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busomma:
It looks like to be a complete celebrity in Nigeria, u hv to be divorced.

It's not easy Managing Showbiz and Home ... there is only extent Human Brain can Manage .... too much of Anything leads to Failure in Other aspects ...

If you are too committed to an Endeavour and the Gbasgbos that comes with it then You would be less committed to other Endeavours and the wahala that comes with it ...

You wanna satisfies the public at the same time satisfies your personal home ... Except Someone with Bigger Brains ... One go Surely Crash !

Elidrisy20:
These ppl just dey copy oyinbo lifestyle

Welcome to Globalisation and CopyCopy is allowed !

Enough of Incarceration of Woman anywhere in the world anyway ... Man needs to go extra miles nowadays to Man their Woman because Day has Break for Everybody ...

The Era of White lies to Women is Gone ... Everyone Don tear eyes now ... Man needs to set the space again if not ... Man go become Woman in no time

AgroDoctor:
Take it or leave it...

If you marry in the wil of God, I mean you marry the man/woman that God has chosen for you, you both will not divorce no matter the challenge.

People go into marriages leaving God aside. They run after fame, money, physical appearances, status and the likes. After some years, reality will set in and water will find its level.

There are 2 types of life partners.

1. The one God has chosen for you through His will. You get this by praying, fasting, and seeking His face. Here you don't bring any material thing forward. God comes first here. He knows you need the good things of life and because you put Him first, He will then give you the things you didnt ask for to make your marriage enjoyable until death separates you both.

2. The second type of life partner is the one you chose for yourself. Many people do this and later want God to make the person better when they see the true color of the person. But God doesn't work that way. It will fail. Na divorce go end am.

For the Second Part is a Lie .... The World has been Imbalance since year 0 and God is the only reason why The World is these Sane But Only to the Extent of Our Reasonableness ....

Even if You make the wrong Choice as a Wrong Man or Woman Both couples Can Make Each Other Right By Correcting themselves to God not to Each Other or Court

When we Lose Control of Ourselves Beyond Normalcy and Once Adaptations sets in Only God can take Such Person Back to Normalcy:

But We Present Dispensation are so Arrogant infact Not Many Even Believe Omniscient Abounded in Us that all we need to do is to Knock and God's Door shall be Opened Ajar for us !

My Own God is a Scientist not Spiritual Abracadabra anyway thus Any Couples whose wahala has gone beyond Therapy and Prayers should kukuma divorce each Other before person pikin kills person pikin !

If he/she is no more relevant to You He/she shall be relevant to his/her Families and societies one way or the Other!

karnafiu03:
Women of today have forgotten that a house can not have two leaders and be peaceful. One person must be a leader and one must be a follower. They always want to have a say but never want to share responsibilities. Marriage will hardly crash if women can submit to their (responsible) husbands and follow him as he is the commanding officer of the house, else marriage shall continue to crash!.

The total submission and patient of our mothers is the reason why marriages hardly crash in those days. Our mothers see divorce as a very shameful thing and thus submit to our fathers. Women of today want to be the husband, they want equal right but run from equal responsibilities.

This is a Whole Bunch of Odd Posts in One Piece ...

You can't command total submission, You earn it with More Powers .... If you can't don't blame the one who couldn't totally submit but you that can't earn it !

dawnomike:
It is now as though only Messi won this world cup not the team... All eyes and talks on Messi.

Leadership is key to Everything, He wasn't just the Captain and the driving Force ...

Messi is Football !

Niftkid:
Na dem dey live long pass, men no dey last like that ..

Men no dey stay for one place and as a Provider wey sabi ihm onion you go Life long ...

Check Obasanjo ✔... Baba dey Ment wellwell and he lived long !

toujurs:
Oh True i believe this.

High Bp, honestly.

Na so Bro !

toujurs:
What is this one saying kpansh, how?

Entitled over, Hi! My point is i can't tip someone that would act like he or she doesn't know the next day. It's immaturity.

If you behave immature as a guy or lady, i can't regard such person

Oga, I'm on Your Side ... a Dude could do the same ...

Best is to give out of Heart and Move On....

