₦airaland Forum

ibkayee:
. I’ll zoom in on Nigerians instead of just saying Africans, Nigerians 1st/2nd gens tend stick to their own compared to Jamaicans, both men and women. But of course, out of both genders the man is more likely to date out than the woman

Upon all the Banters and Insults as well as Everything...

Most Nigerian Women still Prefer Nigerian Men than Any Men in the World .... Most Nigerian Women are Highly Conservative with Spikes of Woke But She is Still a Nigerian !

The Ties is very Strong between our men and women even if we Abuse each other like tomorrow no go dey!

Thrombosis:
I need an advice from guys and ladies in UK, US and Canada.

What is the hope for persons like me who is a muslim and hoping to move to any of these countries in the nearest future as a practice as a Medical laboratory scientist.

Please I am not talking about the job aspect, but the religion and social aspect.
Thanks.

You will surely Adjust once you get adapted to your new environment!
Except You are extremist and you will feel left out abandoned lonely with Consequential Depressions!

SIRTee15:
People keep saying that WM don't fancy BM, but Europe is awashed with mixed race kids. UK alone has 2.5 million mixed race population with most of them having a Caribbean paternal gene. Have u seen the present English football team? Half of them are mixed race. NBA is almost turning from a sport of black men to mixed race men!
I think society isn't ready for this discussion but the truth is more WM are dating BM than we all ready to accept- both white and black community.
In another decade or 2 , every black and white family in UK will have a mixed race couple as relative. My nephew who grew up in London is dating an Irish girl and is determined to marry despite protest his mum!!! She even called me to talk to him.

African men tend to shy away from western WM for reason already explained by ibkyee and personally I wouldn't advise it unless you sure of what u about to get into. If it all u want to settle with a WM as an africanised black man, go for eastern European women. They are less into all the toxic feminism and has conservative values like African women.

My Happiness is just that the world is getting unified and In another Century Rascism wouldn't be existing anymore due to Most Humanities would have been mixed and we would all evolve as One Race "Human" !

The most Conservative Race wouldn't have options because they wouldn't be the Minority Race Fighting against Extinctions

Jagabanfromcali:
I wanked so much in my first two years in Chicago that I tot I would go blind, I wanked more than all the wanking i did in boarding house in my secondary school in Nigeria in the 90s , I used to go to Walmart off 47 red line just to see avaerage fat Akata girls who by then looks like royalty and movie stars to me , conji is a bastard but then I realize as u move up it starts trickle towards you, from the nursing school I started banging the RNs and then the emergency room physicians and when I became an RN and subsequently an NP my fork career exploded , my greetings goes to all those girls in lagos and Calabar who will bring the camera down a bit to their mons pubis, you are the MVPs

Odogwu ..
This things no go Far ...

Monies + Customised Vibes(Games) = Positive Response from Any Women !

gbassa:
Op is right. I remember my brother coming home from US for 3 weeks but ended up staying 2 months. He was just enjoying himself with Nigerian girls. He had a lot of party with our university runs girls. My dad had to beg him to return back to me US.

Someone used to Runs girl couldn't score in US where you will need more than Money to Woo ....

Those Naija girls don't need to be wooed the money already wooed them ....

Poverty made our Girls easier but Once a Naija guy escaped the poverty capital into Wealth Capital ... His Head can't can again because there is no game other than the money !

tensazangetsu20:
Yeah it's 198kg not 198 pounds. 198kg.

98kg de ... That's close to four Bag of Rice ... U dey Mad ni

Omooba77:
How Mighty is the Almighty God?

The Almighty Good-God of the Universes and Everything Therein is the Supreme-Absolute Inexplicable Immaculate Force and Power Behind the Universes and Everything Therein.

Where it all Begins and Where it shall all Ends and Where it shall all Restart!

xandy84:
You can't make anyone millionaire except they want to be. Infact, you can't make anyone anything except they choose to be, but you can be of help if they want to be millionaire. I had given sister thousand $$ to start business, when she is little broke, she sold the business and moved on.
I have come to realize people only do what they wanna do. Establishing business for someone will be a waste of time and money if all they ever wanted is money to flex and come beg the next day.

