₦airaland Forum

everythinggirly:
This guy dey talk truth sometimes.

That guy is high valued Sense if you look beyond his showbiz Madness!

Darevofpeace:
As much as this is right,you won't want to hear about the sexual menace going on in village primary and secondary schools.

I once worked In a village secondary School for two years and i saw another version of the city life being practiced in the village.

As early as 8am,some students would leave the school premises and go into the bushes around the school with coal pot and raw food items and a keg of palm wine.
After eating,they would sleep with each other and come back to pick their bags by 3pm after closing.

A J.S.2 boy was caught with some black magic and juju he gave to his class mates to sleep with the girls in their class.
Touch and follow Juju.

The most painful part is that almost half it the students came from broken homes and some are even the one feeding themselves.

As far as there is Internet, there is no Village since you are connected to Global Village "www" .... Once the Brain is not Educated Enough on the Use of a Resources, She Abuses that Resources!

An Untrained Human is Animalistic

harrypetty:
When parents sef lack home training, what hope remain for their children. You can't give what you don't have. Every child is a rebel unless he/she is taught the way of the Lord in truth and by practice. Clueless and helpless parents everywhere

You just painted the real picture. Most Parents are not in 21st century, they are stucked in 20th century Trainings their Grandparents gave their parents.

These are Computer and Microchips Children Popular Called "Gen Z" if you want to Curb their illicit activities and train them Good, You have to be computer Savvy and Live in 2023 not 2003 nor 1993 nor 1983 nor 1973 ....

You just have to Port to this Children World but Most Parents are Stucked in the Old World thus they are not Connecting with their Children coupled with Inflationary Pressure that's making most Parents to work more in order to bring resources home making them to be much stressed out to even pay attention to little things in the home even if it's happening under their nose !

Higher level of Divorce Rate, Separation, Single Parenting, Lack of Fathering Values, Lack of Mothering Skills, Grandparents Parenting, Baby Mama's Influx all Contributed to Dyfuntions in the life of the Children !

There is need for Laws to be passed to Enrol and Train About to Marry Couples for at least 3 Months on all Intricacies of Marriage and Parenting before being awarded Marriage Certificate at the Registry just like learning How to Drive before Driver's license could be awarded to You !

Many People can't Manage themselves talkless of Managing a Home and raising Children in such Home!

May God help Us to Help Ourselves because God no send anybody wey no get sense, You go suffer !

IamMobisola:
To born pikin sef dey fear person

But Sex is part of Life .. You Should be Scared of Inability to Raise them Appropriately!

Mrkumareze:
The entire system is finished. The next generation will be characterised by morons

The Next Generation will be Characterised by Very Smart Children But Negative Mindsets !

E go Hot wellwell ... Police go work Tire !

yahoodetector:
Most of these children are product of single mothers.

The Chrisland College girl is the daughter of a single mother...

Tonto Dike's son who hit her butt with his hand and she was smiling and laughing sheepishly is a single mother.

Where is the Irresponsible Father that abandoned Mother and Child(ren) Only to Chase other Pvssies .. .... Until the Law Catches Up with Most Nigerian Irresponsible Nigerian Men, Our Society would become much more Porous !

The reason for all the Societal Problem is because Men failed in their duties to Manned their Wife/Wives and Fathered their Child(ren) ... Most Children now belong to the Street and The Street is Cruel same with Most Single Mothers belongs to the Street and The Street ain't Smiling now that things are even Costlier ... Street is give and Take ... if you don't have what to transact Nobody is minding You!

Children of Dyfunctional Homes are usually victims of Street Abuses from time immemorial as well as Spoilt Brats from Richer Homes who would always cry home to Daddy and Mommy when e Hot ....

Thanks to the Single Mother for even Staying with their Kids despite the Father running off, If she had Run-off too, the life of Our Societal Children would be much more Evil than Presently Experienced !

