dyabman:


Oh really ?

Yes..... Kings are mini gods.
gods don't die.

In Yoruba land Kings dont die.
We say Oba waja.
Chai... the kain rituals whey go folliw this kain thing no go get part. If u have no business outside after 6pm, just stay put for ur house.

bencobenz:
Pay these much only to come out and beg for N50k job. God will help us.

I know right.
Some of them are still roaming the street jobless.
I can never attend a private university. For the sake of my sanity.

abatically:


This is child's play compared to what they pay in universities abroad.

when u talk of abroad, abroad get levels.
Ghana na abroad.
Ukraine na abroad.
UK na abroad.
Germany na abroad.
Norway na abroad.
Republic of Benin na abroad too.

masterpix:
Definitely the article has it own agenda, it's a calculated attent to draw simpathy from the public . There are other job that pose more danger than this like construction, security personel bankers, footballer etc. These doctor are too demanding this how they were demanding heaven and earth in the last government that cause several strike, don't just start this again . Doctors are well taken care of right from Nysc days

You tried to mask the hate. But we can all see it.

crowns2:
Some people are naturally quarrelsome. And they find it very easy to pick a fight. Such people will never let any issue or wrong they notice to slide. No ,it must always be addressed. If your friend's husband is an easy going, mature fellow then a change in food menu wouldnt have been an issue at all.
I don't understand why people hold on to another person's wrong for the rest of their Life without looking inward at themselves to see where they went wrong themselves. Only to continue moaning and moaning. Life is to short I can't see myself living with such character.

Chop kiss jare.... I
They have refused to analyse the suitation very well.
A man goes ape shįt cos of change in food menu, and u start blaming the wife.
Truely life is indeed hard for an average Nigerian woman.

Richy4:


I don't know why i 'm thinking you don't know what you are talking about anymore.

for a man to be temperamental, there must be someone or something that is upsetting him.
whether you tip toe or not. If you as a woman is the principal key why your spouse is angry, you still hold the key to make him calm.

It seems to me that you are putting the blame solely on the wife.
Definition of temperamental: "a person liable to unreasonable changes of mood"
It is not ok to be temperamental neither is it a crime. But it is ridiculous when you hang the responsibilities of keeping everything together solely on the woman because according to you "she owns the key to his heart"
For a man to be temperamental, there definitely must be someone or something fueling it. I totally agree. But how does he act when someone phuts him in that position at work or else where? He throws metals at them too?

There is no relationship where the partners dont get each other angry. It is normal and expected. But how is it handled?
Temperamental people dont get angry normally, they pick the slightest thing that people would ignore normally to react on. And when they get angry they go ape shįt. Things get crazy , scary and ugly. What I dont get is why you and your group of "men" have refused to realise that its a two ways thing. The man needs to work on himself first. Seek professional help or whatever help that he sees fit. Then we can talk about the wife being careful around him. Its no fun living the rest of your life picking your words and actions so that the other person won't throw metals at you. And the man keeps acting freely like a total ass while justifying it with "I am temperamental" bullshit. That to me is total bondage.

Are you gonna say the same thing if tables were turned and the wife was the temperamental one instead?

Shymm3x:


Lol, why are you making it about me? I don't know ol'girl and her Raiden hubby.

Tell her to turn to Zangief and start catching whatever metal/iron that's thrown at her with her teeth. She signed up for it, and it's her responsibility to help the guy change his ways.

I am not making it about u. Its a style of writing.

Richy4:


If you are in a relationship, would you deny it that you don't know what to do to your spouse to get what you want? Please don't even try at all.

I know that it was a natural instinct given to every girl by nature. Every female human knows what to do to get stuffs or have their way with any male species. Be it a girl trying to get stuff from her father or woman trying to have her own way with the husband.

I don't really need to educate you on that because you know more than me. I still maintain that that lady the op was talking about knows what to do.

Dont get it twisted. Getting my spouse to give me what I want through what ever means of sweet talking or something else is different from tip toeing around my spouse because I don't want him to get angry.

Shymm3x:


Lol. Tupac said it best when he said, "no one knows my struggles, they only see the troubles". Do you honestly think a guy in his right mind would start throwing metal/iron at his wife? Who knows what triggered his madness?

Who knows if the guy was never really interested in marrying the woman in the first place. But you know how chics are: after a month of meeting them, everything is going to switch to talks about kids, family, and getting married. And boom, out of nowhere, they'll intentionally get pregnant. Now perhaps the guy has had enough and he was forced into something he never wanted in first place.

Nah, she can't run away - she needs to stay put, and help the guy grow.

No one should cajole you into marrying them.
Kids are born out of wedlock everyday, the world has not come to an end because of that.
Marriage is not a walk in the park, u need to think deeply about the choices you make.
And if at all you get tired of your marriage to your spouse, why don't you try and work things out between each other first, or take a break, temporarily or permanently. Whatever suits you.
You don't have to throw metal at someone, you could kill someone or hurt them.

Shymm3x:


Lmao @ start with his mum. And who's ready/complete for marriage?