Expecting People to acknowledge You or being frustrated because people don't appreciate you is the beginning of High BP .... Even Family Members could do the same ....

Some can even outright denied you ever helped them before ... Even Your Wife could do same !

Many people are not mentally Balanced and Upright trust me, if you are close to her and hear her story you might wanna gift her More ..

Just do You and Move On !

toujurs:
I have encountered a similar experience as this, most ladies have a very silly and annoying behavior.

I was at a lounge, and was attended to by a lady, after spending time with a friend, i requested for my bill, and i paid, and even tipped the female attendant1k o!

Another day passed by, i was close by, so i decided to visit same lounge, to my surprise that same lady who attended to me the last time was in the same elevator, as i entered, the mumu threw away her face like she doesn't even know who i was, someone i had a little conversation with, before i gave her my card for the debit. .. she should be in her early thirties. She can't even greet, or say Hi how are you doing atleast.

There was a time i visited another lounge, and it was a young man that attended to me, after the whole service i tipped him 5H, days passed by and i was close by and visited the same place, immediately he say me, he greeted me "Hey Boss" how you dey naw. And i answered him.

Hence forth, it's only guys i will be tipping.

and the Day a Dude do same to you ... Will You Kpansh

No dey get entitlement mentality to avoid see finish... just do you and Move away

Oracleee:
Some of this ladies will see the red flag but still dive head first. Serves them right. I met this corper girl of recent, pretty and all and we got talking. Was travelling to the east a while after and I even gave aunty the option of joining me. She refutted and was begging this guy to come see her and spend time with her. Dude kept telling her he his done but omo mehn see begging. Left that minute with the little pride I have left and a day or so after after dude came to pick her, used her and dumped her back home, aunty was callinga week after to ask if the offer still stand. Las Las I helped her with 10k for transport. I just keep thinking why the hell will a lady see obvious red flags and still continue waking the devil.

This can happen to anybody not just ladies ... It's just Life ...

Head wey go Chop Knock if e tie Gele or Cap e go comot am ....

Life is meant to teach us wisdom ... Until the silly become wise Life go dey knack you for ground anyhow ....

Jennyclay:
The guy is simply wicked. Infact just take the whole 24 hours a day to fear men. if I were to be in her shoes, I would've poured him acid if I ever cross path with him.

Karma is a bitch. What goes around comes around. Same fate will befall his daughters.

Una go dey run everything with Emotions not Reasonableness....

What if what the dude did was a way Karma paid that girl for Attrocities she has Once committed and Karma Is now Satisfied and Equation has Balanced Once the Dude Apologised to Karma

No dey hot anyhow ontop tatafo again

yomi007k:
Op you did the right thing.

You were honest and the business was successful. Please don't let people discourage or change your behaviour.

The only problem is that the woman was not honest and loyal. The rice seller too should have given you something for bringing customer for her.

Women can be mean in business.

Lol, Businesses and Honesty in 21st Century.... Even B2B have alot of Court Cases including B2G ....

Underhand is everywhere even in Church ... If You don't understand the reality of an Endeavour kukuma no enter there if not Na Hypertensions go wound you !

Offpointng:
Na you looseguard guy. In this type of marketing business, make sure your deal is with the seller not the buyer. You should have told the seller to be the one to add the #500 or even 1k sef herself and act like you're a Good Samaritan trying to connect them both together, and if you suspect you don't trust the seller, no connect both of them. at the end of the day, no winner no looser.

Dem no dey open up or come hands clean with the buyer in the marketing industry. Padi mi o need lati Soji

He can even chop from both side sef ... Just like land deal ...

UnfairLife7:
I met a woman online who's in need of rice for sale/supply and to give out as gift for the season. Though she's into the business, ncluding frozen foods, oil, pasta et al

I gave her the price while some other people do same. I was DM later in the day requesting for my contact showing interest. She claimed she needed 100 bags of 50kg rice. A bag of rice in my area cost 32k. I was being fair, honest and open to her. I told her I'd have to add #500 to each bag and she accepted

She seems happy and open to me probably for my honesty. She claimed a bag of rice is 40k where she reside and she's short of supply.