Mad Irresponsible People!

funshint:
I believe only extroverts will have problem staying abroad. Some of us dey dis naija wey be say even if we dey inside house for 2wks we no dey get problem so far food dey

Olohun and Internet Dey ! Gen Noise sef na wa!

theamazonguru:
Haaaaa.
It seems you are a prophet oh.
If you are not, please start considering that , you have a prophetic call. LOL

Right now, her best friend is one of our drivers. We share the same office, so I see what's going on.
She feeds this guy breakfast and lunch almost every day..
The office rumour mills has it that they share something I'm common.
I have been finding this hard to believe though.

Why won't people even think so, when aunty Ngo will be acting weird anytime she sees another lady playing with the guy.

This genda are more than funny.

.. E go soon Clear na

akakurukukaku:
From what you posted, the lady gave so many red flags. However, you did not indicate much about your own views. Not what you have in your mind but what you told her.

In relationship, you must learn to air your view. For example, when she told you to pay for her sub, where you bold enough to tell her no, and also give the reason why you can't do that?

Always say you mind when going into a new relationship, that is what it takes to be a man.

Abi Now !
Na War front Na ihm dem dey know who be who !

Twenty2three:
Bro, you need to stop thinking this way. A girl that look classical without working is not classical, We call them bitches

Na you Sabi, If she rule her world and has her own rule on who come in and goes out ... she is classical ! ... If you can't Can then GTFO and she wouldn't even know you are amiss ...

But of Course, a classical girl to someone is a bìtch to another... Life no balance and Earth self no balance !

Gohs:
There are natural laws in the physical realm. . .

There are natural laws in the spiritual realm. . .

Any form of sex outside marriage brings evil spirits.
This is a natural law in the spirit realm.

That's why the Bible said we should run away from sexual immorality — it's because it brings evil spirits which you will not see with your physical eyes.

Chairman Na so You spoil thread now ... West and Eastern European still have sex more than Africans are they are better Developed than US!

If you are underdeveloped On Earth, You shall be Underdeveloped in Heaven because Earth is where you worked How you Heaven will Be !

God is a Scientist not Ojuju Calaba Spiritual Abracadabra as Defined to Us by Ancestors ...

We New Generations of Africa should do Better than Our Ancestors in Moving Our Nations and People Forward, Many African Child are too Much Stocked to Spiritual Abracadabra that there is no Space for any form of Reasonableness in their Brain that's why they are using Anointing Oil and Candles to Deceive You while they are using Jets and Bullet Proof SUVs ....

Go and Learn the Scientific Reasons why some certain things should be done and not to be done not the Spiritual Abracadabra fed to You, You Pressure Your Brain to Much on Heavenly Wahala that Head won't be able to do anything Better in the World and you will always be at odd with Your society !

Then You become a Pastor Seeing Vision into Other People's Life to Chop then the Scamming begins in order to maximise your wealth via Anointing Oil and Scaring People with Demons ! ...

What is a Human being doing in the Realm of Demon if you never swallow bad bad things making the Brain to Hallucinate And Concoct Demons to show you what It is Passing through ....

Infections and Hyperthinking leads to Demonic Hallucinations Bro!

Gohs:
This is how people run into SPIRITUAL PROBLEMS — sexual covenant is very strong!

Run away from sexual immorality if you love your life — DEMONS will reduce in your life if you keep your body, mind AND thoughts pure

Na the Person wey dey reason Demons dey Have Demons !

This is the Reason why in African our spiritual Richness doesn't transform into Societal Development!

Sexual Immoralities is not good because it's Emotional Draining and Time Consuming either for the ladies or the Dude and Once Mental Adaptations sets in, All Your time and Energies would be dedicated for Sexual Pursuit instead of Other Growths and Developmental Indexes!

Laslas, You wouldn't have Glorifying Achievements Other than the Number of Pants You have Shifted, and Who Reward that as an Achievement

No Demon Bro ... Stop Putting Your Head under Intense Pressures

theamazonguru:
Well it's simple.
She is simply not for you.
Not all ladies are wife materials, except you want daily headache in your marriage.

