₦airaland Forum

sirfee:
My ex(a lawyer)is a feminist(a socialist feminist to be precise),I think they are more sensible than the radical feminists.



Any feminist who is idle is nothing but a clown.

Exactly...the real problem of most nairaland so called feminists is idleness and most especially the fact that they can't really explain themselves hence they come off as men-hating.. which is why whenever I see any so called nairaland feminist cook up a lengthy post about feminism,the only thing I can see in the post is youthful exuberance

Marry husbands that agree with your point of view and stop forcing these views on us as if we getting married to your husbands for you...that way everybody goes home happy,smiling and fulfilled

If you think gender equality will solve all your problems then by all means continue with your chants for it...

Here we go again!...lol,We are all feminists so to your tents oh isreal

sexybbstar:
wow!!

lol...Thanks!I guess...

Lol,its simple! No female should jump on the feminism band wagon when they have better things to worry about...for God sake! let the females that have been wronged due to the sole fact that they were females speak up,women like late Dora Akunyili worked for and deserve the respect they got...jeez! Her daughter is clearly following up in her footsteps...Chimamanda Adichie is accomplished! And we all know dragging for equal rights didn't get her to where she is,lol! She's accomplished in all areas of her life or so it seems...thrive to be like that and stop wailing for rights that even when granted will do little or nothing to improve on your current situation...say No to misplaced priorities

tosyne2much:
When I say that feminism is more of a nuisance and stupidity, I know what I'm saying bro.

I also had a female lecturer back then (a divorced chronic feminist) who hated men like hell.. If she catches you beckoning on any female student for assistance either during practicals or assignment, she will always express her disgust right in your presence reminding you of how you should not ask a lady for any assistance since the male gender think they are better off.. You can't even step your foot into her office if you have any problem because the hatred for the male gender is just too much.

Can you just see the height of stupidity of Nigerian version of feminism ?

lol,beats me bro

During my clearance back in the days,i was number one on the queue but my clearance officer(a male) picked all of the females from the queue,cleared them and told the rest of us males to go and come back the next day...imagine! so much for equality...right now I am a proud masculinist! and I am pretty sure I have the right to be cos I don't want same incident happening to my son...loool!

During my clearance back in the days,i was number one on the queue but my clearance officer(a male) picked all of the females from the queue,cleared them and told the rest of us males to go and come back the next day...imagine! so much for equality...right now I am a proud masculinist! and I am pretty sure I have the right to be cos I don't want same happening to my son...loool!

tosyne2much:
Like I said earlier, you will surely know a happy woman with her opinion on a thread like this. I have never seen a happy woman discussing an issue like this because it will not even interest her.


Feminism in Nigeria is nuisance

lol,let the government grant equal rights...i'm sure pretty much the problems of the average Nigerian female will disappear,poof! overnight... hilarious!!!

Jupxter:
Please stop saying this. I know what it implies. It's dangerous. Let people live with their choices and the consequences of their choices.

alright...i'm sorry if you're offended,everyone has a right to their opinions and I am not in any way trying to impose mine on anybody

tosyne2much:
When you see a feminists who is also an atheist, abeg run oooo... No catastrophe be that oooo

I will advise you to go and sleep and stop arguing jawe.. You even get time to dey follow them argue sha... Me wey dem tey tey, I no dey take them serious one bit

Go and make your research and you will get to find out that most of the ladies ranting on this thread have either been robbed or mayweathered by fccck boys, therefore, relationship no longer interest them and that's why they are always trying to pick loopholes in anything that has to do with marriage/relationship just to make themselves feel happy

To be precise, dem no get boyfriends

Yeah! and like I said life will humble them...5 years from now,they'll know better

Jupxter:
Well, i simply stated my opinion about what i feel the moderate ones are speaking up for. I may be far from reality. I've never met a feminist declare what they actually need in clear terms till date. Bro, you're spot on. I'm naive and may not know much about the subject. But as a man who doesn't plan to make my wife a stool, but rather a believer who sees a model of a King and Queen relationship for marriage, i think i can deal with a happy home and wife. An unhappy wifey is a turnoff for me, big time

exactly,i couldn't agree more

The thing is most of y'all acclaimed feminists have not been denied anything on the ground that you're females instead of males and please if you have,kindly let us know ... especially something you truly work for and deserve,face the fact that feminism is becoming a joke in Nigeria...take a look at successful Nigerian women around you,they are respected and it's evident that they never carried their smart phones to engage in fights over rights that has been theirs since they were born...lol! youthful exuberance! life will humble y'all

Jupxter:
I believe feminist are calling for healthy relationships, where women can smile, laugh, live as humans, not disrespected, subject to abuse,torment, play like mates and pets with their loved ones.

The way their desires are expressed makes many men feel edgy, however, they want to feel like girls in their relationships, have a freedom to feel free, unrestrained and happy. This is what they crave and desire, based on my views on feminists i've spoken to.


The downside is the term " equality which places most guys on the edge though. Perhaps, it's important for feminist to declare how they wish to be treated in this thread, and take advantage of the opportunity.