I gave her my contact and we took it up from there. I've met the person selling the rice in my area and I've discussed everything in details. At first the woman want her to supply the rice at payment after delivery but the person insisted claiming she hasn't done any business with her before. Besides, she doesn't know her, I was the one who met her online. She insisted the woman come down and see for herself the goods, make payment and go with it

I was on this business close to a week. At a point i didn't take the woman serious any longer. Though i still attend to her calls and chat

I was surprised when she called me around 7am last week that she's at the junction of my area. I've given her my address during our conversation, though not my house address

I directed her to the place and the both of us met there. I introduced her to the woman and they both exchanged contact. She promised to patronize her continually

To cut long story short and not to bore you guys. She bought 100 bags of 50kg rice and made payment. I observed her body movement and reaction and i was somewhat sceptical about her fulfilling our agreement. She was even saying in presence of the rice owner that i shouldn't worry claiming i was the one who connected her, she even went as far as making empty promises that I'd be getting a commission for every goods she'd order subsequently

Though she didn't go with the goods that very day as there was no bus available. The goods was delivered the following day. Ever since then, this woman had ghosted me. She stopped calling nor chatting with me. She literally kept me at arm length. I have been job hunting since April with no success. I am completely cash stripped that i hardly feed nor do data. I was hoping to get something out of the business so I'd be able to go out in search of job and probably support my siblings with something

I feel completely used by this woman and i have been so down and sick. I discussed with a friend and he suggested i let go

Some ladies do cry out on social media how men had used and dump them. Now i understand them. I honestly feel their pain

So sad

Learn your lesson, You no sabi do business...

You wanna be a Middleman be a Middle Man .... You already showed buyer to seller, a ressonable Businessman would cut you out Immediately and preferred to transact directly But the day Yawa gas between them they will invite You

You just got taught Business Intelligence 101:

jeromestarks:
I have said it before and I will say it again. Ladies who chase after men will find husbands to marry but those who play hard to get will watch their breasts and pvssy rot away before their eyes.


These days, men have realized that they're the trophy. If you ignore a guy, he will ignore you.
Gone are the days where men worship pvssies.


Golden advice to ladies:

If you see a guy you like, shoot your shot at him. Ask him out. Propose to him. And, MARRY HIM.
Isaiah 4:1 is coming to pass in the 21st century and you either key into it or you rot away.

Aswear Time has changed within our eyes ... !

tensazangetsu20:
Wait until you get job. Data go frustrate you, fuel go frustrate you. There's presently hot fuel scarcity and you can't even get fuel to buy lol. The black man was created in Satan's image. There's nothing anyone else can tell me

The Black Man needs Advancements in his Evolutions and He shall get there Gradually with time.

The Black Man has Witnessed Major Changes from Advanced Civilisations But Suffered Setbacks from Imperialism Nevertheless He will Get there and Match Other Super Civilisations as times Goes On into the Future.. Today is not like his yesterday and tomorrow will be better as Globalisation Trends On and All Races are Trabayed !

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Ridollahi:
I can relate, my current girlfriend prefer for me to work on her than actual penetration. Anytime I asked for sex, I must sweet talk, beg, and at times threatened her by giving her attitude before she will eventually give her consent and after we are done, she will look moody. The worst part of it was the excitement she always got when I use my finger or oral on her.
I am free to used my finger and mouth anyday anytime but once I make an attempt to penetrate , she will start super story. When and if I tried to retaliate by not responding to her touches, she will start masturbating .
She always defend herself with; babe you know I don't like sex, I will change, and this is someone I want to marry because I love her which I believe she loves me too.

Sex is Psychological and Emotional for Most Women because That's Someone Internal Organ You Wanna be Poking especially Women from Troubled Background as well as Over Ambitious Power/Career Oriented Women.....

You need to be Pscyhologic and Psychiatric before you can get into their Pants ...

But how many dudes have the patiences for such Commitments as if You are taking care of Emotional Damaged Personality that uses their own Wahala to Causes wahala for You as if you are the One responsible for their Wahala in the First Place ....

