₦airaland Forum

Even though I don't encourage stagnancy and complacency, before you make any move from your comfort zone do your proper findings about where you're about to go. I know of someone that left his job paying fairly well to a better paying job only to get axed within a year when the company was downsizing to save cost. Take to google and do your research on the job. Enter keywords like 'is xyz company a good place to work'? Some of the results will bring you back to Nairaland sef. My prayer is that the unemployed underemployed in this country find themselves in this position very soon by God's grace.

Stop exposing your desperation or vulnerability on social media. You'll only attract users, predators and fraudsters. I'm sure right now her dm is already buzzing with men whose mothers have threatened to disown them if they don't find wives this year. These predators don't randomly jump into people's inboxes, they act based on what people post about themselves for instance the tragic case of Ini Umoren

Twitter people and superstory = 🤝

I never knew cocoa house was over 20 stories, and it was built with revenue from cocoa export. I wish we can bring back the days of cash crop export.

basty:
This picture is not well taken.

Cocoa house.is hiding beautiful Femi Johnson house.

You should have posted photos for context. It's indeed a nice structure, looks a lot like First bank head office in Marina.

The friend too should better open her eyes to the walking red flag she calls a boyfriend.

Drop In the bucket, probably the bottom feeders what were unable to settle the officers

Chai! And he just turned 36. May God rest his soul and comfort the young family he left behind

She should have just married the ex, this senseless tragedy could have been averted. Why some people marry and still remain in close contacts with their ex baffles me.

I heard something about castor oil but I honestly don't know it works. You're most likely having a girl, na dem dey tie gele do make-up, fix nails while in there while their male counterparts would have bounced out around 38 weeks. Speaking from experience sha.

No screenshots of tweets where the obidients were supposedly mocking the dead or rejoicing at his death? Regardless, every political group has its own fairshare or toxic and rational members.

payaseriy:
2 months

Perfectly normal. I have puppies exactly that age and that's how they behave.

At least Tinubu acts like he cares, I'll give him that unlike Buhari that expresses shock from time to time and goes back to minding his business

How old is it? Of its 4 months and below, then it's normal. If it's approaching adolescent and it's still biting you, then it calls for concern

vowiski:
It was needed, because Aketi and his family almost rubbished the former Dep. Governor.

If things went as they ought to be, I doubt this would have happened

Turai Yar'adua and their cabal did worse to Jonathan yet the Jonathans mourned Yar'adua (though Patience was a bit dramatic). This level of insensitivity is inexcusable

The government needs to do something about the porous northern borders attracting these Nigerien miscreants to commit all sorts of crimes. Obasanjo's administration was able to keep them at bay, Yar'Adua and Jonathan's regime was more relaxed on them. Buhari came and flung the borders open to give them freeway to come into the country whenever they like. Now he's out of power and we're still suffering the consequences

Onyiiobi7735:
This is a highly educational thread which should make us vigilant and careful on what we do on the Net in our phones.
Don't be surprised that most Nigerian guys traveling overseas would have a very long search history of Pornographic websites on their browsing history.

Watching porn is not a problem but if there's child porn in their browser history, that's a big problem.

After you shut your borders on Africans during the Ukraine crisis, you're now pretending like you care. Male I hear word abeg

Dpharisee:
Love for underage Kpekus is sending this one back to Nigeria after spending his inheritance to Japa. He thinks he is in northern Nigeria where they take 12 year olds as wife with rampant cases of VVF due to ruptured bladders from forced entry of very big Mallam Kpola which leads some of those girls to kill their husbands here in the North

No he thinks he's in southern Nigeria where he can use as little as N500 or Indomie and egg to get underage girls to do their bidding

Before we conclude or judge, we need to hear the other side of the story. Alfa mails have taught me how important the other side of the story is. Oga Tony see your life outside. These men don't ever learn. Stay in one place, mba. See as he has brought trauma to his family at a period they should be celebrating the festivities. No RIP to waste on randy man.

Yes this is me victim shaming, can you Alfa mails see how horrible it looks if the tables are turned?

Godoverevery:
Once again whoever said wisdom comes with age needs to meet you.

Children of nowadays are saying NO.....don't worry there is one adage in yoruba that says.

Na turn by turn crown dey go round........the insult Emeka is receiving today that you supporting.....tomorrow the mama go receive from the same Children.

