₦airaland Forum

Things are changing but doing only traditional marriage gives the man so much liberty

Biglittlelois:
No I don't understand yours, cos it obviously came out from your mouth, there is no proof whatsoever that traditional laws explicitly said that,

A woman, a human being, is not a property of another human being, explain and screenshot where it is stated in the African tradition and patriarchy that such exists let's all see it, words of mouth can always be false and dismissed as pure nonsense, just cos some bunch of men sat down to voice out what suits them at a particular era back in the day, doesnt make it an actual truth, proof, link, or don't quote me again.

Humans go dey bow for other humans...for what?

So according to your logic yoruba is the equivalent of Northerner? How about Westerner = Northerner= Easterner Yoruba=Hausa-Fulani=Igbo?

Those people from other tribes mentioned here are Westerners because they've been in thr West for over 30yrs!

OGAStacks2021:
You can't hold a post in the North unless you are a northerner.

They can monitor group chats by having moles in these groups. But if a court order is secured for them not to monitor whatsapp then they cannot prosecute people with evidence from whatsapp

captainamiedi1:
SERAP is always sueing Buhari without any result. Make them rest. I dey suspect them say na cash out format.

Funny enough FG can not have access to whatsapp not even whatsapp because messages are encrypted

Technically we have just one year for the calamity Bubu to be over. Hang on Nigerians but never again should you bring calamity to yourself by way of election. Learn from your experience!

But being a cattle rearer qualifies Bubu?

TooNoisy:
Moghalu should go and contest for State Governor first, like Soludo.

Soludo would hopefully become governor of Anambra state after his stay as Governor of Central Bank. Moghalu should understand that he stands no chance of winning. Besides he is too politically naive to lead a complex country like Nigeria. Being a Central Banker does not automatically qualify you to be president!

Breeze don blow, fowl yansh don open!

Janemena f*ck herself up!

This is not the beginning na? The very first post by Tonto said she still slept with kpokpogri recently

greggng:
The message we are responding to says ....leaked message ....it didn't say leaked by Tonto dike ...I don't want to assume or speculate .

Are you putting the responsibility on Tonto who Janemena was sleeping with her lover kpokpogri while she was married? Tonto is the one Jane hurt by sleeping with her man.
Besides Jane is to blame here for cheating on her husband, it's on her 100%. She should have thought about her family before spreading her legs

Swinger60:
Tonto gave an example in public. an example of a married woman in public?

why didn't she private her? why didn't she even send private chat the husband of the said lady.?

Do you know two families are hurting from this scandal. Jane's family and her inlaws.

someone who means well, will never rub you in mud in public, even you are guilty or not.

Are you following the story very well? According to Tonto, Jane slept with Kpokpogri while married. She used the word recent.

greggng:
You guys talk as if you are oblivious of the development of this matter . Let me refresh your memory ...Tonto dike dumped the man and the man decided he was gonna expose Tonto dike sex tape with him ...Tonto dike engaged his lawyers ...festus kayamo ..This was done to stop the man from exposing the tape ...She also told the world that the guys has tape of other women he slept with any he uses it to blackmail them ...in the process she gave an example of a lady whose tape is with the guy. If I were the lady I will engage the guy to ensure such allegation is explained with a view to making sure that the public don't get to know it . Some people are blaming tonto dike for saying it in public ...whether publicly or privately , it doesn't change the facts of the matter. What did the young lady do..? She contacted Tonto with legal suit instead of confronting the man with her sex tape....Tonto now dared her to go ahead ....

Women should stop making sex tape ..it could get into wrong hands ..The only person to blame are parties involved . Why should they document history of their sex ? What is the motive behind that since both are not married .

Finally , the write up didn't state Tonto dike is the source of this current text.. There is more from where that message came from . If I were the young lady I will find away to resolve this matter cos she might not stand it when other damming things starts coming out in public about her. Women should stay away from men that has the intention to blackmail them.

This misandrist don come again! Who has the vow to be faithful? Jane or kpokpogri?

FutureIsFemale:
So you even support the affair right? Instead of condemning kpokpogri for sleeping with somebody's wife.

I like!

pocohantas:
I think that particular lady (Merit) is Kpokpogarri’s pîmp, because he is always telling her who he fcked or is about to fck.