75% of Nigerian Girls no like Sexual Intercourse but the Monies and Caress that comes with it ... Because Most are Mentally Troubled....

You can't be a Nigerian and not be mentally Troubled... Nepa alone and the Street madness can make one mad ..

Mentally Troubled Man eases off the tension with Penetrative Sexual Intercourse while Mentally troubled woman simply want Concrete Solution to Her Problem While sex is Her last option except with a guy that can clear her Problem for Her But when the Solution to Her Problems is attached to Her Vagina she wouldn't have Choice but to Simply Open Portal and Bill Your Life even Scam You Join .....

Sex can't be Cheap in Nigeria until Nigeria become Better Country and Our Women no dey stress to become Beautiful ....

Women of Rich Countries are Frenzied Women that are no Match for their Men !

HolySpiritFire:
Op, If this your story is true, then it is truly finished!

I mean like how old are you? 15? 17? 18 years? Because I sincerely cannot place how a truly mature man/husband could bring a matter as intimate and personal as his and his partners sex life / affair to the public? I wonder what is left of the marriage to hold sacred. E be things oo! Please kindly pull down this post.

Ps: cc all guys, please be sure you're mature enough before venturing into marriage, e get why! Safe yourself from making a caricature of your own family/ marriage in public.
Ah ah!

Make una stop all this Holier than thou attitude ... Not everyone can handle stress when subjected to the Hot Plate .... Life no equal and finger no balance that's why Humanities is Loopsided ....

It's better he shared on anonymous forum than him going Mad and Crazy before person pikin kills another person pikin .....

Man it, Man it, Man it ... Until Person Die

Silence is the reason why many people fall into deep depression and commit suicide or kill their partners.....

E better make e talk am Out as Anonymous as Possible and Recieves Opinions from which he can select the ones to utilise and Ones to Dust....

Nevertheless, the only voice playing in his head wouldn't just be his own Voices because when the only voice you are hearing is your voice that's how to know your brain has gone Mad and Crazy ..... Anything Can happen to You or Anyone Living around such a Person!

See, there is much and extent any Brain can take before it looses it.... So Pour Out Your Frustrations and Let People Reason am for You as far as Anonymous No Qualms !

If you are subjected to Op situations and conditions, You might do worst than He has done ... Until then kindly rest .... Na Person wey wear d shoe sabi how e Tey dey pinch am!

The said woman could even be your co-worker or acquaintance and You wouldn't Know ..

Make una stop to dey silent people ... let dem pour out their Frustrations.... We Don't have same background, Experiences and Resiliences.....

I don't expect anyone to bear pressure as Everyone ... While Some are Reasonable Some are Emotional!

Thats Sense!

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GodHimself:
"So when you fully understand how Dread works and when to use it, you’re going to do you and her both a favor and enjoy a more sexual relationship."

When you’re dating someone who has no fear of losing you, that no matter what she does you’re going to stay just because you’ve promised, then she’s not going to genuinely respect you.

And when there’s no respect, there’s no attraction.

When there’s no attraction, there’s no loyalty.

Therefore, when there’s no fear of loss, there is no value in staying with you.

If she doesn’t value you and instead takes you for granted, she won’t look up to you, listen to you, desire you, and help you with your mission and goals in life.

At that point, it’s going to be a matter of time before she grows to be unhappy and sexually frustrated enough to wonder why she into a relationship with you in the first place.

https://www.bunchofwisdom.com/dread-game/

This is just some kinda hard work....

Person no go gimme breathing space because e dey fear to lose me ....

Why do you want to make someone fearful of losing you ... to keep the Fear Tab intact requires hardwork itself and some Disturbances to your own Peace of Mind ....

Abeg ... No need for Dread ... make I just live and enjoy myself .... while she enjoy herself too we go dey Fix the rest as journey Tey dey go !

SenatePresdo:
Hahaha, it's funny you wife has the Audacity to refuse you sex because of her masturbation addiction.

That's what happens to guys that refuses to put their women on their toes.

Op dey collect See Finish Wotowoto ... Frustrations is building ...

