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MzThormi:
Anyone dat believes all dis abt Ibadan shld try visiting Abeokuta, I wonder what he/she will say. Thanks to d Amosun dat tushed abk roads a bit

Wee yhu kip kwayet!!!

Devil don catch am.

arsetalks:
Thats not the question is it? Why did the girl lie? Thats the bottomline. No one says losing your virginity to one guy and getting married by another is a crime. It is almost a norm in our world. Why did she lie? If he lied once, she will lie again and again.

@OP. My candid advise is to end it all. Why did she lie? How many other smaller lies has she told? How can one be so sure she will not lie again? Can she ever be trusted again? Too many questions.

Ekochris

Bsc vs Bsc Hons

A Bachelor’s degree, or Bachelor’s degree (Hons), are both academic degrees given to undergraduate students. Though these two are both academic degrees, they only have a very slight difference.

In many countries, the bachelor’s degree is differentiated as an ordinary, or pass degree, and honours degree. Britain, India, Canada, Sri lannka, Ireland and Australia are some of the countries where the Bachelors degree (Hons) are in vogue.

One cannot find much difference between a Bachelors of Science degree and a Bachelors of Science (Hons) degree. The Bsc and the BSc (Hons) takes almost the same time to complete. In some countries the Bsc (Hons) may take one more year than the Bsc to complete. Therefore, three years are needed to complete a Bsc degree, and four years for the completion of a Bsc (Hons) degree.

A student will have to write a dissertation for the completion of a Bsc (Hons) degree. On the other hand, this is not mandatory for a Bsc degree.

A Bachelor of Science (Hons) degree is considered to be superior to the Bachelor of Science degree. The Bsc (Hons) is considered to be, academically, more standard than the ordinary Bsc degree. Another thing is that a student can get Bsc degree more easily than a Bsc (Hons) degree.

One can also see that, in order to get a job, a Bsc (hons) degree is more beneficial than a Bsc degree. If two persons, one with a Bsc degree, and another with a Bsc (hons) degree, apply for a job, the candiate with the Bsc (Hons) degree will be given the first preference. Well, this is also the case when studying for a higher degree. A student with a Bsc (Hons) degree will always have the first preference, over that of a sudent with a Bsc degree.

Summary


1. One cannot find much difference between a Bachelors of Science degree and Bachelors of Science (Hons) degree.

2. Three years are needed to complete a Bsc degree, and four years for the completion of a Bsc (Hons) degree.

3. The Bachelor of Science (Hons) degree is considered to be superior to the Bachelor of Science degree.

4. The Bsc (Hons) is considered to be, academically, more standard than the ordinary Bsc degree.

5. A student will have to write a dissertation for the completion of a Bsc (Hons) degree. On the other hand, this is not mandatory for a Bsc degree.

6. A Bsc degree is easier to obtain than a Bsc (Hons) degree.

Source: http://www.differencebetween.net/miscellaneous/difference-between-bsc-and-bsc-hons/

jomonic:
For the same reason and many more I also walked out of my ex in 2012. Within two months of leaving she realized her errors and came pleading. Her pleading continues up to this moment, but it's too late.

Mr. Owliver.
Let us assume Mr. Jomonic did not cheat on his ex girlfriend before walking out.
I believe this is the best way to have dealt with such a wife or girlfriend.
Walk out/ Walk away first before anything.

Owliver:
funny how you interprets things. Am not surprised you are not a male after all.

Owliver:
so your point is "what the woman did should not have been capable of making the husband a cheat" why would you even imagine that? People are wired differently my dear and people react differently to situations. Yopu are not even a male and this is what you argue. Abeg park well jare smh.

The fuckery do u mean by the bolded parts? I am not a male, sambarry is not a male. How did that get into the issue being discussed?

Yes the wife behaviour is enough for him to go find someone else outside. I am of the school of thought that says "once you are unhappy in a relationship, you should leave irrespective of your gender". Your happiness should be your utmost priority. So that guy should have left her or divorce her. Whatever he could have done to make the woman know that he could no no longer stand her attitude and that the marriage is over. Instead of staying in the marriage while cheating. Only cowards do that.

Owliver:
I think both the man and woman were wrong but I don't like how the ladies hammer on the man and forget what lead to that. Its so unwise when someone ignores problem A and interrogate problem B that's so lame. That's like solving the outcome of a problem and ignoring what lead to the outcome. They are just so unintelligent rili

They are both wrong yea.
The woman killed her marriage same way the man killed his marriage. It seems everyone is saying the woman's action led the man to go find himself some outside.
That is what I disagree with. If you are not happy in your marriage/relationship, leave the marriage first, either by separation or divorce, before going out to cheat. That is my opinion.

SAMBARRY:
As if those even slaving and perpetually kissing his arse are not even beating like cows. Shewww

I have read this article over and over again. Yet to understand the morale of it.

Owliver:
both of you and also sambarry missed the point. The article only stressed on what happened that lead to the cheating. The article never justified the cheating husband. Learn from that its a good one

So you mean the article is teaching that if I do all the things the lady did, my husband will cheat on me. I feel thats a justification for cheating.
It would have been better if the husband got separated at least, before taking the infidelity highway. Just look like the man went for the easy way out.
The man is as guilty of number 4 as she is. She did not choose the right way to fight. Instead she chose silence and pent up anger resulting in occasional burst of fury. The husband did the same, instead of fighting, he chose keeping to work and cheating.

No tangible lesson learnt here.

lolaredvelvet:
This is for those "Miss Independent" women who believe women's empowerment means to berate a man. Don't cry wolf when you truly end up INDEPENDENT.

A woman who can justify the act of her cheating husband is not INDEPENDENT but SENSLESS.