Err, isn't marriage an institution where two are meant to complement each other and grow together? So, why are a lot of you these shy of the responsibilities that come with the institution?

The problem with a lot of chics these days is that you lot create this fictitious image of a guy in ya heads. And once you meet someone who has any semblance of this image on outside, you'll start troubling him about getting married/family. And when ol'boy gets stuck and decides to put a ring on it...and down the line he's not the "perfect" image you created - you'll start complaining, rather than carrying ya cross and dealing with the situation like a real woman should.

Complementing each other, doesn't mean one should stay put with a violent spouse. You grow together, by understanding each other and by supporting each other. And not by putting one's life at risk.
Its one thing if he realises his flaws and tries to work on it. Not when he starts capitalising on his temperament and expect the partner to walk around the house on egg shells.
What is one supposed to be doing with a violent spouse who throws metal/iron at the other.
Carrying a cross is when life happens. And not when one of the spouse refused to grow up or work on his flaws.

Shymm3x:


Aren't women generally manipulative? If you lot could pride yourselves in being about to manipulate any guy, why is it so difficult to do the same when it comes to turning a man who's a rough diamond, into a shining one? Be the small mum and cater to ya man.

If he still needs a woman to cater for his bad character, then he better stay with his mum. He is not ready for marriage then.

Richy4:
I don't think your friend needs advice.

I believe there was courtship before they started living together. And there were red flags that suggested his man's temperament during the courtship and she chose to ignore it.or was she among the type of ladies that think they can change their man?

Some times, it is not really ok to come between partners. Middle men should stay away let them work out what this is.

If he is highly inflammable, she is the one that hold the keys to his heart. She knows what to do

Your first paragraph is what I live for. I tell my friends that complain about the spouses that they didn't start whateever they are doing that is unpalatable out of no where. There would have been hints along the line. They just decided to be blind and deaf towards it.

Your last paragraph. .... she holds the key to his heart. What does that even mean?
A man should be a a man and work on whatever bad habit or character he has. Not waiting for his wife to start using keys to open his heart. So he throws iron/metal at his boss or coworkers too?
Or he used to lash out on his parents before he got married? If he could exercise self control in these areas, why couldn't he do the same with the wife.

What is wrong about her dress? What are u seeing that you are not supposed to see?
We should be worried about Rochas Okorocha's dressing instead.

It seemed like Tiwa was pregnant for 12 months. The thing too tay.

Lolz..... op overdosed on dried pepper and cow dung.

I do not understand how someone will be asking for advise on how to handle a hot tempered/ violent spouse.
Tell her to stay with him. Afterall its for better for worse. And when the next iron he throws at her scatters her head she go dey bear her Mrs for wherever she lands.

peteruuu:

Lol,i should be the one telling you this
You wey carry another person matter carry for head on a FACELESS Forum.
SMH

Lool....... Says the ding bat who makes a successful lady's marital status his business.
I know that, the fact that she is rocking her current marital status with pride, keeps pirecing holes in your heart. But u just gotta deal.

justified19:
old miss, relax and think reasonably...pple like u look for justification for being in whichever state u are...ofcos, dia are bad kids frm bad or uncaring parents...so also, dia are lot of good kids out dia...being good or bad depends on a lot of factors...but whichever way, a kid must b born before we knw weda he is gud or not..if u and rita choose to av kids, I knw u can train dem to b gud kids...but for u to do dat, u need a man.

really, I knw ow u feel, ur problem is psychological, I guess u av been jilted by men several times..sorry dear, you can move on..dia ar gud men out dia, just take ur chances....

maybe, u are ugly..it doesnt matter, u sound intelligent u can attract gud men wit dat, dont give up.

all ur claims are cos u re single nd old nt cos u dnt like children or to av a home...u must av dreamt of gud homes wen u were growing...

if all of these dont work for u, take ur case to d Lord in prayer..

sowi for ma last comment abt u mating wit ma dogs.

Seriously bįtch-nigga. Go get a life.
You are too dimwitted to realise that even good and great parents can end up with bad kids.

Holly shite!!! A woman needs a man to raise good kids. Jesus needs to fix that bullcrap u just wrote. Errrrm do u read even. Does the name Ben Carson ring a bell? Nope your brain is too weak to actually read on people who make impacts In life. Do I have to start rolling out names of people who actually made it with their mom alone? No?.

You know my problem? Its psychological? You must have been dragged through same shites u assumed I experienced. That explains your phobia for strong, single and independent ladies.

Maybe am ugly? Yano if all your ancestors and future offsprings donate all their so called beauty, it can't even withstand my beauty. No shitting, I am very pretty and well endowed. You can go choke on a diçķ.
Thank God part of your brain could still transmit some sense. You got that part right, I am intelligent. While you are just a airhead.