Jane’s problem was not knowing when to retire and when to shut up. Mercy Johnson used to be pretty wild back in the days, but she got married and became No1 submissive woman, Nigerian standard. Nigerian men forgave her of all her sins immediately. No be she dey with her husband and 4 kids now? She done turn role model for career wives sef.

Even if Jane’s husband doesn’t have sense. Even if he is the greatest simp in the world, Jane should have known pressure would keep coming till that marriage sinks. She should have had some respect for her husband. But no, she wanted to show us her husband is a supportive modern man.

How market now?

Just a word 'Am' and your boss couldn't even read the entire essay to see beyond one mistake! Is he a perfectionist?

Again, who blames him? There are no jobs in the country, that's why people are dropped for flimsy reasons. If he's bright like you said and your boss tells him to avoid informal abbreviations, I'm sure he will comply.

pocohantas:
I know someone has to be dropped, but the guy seems bright and is humble.

Am not going to collect your CV.



My boss said the second he spotted it, he stopped reading the essay. I took my time to finish the essay though, the guy is quite bright.



Recent ke? He has been on it.

Election around the corner, EFCC finally wakes up. Very useless organization!

They been chasing yahoo boys upandan, you'd think that was the main reason for creating them. Almost 4yrs, no politician was successfully prosecuted but coming towards election, they wanna be use again as tool to fight political opponents. Rubbish!

I don't care about Kwakwanso btw

Maturity indeed by having 3 children for the same man outside wedlock!

DaniDani:
Ever since this two face martial war sprung up, I so love the way this pero of a lady have maintained her maturity even in the face of unwanted provocation. She may be innocent of all the allegations after all. It may be that innocentless idibia have found another hole and serious sowing a fertile seed that would soon germinate in America and Annie is here being paranoid about Pero. Truly, Pero you have exhibited so much maturity in this whole drama, very unlikely of Nigerian ladies.

Notice he did not mention Amadu Bello and Tafawa Belewa? In his madness, he avoided insulting the North because they'll not take is lightly. Coward Adesina!

Since the Southern Muslims always support the Northern Muslims candidacy, consider it you've been sacrificing your turn!

Gbajure:
South a xtian majority region, so the millions Muslims must then be ignored all he time? Zik, Shonekan, OBJ, GEJ and again a xtian, NO WAYS!

GEJ is a million times better than Bubu. APC is gonna leave with the grossly incompetent Bubu in 2023!

DubaiLandLord2:
Dollar have been falling since the return to democracy.

Before 1999, there was #1 ice water and #5 bread.

How much is a bag of 50kg rice under Gen. Abdulsalam? And how much is a dollar to a naira under Gen. Abdulsalam? Compare the prices to what it is when OBJ left power in 2007.

I don't see the PDP stopping the APC in 2023. Unless our democracy is derailed by a revolution or military coup or civil war, I don't see the APC losing power in the central in 2023

Nigeria don dey spoil tey tey, GEJ promised to build the 2nd Niger bridge... Did he build it or not?

Imagine if GEJ have built and completed the 2nd Niger bridge, GMB for spend the money on other important project.

I will never forget how I watch GEJ flagging off the rehabilitation of the Lagos Ibadan expressway, he even ride a caterpillar
I watch it live on Channels TV, with all that funfair, nothing was done on the road.

Shey nah Power we go talk? GEJ sold it to incompetent people. The Government of Bayelsa even made a bid, they want to be in charge of distribution of power supply in Bayelsa state, the FG under GEJ no gree for them.

If GEJ rehabilitated the Lagos Ibadan expressway, maybe nah the Lagos- Abeokuta expressway GMB go wan dey finish by now.

BAT 2023

These rules are unwritten. The next president will be a Christian. Deal with it!

DubaiLandLord2:
Can you show me an article where it points to the APC rotating the presidency between Muslims and Christians.

It seems some of you are getting paid to create some of this kind of threads.

Cause I see no reason why you will be spreading this sort of propaganda.

There was never a time the APC promise to rotate the presidency base on religion line. In fact, a lot of Igbos where calling APC Islamic party.

Him Tu Lie and APGA chairman back then called it Amala and Ewedu party and also called it Islamic party.

Well, no propaganda can sway people like me.

I'm waiting for your source sha

BAT 2023

He is talking about the presidency, you're talking about party candidates. Is it that you don't know the difference or chose to be mischievous?

DubaiLandLord2:
The APC wanna produce a Muslim Southerner, is there anything wrong in PDP presenting Peter Obi a Christian Southerner?

