Nigeria is it a country or a continent

doggedfighter:
Criminal

under statement

to be a man is not eazy. just sack her

daveyjay:
Good day NLers, please I need your take on this.
I'm a student in one of Nigeria's prominent public universities.

A girl decided to vie for admission in my school via the predigree programme but she had no accommodation. Because of the relationship between my parents and hers, I offered to take her in from January till now

I offered a roof over her head.

The first night she came, she slept on the floor and I wasn't okay with that, the following night, I told her she could have the bed, I vacated my bed and relegated myself to sleeping on the floor, we can't share same bed since she's neither my babe nor sister. And this sleeping routine has continued ever since then. The floor is my new bed

I gave her my spare key, uncensored access to my kitchen and everything within my legal occupancy.
Cut long story short, last week Tuesday she woke up, had her bath, ate then stepped out briefly, when she returned we were outta water. Tap water of course. She called my attention to it to which I remained calm. Meanwhile I hadn't eaten neither had I bathed. At noon, she came to me that she was hungry but couldn't cook due to unavailability of water, I then asked her if I am to fetch her water??!.

She said she was gonn take food stuff to her friend's place (upstairs) to cook.
I replied by asking how many of her friends had lacked water and brought food stuff to cook here??!


She got angry and took some money and left


That same Tuesday, I went to see Chelsea game, when I returned, I asked her if she cooked but she didn't dignify me with her attention talk more of a response.
I thought it was rude but considered it as one of the many tantrums of ladies

The following morning, she woke up, acted like I don't exist, couldn't greet... had her bathe and left. Returned, unlocked the door, walked in like I wasn't there, ate, left to her friend's place.

On Thursday she repeated the routine, I called her back when she was going out, I asked her if she considered me as her father, brother or boyfriend that she'd wake up and start throwing attitudes...
I made her understand that I am her benefactor.
Hardly did I finish before she left. She returned and continued in same path and that has continued till this very moment...

Last night she didn't sleep at home, when she returned in the morning, she unlocked the door with her spare, walked in, ate, brushed, dressed and walked out without a single word e come be like say I be ghost.

What I did, I changed the locks, took some stuff, sealed my door with strict instructions to the caretaker then moved to a friends place outside my lodge and I've been there ever since.

She has returned and has been calling my line but I've been ignoring...

Now, is my action too harsh or still in line??!

Hotshisha:


I thought the issue boils down to his open support of Alqeada and Taliban in a tape recorded over 20 years ago or am I missing anything here as regard hating "Christianity" and "Peace"

Some Christians hate Traditionalist calling them devil worshipers, they hate Islam saying so many hateful blasphemous crap on Islam thread and topics

send the tape

Gold gold standard is the best

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bwambasolomon:
I have a fiancée whom I started dating about two years ago. We work together and we are on the same level, and earn the same salary. Each time we hanged out to just have fun, if we got to a place where prices were too expensive, I would say to her but this things are much cheaper elsewhere.

For example, we went to a place though inside the same premises, one part of the lounge sells bottled water for 250 while the other one sells bottled water for 500, she then suggested that we go to the part where water was sold for 500. Note that it was in the same premises and there was absolutely no difference between the two, it's not like one was VIP area and the other was not. We ended up going to the 500 naira side. All that we ate which of course was double the price, I paid.

Each time we went to the mall, we buy things normally. But there's something about malls which some of you may have noticed, certain things such as pots, plastic rubbers, electronics, and so on are usually unreasonably exorbitant. So I said it would be better for us not to buy things that were too expensive that we could get outside for cheaper prices, but we could buy other things whose prices were reasonable. The next thing she started saying was that I don't have class, it's classy people that buy such things.

So one day we went to a pharmacy in that same mall, because she wanted to get some drugs, the price they called for her was about three times what it was outside, so she said it was better to go outside to buy it. So I just told her that since she has class she should buy it now, the next thing she started insulting me, she gave me the insult of my life. That wasn't the only scenario, there were many other cases like that.

She had started to stay with me after a while. Every thing in the house belongs to me, and I made sure everywhere was conducive for us. Air conditioners every and so on, good house, good compound, surveillance cameras and so on. Initially I was shouldering all responsibilities like food, the car washer who washes the both of our cars, the security man, fuel in the generator, NEPA light, repairs in the house and so on.

Please note that we work in the same place and earn same amount. Sometimes when I was short of cash, since I knew that her own money would still be there, I would borrow from her to buy food stuffs and other miscellaneous, and pay back by next salary.

She contributed just about 10% of expenditures in the house which was majorly just food stuffs. Note that I buy much more foodstuffs 5 times more than what she buys.

That was not just it, the relationship was usually filled with arguments, I can hardly have a conversation with her, she would begin to argue.

I want to ask few questions here:
(1)please is there anyone who doesn't know that Egusi causes pimples for those who are prone to having pimples?
(2) Is there any one who doesn't know that if something is very hot, it is not advisable to put in the fridge?
(3) here anyone who doesn't know that garlic is medicinal?
(4) Is there any one who does not know that it is not advisable to put on a generator when it has been drenched by rain?

