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bebe2:
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Parents out of unconditional love for their children tend to over do things ,it's not their fault its just too much love for us and fear of failure that makes them act that way.

I am sure your pale no strict reach my own ,he will beat shit out of me with punch and heavy blows .when I was little ,despite the fact that I was a very cool and reserved kid and not stubborn.

When i was in school then he would always want to act all controlling and ask me to always come home.
Then a time came I had to stand up and face him I told him "you have trained me ,you have to understand that ,and trust the training you gave me,to do the right thing always"
I was like 19 - 20 then .

i am 23 now ever since then he doesn't put much stress on me .
We have to understand when to leave the nest ,the earlier the better for our lives and future family .

hmm
This is how parents destroy their children's destinies by jumping from one pastor to another all in the name of protecting them

Sis,this is why I always advice people to establish a personal relationship with God Talk to Him personally He would reveal His plans for you.

I no even know wetin to talk again.

I pray God helps you and favors you

Pope22:
My fellow nairalanders, please I need your advice. As a young man of early 30 who wishes to settle down in marriage probably by next year, what business do you think such a person can set up with an amount of N700,000? Advice and insults are welcomed.

What is your passion ?,that's what you are most likely to succeed at .

Hhaaa

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Its really sad,people dont understand the effect of all these songs on not just children but even adults too.There is something it does to your psychology subconcsiuosly .

There is even one mumu one now he just repeats olo..sho , olo..sho , almost through the song , with some other very dirty lyrics , and I see children about 7 years old singing it , chai .

Parents have a lot of work to do in this generation

People saying you shouldn't confront her husband are partially right .
People saying she should ONLY pray and not ask questions are also partially right .

Number one you have EVERY right to ask your husband questions in a manner that is not confrontational, a man has this right as well ,its called COMMUNICATION

Secondly don't let anybody deceive you, praying only in your marriage without acting is a recipe for disaster .The bible points it clearly that faith with works is the koko.

Now to the issue on ground ,whichever way you try to look at it the man was wrong (if I am to hold on to the fact that you saw evidence of love messages ).

Nothing justifies what he did .

Solutions:

Evaluate yourself very well,is there anything you are doing wrong ?

How is his income,is it sufficient ?

Again is there anything you are doing wrong ?

How well and how often do you give IT to him ?

How do you dress around the house ?,do you tie wrapper or wear bum shorts ?

How well do you people have heart you heart talks


*Remember again ,there is no justification for what he did,just that for a problem to be solved ,the cause and source has to be brought to light*



Now if you find any faults in yourself ,we can use this as a starting point.

Go before him,kneel down ,fake cry if you have to.
In a slow calm voice

"Honey you know I love you and I know I have *fill in the gap of anything you might have done wrong or not done well*,I want you to know that our happiness and growth together is my priority,and that happiness can be sustained if we are fully committed to each other.

I have noticed that things have not being the way they should,I even stumbled on a message that made me feel bad,I am not accusing you of anything, I just want you to kindly fill me in on what's going on and why such messages are being exchanged ,because we are partners and I believe for us to grow we need to remain committed and tell each other everything.

Please let's make this work ,I am always yours ,but I want you to be mine,and mine only.


And there is nothing we can't achieve if we work together .


I love you
"
*now give him a kiss ,slowly( emphasis on slowly) stand up and walk away . *

Except he is a stone hearted person he would call you back and fix things

In addition before you even carry this steps back it up with prayer for God to touch his heart .


Conflict resolution most times isn't hard its our approach that scatters everything .

I pray God helps you

Ama80:
Pls which computer related course can one study in d uni and which one gives quicker job n successful career in life.

Computer Science is the best bet

Some people no just get shame
Some things should be kept private
Let's be honest I am not hating .

Abeggi

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Neminc:
By the way, where is NwaAmaikpe? The dude has been scarce for sometime now

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BruncleZuma:
It's tempting , I'd rather mine Cryptos than waste all that computing power on it. #PersonalOpinion

Thats true sha , but its still very tempting

Its definitely not necessary , we just like distrubing ourselves

For the Men

1. How do you feel about being associated with the kitchen and Domestic chores?

Totally fine by me , I love cooking before na , and I can cook for Africa

2. How do you feel about being sexualized just because you look beautiful even when your intention is not to draw attention and you are being as modest as you can be?

