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WHAT DO 2016 HOLD FOR US
Today being the 31st of 2015..today you start to think if you have achieved what you planned at the beginning of the year..if you didn't achieved all, then you begin to think why ! Why!! Why did I not achieve all..now here are some of the reasons you didn't achieve all your plans for the year:
1) Procastination: delaying or continously prosponing a thing or action to take in life
2) Fear: not wanting to take risk in doing a thing. If I do this or do that, were will I get the money from, if I give this person the remaining 50naira in my pocket, where will I get money to eat, the money I will use to go buy that form to apply for it, I will rather use it to eat because I don't know when I will get another money
3) Low self esteem: I can't go to that company to apply ooo because I don't have the level those people have, I can't talk to that lady o because she's working and am not working, I can't go visit that my friend because he has bought a car and I am walking with leg, I can't go to school again because my friends are all done with school and I have not gotten admission
4) Doubt/ Unbelieve: if I apply for that oil company job, will they even take me, this one that you have to pay so, that scholarship that they only give their indigine so, no need apply or even if I apply, they might not even give me self, if I go toast that girl, she might be far bigger than me in level, she won't answer me, so no need to go
5) Giving excuses: its because of this or that I was not able to do so so thing. You didn't wake me that's why I was not able to go for that interview. You didn't wake me to read that's why I didn't pass the exam. You didn't call me always that's why I had to look for other people.
6) Association with people: they are not christains, so no need to even greet them. They don't even have level like me, so why even gist or even say hi to them self. I will only associate with anyone that has jeep. I will not give ear to a guy who don't have money, Jeep or even house.
7)Giving: this money, I can't give to that person o, he or she shud go look somewhere else. I didn't not work this money for you o, so its only me to enjoy it. This cloth or shoe can't be giving out because I bought it for 10k. This shirt is too fine that I can't give you, my footstuff is not enough for me, so I can't give you from them.
Negative statements: I know I will not pass that course, I know I won't get money this week, I know I won't get that job because its only big men that pay to get it, I know am not fine enough or rich enough to approach that lady,
9)Always praying for you your wants and not your need
10) Self
These are among few obstacles..now here are some of the solutions that you can apply in 2016.
1) Draw out your plans for the day, the week, the month and the year. Make sure you adhere to those positive plans
2) Restitution: if you have wrong someone or collected something or lied to someone in the name of getting something, try and give or tell the person even if it will affect your relationship.its better to have peace of mind with a friend than having to put up with lies everyday trying to hide a lie you have told,
3) Pray, praise and pay your tithe
4)Have faith: always have complete trust in God
5) Meekness: be submissive, humble, teacheable, try to interact with people with humility
6) Joy: always feeling great happiness every minute of the day no matter the condition. Yes I don't have money to eat, be happy because you worrying won't bring solution. Nothing last forever
7) Worry not and think more: worrying don't bring and will never bring solution to any problem. Rather sitting down and drawing out possible good solutions or suggestion is a good starting point to solve a challenge,
Never take anything as a problem, rather as a challenge: when you take a situation as a challenge, you saying its what you can face and get over compared to a problem
9)Kindness: be friendly and generous to people even with the very little you have. Givers never lack
10) Longsuffering: having to show patience inspite of trouble, enduring or facing a challenge without complaining or grumbling
11) Be patient
12) Temperance: have self control
13) Be positive in your words and action, never give up
14) Be good to people. There's no assistance that is too small.
15) Love: never assume someone is not worth loving. Never say he or she is the one that's suppose to show the love first or he is the one that shud always be calling me na, am not suppose to be calling him. Or I don't have money jare, so I won't buy anything for him or her because am not working..do you know what it will mean to a friend if you buy even just lacacera when you coming home??
Above all, get close to God, keep his commandments and always believe that you can make it. Happy 2016 in advance with the more blessings

MosakuAW:
Those boys that snatched your car dont need your car because they will be caught. What they really needed was the fuel not your car

No miracle will dry up fuel that suppose to last for 4days under hours only if your car is faulty.