Pikin wey fit insult him papa go definitely go fit insult him mama.......I just hope the mother will remember when that time comes.

Just that if we allow a mad person burry his mother the way he wants nah all of us go suffer from his mad actions......nah en be the case.

And you think I'll be foaming in the mouth like you men if a bad mother is exposed by her child? I'll applaud it! Do you know the amount of psychological damage a toxic parent does to his or her kids? And you think such patent deserve to be protected because they brought the kids into the world? Premium rubbish!

If (God forbid) I'm so toxic to my children to the point of laying curses on them, I hope they gather courage and oust me publicly once they've had enough of my shenanigans.

Godoverevery:
Definitely you support your son doing same to his father if this happens.

Clap for yourself........whoever said wisdom comes with age needs to meet you to have a rethink.

Abegi! Make I hear word! The way you people rate men and fathers like sacred entities is what is making them think they can misbehave without any consequences. Children of nowadays are saying NO! if you hurt us, there will be consequences. Besides, Emeka brought this upon himself. He should have just kept his big mouth shut.

I love the way Nigerian men are convulsing over this matter
Continue to gnash your teeth and heap curses from now till 2708, nobody is covering up for your ratchet deadbeat asses anymore. I don talk am before, these generation of kids no send anybody papa including theirs! If you do anyhow, you go see anyhow!

Has it ever occurred to anybody that it was the son's idea for him and his mum to come public? The ex wife has kept silent all the years while the children are minors. She grants an interview with her ADULT son an she's a a manipulative witch controlling her ADULT son against his useless abusive father?

A man opens his mouth to curse his son yet dumbass Nigerians expect the son to keep mum and continue to cover up for him. It's with case I've realised that a lot of Nigerians need to get their brains checked, it's obvious there are a lot of lose screws up there.

bro4u:
Big man disease no concern me

It's "big man disease" because it takes a lot of money to diagnose it. Poor men die of "mysterious illnesses" which in most cases is cancer. Cancer is no respecter of social status

Una no dey tirẹ to be recycling fake stories?

LordCenturion:
His wife killed him, the man was sick, yet she's dragging him to come back home so that the deputy will not take the seat, just look at what eventually happened..

Cancer killed him!

Before a woman can curse her child, he must have done something despicable, unimaginable and disastrous. But a man can heap vile curses on his own child because the child spoke some truths to him yet men are not seeing anything wrong with this. It's still the woman's fault that a man can be so toxic to his own children. The marriage has wrapped up for about a decade, the ex wife has been minding her business all this time while Emma Ike has been ranting like a lunatic all over the spheres of media. She finally decides to share her side of the story and her son sided with her, suddenly she's the bad one. Suddenly Emeka Ike has been vindicated. Define hypocrisy and I'll show you the picture of an average Nigerian man.

LikeAking:
Hearing about the country for the first time.

I hope say u no Dey use us play?

Liverpool defender van Dyk has roots in that country

At least guests got rewarded for buying expensive aso.ebi, that's commendable. Some people will sell expensive asoebi but will not gift ordinary handkerchief

Aston villa is on fire this season, currently 2nd on the logs. Unai Emery weray that could not achieve anything for arsenal is now performing wonders for A.Villa. issoryt.

Ronaldo723:
How did he toil day and night to get me to this stage? By being so toxic to me? I wish I was never born by that man that’s the truth and 10 years from now if I have my own kids I would strive to make them live a better life not the one my dad is making me live now and expecting me to give to him as young as I am I even yet to find my feet….. is so disheartening

I was posting on behalf of Nairaland Alfa mails who never want negatives about Father's to be revealed. It's more convenient to blame the mother or accuse her of turning th children against the father. I can see one of them have already arrived. Fathers are never wrong, even if they are you must keep it to yourself till you enter the grave. Na their style be that.

Since they've not arrived, let me post on their behalf till they come.

Op how dare you talk about your father like that, you must be a bastard. No true son talks like this about his father who suffered and toiled day and night to get you to this stage. You're letting your mother turn you against your father. 10 years from now when you've started having your own kids, you will understand your father better. Till then, stop talking about your father on social media. Spits!

2nd goal from Liverpool in injury time. 3 points in the bag

Arsenal don't go and dull o