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pansophist:
I've always said it that generally, women have no problems with polygamy, they will rather share a wealthy man that be with an average man (eg a Uber driver).

Of course these are unintended consequences of hypergamy. Because if all women want the top men, then polygamy is the answer.

If you ask any woman if they want to share a man, the default answer is no, but by actions, polygamy is the destination. I'll give an example.

I was checking the data released by okcupid and tinder (these are mainstream dating sites), and their data shows that women only swipe yes 5% of the time, compare to men that swipes up to 50%.

So by default, these tiny percentage of men they swipe yes to have access to most women. They may think he is committed, but he is just passing them around. Few men have the self control to not exercise those options if they have it.

So the idea that a man have to go good, god fearing and listen to me, and respect me and all those crap are reserved for the few men they want, and not generally applicable. If you're a vulcaniser with this qualities, you'll be invisible to women.

Last last, humans are just animals. We are deceiving ourselves with religion and morality. Our operations are primordial, and we justify it with morality. If you're on top as a man, you'll see how shallow women are in their mate selection process.

Human are simply Animal who distinguishes themselves as Human simply due to Advanced evolution over other animals.

Simply Open the intestines of Other Mammals and most animals it's Same hardware as Human na Configuration might Differs!

Nevertheless, Religion Morality was the Basic Factor that Kickstarted Human Evolutionary Processes away from Animalistic World in order to shape and Advances our Sciences and Technologies because without some level of Discipline, Commitments and Concentrations, I doubt we would have achieved this level of advancement as Higher animals !

However, Many Scientific-Facts have been unraveled to debunk many Bogus claims from Religion Adherents but Adaptations is a very Complex Issues because Once Adaptations sets in to a Particular Philosophies Withdrawing such Philosophies from an Organisam becomes Difficult and I want to believe upheavals of Philosophies would lead to Hypnosis and gradual death of the Brain Cells !

Nevertheless, the Future is Sciences and Technologies Only and a time would come where Daddy GO would be arrested for Bogus Claims and Statements without Commensurate Facts Backing them Up !

That would herald next stages of Human Evolution into "Human Pro Max" and that Shall be "Gen Z Pro Max" ....

Women ain't Shallow, women are Women while Most Men ain't Man !

Divoc19:
I've never met a sensitive bro on NL
You are the first
Me like your way of reasoning

Dem Much Ooo, Haaa .. See as You Finish Me come Flattered me Join.. My Head dey swell O ... Thanks so Much ... You are as Sensible too !

Them never see anything.
They have insulted NIGERIAN MEN a lot. Meanwhile we are one of the BEST across the world. Which man remembers In-Laws in other parts of the world if not the Nigerian man.....

Make dem come AMERICA come talk In-Law.
Who send you for Europe? Some will marry your daughter and won't reach you through the phone for decades. But a Nigerian man will ensure he checks on you regularly.

I urge the NIGERIAN MEN to start desisting from marrying these women. Enough of dia insults.
Go for what makes you happy.
Other Tribes across the world are there.
Focus on East African women and leave my sisters in Nigeria alone to sort themselves out.
After all, they are now MEN too.

Download RELATIONSHIP APPs of Eastern & Southern Africans, and cleave to them. They treasure Nigerian men a lot.
Get their Apps. and start securing them.

mention the app now

Kobojunkie:
I am not the one who offered the argument that one sad single woman, therefore, meant all single women over 40 are sad... you are instead the one here who offered up that bullsheet here.

Human needs Companionship whether Man or Woman !

worldclass68:
I usually think the way u think before, until I met one woman like that...in her 40+ never been married and no kid, she has money and good work but walai she's not happy, it's so obvious hen.
I mistakenly called her aunty...... and she broke down...I was speechless all through, I just had to escape that scene...i no sabi beg or pet people to stop crying...it really got me that day.

Every Human needs Companionships Even Most Animals lives in Group !

Woke is Our Problem but With Time Once the Globalisation evolution is completed Everything shall become Normal!

Divoc19:
Following Sis...