I definitely would not feel good about it

3. How do you feel when men think they own the sole right of choice of whom to marry and also the right to dump you if they think you're not good enough and you don't have a say?

I would not be with such man in the first place, I would be with a PARTNER , someone who complements me,and someone I complement .With the prescence of love,understanding and a CLEAR goal and vision of what we want individually and for our future

5. How do you feel about liking someone but being silent because the society frowns at women being the ones to make the first move?

I wouldn't keep silent because , I dont allow "the society" determine how things go for me .Once what I do is fine by me ,and I dont hurt man or God in the process,I am ok.

6. How do you feel about being 'the kangaroo' for the babies and getting no applause but the man changing one diaper gets a standing ovation and an uproar?

I would marry a man who sees me as a partner and definitely assist around the house , especially when I have a lot of work load , so we both get the credit and ovation, remember- PARTNERSHIP , I would also assist him with his own "manly" things ,so we share each others burdens .P.S. I love babies

7. How do you feel about not being consulted about what should be exchanged for your hand in marriage?

I definitely would not like that , I should be told everything ,since I am being given out , I should be involved in the whole process

8. How do you feel about being called a 'slut' in an argument by a social media user who knows next to nothing about you?

I would feel bad about it , very bad infact .People who do such are just dumb

9. How would it feel to switch roles for a while?

Lets go there na , maybe without the monthly flow part , I can manage the aspect of borning pikin , I love babies

Wheew !!!!

I wanted to accept the challenge then I remebered , I dont have enough computing power to do it

Swizbank:
Is there no way to transfer apps easily from Windows to android devices?

Using xender WiFi i s hectic and consumes your MB.

Is there no app that can do this

Consumes MB ke ? HOW NA .it doesnt use MB na
Windows phone or Windows PC
Whichever one sef it should not take your data at all

In addition to the strong points listed by the oga above me :

First of all you know your wife more than anyone else
How is she with other people normally,friends family etc .

If she is normally accommodating and this is the first time you are seeing her "putting off " people then there is an underlying problem , something else you must have done ,or something else you both agreed on and you went against the agreement you both had .

If I am to do a "psycho" analysis and take your words for it :

They came on the 28th , you all were happy together till 1st , when you went out .

Wahala and first sign of her behaviour(according to your story) came up at the bar when you told the two women to go home and you wanted to drink with your friend .

So its safe to say she was comfortable with their stay if they could stay for five days without her showing any sign of being uncomfortable ,women are generally not that patient ,to stay for five days with people they are not comfortable with , she would have given you or them a subtle sign or would have told you straight from like the third day, things like "when are they going "(this is danger) , take note its different from "how long will they be with us"(this one is ok,especially if she asked before they came) ****I love psychology**** . If she didnt show any sign like that or ask any question like that, its safe to say she is ok with them staying .

Moving on , from the points above i can conclude that she has no problem with them , na two of una get wahala between una sef , she is just pouring out the anger on them . Its also possible she is trying to protect you from something because the trigger point here was the bar and you telling them to go home . Now lets dive deeper .....


Lets ask some questions :

1.Is your friend a womanizer ? (if thats the case she probably feels , he might be "corrupting you" )
2.Did you both(you and your wife) agree that you would limit or stop drinking ? (it might sound crazy but trust me its possible, thats why she is angry)
3.Do you guys have any unresolved issue ?
4.Is there something she asked you to do for her that you have not done ?
5.How much did you spend on drinks , was she trying to caution or limit your spending ? (probably telling you to save ? )

All these little details might seeem irrelevant , but might have triggered her reactions .Even though it was wrong of her to have gone to that extreme lenghth .

All these could have been avoided that night you got back home from the bar .

She is your wife you should know her weak points , all women have something that triggers them to open up and talk no matter how difficult they are .
When you got home was it

"Why did you just leave the bar angrily and why are you not talking to me , and where is my food "

OR was it

"Baby , I noticed a change in your face when I asked you and kemi to go home last night , if there is anything wrong , I would be more than happy to listen to you so we can resolve it , you know you are my sunshine , when you are sad I am sad too " *while carressing and pecking her*

Oga, every woman has a "pin code", if you cant figure it out , it would be hard resolving issues

Some of them its making them laugh
Some its promising them gifts
Some its just being caring
Some its just using a soft tone of voice
Some its a combination of everything