All the same, congrats. My mind keep telling me that, na the fuel they need not your car

#Abi you don turn to one Pastor that drove his car from Ibadan to Lagos under 4liters of fuel.

Signs of the end time..people shall rise up to speak against the wonders of God..so other cars they have been stealing since when fuel increased , they don't need those people fuel too..so if people want to be stealing fuel, will they not just be stealing it wen d people park dier car and are sleeping..you better change ur ways Mr..don't play God

247frolicboss:
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An unidentified middle age man was electrocuted at the early hours of Sunday while trying to steal electric cable at a power supply installation in Kaduna.

The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that the incident happened at Accra Crescent by LEA Primary School, Unguwar Rimi.

The traditional ruler of teh area, Dan Iyar Unguwar Rimi, Alhaji Muhammad Gidado, confirmed the incident.

Gidado said that the corpse of the vandal was evacuated from the scene by the police from Unguwar Rimi Division.

According to him, the vandal was unknown to them in the area and urged law enforcement agencies to step-up patrol as the community has suffered from the activities of vandals lately.

Gidado explained that the deceased tried to steal the 150mm four core up-riser cable at the distribution sub-station along Accra Crescent when nemesis caught up with him.

The Head, Corporate Communications of Kaduna Electric, the operator of Kaduna Electricity Distribution Company, Mr Abdulazeez Abdullahi, also confirmed the incident.

He appealed to customers of the company to be more vigilant and report suspicious movement around power supply installations to the police, especially in the night.

Abdullahi lamented that the activities of these hoodlums was causing set back to the company’s effort at providing steady power supply to its customers.

He warned criminal elements to desist from damaging or removing power supply equipment as the consequence could be very tragic.

Meanwhile, the police said it was investigating the incident with a view to arresting the collaborators of the act and preventing reoccurence.

http://www.metronaija.com/2015/12/photo-man-electrocuted-while-trying-to.html

Was there ladder or appliances that can be used to cut wire there that they used to know that he wanted to steal cable..because if there's nothing of such there, then na wizard wey d fly for night ooo

yinkuscious:
This is interesting #Some people won't get it

Palindromes often consist of a sentence or phrase, e.g., "Eva, can I stab bats in a cave?", "Mr. Owl ate my metal worm", "Was it a car or a cat I saw?", "A nut for a jar of tuna", "Do geese see God?", "Ma is as selfless as I am", "On a clover, if alive erupts a vast pure evil, a fire volcano", "Dammit, I'm mad!","Dog, as a devil deified, lived as a god.", "Not so, Boston.","A Toyota's a Toyota", "Go hang a salami, I'm a lasagna hog", "A Santa lived as a devil at NASA", and "An igloo! Cool, Gina!". Punctuation, capitalization, and spaces are usually ignored. Some, such as "Rats live on no evil star", "Live on time, emit no evil", and "Step on no pets", include the spaces.

salawustyles:
now i dont get dis

Palindromes often consist of a sentence or phrase, e.g., "Eva, can I stab bats in a cave?", "Mr. Owl ate my metal worm", "Was it a car or a cat I saw?", "A nut for a jar of tuna", "Do geese see God?", "Ma is as selfless as I am", "On a clover, if alive erupts a vast pure evil, a fire volcano", "Dammit, I'm mad!","Dog, as a devil deified, lived as a god.", "Not so, Boston.","A Toyota's a Toyota", "Go hang a salami, I'm a lasagna hog", "A Santa lived as a devil at NASA", and "An igloo! Cool, Gina!". Punctuation, capitalization, and spaces are usually ignored. Some, such as "Rats live on no evil star", "Live on time, emit no evil", and "Step on no pets", include the spaces.

ilevic:
abeg this thin nor make any sense reading it backwards. leme try "was it a car or a cat I saw" now backwards, "was I cat a or car a it saw". how come its giving same meaning? enlightenment pls

Was it a car I saw o
Or a cat I saw
Was I tac a ro

Was i+t, then seperate a from c, add c to a and r to form "car"and separate o...it gives you was it a car o.. Or alternatively
Or a cat I saw
From the end backward, you have was, add I to t to form "it", seperate a on its own, add c and a and r together to form "car" and then o on its own, you will have: was it a car I saw o

Orjioorji:
except they accept Jesus Christ as their lord and saviour, if not they are still potential terrorist and will still come back to burn the same church you think they were protecting .

