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MadeINchenzen2:
Sometimes I feel lucky and sad when I think of it... why am I a Nigerian, and thats the sad side of it.

And the lucky side would be that I'm happy I am the sperm that eventually made it to the eggs

But I would think for a minute... what would be the outcome if my dad got married to a British woman... will I Still be me or someone else would have existed in my place.

maybe I should just be thankful my dad met my mum, if not... I won't be in Nairaland typing this nonsense !!!



How u see am?

Regardless of The Sperm that fertilized the Egg, You would still be Born...

You(Soul) are Only Interpreting the Algorithms(DNA) in the Sperm and Eggs Composition(Bodies) ... You are just interpreting the DNA in your bodies...

The soul is different from the Body ....

The Soul is Immortal while the Bodies would die Off and Be Consumed by Earth except you die in space ...

You would still be Born Regardless of The Sperm that Fertilises the Egg ....

You can Improve on Your Soul by Making Your Generations Better or Devalue your Ancestral Potentials by Making Your Generations Worse off ... You have Choices to Make

You have this Life to Promote Your Ancestors and Help Your Future Generations ....


Don't Be Ashamed of Nigeria, Rise Up and Be Part of the Team to Make Nigeria a Better Place ....

Or Japa to Enjoy the Benefits of Oyinbo while Your Future Generations keep lamenting on Rascism and systemic Problems of Oyinbo ....

Anyway... Nobody alive wouldn't pay Prices and Enjoy Benefits ... Earth has Costs and for Every Actions there are Costs Benefits... A Sane Man is the One who Maximises His Benefits at Limited Costs ...

But You MUST Pay Prices Because Your Fellow Human wouldn't give you anything for Free ... Also, Earth will collect Commission if You ain't Careful ... Do Anyhow ... Earth go swallow You whether on Land, In Water or at Air .... .. Except in Space ... at all at all, You no dey comot here alive.... The Only thing that would go with You is the Transformation that Occured to Your Soul is it Much Whiter or Much Darker ....

Your Soul is Your:

"Actual Thought Processes and Philosophies that Underpins that Thought Processes" .... !

Na so I see am from My Side

JeffreyJunior:
Never love your boss, just love what you do.

If your former boss care about you, she would've done everything not to see you go but she didn't.

Now that you have a new job, focus on it unless you plan to lose it too.

Shalom.

Kaiiiii This is Deep .... !
Especially in this Era of Eye Services... !

parkervero:
In the long run, leaked sex videos will be become norm and the party involved will move on with their lives

Aswear Case Study is Tiwa Savage Nude !

The Media would even Soon Be Making Her Brand Ambassador and Life Goes On ... Afterwards Many Women would Follow Suits and Nude would become Normal Norms ...

We Waka Nude in the Olden Days ...

We were only going back to the Olden Days in a Modern Way

henrybangs44:
It is a thing of concern for me that Africans always tag new science discoveries as "lies" even before understanding.

Why are Africans always concluding that scientists are liars?
We believe in tagging someone a witch which we can't prove, but after seeing the evidence of what science can do literally all around us we still find it difficult to comprehend scientific ideas and methods even so called science students or practioners.

Why do we believe more in spiritual things than we can't prove than things we can clearly see?

Don't get me wrong...I'm not saying spiritual things don't exist...but it's easier to believe in science than spiritual things. I just feel we tag everything we can't understanding as "spiritual " because we don't want to put our brains to work..that's why we are still here with all our "spiritual beings"

Spiritualism is what Africans can't Explain.... Spiritualism is the Bane of African Society because alot of People are Mentally Scared and Bruised over Nothing!

Imagine someone tagging a misbehaved Cockroaches while mere ants can make some people call Ten Different Pastors for Deliverance say Dem don Come .....

The Brain also has a way of responding to the lies you fed Her ... Bad dreams will soon be occurring while the Spiritualists will started playing with your emotions in order to siphoning Your Monies .....

The monies you will build houses and Buy Wealths would be spent on Spiritualists and For Shallow Reasons simply because You can't use your own Head to Processed Yourself Out of Emotional Debacles

Lostchild:
I keep asking myself this question. Why do men pay for sex?

I am still unable to accurately answer this question. mm

You want to penetrate another person's Body-Systems, it's only fair you wet the Ground before you enter if not No Oil for slippery and you in and out!

Person dey enter your house anyhow ...

Na person wey you give keys go enter and that person must have been something to you ...

how e be, na you know why you give am keys to your room .. Maybe e don pay rent as per your roommate or tenant or someone wey dey totori you wey you like to have around ...

That's why we men pay in one way or the Other ... ... na inside another Person you wan use your tool enter

intruder15:
You lack wisdom if you don't know that loyalty is not the primary thing a lady needs from you. If it was, she would have left your sorry ass long ago.

We all have a pecking order of needs in relationship. For you as a guy, her loyalty is likely on your number one list. Others may be good looks, sense of humor, sense of judgement, educational excellence.