I will say it again, her marital status in not your fvcking business. Go and fix your crooked life. Leave the belle alone!!!

domopps:




Even only your choice of words shows the kind of stuff you made from and without mixing words it's actually the category of ppl that takes their current position to be their destiny and blames everybody for their predicament ! An animal like you was giving birth to out of wedlock and now think every lady has to remain unmarried cos of the hell the dirty slut that gave birth to went tru! And everybody on social media must not no that you are Deranged in thinking

The fact that you suffer from Vaginosis Bacterial which makes you Vulnerable and unacceptable to every good guys out there doesn't mean that every lady must be like you


Waste of sperm



Cheeeeeers

Yea I said it. Bad parenting. Your papa's sperm must be carrying some mutated genes. Your brain is missing some parts. It aint functioning ok. Your mama failed in raising you. And your papa is just a colossal peice of dung.
Half education coupled with your brains function subpar zero, gives rise to a dimwitted little piece of shite like you.
Yo!!! Go on entertaining us about your shitty background. Only a worthless worm will attach so much importance to marriage.
Damn internet gave u silly scumbags chance to talk shite about and to someone you can never face or get close to in real life.

peteruuu:

Over statement !!
Mind your speech you bleeping F.O.O.L
No wonder you're still single

Go make something out of your life first.

Siena:


Spot on.

Only in Nigeria would a woman be married to an animal who kicks the shít out of her, yet choose to remain in such an abusive relationship, because Nigerian society expects her to.

You know you need to educate these young fóôls more.

justified19:
see comment from a pained old single lady....marriage is part of fulfilments... call us senseless kids, at least we ar kids for our parents...who are ur kids? and who is her kid too. and it is u who knows which live is miserable cos urs is miserable too... if u dont mind, I can dash you ma dog to marry or at least fvck d hell outa ya old rust puszy

Of course you are kids to your parents. Even thieves, armed robbers, kidnappers, crack heads and their likes are all kids to some parents just like you are to your parents. Who cares what the kids turns out to be. As long as she got kids.
Whether she is married or not. She will buy you pathetic little piece of shite and your association of senseless broods. She is making something out of her life. What have you done with yours morøn?
To your silly asses, it doesn't matter if she is married to a douche bag, a cheat, a violent or irresponsible man. As long as she is Mrs Somebody.

Y'all need to re evaluate your lives.

hensben:
May you remain single all your life.

domopps:
She turns 40 and yet single?
Comment my reserve
Cheeeeeeers

kent79:
And she neva marry. Omo I pity her oooo

hustler86:
40years and still single..babe sori anty rita if una still de sit down na on long thing una de oo.. Smh..
Anyways hbd, bless ur new age wt husband, ngwanu husband.

justified19:
40 and still single....

jaygem:
Won't be nice if she enter menopause, make person manage marry her na

FreeGlobe:
like play like play, this one don pass menopause. she should just come out the closet already

peteruuu:
let her continue stunning till TIME IS NO MORE

Akuneshiobike:
Menopause stage is not far from her.

Silly people. What have you done with your miserable lives?
So marriage to y'all makes a woman complete.
This is what happens when parents with no purpose raise kids with no vision.
They end up punishing the universe with senseless kids who use marriage as yard stick to measure some one's fulfilment in life.

swizzdre:
why won't she, she is entitled to it

And she would keep begging for aids while struggling to take care of those kids.

She should have stopped giving birth on the second set of twins.

Even comfortable people rarely go beyond three kids these days.

I don't get why struggling people keep rolling out kids like they are passing out urine. Then later start asking for help.

Government needs to intensify the family planning campaign. People need to make educated choices when it comes to churning out kids.

davimiles:
Was only advising a friend

Thats the problem with people. Y'all don't know when shove your advice up your aśśes

You don't call people fat, and u don't get to give them unsolicited advice regarding their weight.

They claim they don't want to care of someone else's child.
They say you won't feel the same love for the adopted child like you would for your biological child.


Sometimes, when I talk to people in Nigeria, I can't help but shake my head for them.
We are still very backward.

koyla:
Adding something small,,,,time taken for your charger to charge your battery depends on your charger and your battery capacity.
Assuming you have a battery capacity of 4000mAh.
charger x has 1000mA=1A
charger y has 2000mA=2A
to know the time taken for charger x/y to charge your 4000mAh full, divide the battery capacity by the charger output. The answer gives you the time to complete a full charge.
charger x will take approximately 4hours while charger y takes approximately 2hours to fully charge your 4000mAh battery.

You just had to complicate the simple tip.

I saw Aunty Dolapo beside her husband and I thought Aunty Dolapo was tall. Then she stood beside Miss Teen Nigeria and I got confused.

adeniyi3971:


Wow its not 5yrs yet and the cadaver is still trying to resurrect umm thank Devil.
We know ur birth certificate is an apology from the condom factory but still we have to E-spank your Y and X chromosome donor for making the biggest mistake in life by letting you get through from that fake transparent sac how I wish they settled for a tongue appetizer! @ least I would have been - 1 on NL

I'd have explained it to you but your brain would explode_ please don't think, it may sprain your brain just tke a chill pill brains ain't everything but in your case there are nothing

It isn't 5yrs yet tho... Looolsssss

lol.... so you are too dumb to Google internet ethics.
But your rotten brain could direct your filthy fingers to search for insults.
Your wit is absolutely zero.