end up policing their kids at the age they should be enjoying retirement together.

But I understand this is Nigeria where men prefer to celebrate 50yrs anniversary with an unhappy and vengeful wife, rather than watch her go her own way.

We are too fixated on the length of marriage than the happiness therein. Many couples are finding solace outside. Some of them don’t mind coming to work on public holidays rather than staying at home with their spouses.

If it can be fixed and both parties are committed to fixing it. Then fix it. If not, move on…

Is that an igbo girl? You dull o

Cashsteady:
Prefer white girl but not this girl you posted. When I mean white I mean oyinbo not the useless yam leg igbo light skin ladies with man's face oo

You're refusing to understand the Op. The
contention between him and the wife was whether he was having sex outside marriage and that's what the swear was about. He did not lie rather the wife seems to have physically cheated. You cannot ask someone to swear his sexual faithfulness while you refused to. The wife has something to hide. She has put a crack on her marriage cos there's not way the husband will go past this psychologically if she doesn't do same

Biglittlelois:
Consolation in any form is allowed bro.

If she like make she record her own then leak am. Rubbish!

She was moaning meaning the small prick fill her wella. Or maybe she tight....but it was a bang!

pocohantas:
If I am Tiwa, I would be very concerned that someone like Mercy Aigbe whose ex spells background as bagrand is a member of my supporters club.

I will cry to the feet of Joke Silva. “Mummy edakun, help me take this shame away.”

They think it is by forming strong women on Instagram. At this rate, her rep would so drain, she wouldn’t even qualify as the side chick of a reasonable man.

How do you go from Edible-catering-Tbillz to a small-prick-snapchat-slayking?

What a thread! How a calamity was requested the way the Jews requested for Barabas instead of Jesus!

The guy that voted for Bubu inspite of Bubu killing his father, how is his life now? His father must be very disappointed in his grave!

How they pick an ordinary person, make him Ooni and start worshipping him amazes me

Before IPOB, has an Igbo man won the presidency?

Chris525:
They’ll come for him but it’s the truth. Any party that fields an igbo man as flagbearer will lose woefully. Whether APC or PDP.

Heating dirty water that's not needed is still a waste that the owner is trying to avoid in the first place. This is not a solution to anything.

HalpyBee:
Pack the food wey don done and if you no get anything to cook again, pour water for that side.

So if one food don done and the other one never done, wetin go happen?