Hiaaann, I'm a Bro

Fountainofyouth:
Hausa men are extremely good at cunninlingus.

Hmmm ... Is this from Experience or You Hear

Samantha123:
When girls are looking for guys with money and flashy cars, you guys complain, when they look for guys with no money, you still complain.

What is it that you Nigerian men want? And can't you and your girlfriend learn to mind your business?

Abegiii, Who dey mind dem business in this Country side for Dat kain Tatafo ....

My fine Neighbour dey fvck abo.ki wey dey knack Scissors Against one another you say make I mind my business ... If I hear ... I go Comot Eye oo but I go dey wonder dey smile for my Belle say Maka Chukwu Oginni na

Divoc19:
Cost-Benefit Analysis(CBA) and the Net Present Value Analysis(NPV)?
I need to relearn a lot.. thanks

Follow those analysis not Your Heart or Emotions ....

The Heart will create trouble for you today and still Regret it later by aching You ... Very stubborn Organ that usurp Brain's Power..

Heart is meant for pumping blood not thinking ... Brain is the Thinker and Once she is sensing redflags ... simply follow Ya Head not Chest even if the Heart no go wan gree ... ... The Heart Sabi Flood the brain with Emotions to Creating Confusions But If You sharp Wellwell .. You go Beat am !!

That's the reason why many people see the redflags but the Can't just Control themselves!

May God not Create us to Come Suffer oo, Amen

Zeal0000007:
thanks bro thats what I have in mind , my rent will be expiring by April next year, and I'm planning packing out to somewhere new, thanks for d advice bro

Pack go anywhere even inside Moon but with your weaknesses, 100 Naija girls will still repeat same treatment as your girl !

Zeal0000007:
madam power I hail u, it's your type that encourages men to hit women , women of ur type, so u fit get sense, but I'm aren't like that, pls if u have nothing to tangible to contribute next time just read the story and move on, u mustn't contribute thanks.

The girl talk Sense to Your Head and You are still weak for raising your voice Against Her Fact !

She gave you the best advice !

Zeal0000007:
baba na advice I needed especially now that I'm down, not to cast stones.

You love Her and She already trapped you in that Love Net thus You cant do without Her ... if you leave her na same you go cry go back to Her ....

What You need is Emotional Intelligence firstly to unlock and untrap yourself from Her Love Net ....

Women are more smart but men are more intelligent .. She already know she has trapped you the next is to be dominating and controlling You if you untrap yourself Her next game is gonna be "Pity me Game Emotional game she can even cry Self" to Lock You back into her "Emotional net" .....

I try as much as Possible not to fall into the "Emotional Trap" of any woman for either love or Care ... Just do my own and Move .... as far as I think I have given my Best I'm Okay and where necessary to Stamp Your Leg like a General of an Army kindly Do and let her whole Cells Knows You have spoken ...

She would Respect You as a Man instead of You being Her Son Presently .. That runs to Mummy because of Food !

You are Suffering from Oneitis

Zeal0000007:
Sometimes when we want to have sex , neighbours must hear us because of fight over sex, but she has her good side, she wasn't like this when we started. I'm really tire, God help me next year, cos I can't continue like this.

Only a Man Enjoys a Woman:
Go and Become a MAN and Your Woman/Women will respect You !

For now, You are a Boy!

gregyboy:
Stop writing about girls write something to help humanity

Girls girls everytime on this forum una nor dey tire

You're going to a new place you nor chat your fellow man na woman you see go chat all for what some possible shaggs in the future

Gay Spotted !

Girls are relaxant women are anti-depressant

You don't need drugs as a Man You are already OK if Done Moderately ...

Divoc19:
Yes. I use to think that was greed because Christ was selfless. I now know better

You guys are just Funny mehn ...
Na Christ You dey Date ...

Omo Mummy ... Dem go Scratch Ya Eye

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Pimine:
Thank you. I've been doing intense workouts: Calisthenics and weight lifting. I started weight training less than 2 weeks ago. I don't understand what you mean by "watch your level of oxygen intake." You mean I should ensure I breathe well, no?