Shabi you are a christain, who will preach to them, is it not christains..go and preach for them instead of hiding your face in social network and start throwing unnecessary arrows at people..instead of you to appreciate the little they have done, u opening your mouth talking...if you are a man, you shud come out where everybody will see you and say this or better go to the kaduna to tell them

lalasticlala:
http://dailypost.ng/2015/12/22/our-gods-will-punish-those-who-collect-david-marks-rice-without-voting-him-pdp-chieftain/

Oga politician, that one na lie, nothing go do them..did David Mark say he's bribing people with rice or he's doong charity work..I think he is doing what he knows best "charity work"..so don't spoil his market with those offensive words, dat one nor the threaten anybody jare.
Any politician who give money or items out as form of ritual to deceive or to collect people destiny while nor see the light of the day when they want to manifest that evil power
Any politician be it a man o woman, as far as he or she was given birth by a woman, that is embezzling naija money and making people to suffer, God will let them die mysterious death with un treatable sickness and disease in Jesus name, Amen
Anybody wey wan hate me for wetin I write so, e water nor go hot for fire, he angel of breakthrough go miss road and he or her angel of prosperity go d dance for party forget them

LordEmmyG:
President Buhari’s daughter, Zahra is in the news
again because she was recently spotted rocking a
pair of Manolo Blahnik Hangisi satin pumps said
to be worth $965 ( N192k ). Since her dad rode
to election victory based on his posture of
integrity and prudence, many feel Zahra should
also take on the same prudent posture. what do
you think?

Is it her that's president or her father..do because her dad is talking in the news, it should stop her from wearing expensive things she bought..

Tolexander:
He could have mentioned the party

He dey fear?

He is not scared..he just using wisdom..the right people to know who suppose to know who is bribing must have known by now..not the public

Demmocrats:
Igbos are gifted, with exceptionally entrepreneurship spirit which is inborn and independent of school so for those dudes shouting Futo this Futo that, they really don't understand that its about the dude not the school.

#I_Respect_Igbos.

Bros, please let them feel their uni jare..they should enjoy the moment..are there not igbos that went to other unis and didn't get the award..or when people see you and start admiring you, what will people say, they always say your parents trained you well..and funny enough 99percent of our characters are decided by us not our parents..so FUTO still carry the credit..and am not from FUTO, am from FUT minna

TedBaker:
ur point pls nt mine, coz u brought d comparism.

Ok
1) Check web ranking of universities website and see the position where you uni is: www.webometrics.info/en/africa/nigeria
2)According to citations and researches: ranking.journalsconsortium.org/unirankings/country/Nigeria/2015
3)According to nigeria uni scholar: .com/list-best-universities-nigeria-2015-nuc-share/

Most times, we deceive ourselve during thanksgiving that we are giving good thing to God..now this what you use to know you have given sacrificially at the end of the year:
1) does your thanksgiving reflect your worth or status: we eat and dress very well and wear cloths worth thousands and the come end of year and go give 5000naira and u wear cloth worth 10000
2) Was it planned for: if you can plan for xmas or coperative party right from january, how much did you plan for dat thanskgiving you giving

3) Is it a left over?: we can go to parties, marriage ceremonies, end of yer parties and spray millions to show off how rich we are and then come thanksgiving sunday, we give the little money in the pocket
4)Does it reflect the blessing of God in your life: God has blessed you through out the year, you didn't go to hospital to waste money for treatment, you were not sacked from work, you were blessed with a wife, husband and end of year thanksgiving, you give 1000 or 20 yams
5)Is it a reflection of how much you love God
6) Does it reflect your faith
7) Will God be satisfied with it
Does it reflect how much it honours God

If you are gulty of these, please you can still give thansgiving again before the end of the year..God bless us

TedBaker:
infact i challenge u. . I would ve taken more serious if u said FUTAkure.