All this wailing don dey tire person jawe

Bubu, the most corrupt person with integrity

If you arrest the man, would you arrest your mom who's the main person responsible?

Juliusmomoh:
Something is telling to get the man arrested. He know about this for year without letting my dad know about it.. Is that not wickedness? .. What are they friend for. ..

I agree with you. Cheers

pocohantas:
Lol. It is one of those adjectives that even women themselves do not know what it entails. You can’t want a God-fearing man after fornicating your way into his heart. I don’t know how christians fear God and still disobey him.

Anyway, I didn’t look for a God-fearing man. For starters, I needed him to have sense and be extremely sexually attractive to me. The latter I couldn’t compromise on.

Clearly you have comprehension problem. Go back and read my comment slowly

Probz:
We’re talking about men, not boys. Kids are irrelevant as far as this conversation goes so I don’t know why you made a point about 16-to-18-year-old baby boys being more likely to hit their little girlfriends. This is a husband-and-wife situation, not a boyfriend-and-girlfriend one.

Misogyny is rampant across southern Nigeria as well (a known fact) so what are you even talking about?

When women say they want God-fearing man, what's the reason behind that?

A marriage founded on love and mutual respect is always a beautiful thing. Women must know that love is reciprocal!

pocohantas:
Why is it only you Nigerian men looking for women that ENDURE? You don’t see women, as troublesome as you guys claim we are, looking for husbands that can ENDURE. We all know it is not job loss you want women to ENDURE. Women are tired of enduring punches and community pricks because they have seen how empty it left the older generation. The guilty ones among you all should change.

Marriage despite its challenges should be ENJOYED. Marriage should be SWEET. I have told mine not to maltreat me, If not I will leave everything for him and RUN. Love matter dey quick frustrate me.

So politicians like Obi, Umahi etc insults Tinubu or you're taking nairalanders to represent SE politicians? Pathetic!

LegendHero:
And what have the said Ibo politicians done to seek the buy-in of Asiwaju? What steps have they taken to negotiate the alliance?

Abuse him daily on the internet with putrid hate?

So Asiwaju will work tirelessly all through his life and hand over his lifelong dream to some hateful beings because he wants to please them or because of what!!

You know the truth!

Kobojunkie:
I see honesty is not a trait you possess so I will let you continue on your own.

Again wives running out of their matrimonial home could be either of both party's fault. No body is perfect, majority of the differences would be seen during courtship but ignored.
Women especially ignore wanting signs hoping to change men that are already set in their ways just because they want to marry. For every action there's an equal and opposite consequence

pocohantas:
What progress have you guys made? Can’t you see how your wives are running out of their matrimonial homes while some of you go about looking for women that can ENDURE like your mothers?

Why a normal man would be looking for a woman that can endure remains a mystery. Are you guys trained to inflict pain and misery?

What percentage of them versus the generality of Southern men? Men body shame women? If you tell the truth, you'll know that it's majorly women that body shame women! Different men like different types of female bodies but it's women that put themselves under unnecessary pressure to look more beautiful than they actually are!

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying! So all the southern men who beat their wives and body shame them are all men under 18 years of age?

When two people stay in close proximity,
there's bound to be conflict from time to time whether intentional or unintentional. Even your teeth sometimes bite your tongue within the same body so it happens. There may be hard times too due to wrong investments by the man or job loss. A woman that endures will be understanding knowing these things would pass.

Nigerian men respect their mothers sometimes to a fault so it's outrageous and preposterous to say the generality of Nigerian men behave like that Aboki.

pocohantas:
What progress have you guys made? Can’t you see how your wives are running out of their matrimonial homes while some of you go about looking for women that can ENDURE like your mothers?

Why a normal man would be looking for a woman that can endure remains a mystery. Are you guys trained to inflict pain and misery?

Misandry

Kobojunkie:
drifting towards?

So you saying that majority of Nigerian men celebrate beating of their wives and girlfriends?

Appreciable number of Nigerian women are very unappreciative of the progress that has been made. You guys take things for granted

pocohantas:
They don’t need to comment. Doesn’t change the mentality of an average Nigerian man. It is not U18 yrs old boys beating their wives and gfs. You all are one, no need dividing yourselves along tribal and religious lines when it is evil. You all are NIGERIAN MEN. Hold yourselves and sing the national item.