And the bullshiiit continues. ...
So what did the husband do to salvage the suitation? Of course step out and cheat. And the wife is silly enough to justify it.
What happened to taking a long and irreversible walk.

Lets see how this plays out.
But this is a hard blow on APC.
When Buhari's "I belong to nobody but I belong to everybody" is taken literally.

FFK, Go and sit down my friend!!!!!

Kehinde Wiley.
Brilliant.

arsetalks:
If you have made mistakes before then you ( like all other men should ) drop this alpha-man mentality. We are equal to our women folks. If we can make mistakes, they too can.

Change is really here.

FriedPlantain:
This guy try, him really try. I love when Nigerians go abroad and achieve economic excellence.... It motivates me like hell.
Which is why I sent my my brother Kabiru too abroad to study in the best University over there in Cotonou. That e-diot couldn't even come back home with an ordinary third class. omo ale jati jati!


FriedPlantain

FriedPlantain is seriously sick.

But u know black is evil na. Op u be bad person, why u dey oppose the transition from black to white..... theoretically from darkness to light.

I just wonder what sorts of cancer will be springing up on them in few decades from now. Or when they start falling sick, we go dey pity them.

snakebeat:
What a great shame....

So u want her aunt to raise a son dat will be cooking for his wife.

So because the Aunty doesn't want to raise a son that will cook for his wife, she has to force a sick girl to do the chores while the healthy boy is lounging. And u don't see that as wickedness?
If she wanted to be fair she should have done the dishes herself, since its not a guy's thing.
Don't you think she is passing across a message that its ok for his son to make his sick wife do chores instead of resting in the future.

Richy4:
That is the wrong way to bring up a male child..

I guess your aunt's reasoning was one of the reason i could not share a room with guys way back in uni. Though the hostel was cheaper but i summoned courage and live off campus after cutting my budget...

I couldn't stand the mess guys make in the name of i don't care, we are guys and we are not meant to be clean attitude..

This now shows that some parent were to blame on this.

I no dey even like to dey go near male dormot. Chai the kain dirty something going on there no get part two. They will comfortably sit and eat in such place. Chai!!!
My brother was termed the neatest and most domesticated among his friends when they were all sharing an apartment, thanks to the upbringing he had. He would clean the common spaces and cook anytime he is available. But the others will eat the food and even find it hard to wash the dishes. Dont even enter their respective toilets, u go faint. To flush dey hard some of them.

KissesandWine:
Male and female children should share equally in house chores. At least that's how it was when I was growing up. How about families with only male children, won't the children do house work?

I gues their mum is expected to do all the chores then. Shebi she is the only female at home. Maje she dey slave dey go na.

I know of a family, with two boys for like 14years, before the mom finally got a girl. Before their baby sister could even grow to the house chores age, they were almost married.
The way these boys cook, clean and do other house chores hen, u go just dey in awe ni. Now those boys all grown now and have nothing effeminate about them.

Because of evil eyes.
Most Nigerians wont even ask your due date except if they are very close to u. However I have close friends who have given wrong due date, (add about 2 months extra) or just tell me they dont know.

Chomzy19:
And you why are you replying?

I know right... my bad.

Shollypopzz:
Babez, how far?

First of all, I don't understand what the fuss is about. Bruce Jenner is just another transgender. In fact, I think his choice to change is very selfish. If you are going to change, change before you have kids. Change before you deceive women into thinking you are who you are.

Look at his kids. Imagine how this decision affects them; Their father is now their mother??

I bet you that if this was an African American family, Bruce and the entire Katrashian family will not receive the praises they receive in the media today. They would be called ghetto and all sorts of names.

Kim got famous from a porn tape. She got pregnant for a rapper while legally married to another man. Khloe married a coke addict and Kylie is a high school drop-out. She is 17 and dating a grown man aged 25; she is a social media slut who posts naked pics like her older sister for attention. Kourtney has two kids out of wedlock. Rob is an overweight bastard who is sexually attracted to his sister- Kim.

Bruce/Caitlyn is NOT a hero, he is not the first transgender and he would not be the last. Nothing he has done is courageous, he is selfish. After three wives and five kids, you realize you do not feel like a man? Fvck him to the power of infinity! He is a damaged man who failed his kids.

Dayummm!!!! Girl, u is very pissed.
I wonder what the kids would be calling him now. Mom? Dad? She-Dad? He-Mum? Those kids must need therapy or something.


Truely to your analysis, that family is dysfunctional.

SAMBARRY:
Excuses

And here she comes.

Nonso23:
From a mere appendage with methane between her ears that is very rich

If that is how u see your female relatives, then knock yourself out.

Nonso23:
Were you blind before
Case dismissed

I was not blind. Just dint realize how non functional your brain is.

Nonso23:
What nonsense vow?
To deny him his basic right as a human being IN THE IMAGE AND LIKENESS OF GOD

Ok. I see where u are coming from. Case closed.

Nonso23:
Is this supposed to be a sensible question
Of course he is a super complete man, that is why a lot of women flock around him!

A man who can go back on his vow to his wife is no man. He is nothing but a sack of bones and flesh with mucus as his brain matter. When u say ladies are flocking around a man, we don't mean all those ebinna I never chop, all those 1000naira recharge card girls or those can I bring my friends to the you and I date kind of girls. Who are the ladies flocking around them. Not ladies who sees them as meal tickets.
A gigolo is a gigolo who has no vow tying him to no one. He is not cheating on anyone, but just living his life. Any woman that wants to get involved with a gigolo knows it all for fun.

Nonso23:
Is it not gigolos that date sugar mummies
Does a gigolo sound like a 'complete' man to you
Can you marry a gigolo

Does a cheat sound like a complete man to u?