But this girl will argue with me, insisting that I must put on the gen when rain has beaten it, because apparently, it is not her property. And the fridge is also not hers which is why she won't care if it gets spoilt. In short there's usually too much argument over what is clear for everyone to see, thereby it is always difficult to have a conversation with her.

I was later transferred out of the state we were, so I decided that because of her, I won't take anything away from the house, I would buy everything I need in the new place I had been posted to. So I bought a bigger TV for the house we both shared and took the smaller one to my new place of posting. I bought my mattress, kitchen utensils, got an apartment, and bought every thing I needed in the new place. So now, I have most things in two pairs, just so she would be comfortable.

Please note that we aren't yet married, and I agreed to not having sex with her because that was she wanted, I respected that. The only thing I know we do was romance.

So I started insisting that it was high time for her to be responsible, that we can't both be working and she won't be buying reasonable amount of food stuff because I noticed that sometimes, she would go out and buy 3 packs of spaghetti, which doesn't make sense to me. She said her dad is the one that buys food stuffs in her house and her mum contributes for petty projects. But I am not her Dad, I have my own mind. Also note that she didn't volunteer to bring any amount for my project oo, because I won't want a woman to contribute 1 naira to the houses I am building. All I said was that she should be contributing reasonable amounts for food stuffs in the house. We hardly stay two weeks without fights, she must look for one insult or the other.

We went for counselling and the pastors said she has to be contributing for expenditures in the house, we agreed on 60% to 40% sharing formula for all expenditures. So me as the man would contribute 60 while she will contribute 40. Please note that rent was not inclusive, as I volunteered to pay for the rent in the house we were and for my apartment in my new place of posting.
Later on, when she began to see the brunt of the responsibilities that I used to bear she started saying we (Me and the Pastors) are forcing her to contribute. But I didn't know these Pastors before, that was my first time of meeting them, she was the one who knew them before me. But simply because they told her the truth, she started saying we are forcing her.

Please I need your honest opinions on this issue.
Thank you.

am sure u are not spending money on ur mum. Abeg Carry ur family problems for ur head

How much jamb the pay

Proffdada:
Back to square one

There's china

US is not even producing anything
Why should we bow to them?

If we revert to gold as oil currency exchange they'll bend to our decisions.
Ever since Nixon made petrodollar a transaction currency it has been open season for them. They literally generate money out of thin air by the click of a button

so much wisdom. We need gold

Ayrastarr:
Abeg, I need Anambra husband.�

see me. from nnewi

Cutehector:
5k isnt common darling.

help me tell her

EnvelopeUs:


Check it now

u deserve a gallon of water

10/10

Wahala

askino:
really are you sure? Please tell me something i dont know

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the person that posted this came from a poor linage

mtn everywhere u go

she is looking for husband

even the birds knows that something is fishing

biggy00000:
When would we stop this idea of "police report before treatment"?

help me tell them

Let her go. She will come back after done and dusted

virginprincess:
NwaAmaikpe, my counsin is not a prostitute, i might not know her reason for wanting to live alone, but one thing is setting, she is not a prostitue, she's a very hardworking lady who works with a bank.

side chicks dey ooo

na ur papa u go marry

Kapilta:
It's not written in any book of law that every child (yours or not) you raise must return the favour after. And just because you raised a child doesn't mean he/she has to live for you. He/She got a life to live too. The ealier some parents know this, the better. Just because they your kids doesn't mean you have to dictate their everyday life, you had your fair share, you are the guard for a very long time and those period was enough for you to help them know what's good or bad in life for their own good and not yours.

They were all against him not minding what that meant to him, they was selfish thinking only what makes them happy while his own joy and happiness matters not to them.


Vanessa and her mother inheriting his estate is their loss not his afterall he's dead now. They put him in that position to start with. And last i checked it wasn't Vanessa that killed Kobe neither is she the reason he died without a will.

u lack wisdom

OMOJOHN001:
I met this lady when I was in 100level. We started dating since then, though I tried to having sex with her but due to the fact that she is a virgin then. I refuse to have sex with her cuz I don't disvirgin ladies. Since I am not sure of marrying them.

fast forward after two years she lied to me of been rape by one of her boss. which make her to loose her virginity of all a sudden. I stop talking to her cuz of that, Cuz I know she is lying but I didn't bother. We start acting like friends she will come to my place, cook for me but I won't eat it, tried to wash my clothes. and lots she pleaded to me to have sex with her so I can forgive her,which I refuse to.

Towards ending of last year she then got engage to one guy, they haven't had their wedding yet.

I stop talking to her since that last year, that I notice she is seeing another man.

Now she keeps calling and chatting me, without me returning any of this, just yesterday I decided to reply her message.
she then tells me that she wants me to please have sex with her that she can't survive without me talking to her.
she keep pleading that even if its once she won't mind. .she only wants to feel relieved.

I then asked her what about her man, is she not engage already. Her reply was that She is not married yet, engaging to a man is differing from marrying to a man. I was shocked.

Now Guy's, this thing is turning into Fipa for me and she keeps looking me and taking me for granted already.

I am confused, should I have sex with this lady or I should just move on with my life.

She won't stop calling and chatting me up. please guys what should I do.

HIV/AIDS

Aba, abia state

How many industry the ur place