Relationships should be healthy, and the clime around the home should be joy, laughter without any form of constrains. With this in view, feminist wouldn't mind such a template for marriage. I guess

you made alot of sense but do know that most of the self called feminists feel men are responsible for their happiness and fulfillment which I must say is quite wrong

uk10:
chai they are coming for you oo

lol,please oo! I am not feeling fine,i respect women alot...i want them to be given equal privileges,i have seen some female nairalanders that I haven't met before but I feel that they were born to be respected but when I see people abusing the concept of feminism,it makes me feel bad

tosyne2much:
I'm yet to see a happy woman who is being showered with love, care and affection by her man arguing on a faceless forum whether it's right for a woman to submit to her husband or not.

Only bunch of emotionally hurt, bittered and depressed ladies who call themselves feminists are usually the ones that are fond of jumping from one thread to another talking about how a woman should never adore her man, honour and submit herself to him

Believe me, what people display here is not feminism but stupidity. What we see here are frustrated, hurt, ugly, unhappy and depressed ladies parading themselves as feminists just to corrupt and pollute the minds of young girls when it has to do with relationship/marriage

spot on bro!An accomplished happily married woman loved by all won't come to vent her frustrations on men under the guise of feminism same with single accomplished females...y'all feminists should know that men are not your problem,work on yourselves please!!!You live a life of depression doesn't mean you drag others into it too

Anybody coming to bash you ma'am should be counted among the group of Nigerians who love to deviate from their real problems in life to carry somebody's opinion on their head like dreadlocks.... most self called feminists are abusing that word called feminism,they have problems they ignore and want to blame men for their misfortune using feminism as cover while their real problem is low self-esteem...some of them mostly have nothing to contribute to society and they blame men for that too, a woman who's successful in her life doesn't need to throw tantrums because she wants to be treated as equals with men,their lives pretty much revolve around men's opinion of them...feminists go and be successful and you'll command the respect you deserve

o.p please just let her be...that "she has a boyfriend" is a subtle sign she'll prolly reject you which will hurt sooo much you'd wish to just disappear and not be found...been in similar situation myself,its not easy but try to give her space...you continually loving her may not influence the situation in your favor,some girls are like that..they'll lead you on as if they interested but they honestly looking forward to the joy and prestige of rejecting you,another feather to their cap...you'll feel like you'll never love another but you will if you allow yourself to,no girl is worth this heartache...if you're patient then wait till she breaks up

lemme Goan buy my own fish

watch the vertically challenged fellas come for your throat o.p

chiraqDemon:
Yes man. One even sent screenshots of like 6 other guys in the friend zone and told me "it's not you, it's me".

Damn!...we are gonna survive bro, no matter what

I'm pretty sure you know Oprah Winfrey,angela merkel,marie curie(of blessed memory), chimamanda adichie, folunrosho alakija,rosalind franklin(of blessed memory)malala yousafzai,michelle Obama, Lise meitner(of blessed memory),grace hopper(of blessed memory),irène juliot curie(of blessed memory),Hillary Clinton,melinda Gates,jane yelled, Christine largade,..i could go on and on but I think you get my point already...the aforementioned should give you a reason to have a female child or even female children

the travails of the girl child,but we can't all stop drinking water cos fishes poop in it.. boys go through similar or worse circumstances...self esteem,poverty,naivety,societal ills, peer pressure,ignorance and many others contribute to these things you mentioned...everybody should play their part in helping to eliminate the causative factors then o.p will be interested in having a girl child,if she meant that literally

Adaumunocha:
You want equality?

in all ramifications,yes! not selective


I'm sorry if you find my quoting unnecessary by the way

chiraqDemon:
Lmao. I know. But if I can't break out of the zone then everyone must get in here with me

lol,are those real lines they used on you??

love without money ain't going nowhere unless you guys are soulmates..and the way I see it, most Nigerian girls don't wanna be associated with that word!sooo look for the less materialistic ones if you ain't got the cash,that way we all go home happy

Adaumunocha:
Hmmm a dude tried it with the two ladies he bought fish for... Like u didn't read that story.

and they roasted him alive, but I'm seeing quite the opposite here...so much for gender equality

I don't see peeps insulting her and sending her death threats like they did to the boy that use barbecued fish to lure two girls for sex... she's even been praised! when technically they did the same thing,hilarious!!!

ya'll nairalanders bashing him cos you saints right? he made his sin public and everybody deviated from the everyday problems Nigeria imposed on them to grab a chunk of his flesh... lol!A sin made public is same as a closeted one... no freaking difference!

BTW that stuff on his face is makeup

not hating but honestly I'm really curious as to how it feels to be gay... the way their brain is wired to be attracted to another man's ass,really fascinating!And also the fact that seeing an naked woman for them is literally a boner killer... wish I can perform experiments that can lead to results,people see LGBT and feel disgusted...i feel awed,curious and fascinated,hence my resolve to major in neurology and Neuroscience

phew!
you'll eventually care one day... your future boyfriend is Prolly somewhere waiting for you