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MRbrownJAY:
are you saying that you would have taken inputs from only ONE party involved at the first place?!

galatico:
No way I would never play with a girl's emotion, I would never date a girl I don't have feelings for!!!

By definition, Friends with benefits means both parties can have intimacy without  too much of emotional/feeling input on either side allowing both parties to come and go as they please - mutual consent to do whatever really and still be there to help each other out! 

Jakumo:
The normal procedure to address bridges in danger of imminent collapse is to perform ritual sacrifices of small domestic animals to appease the River Gods, so that their hunger for human blood will not cause them to destroy such bridges out of hunger and frustration.

Also, patriotically informing policemen at roadside check-points that their duties include the counting of bridges will ensure that all bridges are present and accounted for.

ZUBBYNWA:
Ngigi is not a man, in NGIGI I saw a man full of evil, lier and so on.

so whatever the case may be he will not reach there, God almighty who push him back before b/c of his evil never fall asleep
sombody say Amen

. . . Ngigi is not a man - so he is a spirit then 

nikkykay:
With your tone,i see u dont care abt her,no feeling or not really into her.You are just using her for intimacy!!!!!!

MRbrownJAY:
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but people, what about if the girl after getting in the room decides that she simply DO NOT want to have s e x with you. . . . . . . . is that a crime? does following you in a hotel room means automatic s h a g?
will you r a p e her just because she stepped into that room and suddenly changed her mind? nobody can have a change of heart in your world?

here is one scenario:
the girl is Hot and goes to the hotel room with the guy with the intention to s h a g the hell out of him but then the guy has no kissing/licking/caressing game, no experience in getting her in the right mood and when he finally get UnCloth a FOUL smell/stench fill up the room.
should she still s h a g him or can she take a rain check and run out of there?!

hbabe:
Hmm!
It could be worse, she may decided to go away without offering anything and the guy will be left to make do with a soapy.

Meaning the guy did not do is calculations very well -

Agreed Parameters:

Good Date = Yes; move to Hotel if No, take her home sharply;

Hotel Action = Yes; get down 4 intimacy  , if No, find the best alternative, head  ,if no again bargain for handjob  ;

if no handjob - WHAT A COMPLETE WASTE OF RESOURCES! Wrong calculation - would have to rethink the parameters for some other time!

hbabe:
I doubt if these guys will go as far as they have made us to believe.
They will be [s]delighted to get a head/handjob or even a french kiss sef[/s].

Sweetie, don't flatter urself, what do u mean by delighted? In the circumstances, I think head is the least she should give, handjob/frech kiss would not cut it. 

ayettymama:
if i was your girl ill be shitting myself!!!!

silent killer

go poison u in your sleep!

ill probably break up wiv u

to be safe!

arent u upset that your girl cheated??

or u dont mind an 'open relationship'

. . .open relationship - sounds nice  

smooooooth:
Man u right, the guy is to blame, he is such a weakling, if i was the hotel clerk, i wld have shut him in the staff toilet with a indecency mag while i went in the room he paid for with the girl. who cares if she is in red, intimacy is bloody!

smooooooth:
i dont agree, life wld have been pleasant.

larrybaby:
its not bad, it  shows your level of maturity. keep it up i credit u for that, but watch out to love one will not cheat on u.

shilling:
How on earth did this happen?

Hope the SE'S get encouraged by this.

Pittbaby:
its ironic that the friends think that the relationship should be stopped because he is Nigerian . NOT BECAUSE HE IS ALREADY MARRIED
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Yea Ironic - that's the word!

Cytosin:
I seriously smell a coup by the military men in Nigeria. I'm surprise it hasn't happened yet and i think it will be by mostly southern officers in the military. The opportunity for coup is so high than ever before. And i hope that if it ever happened, people like Obasanjo, Dimeji Bankole, Mark,all the senators all the governors (except fashola) will be tried for treasonable offenses.

DOAweb:
Simply do a spot check on itself yourself, when you were sort of the breadwinner in the relationship, how did you behave - nice and understanding or nice and bossy?

Hindsight - he is just kidding around due to his new power of purchase and would soon come back to his true love( Love relationship) OR he has been praying for the day his circumstances would change and he can get rid of you ( Managed relationship).

YOU SHOULD KNOW!!

peelovee:
You got a point here, then what's your advise!