Also, nasal sprays should clear up nasal congestions right? I'm asking because I've used nasal sprays with no result. Thanks.

What I mean is that Don't Over Exercise Yourself Once your oxygen intake is low as a result of Narrow Nasal Passage ....

Like One of your Nostril is blocked and One Open that's 50% Oxygen intake then You now Do Intense Exercise that requires 100% Oxygen intake gradually your Heart won't be receiving necessary oxygen from your lungs t9 Power your Muscles Needs with Oxygenated Bloods that's the beginning of Cardiac arrest in the Gym for Some also so Watch out for Dizziness! ... your Gentotype also play a Role .. AA shouldn't have much Issues because they have full disc of Red Blood Cells Ceteris Paribus while Other Gentotype should be Careful !

Also take Deep Breathe with Your nose like 5times at Intervals ... E.g. Close the Blocked Nose with your Index Finger and Take deep Breathe with the Opened Nose Exhales and Take another deep Breathe Exhales for like 5times straight .... Check Your Body Signals afterwards if you Sense better feelings ... then you have been running on lower oxygen intake ....

I no be Doctor ooo, na Accounting I did ... Na Experience I dey Use talk fa so You can take up my words with Your Doc for Clarifications and more Enlightenments!

May we grow to Old Age, Amen !!

jelel6:
Reading this, you'll realise the majority of people who call others narcissists don't know shitt about what they're talking about.

Once you are a jealous type and Selfish that's how Narcissistic Behaviours Evolve till Toxic Narcissism then Wickedness and Blatant Evil !

Everything Narcissism all starts with Jealousy/Envy that's Uncontrolled!

ikorodureporta:
Me na language/culture barrier I fear pass... Just imagine me marrying a white chick... Na how we go dey do things everyday I still dey wonder... But I still dey talk am say that womanizing wey I no dey do for naija, if I enta there, na like 5 white chicks go born for me

and Na like 5 white Prisons go sure for You

Pimine:
The main thing for me na cold, bro. Even for naija here, for close to 3 years now, one of my nostrils dey always dey blocked. I don go hospital, take drugs, buy nasal spray e no work. And the symptoms are exacerbated when I feel cold. Can't imagine being in a cold country with these symptoms, honestly.

Let me add this:
I work out. So whenever I do anything that gets my heart racing - it could be as little as 50 pushups, my nostrils immediately get unblocked and I can breathe perfectly.

You simply have Nasal Congestion maybe due to Narrow Nasal Passage and Once Infected the mucus would become much accumulated...... Try to Stay in well ventilated areas and Do more exercises and also watch your level of oxygen intake in order to avoid Cardiac while exercising !

Jovialjune1:
The gay thing,

I don't want my kids to become gay or change their gender, or queer, or refer to themselves as non binary, why will i be having a conversation with my son and I'll refer to him as they them? It's abnormal.

Imagine Your own son Fa, Person wey you go wire with Cords and His Head go Reset but do that at Obodo Oyinbo and Go to Prison while the Child is taken away from You forever!

Team African!

placeofallure:
You don't do that to every girl, especially the decent girls. Some relationships are nurtured to graduate to something substantial. How can you tell me straight on you wanna bang me? You won't even dare cause I comport myself well. I don't know anyone in real life who'd be as rude and indecent as that. Haba!

Some Guys are Daredevil !

Islandboi:
We are saying the same thing. Getting her wet is not enough. Once she’s wet after pre-intimacy she would use her hand to insert my dick into her pussy after little thrusting her pussy will just be super tight and dry.

She should be drinking water and juices ... She might be suffering dehydration that's if psychological issues ain't a Factor !

staga:
All these people saying they stopped attending church for all kinds of reasons are just jokers.

Do you quit your profession or your job because of "pretences" or because you have a bad co-worker or boss? Many people are still working under toxic environments because they need the money.

I am not in church because of a pastor or someone. So it will take a monumental reason to stop me from attending church. I am yet to see such reason. After, some stopped listening or following Jesus because they were offended at Him.

Profession is Scam for people who wanted to Scam ...

