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OP, stop bothering yourself over a loan. Even Nigeria is oweing. Being a debtor is not the end of the world and its nothing shameful. If your contacts are ashamed on your behalf, then they should pay the loan. But you sef no try at all you shouldn't have taken the loan when you had no plans of paying. O wrong nau.

JFOD:
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I'm not supposed to reply you, but I'll do this once.

Few days spent online?

It's funny because your account was created Dec 23 and I should spend all my day on NL roaming all sections?

You haven't heard of interest?

Don't quote me please

I only want to help the way I can, I don't have money or apartment to give her.

The time I have is what I want to lay down to go verify her story, so people that have the capacity to help her will.


Don't quote me again please

The money you want to use as transport to verify the OP, y don't you just send it to her as your own little way of helping.

Afolashade01:
Please help me celebrate Christmas today with my son's please. The 10k I got here I had to use it to clear debt that's why I asked for 20k anyone that can help me even if it's loan I will pay back January ending I don't mind. Just need anything please �

Madam, seriously??
I can't believe you typed this. What will you say if it was 5k, you won't even appreciate the person.
Madam pls learn to be grateful and contented.

valETA1:
Ma'am it wasn't abt not planning to payback. Who gets a loan and not payback ? Its abt timing and its consequences. Which am afraid of, owing to my current situation

Someone has blessed you and another person is about to bless you, pls pay up your loan. Don't ruin another man's business.

Y will you take a loan when you have no means of paying back. Nigerians are always looking for free money up and down.
Nigerians will take loan with the mindset of not paying back and you expect the person to keep quiet and let go.
If 80% of people are taking loan and not paying back, won't the business fold up. If it does, pls tell me where you will get your urgent 5k next time.
Pls don't mix business with sentiments. You shouldn't have taken the loan in the first place.
Don't ruin another man's business.
A lot of this loan apps are folding up cos of people like you.

Judging from the comments on this thread, I can conclude that most Nigerians borrow with the intention of not paying back.
I learnt my lesson the hard way when I was still soft hearted. I do borrow friends and family and when its time to pay back, I become their worst enemy. I had to let go for my own sanity.
So yes, I support sokoloan going hard on loan defaulters. Nobody forced you to take the loan in the first place. Business is business. You should have read the terms and conditions before taking the loan but because you were too desperate and blinded by your needs at the moment, you just took the loan. If everybody is borrowing without paying back, how will the company progress?
Nigerians are inconsiderate and selfish.
If 100people borrow 1k each with the intention of not paying back, won't most loan apps fold up, so tell me, where will you get your urgent 5k next time?

VicThoria:
Hi everyone .
Please i need help oo, i'm chocolate in complexion. I've been using bronztone cream for some months, i was on the second lotion when i started noticing dark knuckles,green veins, sun burn and I started getting too fair

So i stopped it some weeks ago and i haven't been applying anything on my body

I dont want to use any cream again for now. do i need to use anything to get back my natural chocolate color back? or it will come back with time?

Get Original Shea butter and Coconut oil.
Your skin will go back to its original color and you will glow.

Mummiesgirls4:
Having 4 kids doesn’t mean I should die single , if other people that have 4 or more babies than me are finding love why can’t I? I am still young and I deserved better things too , having 4 kids will not stop me . Yes if we get married I will have three more kids like we have planned

You sound so immature, I was forced to comment.
Having 4 kids is not the problem, the problem is abandoning your kids cos you love dick.
You don't even know what your priority should be.
Love should be out of the question for now.
The question you should be asking is how to give those kids a better life.
You have 4kids from 2 different men.
You are not even concerned about their welfare, those innocent children are prone to sexual abuse cos you are not there as a mother to guide them through.
Instead you are following dick up and down and planning to have more children.
Its single mothers like you that make some men insult all Single mothers.
Get a job and take care of your children.
Leave dick alone for now.

How much is the toy laptop and where is your location

DenreleDave:
are u scared?

I am wiser than u.. Not only that, smarter than you...


U don't know yet bcox I av not told u

I will like to save them the horror of looking at the disgusting pics.
I don't want them throwing up at the sight of those dirty measles on your uneven skin.
Hope you have registered for jamb??
Before you use that money to carry prostitutes, pls register for jamb so you can continue your education
Hopefully, the university will help shape your ignorant perspective about life.

DenreleDave:
Dobnina.. Did you see this too??

This just shows your level of ignorance.
Well, I don't blame you. The bleaching cream is already affecting your brain.
As I said earlier, pls use the money to treat your skin and buy sense too cos you really need it.

dobnina:
See the person that is abusing a single mother,
You that sold your dignity for Money.
You even called yourself a baboon for money.
You have no right to open your mouth to insult another.
See pot calling kettle black.
I hope you will use the money to take care of your skin.
I dont blame you. You are not still an underage with an android phone.
I will upload your picture here so people can see that she is a million times better than you even with her present condition.