Oneitis dey craze !

fakum:
True. psychologically self. Imagine how fast she came when masturbating but if its our normal section(which i cant remember when last), i have to stay there much more longer to get her there

Start Masturbating her yourself .... You need Strategies to take such Sexual orientation away from her and replace it with Yours ... it's same as trying to change someone's behaviour......

She might be punishing you codedly and it happens when you Yourself is suffering from oneitis.....

Never-Ever show yourself finish to a woman, she might hang you for Wall as punishment!

Neptunium:
She must have masturbated a lot. Excessive female masturbation can damage the clit, g spot and affect the chances of having orgasm and basically overall pleasure that comes with dic penetration.

She already Masturbated the Sexual Hormones and Saturations Hormone has taken Over so No matter what the dude says or Do ... She can't feel Sexual anymore ....

This happens when you ain't communicating sex appropriately to Woman But Simply acting Sex Out .....

The actions Outside the bedroom is much more important than the actions inside the bedroom ... When She is satisfied Outside the bedroom, You do little work inside the bedroom!

Fiscus105:
In 10 yrs to come, sex outside relationship/marriage would have become norm, situation that husband will be aware that his wife is going out with other men/man and yet turn blind eyes on it just the way house wives have knowledge of their husbands now.

.....For now, I rate it, 50%, by them probably 95%.

.WE ARE AT THE TWILIGHT OF THE WORLD.

We are at the Base of Globalisation and All the Storms would soon Settle after The Civil Clash and the World will go Normal as One Single Humanity Under Good!

Blessedmercy8:
Such people are not worth being with. Cheating on someone simply means you don't regard or love them. So there's no point being around a cheat.

Someone who can not keep only one partner is loose and has no remedy.better to be single than be with a cheat.

e go clear for your eyes!

Fountainofyouth:
You got a girl through money, made her your girlfriend with money, iPhone, and a business, yet expect her not to keep doing anything for money?

She is not at fault, it is your stupidity that is at fault.

Ododo!

Once You allowed a woman to lead the relationship because of your immaturity trust me, Whatever You get laslas is your Fault !

See how Person write epistle over a girl in her fresh phase ...

Ghost Her a Face your Hustle!

Kriss216:
You don't have to remind a girl to appreciate your efforts. You only learn your lesson through her action and react accordingly.

Verdict He Fvcked Up and Was Overreactive ....

How many ladies You wan Confront in this Generation 1.5k Biscuits Kwa ....

Boys dey deliver cake worth 50k lol and small chops ...

Instagram Don scatter life finish

Majesty33:
Well, its all about destiny. U can fl;ex your life, buy clothes and carry women but sometimes u can make it minimal and still save and invest in the future.

the bottom line of everything here is that when u do every thing in excess, it always end in destruction.

That's All!
Whether Good or Bad!

pocohantas:
I always feel very sad when I see those old men and women doing such manual labour in the market or on the streets.

The worst part is, their kids that are supposed to help them have graduated and still no jobs. Now parents and kids are caught up in this web of poverty. Some have kids who claim they do not owe their parents shishi.

I looked at my own extended family and I noticed the uncles that were rich are still the ones doing well. The ones that were poor are still poor. Some have been fortunate to have kids that can at least give them monthly stipends. Asides that, it is the same cycle of Nigeria messing everyone up.

People with parents who have businesses and properties do not know how blessed they are. I honestly cannot imagine paying rent for my aged parents in 2022.

Mindsets and Mentalities is the difference between Riches and Poverties Bingo!

DisLifeSha:
I'm also a Type 1 Diabetic. This illness don minus from me since 12 years now. It's not easy. If am able to do my business, all aspects and areas of my life with ll be positively affected

May you receive Healings and Interventions by the Gracious Good-God, Amen!

toujurs:
i learnt my lesson, that moment.

Don't mind that Slowpoke. You did nothing wrong bro ... if you can't celebrate with your Bae na who you wan celebrate with ... There is no code to life bro ... just live with Loved ones and erase the bad ones ..... then enjoy yourself ...

If you no tell her, how she go unravel her weyrey before you till she comot Ya Hustles....