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So now what's your point you want to use to challenge and have proof

Abbykem:
Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy.


1. Are you both interested in staying together in long-term commitment: Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy. You have to first see yourself in a committed relationship with your partner otherwise, save yourself the heartbreak.


2. Are you satisfied with where you both stand: Emotional security is constantly overlooked by most people and if you can’t honestly give a ‘yes’ to if you are both secure then you should reconsider the sex idea.


3. Do you both share the same ideas and values: It’s not how he feels about you, it’s how you feel about him. You should know how he fits into your life in terms of certain values such as work-life balance, religion, lifestyle, parenting style, religion, money management.

Sha from my own point of view, keeping your marriage bed undeviled had its own special blessing..so if you can stay away from sex with the man or woman you want to marry, please do or alternatively once you start going for counseling, better tell them you guys have had sex and you guys will have to be put thru some extra counseling which might involve both of you not having sex again till marriage and might take longer than expected..

TedBaker:
guess u re ashamed of ur own schl dats y u cnt even rep.

Ashamed of school??...really, go check your CGPA before you representing your school pls..ooooo is dat why you so jealous of the lady or is dat how your school taught you to promote your school, I see..if you want to rep your school,its not in this jealousy manner..and sorry am a solid graduate of FUTminna and from every criteria used to choosed best schools, FUTyola can never ever beat FUTminna..so go learn how to hype your school..sha your school can be number one based on JEALOUSY

Dongreat:
Any people always wonder why Deltans are the smartest in Nigeria. Well that's your proof. By the way she is from waffi my hometown. Go girl, next minister in d making.

We nor the carry last jare bro..worse we fit do na draw..na jealousy na they make pple prayer nor the get answers

TedBaker:
u sabi book
come to FUT Yola and get that first class mak i see

What's so special about FUT Yola that you talking abi they have never produced any first class there..if its so special, I think it would have been among the 10 best nigeria universities according to any of the different method of ranking... So stop being jealous and be happy for her..bad belle nor the give good thing

bigneorapz:
Hi nairalanders, please i have something that is really disturbing me of which am not sure if it's a good move or not. I have a very rich uncle that is a member of the AMORC ( Ancient Mystical Order Rosae Crucis)
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and he's the only one helpin me at the moment in all the things in life both in school and outside school. Without him i'll be useless financially. My mum and my sisters are all christian in a methodist church of which am also a member. But just yesterday, my uncle came to me and told me to start coming with him to the AMORC temple..infact he said he was going to bring me a student form to fill. Please nairalanders..i'm confused at the moment. I learn that amorc members read alot of which i don't like & they have so many principle too. Please what do y'all think of this? Is it a good church for me to be a part of or should i just tell him to his face that am not interested? Please before u make your suggestion, just know that am scared of turning down his offers due to much respect i have for him..thanks. Lalasticlala please help move this to the F.P

If you arte scare of turning him down..why asking, you have made your decision already na..no amount of advice will change your choice

osedvgirl:
see small pepeye oooo


I pity him oo, fine guy like this, or are you sure its not arrow from his village

Arrow from were. If the story is true that he is a yahoo boy, trust me his time as come to pay for his atrocities..God help us esp the youths who are not patient for Gods time

ayodele234:
I guess all our politicians stealing from us didn't go to school? Come on man, it is human nature and we are all guilty

Yes we are all quilty of it until we give our life to christ

dre11:
A divorce seeking husband has told a court in Lagos that his wife smells so bad he can't sleep with her.




http://opera.pulse.ng/gist/messy-my-wife-is-so-smelly-dirty-i-can-t-sleep-with-her-husband-tells-court-id4474418.html

Hahahahahaha..who the find who wan kill don see am but he nor wan dis again..so before he married her, he didn't study to take note of the girl attitude and character..she d woman say the house too big for her, marry anoda one join or else let her leave so you can take care of your children..did your children even complain in the first place that they need anoda mother??. God help u sir o

Thanks first to naraland for giving us opportunity to get first hand informations..now based on the options that nairaland have on any writeup people place here..the quote option gives room to comment and suggest to a writeup, like to show you appreciate the writeup..now there are some that when added will be interesting, share to distribute the writeup
One is the addition of options dislike and boring..there are comments that people place at times that you will look for option to click like boring or dislike, you won't see..so I think if you can add this, nairaland will be more interesting. Thanks

ayodele234:
We are all criminals. Stop acting like a saint here. You gonna steal in other ways. Predatory capitalism is human nature.