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DenreleDave:
But u no he is a woman beater, yet u got pregnant for him all bcox of the money he has.

Are u telling me dt he has never beaten u when u guys were dating?

Yet u carry belle.. That is the problem with most of u and u deserve all this punishment... After all, he deserve the baby too.. So forget it..

When una see money for guy hand, the next thing for una mind na to get belle for am...una no dey think at all..


If u were richer than him, u wud have probably do that to him.. U might have taken the baby and deny him too.

So go in peace.. He is the father baby, he can't maltreat her or him

See the person that is abusing a single mother,
You that sold your dignity for Money.
You even called yourself a baboon for money.
You have no right to open your mouth to insult another.
See pot calling kettle black.
I hope you will use the money to take care of your skin.
I dont blame you. You are not still an underage with an android phone.
I will upload your picture here so people can see that she is a million times better than you even with her present condition.

Interested

Oga, seriously, you've got no shame.
Your wife was here to beg for baby things
You were here to beg for hospital bills
Now you are back again to beg for feeding of your family.
Pls find something doing no matter how small.
You are a man. You should learn to be responsible.
We all have our financial struggles.
Nobody has it easy anywhere.
Stop depending on outsiders
Get on your feet and hustle like the man you are.

Oga, you need glasses. Go back to your previous thread and check the name of the person who made that comment.
Well, I am glad people are already reaching out to you. Take all the help you can get and all the bitter truth advise people gave you and use it judiciously.
All the best to you and see you at the top.

Oga, the time you spend creating post, replying and bashing everyone who advised you to go out and hustle is enough for you to get yourself together.
As someone said in the previous post you created that if your kids are really hungry, you would have gone out to hustle.
We all have our hidden challenges. The economy is not friendly and everyone is feeling the heat.
But we don't come here looking for pity party, we get up, face it and trust in God and that is what you should do too.
Peace.... I pray your wife comes back safe and sound.

Op, stop trying to paint your wife bad in order to gather sympathy. That letter she wrote says a lot. She only left to hustle. If you read the letter with a deep mind, then you will understand.
Just like the popular bread seller left her husband and went to Lagos to hustle.
She did something you should have done. She took the bold step you couldn't take.
You have been begging to feed your kids and buy drugs for them.
What are the positive steps you have taken to better your life and your family.
Yes you were duped and you wont be the first neither will you be the last.
you need to stop this pity party, man up, beg nairalanders for money to hire a nanny and buy a little foodstuffs till you are stable. Go out and hustle like the man that you are.
Even if people contribute money for you, you will still come back again cos you don't have a solid plan yet.
Your wife felt you were not serious, that was why she left.
Let people see the seriousness in you and that solid plan to better your life and your family.
Its time to man up and stop giving different excuses making people think you are a scammer.

From the Family section. That's why you can't post there again...

orphan11:
they have started
see

What did he start??
You want to act like a Saint here.
We know your story on nairaland family section.
That's why you came here to continue your trade.
Y don't you tell them about your other monickers created for the begging thread.
Please tell them how long you have been begging on nairaland with different sob stories and different accounts.
You graduated to posting screenshot of your account number so your atrocities won't be discovered.
You have forgotten that most people in the family Section also visit other sections of nairaland.
Even after someone offered to help you learn something, you ignored cos he wasn't giving you free money.
I just pity the people that will fall for your cheap stories cos you will surely come back with more.

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I guess the he found out you are scam after all. Creating different threads to beg for money or maybe he found out about your other monicker created for begging. The twinkletwin account.
Your story don cast for family section. That was why you graduated to other sections of nairaland. All the best Op.

Op, just take it easy. No advice for you now cos of the state you are. What I will say for now is to take things easy. Life na jeje

Balocha:
Please and please, If you cannot help him, just leave it. I left my morning chores this morning to go get those details. Even the nurses on duty felt funny when I told them what brought me, they were like whoever want to help can verify straight at the hospital.

So I think I've tried. Thank you

https://www.nairaland.com/6092650/identify-what-wrong-picture#93490871

Read this thread to understand better

Balocha:
I think I have been able to prove otherwise. Kindly check the update.

How come there are so many manipulations in the letter headed paper. Y is there a name change, date changed, calculations are manipulated.

mosdii:
Good Day NL's, how are we doing today?.
Happy New Month.

Please I'm so sorry for disturbing you guys. I seriously need your help to pay my rent that expired on August 31st.

I used to work in a hotel before the Corona virus issue and I was sacked afterwards. I falled back to my little savings to help me and my mother throughout the tough period.
I have struggled to raise 40% of the rent and the landlord is on my neck. Please I'm begging you to kindly assist me with anything, nothing is too small.

Acct : 2065090286
Bank: UBA
Thanks and God bless you.

lol.... Another Busted scammer
Oga go and find work
Scamming is not a job
Thank God nobody send money to your account

Please try and talk to your landlord, thank God you have 40% of the money, give it to him and plead with him to give you more time. He can't send you packing. You still have grace period.