Aswear ! ... Anybody wey ask me money now na I broke oo ... Once I sponsor your School e yaff finish niyen!

Education and Knowledges clears Nonsense not Monies! ....

If you get Monies but no Brain you go become beggar !

Hendrixky:
Not easy


But the quickest way to become a Billionaire is to ensure you make your relatives especially your siblings a millionaire first

Only people with deep sense and critical thinkers will understand my statement above

Aswear ... Mine is to give you education Once You Graduate and I help you find Job or Businesses... I'm Out, I hope Nature leads you in the rest of the Journeys for I'm Out Niyen!

habsydiamond:
Na so.. but some no dey satisfy no matter how hard, longer u try dem still no go belleful.

Such Person has a Hole in their Mental Faculty like Well Water .... When Would you finish filling Well Water ?

Fill the Hole which is usually caused by Emotional Trauma and The Pvssy get Easily Filled

peepydelano:
No wife(woman) can be happy without good sex

Sexual Intercourse is Therapeutic as it cleanses Body-Systems of Toxins and Exhausts(Body-Carbons) and Makes all the Cells Blooms Refreshingly!

What a Great Medicine!

nickxtra:
See aht this guy wrote on Twitters-
He said each time he gives good doses of intimacy to his wife, she becomes so gentle, calm and adores him and her usual aggressive disposition to him most times gives way to smiling nature in even the face of provocation.

Is intimacy a medicine to troubleshoot a nagging or trouble some woman?

Yeah especially for Fire Women ... They are super aggressive and Once You are the Source of their Dopamine and Oxytocin...

She becomes Your Sheepopotamous and Worships You with Everything she has !

chatinent:
I feel her pain.

Religion today is not helping matters. It, in fact, will make you poorer. And when you get poor, you will start noticing the unfair treatment you'll be given in the same religion because you are poor.

To me, religion is business.

Follow God via the Prophets of God not Men of God !

I don't follow any Man of God But Prophets of God ... E.g Follow King Solomon instead of Apostle Suleiman.....

I Follow Prophet Mohammed Myself not One Imam and Mukaddam ....

I Absolutely Follow God(Good) not any Modafvcker who will scam You once you become a Sheepopotamous .....

God is not the problem Neither is Religion But Many Men of God who will Lure you into Believing in them as if they really cared then Brainwashed your Brain into Higher level of Spiritualism where you see Scam Demonics as a result of many Concoctions and Powders Drugs induced Hallucinations agents then You will be given the antidote only for the Men of God to Scam you of all your life savings and Enslave You Forever!

I Conduct Charities through Men of God or enter Street Myself ...

The God I serve is Almighty Good-God of the Universes and Everything Therein and I serve "IT" My own way via Philosophies of Peacefulness and Good Characters to the extent of My Prowesses and Potentials and with My Own Flaws and Loopholes and With Absolutely no Extremism!

Shalashaska:
He gave up most of his access to that wealth when he exiled himself... I can't blame him for that though, his wife wasn't welcome in the family really. I just hope they don't kill him. He knows way too much.

If they killed him that would have been his fault. If you don't like an institution then get out and move da fuq On but Don't Condemn people's life long Achievements simply because of one or two disagreement!

If not because of his mother's shady death .. He would have been downed teytey before Wrecking one of the oldest institution in the world aground !

They are already on him though !

Naofumi:
My uncle is 35 year old but getting married this year, he already took care of introduction and engagement.
He was dating 2 or probably more girls. But I only know of 2 and am sure he's getting married to one of them.
Now yesterday I visited him, and he said I should pray for him cause the other girl (not the one he's going to marry) keep cursing him, saying Alot of negative things about him and so on.
He said he knows she'll calm down and withdraw all what she said but I don't think that's Ok.
I didn't know what to tell him apart from saying I'll put him and her in prayers.