But God is referred and Sanctuary ... We ain't doing well explaining God to People and In the Euphoria of Confusion, Many GOs still lies and Manipulate their Crowds for Amassing Wealth !

SoftP:
Talking Trash!

That ain't Trash .. It's God to Pray to God in Congregation but when Congregation become Scamming Centre then Everyone would need to go jnside and communicate with their God themselves!

pansophist:
The worse thing that happened to this generation is sexual promiscuity. Men in the past will marry for sex, but now, men feel trapped to have sex with just one woman, when they can be single, and have as much with different women for life.

God is a Scientist and What is Happening is Expected Only Stronger Races would be able to Protect Her People from Sexual Promiscuity while Iron Hands on the Citizenry is still being Defined as Incarceration and Abuses of Human rights by the Western Worlds.

Laslas We wouldn't have it Perfect anyway But Everything will Cool down in the foreseeable future, All the Odds Occur as a result of Clashes of Global Races due to Globalisation and Laslas, We shall all settle as few Races while Many Weaker Races would lose their Cultures and Civilisations ultimately!

Welcome to One Globalised Culture and Civilisations which I believe is Part of God's Plan to Unified Humanity !

Deasegun19:
Dec 31 1: 30am. I had a dream about a cobra ready to attack me in an uncompleted site. I picked up stones trying to scare it but it kept coming closer and I moving back. Then it flew at me and I had it by its throat and I woke up...

Your Subconscious is trying to Warn You about a Present or Future Adversary which is or Shall Be Beyond Your Mental Sphere of Counter-Attacks and could possibly overwhelmed You ..

Therefore, Check all Your Odds Characters and Oddities Environment Presently and Retrace Your Steps! Also, this is no the time to Engage with Fight with Anybody Openly or Corners ... !

Anyway, Seek Forgivenesses from Your Creator and Pray to Your Creator to take over the Fight for You .... Your Creator would Send You Updates on How to Combat the Antagonist But if Your Mentality is Low to Receive the Updates, You would be sent an Helper(activation of your Guiding Angel) who would Fight on your Behalf!

Pray !

BrendanJo:
There is this girl whom I so much loved and I decided to let her know my feelings and ofcause she knows as well and her closeness with everyone around the work place knew she likes me but after talking to her, she never said yes neither did she said no.
She is actually cute which makes most guys to want to have her as well and also, she is jovial as well. As a result of that,she flirt around with guys even when I'm around her, she will stir at me and said I'm too jealous.
I have never thought of having sex with her, but most times we do kiss. Some months back she withdraw herself from me all in the guess of i just want to have sex with her, as a result of such statement I stopped associating with her because that's was never my intentions. Of recent she started coming close and we were good again.
Just last week we were together in a room playing and kissing, but I was been careful the way I touched her. All of a sudden she told me she needed sex. I was astonished. I was like what do u say, she repeated it that she is tired of kissing and that she wants sex. I told her I don't want to cross my boundary.
She became provoked and walked out. Since then our relationship or friendship is going down the drain. She keeps her distance from me.
Note: this person never said yes to me neither did she said no. So I don't know if she belongs to me or not, she chat up alot of guys with love emoji.
Whats her reasons for being angry?

You too Should withdraw from Her Shikena .... na Shakara Oloje ... she will come back if you don't give a Hoot about Her ....

Women like "Men" like a Man that can stand Up for himself and Blant a "No" .... if you Simp Up, She will Damn you for real !

She can't just have your body because she wants to have it .... Because You can't place same demand upon her and she obliged immediately!

dmg1:
Guy for a girl of that age to have such blodness responding to marital question with confidence, Bro I was surprised

22years is not a kid Bro, A girl that gain admission at 18yo would have been a Graduate at 22yo all things being Equal ...

Most Girls are already marriage savvy since age 15yo/16yo while Most are already prepared for Mummy's duties 3cen before the age of 10 copying their Mothers and eager to be like Her ....

Also Broloshos too would not allow our teenagers have Peace imagine a 38yo Befriending a 22yo .. Such girl would find it difficult to relate with 25/26yo because she is already exposed to Maturities of Late 30s at 22yo ....