Bottom line , you should have found a way of making her open up that night so the issue doesnt go into the morning.You should have also found a way to give yourselves some pencil and sharpener (that thing can solve quarrel for Africa , thank God ! for pencil and sharpener in marriages )


And to the point where you asked your friends wife to cook, that was totally totally wrong sir ,
Number 1 they are your guests , no matter how close you people are, you should not tell your guest to cook
Number 2 thats your wife's territory, she should be the only one to give anyone authority to use it (even though its your house)
Number 3 all men should know how to cook for situations like this





Just talk to her , dont just talk ,COMMUNICATE and most importantly LISTEN , there is something amiss somewhere

I would suggest you read this article I wrote a long time ago :





How to spice up your marriage and prevent divorce
https://www.nairaland.com/3314181/how-spice-up-marriage-also

Nice .

bot101:
Hehehe, I know. You said native android apps, there are only 2 languages that are truly native to android: Java and Kotlin, others are core hybrid platforms (Ionic, React Native, Native script e.t.c, e.t.c) or partially hybrid (C#). For serious enterprise applications, its best to stay within these languages, others are mostly not good for enterprise.

All in all, you said NATIVE ANDROID. So it's either Java or Kotlin.

I am not the one that said oo oga , I just commented . my mind even skipped the part where he said native

bot101:
Good knowledge of Java is supposed to be a minimum requirement, not an advantage.

There many ways of building apps nowadays , I don't mean those website that generate apps for you. It doesn't always have to be java

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CarlP60:
Hi, I got some images and want to copy the text from these files, how can I do this? Any free solutions would be better, thanks in advance.

Search for "free OCR software "
Optical Character Recognition

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“When you’re with your great love … it’s like trying to separate your arm from your body, you can’t do it. You’re connected. She was my girl,”

Ebios:
Guy why are u crucifying English?

I am sure you get the message he is trying to pass
Correct english is not a measure of ones intelligence , that is how well he can speak .
You probably dont even understand his own language , let alone write in that language
please lets take life easy on each other , its not as hard as we take it

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donnaD:
I can't lie it's not not my hair,tanks.

Thank you for not lying , I like girls that dont lie
I still love it anyway

senier007:
Ignorance, prejudice, low-iq, low-self esteem and deliberately change the narrative to suit their ego is what a typical Nigerian is made up of,
Some of us went to school buy we never learn anything,
Some of us study upto university level but can't comprehend common things,
Some of us have deep hatred and prejudice that only allow them to see the bad in others but never the good,
Some of us will read but will never understand what they have just read and hence the need for others to explain to them,
Some of us like the idea of stereotype cuz it fits well into their narrative
To All those using people to judge a religion with out using and understanding the religious books and the context of each verse, I say to you
Woe unto you,
Woe unto you,
Woe unto you.
An illiterate is far better than you
And for those that enjoy generalization
Continue, one day the same thing will fall on you
May what you wish for others fall on you
Ameen

If there is anything I have learnt in the few years I have spent on planet earth, its knowing that I cant always be right .
To make this a fair ground , I would agree I am ignorant, I would agree I have low IQ and even a low self esteem .
But in what way am I suiting my ego with the narrative ?, I havent "uplifted " myself or even my religion in anyway .
I didnt abuse Muslims in any way , I laid down hard facts before you

Answering this part :

Some of us went to school buy we never learn anything,
Some of us study upto university level but can't comprehend common things

I dont need a university degree, to understand that killing another human, makes no sense
I dont need to be formally educated to know that if we check the statistics,most people who carry out these killings claim and publicly proclaim and even quote their holy book , to defend these killings

Answering this part :

Some of us will read but will never understand what they have just read and hence the need for others to explain to them,

I like this part , make us and your brothers who carry out these killings UNDERSTAND, what is written, in your holy book

Answering this part :

Some of us like the idea of stereotype cuz it fits well into their narrative
To All those using people to judge a religion with out using and understanding the religious books and the context of each verse, I say to you

I don't like the idea of stereotypes,I hate it in fact especially the ehtnic bigotry and tribalism going on in Nigeria presently
I don't hate muslims , I hate what most of them do or support
I hate that you claim we dont understand the religious books , but when people use this same religious books as backing to commit these sad crimes, you dont come out to speak up, and make them (your brothers ) understand what your holy book actually preaches


I no wan talk again


You say woe unto me , I say peace unto you , after all thats what you claim your religion stands for .
Peace bro

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I love your hair,please tell me its your natural hair