Please have anyone here experience such? How did you solve the problem?

Make ihm marry dem both na if he is capable!

Yusufisraelj:
What makes a good girl in your opinion?

A Good Girl is a Matured Girl who Understands Her Worlds and Responded Adequately to the Requirements to Making a Success out of it without Wrecking Others !

omoplaycool:
There's a big fire on the mountain and people can't say they don't notice ..Lately I realised the society is full of damaged people (including celebrities) moving about seeking who to damage too and the circle keeps expanding.
In my opinion, I think you shouldn't habr any business dating until you fix yourself. You might hurt a good girl today and she in turn hurts a good guy tomo who later think "hurting " others is okay.

Once the Economy is Harsh and Means of Sustenance is Harsh .... Expect More Damaged People ....

The More the Struggle for Economic Viability the More the Struggle to Maintain Optimum Family and the More the Struggle to Maintain Sane Society !

IyaTola:
Where did you grow up?

On Nigerian Street !

bepositive11:
I know. It's different for men and women

Men can detach emotions from sex but most women cannot

The man easily loses interest if it was lust not love. But the woman develops stronger emotions either way. If the man loved the woman, he won't lose interest after sex

Lol How Could She ....
You don't poke the internal organ of someone for Minutes or Hours with Different sex styles on different rhythms on a Heavenly Journeys then You expected her to forget you in a Jiffy .... .. .... !

Tye Emotions go strong Gan no be small !

Westernequinox:
Let me help you diagnose your condition, you see That is what emptiness does to a man, since you have taken the liberty to take what is meant to be sacred to fufill the cravings of your fallen heart, Most of the feelings stem generally whenever you have fornicated with the girls, their value depreciate when your lust is fufilled.

For by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a piece of bread: and the adulteress will hunt for the precious life

See, The same thing Might happen to someone who has never had Relationships before or inexperienced.....

You may not be able to Handle a Man or Your Woman ... that's why you see Runz girls can easily marry better guy while the Sister Holy Holy and Brother Holy Holy would keep having relationship Problems to be settled by Mummy GO ... The Reverse could also be the Case either ways ...

The Most Important is having Maturities and Understanding of this world and Your Nature such that when You go Astray You can find yourself Back to Normalcy Because Once addiction sets You are in Fix ....

Anybody can go astray because asking people to maintain straight Course could be a Mental Problem in itself ... You can't be God that's the Only Perfection and the only force whom we all correct ourself Upon

The Mind operates like Superglue Once You Develop Neuro Paths for Strings of Characters to reverse that Paths is a Job which You might not be able to do Yourself ...It's like Root Beneath a Tree the stronger your addiction is the stronger the Neuropath which would be affecting other motor functions and aspects of your life !


You would need Help and Many Religionists are not helping because most of them are senseless in themselves ... There is different between Sorcery and Sciences !

Science would show Bacteria infection:

Sorcery seen in Vision would show Demonic Bodies ....

Who slaughters Goat to Kill Malaria Parasites

The Fact is that Once You are in Disequilibrium with Nature and Your Nature ...... You are bound to have issues ...

All Human and Creations are in Disequilibrium... The extent from the Center is what Differs!

Nature Abhors Extremism whether Good or Bad...

Be Moderate and Matured !

LilMissFavvy:
Stop all relationships and stay single, maybe in old age you will see the need to marry and have one or two children. By then marriage/relationship will be meaningful to you, stop playing with the heart of ladies. After all if they tell you it might be a spiritual problem, you will say there is nothing like spiritual problem.

Replace the word Spiritual Problem with Psychological Disorder or Mental Issues and You ma self go dey OK!

Tejumola856:
I was diagnosed with a deadly disease


Typing…

I was emotional, as I was typing this episode, i wish not to remember my past. It might take me a day to update this story.

GenGen .. Ghen ... that's why Forbidden fruits is Meant for Adult not kid !