One of my colleagues Ngozi, even at 43, still single yet her shakara no be here.
From the day 1 of your interaction, this lady Will tell you straight up that if you are not rich, there is no point bothering yourself about starting any relationship with her.
That she can't marry a man and be suffering..
This is a lady that earns around 500k oh.

It's pains me that as we dey pity her, she no dey pity herself, her own is money, money,money.
You must be rich or no relationship.

Gosh, to think NG will clock 50 pretty soon as time is running and waits for no man.

Don't be Supprise if she go get belle for una driver ... Female wise ooo !

Faber:
I bet my balls op don spend some cash on her, ordinary kissing he never kiss the girl.

E no mean anything Abeg .. U no dey give Beggar Money ... U sabi how much people spend for interview and test and still no get the job ... Many people spend alot for tender still no get the Contract ....

If you dey calculate amount you go spend to get to Nigerian woman pant it's either she Help You become Narcissistic or Emotionally Depressed Man ...

Money or no money, Once she ain't vibing your Vibes simply use your sense and Walk Off!

meedoLock:
Oh! This is constructive enough, but don't you think it's wrong of her to demand money from me when we are even yet to meet officially? Yes I might not fit in to the level of her financial thirst yet but she obviously made it look money stuff.

If she is a Low-key Hookup girl and Ya aunty no kno ... it is not wrong of her to try to demand money from you in that world na their way be that ...

Na Ya Aunty fit Miscalculate ... Some Girls na Holy for Home and Chrisla for Away ... All this Aunties no go put us for Trouble with dem Desperations

meedoLock:
Lol. Thanks anyway, I never said she's not wifey materials. But you know the saying that first impression matter most. I think she expected too much, and I don't currently fit in yet. I had to withdraw inorder not to bring about inevitable disappointment.

You don't have to Withdraw Suddenly Bro, Tell her Your Own as she told You Her Own ...

One thing I love about Nigerian Girls is that there are never scared of Telling You their Mindsets Financially and A Nigerian Man should also not be Scared of Telling them His Mindsets Financially!

Most Nigerian Dudes ain't Rich for No Reason, Our Women go Push You no matter the Inflation that's why Women from Other Spheres Appreciate Nigerian Men Better Because Men of Other Spheres are Bunch of Lazy Nyansh and They are Mostly Jealous of Nigerian Men !

Anywhere Behind Successful Nigerian Men are Nigerian Women who Keep Pushing Us to Be Better Man or No Show ....

Nigerian Men still the Best Men in Africa albeit the World and We have to owe it Up to Our Women from South to North all of them Na the Same thing , Tell Nigerian Women in the Night You no Have Money She go still Demand same Money from You Early Morning ... Wetin Sweet Reach that One .. Shey Na Midnight I Hustle ...

Nigerian Men no Suppose Vex Aswear, Na help dem dey Help Us ... Why You go Poor as a Man in the Midst of Affluence, If Your Woman no Push You Na Who Will ....

Why Other Women Husband/Boyfriend dey ride Muscle, She wan Make Her Own too Dey Ride Venza Nobody dey Oppress Anybody as Your Man get Na ihm My Man Get ... That's Our Culture! .. Our Culture is a Money Oriented Culture from Family to Society ... Na who get Money Get Respect !

..Therefore, She no dey Ask Much ooo ... Na Competitions with Other Sweet Women dey make am dey Push You so that She can Use you do Shakara for Other Women and Men ... "If You see My Man Chaiiiii" ....

Get Money and Brain .. She will worship You and You don't even need to Ask ... she knows Her Role But Be Poor .. She will Spit On You because This is Nigeria ... Other Women would be making fun of her

So Nigga, Kindly go top Your Hustles and Make Mullah ... Na dem go dey follow You ...!