I hear..since we are all criminals, maybe u shud go and rob then or encourage your siblings to go into yahoo yahoo..no need for you to go to school na bros..just join dier league

Young03:
These guyz should be given an award...its not easy to defraud someone

quote me if ur madt

Guy what are you waiting for, start your own na, wether nor be NIA go catch u and drill you for good..young people not wanting to wait for Gods time, instead stealing peoples money..what difference do you make wen u call someone a thief and u are also a thief

Islie:
www.vanguardngr.com/2015/12/shes-sleeping-with-her-boyfriends-dad/

The only help is to break up from the relationship with the son because its a taboo for the girl to go and still marry the son..and she shud stop fucking married men or else, someone will also be fucking her husband later

iceberylin:
You never told us what really attracted you to these wrong guys

There are some issue now:
1) The guys you have dated, do they generally always have the same attitude like calm, and dos stuff? If yes, then maybe you should give time to some guy who don't have a different character
2) The criteria you use in picking guys is what is affecting you, those criteria don't match up with your lifestyle
3) Can you just try to be less desperate for guys and just enjoy your single moment for a while..and hide your emotions because many of them are using your emotions against you
4) Don't be over close or too used to a guy..give him dat face that you are not interested and you don't give a damn even if he wants to go..and pls wen a frnd is wrong, don't you ever apologize..he shud always be d one to apologize if he's wrong except u wrong
5) Guess u are beautiful, just calm down, you will get the right guy very soon..99percent of guys are pretenders and once you give them the "I like you eye" first, you finished..
6) Pray about it if you really want a true guy dat won't want you because of sex or because of your body
7) How do you dress also matters because if you showing me your tommy or wear clothes that show all your figures, a guy can be lust with ur body and will try everything to make sure he gets you..at the end of the day, he's der just for sex

johnydon22:
I am against the mauling of people because they practised what ever belief or religious rituals they deem fit.

But once their practise involves hurting or killing of another human then they deserve what they got.

But seriously people should stop this jungle justice, simply hand them over to the authorities to be prosecuted according the the nations constitutional dictates

Hand them over to authorities and do what?? They will grant them bail or even end up paying their way to get out..do you think they will stop when they come out..did you check the news on nairaland in the morni..we are suffering for fuel, six foreigners have the ordersity to still be stealing our crude oil and were about exporting it before they were caught, guess what your authority did, they sed jail term or option of 20million naira fine..abeg who get liver to steal crude oil for anoda man country, get ship to carry am comot, na 20million go hard am to pay??

Edigrows:
forgerrit bruh, U win abeg, i no wan argue here

Bros am not hear to win or loss oooo..for ur infomation, I didn't support the guy and I tod the guy to go build his confidence in talking to matured ladies..I was just trying to question ur view so u can convince me why he's sexually attracted to children

quiinnBee:
that is not the point here.the point is she's still in SS2.is husband the next thing ?
please use your brain.its meant for thinking.

Did the guy say he wants to marry her now or he sed he wants to nurture her till she's thru with school

Edigrows:
check dictionary for the meaning of paedophile.
The gal is a kid so It is not related with what U are saying.

Funny..ok mayb u can give me answers to this questions:
1) Which one do u want us to check pedophile or paedophile?
2) You that already know the meaning, did the guy sed he wants to be having sex with the girl or he wants to nurture the girl
3) Finally since you use to using the dictionary, its good you check the meaning of a child and teenager and mayb check for the difference

quiinnBee:
tell him he's a paedophile

If you say he is a pedophile, what will you now call a 55years old man marrying a 25years old lady..now relationship is not by age, its maturity dat matters