May it be Lesson and not a death sentence, Amen !

This is gonna be educating !

JustANairlander:
I hv no issue whether ur story is real or nt. Bt as far as i'm concerned. I won't count this story of yours as educational or enlightening. It's purely erotic

Some of you are just Something else ...

What's Educational and What's Enlightenments

This story would teach some people how to have sex and what not to do ...

OK He went to promise Bisola Marriage just to enter into her vagina ... Why would a sane Man Promises a girl Marriage because he wants to have sex with her ... That's HellHole number 1 ... Rukayat wouldn't be a Problem but if Bisola should gree that would be his undoing once the agreement is Breached ...

You guys only read what you wanna read and that's why despite many Knowledges available to Africans na d one wey dem write inside book be our problem

Abeg Get-out, Holier than Thou wey dey make una lose una homes and Marriage...

Learn sex education and life education join

Tejumola856:
This is one of the reason why people don’t share their story here, imagine this dvmb person comparing his body to mine.

3 rounds from night till early morning is too much? You must be a weak man

You must be stu9id to think I’ll waste my time telling lie to the platform that won’t pay me.


I’m writing this story to change people’s mind/perspective from fornication.

Devoted Muslim and You Lose it this Easily ... ... Oya no Vex .. I wan learn from your experiences!

ravensckar:
This guy dey whyne us sha.

For a first timer to go three rounds of se.x. Haba? No be all of us still dey chop CHEESE BALL nau. Some of us don get grey hair.

Let use my own first experience as an example, the moment I inserted my rod, in less than 30 seconds I started screaming that I want 'Piss'. Before babe could blink her eyelid, I don piss full everywhere. And after I piss finish, my Rod of Moses remained bowed.

I know you're lying sha, but I dey enjoy your lies. Come finish the story biko.

But He ain't You and All first Timer ain't Suppose have your experience......

During my first time ... I lost erection before the act ... on Another Ocasion ... I was just firing Nonstop...

I have had simulation education from many movies and Sites and I have a view of how i want mine to be ... bam when the time comes I was acting the script in my head ....

She never believe it was my first time .. I seem like pro for a Bookworm !

rickleye:
Why should I when it benefits me ? Do you know how many women’s guards are down when you can make them laugh ? I know my worth and once they get to know me - would know this dude is a prince in pauper clothes !

Dem dey tell you and you still dey argue ... Born Stubborn ... ....

rickleye:
Dude you're my hero for your backbone.
There was a lady - a damsel i met at the supermarket in Magodo in October 9th. I couldn't fathom the confidence to say hello. I am still not over the lost chance to date her.
For you, bounce back and ask the next lady. If she looks you up and down - Just say[b] " I know I am not up to your standard[/b] but can you tell me why not ? " I just wanted to say - you look like an angel. You must have fallen from the skies cause you shine like the stars at night.

The Bolded is Danger ... Never-Ever Lower Yourself before a Woman Never!

Just Approach and Vibe as Simple as Possible ..

Hello, I'm Roxy ... I was Sitting in that area and saw you walking in ... You have a gorgeous steps that's intriguing ... I couldn't resist than to Approach and get to know you ... I'm an Accountant by the way ... What do You do ?
And what's the beautiful name ?

Wow, We are gonna make a very interesting Friends and I'm actually a Lil bit in a Fixed , Just punch in your Digits here, We'll talk better Right .. We are going to be Fun Trust me !

yrhuhfy113:
You are so RIGHT....

but pls REMOVE YOUR SHADES.... see clearly


IT IS THE STEWPID BOYS WHO ARE BAGGING THE MONEY, BUYING THE BENZ, ETC

That is how it all came to this.

HARD WORK DOESN'T PAY AS MUCH AS QUICK SOFT WORK ANYDAY...


We are talking about the degraded decadence in the society....

Even the hard working men still find a broke poor lady as side chicks.... konjiii is no respecter of person.