Our Women always Conduct Poverty Index and Analysis On Our Men ... no be their Fault .. Nigerian Poverty can turn Your Brain from front to Back .... and

A sane Nigerian woman would Test Your Financial Muscle and have to calculate Her Past, Present and Future and if she has Horrible Past from Dyfuctional Family which is Most Nigerian Homes as a Result of Promiscuity of Nigerian Men beyond Financial Thresholds, Trust me, You would be dealing with Mentally Unstable Person ...

No be Her Fault That's What the Country has Made Most Home to Be and the Backwash is Mostly Suffered by Our Women ...

No vex ... That's how Our Culture Be since the time of our Forefathers and Ancestors Na ihm Rich Men dey Collect Women of Poor Men! ...

Akwaokukuo:
Na waoooo, I'm scared with all the comments I get from this thread.
Does it mean that there is no good girl in Nigeria who won't change and abandon one when she goes abroad?

Don't judge your life by other People's experiences. Keep dating and Examining your relationship and if the green button is good then go on with your plan.

Simply be Real

your partner especially women can't hide for long, She will show her true colour very Soon because Everyone looseguard eventually ...

No one is completely perfect thus your maturity is all that matters !

1Sharon:
Could this be another thread created just to cause civil unrest and gender wars?

Anyways,


What do you mean you plan to send her abroad?

If she's a doctor she doesn't need you to send her abroad.

The UK welcomes highly trained professionals with open arms, it's what they need right now.

Why can't you just contribute without being Hypersensitive ... Nairaland has already damaged some of You so Good

Online forum turning someone much more upside down than normal street .... Imaginary people ooo ... Folks You wouldn't roll with Ordinarily in the street .... Make we no dey think too much sha ..

HellVictorinho6:
How can I find when I don't have the mental capacity to process why you are saying these things?

Your Problem is You are Processing too many things at Once and You are Basically living in the Future as well as Dream Lands not Here ....Come back to Your Present Reality and Live within Your Environment and Your Means!

Things are Expensive nowadays and Income is still stagnant or not forthcoming .... Find a Job that can give you daily or Weekly income then Use all the Money to Eat Good Food and Buy Good Clothes ... That should increase your Dopamine above Suicide Level that's if you ain't suffering Bacteria/Fungal Infection in the Brain if you do ... Go for treatment!

The Reason for Hyper Depressions is when the Dopamine Source of the Brain is very Limited.

Your source of Happiness is very Low and Few to None ... The Brain can Exterminate Herself ... The brain function well where there is balance between all Hormones, any Excesses is a problem beyond Mental Managements!

Also, Stop Hyper Processing Life or Yourself...
It's the Beginning of Self Extermination ...

You ain't the one that Created Life and You won't be the one to End it ....

If all the People or Humanity decided to End life today, Life would still Resurrect Tomorrow by newest and better specie of Humanities


Thus Simply do Your own and get da fvck out when it's time!


Live like a Human not Machine ..... Live within Your Boundaries and don't pokenose into what's Non of your business ... it is never easy at first but you gonna be OK!

Also, Nobody will fvcking roll with you if you are Aggressive and Hypersensitive ... Simply Live and Find Fun !

Use Money to Buy good Food and Eat, Eat, Eat and Put some good clothes then surround yourself with people that cracks jokes not people as mentally unstable as You!

But if You are doing all this to Scam people with Yahoo-Yahoo ... all this Pity Scamming Mechanisms...

That's another Madness on another level

Laslas, Be a Good Heart and No matter what, Universe will send a helper to Lift You Up !

But If you are Evil Hearted trust me ... You are who you Encounters !

HellVictorinho6:
Can you help me?

I'm not a Professional Psychotherapist But a "local Behavioural Scientist" ... What You need is a Professional Psychotherapist, Find One !

Eyinju112:
Were you told same lie too?