I wish we men can start practicing taking responsibilities at earliest possible ages like our Women do

Mindlog:
"Our parents and grandparents lasted more than 30, 20, 40, 50 or 60 years in marriage those days".....Hmm, did they all truly enjoyed healthy marriages?

The answer is No for the Women and Yes for the Men

Most Women were molested and Denied the Beauties of Marriages in the Olden Days Except Your Children become Something in Life because Our Grandpas then were madly into Polygamy beyond their own mental Capacities but Which Women Dares Divorce those days without being Castigated and Reprimanded by the Societies

Infact those days, they would have been telling their Daughter that Marriage is a Training Centre and Sadness Centre thus Mother and Daughter would cry cry cry on the Wedding day and Most Wife would run back to their Father's House only to be pursued back to their Husband's House because na like sell dem sell the Daughter with Many Gifts that would have been collected from Groom since possibly the day the girls was born !

Now eyes yaff Break ... Men Needs to Man Up mentally, Physically and financially in order to Manage Gen Z Pro Girls of nowadays the ..

I pity guys that would manage Gen Z Pro Max ... Future Guys go cry Tire ... Dem go even Protest Self as things dey go because More laws would be enacted to Protect Women from Abuses by Men ...

Men needed to evolve new Brains because Presently Nature is Smiling on Women and Rewarding them all the past sufferness Once Africa is Pushed to Passed Laws Supporting Women like Europe Women now Gbam E Finish

"DNA laws could still be circumvented That Non Biological Child Born under Your Roof(Marriage) shall be Deemed to be Your Adopted Child and Shall be Nurtured by You as Adopted Child until such Child Achieves Maturities which shall now be pegged at 25year old " or the real Biological Father is Found and Made to Bear Full Responsibility with Penalties ... Thus if Your Wife score goals under Ya roof na you go still Nurture am .... Even if You Divorce Ya Wife You will Still pay child support for Both ya Biological and Possibly Adopted Children ... ...

Men go Man Up Sharp Sharp !

Mad Children and Almajiri go comot our Societies Fiam because Everyone go be on Lookout !

KingLennon:
It's the truth and many of them are here on Nairaland. The social media world has really affected our women...³





Yesterday's women (our mothers) were much better!

But Our Fathers were not Much Better ... How Many Fathers actually drop their Responsibilities Yesterday and Japa because they Can't Can

Make una try dey Balance una talks na, Na so many ladies find today's Men senseless Prompting Divorce ... and Many Girls are now dating their ancestors because niggas no dey get sense again ....

If Women of nowadays ain't better e mean their men have failed them from Fathers, Brothers, Uncles, Boyfriends, Husbands etc ...

But Instead of You to take Responsibilities and Full Responsibilities for Your lack of Manliness You will keep throwing Mouths around Like Damaged Bicycle

EdoBoy90:
We should tread with caution.

Ladies, what are the issues?

Most Divorces are Caused by Men for lack of Capabilities and Capacities to Conquer and Dominate their Women while at that the Little Capacities and Capabilities is what You used to still do Fvck aside Chicks but You Can't Withstand Your wife/Wives to do One Single Mistakes....

Our Forefathers were very Hardworking and Could Cultivate an Entire State for Foods and Fresh Meats but we Men of this Gen Z .....

Most Men were even raised by their mothers their papa Don Run comot House and this very Hardworking Single Mother would what

She would have Feminine Her Male Children thus Most Men are Women nowadays and Most women are now Men ....

Lazy Entitled Men and if dem use money or gbola collect Ya wife dem go dey rant up and down ....

Men is the Rock of the earth and Women are Her Water ... if Rock no come Rock again ... Water no go Rock Am ....

Una never see anything ... Men should Conquer the economy and use that sense to Conquer their Women....

Nigerian Men should live in Nigerian Economy ... The Economy no straight and you self can't be straight .... but if you dey Nigeria and dey Use girls wey You see for Movies and Tiktok from Obodo Oyinbo to Validate Nigerian Women, Na sorry go be Ya Case ....