When money is made, especially when it is beyond your imagination.... THEN YOU WILL KNOW MONEY HAS ITS OWN MIND..... you will begin to desire things you never taught you could afford before... the guy paying millions for a lady, is because the lady is already a MILLIONAIRE and only something of that level can make her reason with you.

Confident POOR men are mentally sound and it is GOOD, but when money yabs them, when they loose the LOVE OF THEIR LIFE to a STEWPIDLY RICH GUY.... they get BOLD ENOUGH TO GO FOR SPIRITUAL HELP TO MAKE MONEY... simple.

MAN'S NEEDS ARE INSATIABLE.... I spoke on a generic note sir.... MONEY BOOSTS CONFIDENCE.... if a person came from a poor lineage, suffered insults, shame,etc.. .it is HARD to be confident over NOTHING.

MONEY, POSITIONAL STATUS, GREAT IN SEX, gives boosted confidence to anyone. Simple. Confidence can not be manufactured from thin air.

See Bro, Some Dudes still have sex with all these Big Gals without spending Kobo .... All Na Games ....

I learnt Confidence approaching Girls during My Sapa Days and With Monies I still Gallant without throwing Monies around ....

In the Case of the Op, He is an Introvert, He Lacks Games to Woo Nigerian Girls, To woo His Fellow Country Women ... This is not about Fvcking Pvssy But Approaching the Opposite Gender and Making Your Intentions Known ... His Heart is Racing ... He is a Sissy .... He needed to be insulted to become a Man .. Like a Soldier would needed to be Roughhandled and Malhandled to become a Warrior ..... He needed the Wraths of Nigerian Women ... The Best Trainings a Man Could get is to Approach Nigerian Women with Poverty ... You will become Rich even if no body ever recorded richness in your life !

A Soldier who bribe his ways through Trainings would die in War because some girls at some strata in life are Men-wreckers But if You are a Gamer ... You can't be Gamed .... It happened to My Boss .... To toast a woman na from $100 ... Imagine ... Dem go still Chop ihm money Once Sapa pops, All of dem flies ... he was depressed and demoralised.... Imagine ! ... Gamers are Collecting Monies from these Girls

Op needs to Man Up and Face his Fears.... He needs to Develop His Games and Speeches... not trying to make Monies speak for his Lazy Ass.. that's a Lazy Ass Man .... Of Course he would be rejected just like a Novice ... a pupil in primary school trying to write A, B, C ... He learns and make up ...

He Was just trying to Face People as Introvert ... Make his Heart beat less simply because you wanna talk to a girl and represent his choice .... who uses Monies to do that

With much Practices he become a Pro ... then with Monies everything become easier ....

Nevertheless, He would have learnt the game not just throwing Monies around till those leeches make him become Broke ass Nigga going back to where his Ancestors started from !

A Soldier is a Soldier with his Mentality ... Now give him a Good Gadgets and Top Guns ... He become a Warrior and Conqueror... !

Op is trying to become a Soldier ... He wants to Conquer his Fears, He wants to Approach Women without having a Racing Heart ... Imagine having Your Heart Beats 100beats per Minutes because You wanna talk to a Woman .. Na lion You wan Kill ... Now if he wants to Kill a Lion, What will now Happen ... He would have died before the Lion Roars !

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Op, Don't wait till you are Rich Before You cleared your mental block of Women Phobia .... The Game is to Cleanse Your Brain of Mental Blocks Inhibiting you from facing herculean Tasks ... Nigerian Girls are the Best in Training Poor Men to Face their Fears and Become Rich ...

You needed the Training and Maturities now because Once You Blow, You are off Nigerian Girls Hooks, Trainings and Maturities...... Because She would have already toasted herself for You even before You approach then You gain Nothing than Pvssy .... You need to Gain a Man ... Boldness, Confidence ... Command ... Mental Fitness in the Face of Nothing .... Like a Soldier without Guns could still disrupt a Street because He has been trained to Do So.... To Face his Fears or Die !