My Mother told me if I have Sexual intercourse I would Contact Obesity and she showed me an Obese Dude in my street that Dude usually Scare Me . . she said I would be like that dude if I have sex

I used to think most Obese are those that have had sex !

HellVictorinho6:
You mean sex outside hook up /olosho stuff.


Ask your dick why no pussy is saying hi everyday


You want to have it all

People like me are getting tired of having feelings.......dude, I have not had sex before.

When doctors say I must,I see it as a misfortune... that I must.

I was just born and I will just die.


Never means my parents are not human beings


It's just that a need may never be satisfied or addressed.


Am I to reset my brain in order to get a female partner?


I am not here to kill myself because of anybody

I can only think of formatting my head in order to forget as many verbal threats , accusations, condemnations, physical injuries and material deprivations as possible.


I think of listening to 2Pac or BIG rapping about competition and death

I battle thoughts of addictions.

I know drugs can wipe my memory off.


But I don't want to lose all of my mind.


In fact, the feelings towards a girl or woman also have to be destroyed unless they're valuable.

Still a reason to flash my skull.

Replace my brain storage with a lesser capacity

Enter another realm of the same Earth


Where am I?

You need to Pour out some Odd Fluids in Your Body that's become so Dark !

Even Engines must replaced Darkish Engine Oil that's been used and Re-Used for Fresh Engine Oil in order to Refresh The Engine and Health of the Machine !

Circulation of Same Old and Odd Engine Oil is a Percusor to the Death of the Machine !

You really need to expel some Fluids from Your Body and you need companion for real ..
Nevertheless, Your Companion is Gonna be a human thus Speak Human language and behave like Human not Machine !

You speaking Machine Language right now

Pojomojo:

There is nothing like 50-50, A Man should take Up his Home and Responsibilities 100% but of Course You would always be Helped By Your Significant Friend(s) if She/they are Truly Your Woman/Women if not You would Labour till Last Blood while dem go use You picks dem Nails

African-Man Talking Here, I'm not European!

Pojomojo:
Is it good for a man to request for a 50-50 in relationship?

As a man do you want a woman to bring 50+ to the table but don't expect them to be the NECK

Testosterone and Bigger Brain qualifies A Man to be the Lead Peradventure He is Using it anyway !

I'm the Chairman of the Home while she is the CEO of the Home while Our Kids are the Employees and we are all Stakeholders!

The Home must not Fail everyone should do their Job and Bring Glory Home !

harrend:
Guys can you marry or date a fine girl with high-class dressing standards, but can not speak english at all.
She speaks her native language and speaks pidgin moderately?

What is Classy about a Nigerian who can't speak our Lingua Franca .

That's a local Champion because she can't represent at Upper Echelon where "Class" is being Defined and English is the Classy Language of Communication But of course she is a Queen of her Nativity as far as Class is Concerned within Her Native Land !

What am I even Saying Self I love Chicken ... it makes Head turnioniown

dontrulee:
Not interested in relationship in 2023.
I want to focus on wealth and money making!

In 2022, I focus on relationship. Yeah, I think I dated close to 40 ladies if not more. There was a time I was dating 15 at once. It was all just for fun, to understand the female gender better and to explore. I have had my fill of that, I have loved and I have been loved back in return. I have knowledge and experience in relationship matters, now it's time to go for the bag.

Hiannnn ,

Kobojunkie:
Again, I didn't define your view or opinion.

Kobo ma Kpe mi Neeaw!

Kobojunkie:
I didn't here attempt to define anything for anyone. You did and I am simply pointing out that your normal does not impact that of others.

Your Definition of My view and Opinion is non of My Business

Kobojunkie:
Your private delusion does not define normal for everyone else but you.

Your psychotic Wildness doesn't defines normal for Everyone else but You!

Kobojunkie:
not everyone does!

Not everyone is Normal so such is understandable!

Kobojunkie:
As I already explained, companionship comes in various forms that are not of the sexual kind.

Iwo Lomo ... Most Human also Need Sexual Companionship!