She will Play you for Your Monies which you might throw away stupidly because your Mental faculty has not been cleared of Emotional Stupidities and Combating Your Fears ... you would be using Monies to Combat your Fears instead of Using Your Head and Warn Your Heart not to be falling Stupid anyhow ..... Fear of Rejection would make you spend stupidly !

Toast as much as Ten(10) in a Day just for Training and Maturities Purposes .. Learn From Your Mistakes and Improves on the Games ... Your Heart will Race, Your Brain will tell you to Stop because you are Molesting Yourself But Don't... Don't Stop ... Train those Organs to Face their Fears ... Win or No Win ... You have tried and Stepped Up ... Till You become a Man !

If all the Ten Misbehaves ... Delete all their Numbers and Go out there to find another Ten ... Learn you past mistakes and improve


At all, at all ... You should reward yourself that You Stand Up as a Man and Face Your Fears even if You don't Win ... You would be rewarded with "You Face your Fears" ... Like that You would be Cleansing the Mental Fogs and Blocks Inhibiting You from approaching difficult tasks in Life because Nothing Trains Better than Nigerian Girls ....

Once You feel Your Confidence level and Boldness has Popped Up and Your Introversion as well as Fears as Eased Out ... Leave the Street Games for the Street then Go Posh .... You already Conquer your Fears !

If You are Trained By Nigerian Girls, No Girl anywhere in the world would become difficult to You Again and Possibly Nothing is much Difficult again even Money Making would become Easier after you Ancestors would have been washed through You

Nigerian Girls are the Most Taskier Girls you could ask out in the World .... Yahoo Boys have Spoilt the Market .... The Newer the Generations the Harder they are ... Even Secondary Boys are Flexing Secondary Girls like Craze and You dey there with .. Hiiaannn !

You dont Blame our Girls, She wants the best for herself in the Midst of Plenty

If not for Our Ladies, Our Men wouldn't have been worldly rated in Romance and We wouldn't be Headquarter of Romance Scam ...

The Words You used to toast Nigerian Girls wey she go still no gree for You if You use am on any African or Oyinbo Girl, She go sell her papa house and Dash You herself Join

Depressed and Frustrated Girls everywhere.. na Money and Sweet mouth dey open pants nowadays .... To Collect Number is easy without Money But to Open Pant is another Games Entirely ....You might not even give her One Naira But simply because the breeze of Money is blowing to her from You and She could use you shine before her friends as her Boo ... She is flooded for You

No blame dem, Nature didn't Create women to come suffer ... they have bigger jobs and they need joy .... But You need to be a Man while Monies would be used for Charisma ...

You can still be a stupid Man who would Wreck himself with women because he dey fear rejection!

linearity:
Bros, you still don’t get the full nuggets @yrhuhfy113 gave you up there!

It is the poor and those who do not have direction in life that look for confidence to approach ladies.

When you have money and direction, ladies will be the ones to approach you, they will look for confidence to approach you. Ladies have this superior God given sense to sniff out a guy with money or purposeful direction in life and they will chase after you.

So stop building that confidence, you are wasting precious efforts on a worthless endeavor, redirect that effort and energy to building yourself and net worth, then thank me later.

The Bolded is a Lie Abeg:
That's the reason why Many Poor Brats are wrecked once they make it because they don't have the confidence to speak with women without throwing monies around ...

Like Nedu Wazobia said His Friend spent 3M to ask a former BBnaija for sex and another close to 4M after the sex .... imagine Someone spending N7M simply to Access another person's Honey Pot ...

If such a girl later go broke in Life Na depression go kill am .....

Have as much confidence, Boldness, Command, Madness when You are Poor and You won't throw Your Wealths away when You are Rich .... But Be Stewpid when You are Poor and You would be Much Stewpid as a Rich Man because Money Makes a Man More Foolish than Necessary!

I doubt a Sane Business Man would churn 7M to Fvck Except Someone born into Riches or Someone from Humble Background without Games !

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

You are inexperienced like anything you become a pro as you engage more !