For her, it may be Financial stability, security, good physic, loyalty etc. The list varies in ladies. Loyalty on this list is 4th. You fit de mumu sexually make she no leave. Because the number one and 2 is intact. If you hit her you have trampled on number 2 which is higher on her list. If you mistakenly go broke, oti lo.

For you nau, if she cheats on you, your world have scatter because it's your number one. You see why you hardly breath when they cheat on you abi.

In life, do unto others what you want others to do unto you. Don't brag about being a cheat. It only makes you look irresponsible whereas in reality, no be only you de cheat.

This is a Knockout !

Eyinju112:
Lol...
Are we suppose to clap hands for you because you think you did her dirty You’re the real Mumu here, do you think someone with such experience care about the dirty you think you did to her?? she’s gonna forget you in few days mhan. you’re the loser here, you lost both home and away. You sponsored her graduation, and did all the merry merry for her... Who send you? You’re a simp and the lady doesn’t want a simp. you see that guy she told she wan knack, that’s the real bf FYI

Knockout ... Make una dey show mercy for una posts attimes

Each child receives Bespoke Treatment:

Some need cane while Some need words ..

Then there shall be General Cane for General Mistakes in order to balance the Odds !

Dammyseyon:
I'm in a very toxic work environment right now, the organization is a lovely place to work but the team lead I work with is as toxic as God knows what. Funny thing is, I can't leave cos I dont wanna be idle. Omo I'm drained mentally and physically...

Oga Prepare to Leave just give yourself six months notice .... Toxic Environment is Hypertensive ....

No matter the pay My Mental Health and Cardiovascular Health is Important to me ...

If Wahala gas their money Might not be enough to take care of You so Respect Yourself and Swerve!

I hate make my body dey hot anyhow or always being in flight mode ...

Grandlord:
You be OG for d game

No dulling o. If not dem go commot bread from your mouth put stone.

I watched with my eyes where a manager who came in newly, dethroned a director, took his place, and got him fired all within a month.

Sometimes no be say person wan harm others o, but that no mean say another person no dey plan bad thing for you. As for me eh, the kind 5D chess wey I dey play eh, nobody fit see my 5 steps ahead moves. Bad as e bad we go down together. Na life, don't take it personal.

You gat to dey alert at least to protect your position whether in the office, in business or anywhere

Bro .. Aswear ... I'm still growing oo ... But I Learnt the Hard way sha !

learnt life lessons sha:

Be Battle Ready Don't let them catch You Weak or Unmanly even during Plays let them Feel Your Vibes no use all Ya body and mouth play

"Befriend with all Using Eye Services Only and

"Befriend with Non Deep Down Your Mind"

Corporate world na Street Forget the suits and ties and Posh English ... if you dull dem go hustle You, they can Kill You ... They ain't your Families Because everyone is there to Hustle ...

I don't set to hurt anyone and I'm not set to get Hurt and I'm ready to Hurt Anyone that wants to Hurt me!

Na office introduce God to Me wellwell ...

I have seen a Director who is a Paddi with CEO but on Wrong foot with CFO.. He used the CFO error to displaced his paddi CEO and CFO at a go ... Fiiannn like Film

He then Emerged the CEO himself ... His closeness to them was to get the working Operability and uses their errors to displace them by widening gaps between them and Oga at the Top ... Life na ! ... Betrayal everywhere!


Even when you be Oga ... Be Very careful with your inner caucus .... Some people are close to know what to use to depose You ...

Na Street Bro, Daily Bread things

Grandlord:
I swear. It's all a game. No hard feelings

At all ... I was a Novice and a Jew when a Boss used my Head and a colleague who is My 2IC(Right hand Woman) Recorded my Voice and Play it to Other Colleagues while I was Telling Her to Monitor their works Adequately ...

With Her I knew the word "Femme Fatale" ... Some woman or Lady would cozy up to You as friend to gain Info from you which you would think is Love then use the information Against You to Climb the Ladder ....

Office Politics is the best way to learn life lessons ... Dem made me a Man .... Infact No be By Juju to survive na God because where your Juju end na where your boss own dey start ....

If your boss Juju pass your Juju aswear you go wash ihm car and flush toilet for am ... because Big devil dey molest small devil but no evil can touch God's People wey come wise Join !

I don see Shege and I don show them Shege too ... E sweet sha ... see Offensive and Counter Offensive... Me na Referee oo ....

One stupid boy dey play triangular games... e go bring info to me then carry my own go give another Person who will now carry everything go give the Bearer of that Info .... Chaiii ... Na ihm I Whistle-blow the Mumu wey wan cast me ... e face Panel, I Absent myself .... From then na Respect e dey give me ... Carry info come again and Be Damned ...

Before your fire me I go light your ass make you feel Ya fire Small ...

Me like am sha ... e dey make man dey wise and see life and human from Raw Perspectives!

placeofallure:
I will do the right thing whether the boss is there or not. I don't believe in eye service but I know people like us don't last in Nigeria.

You will last now but they will use you till you were worn out ....

Me ehn, Na only my work I dey do despite I'm the most technical in my work place while I dedicated the remaining time for my academic and professional advancement in my latter years when competing for the top because not Mere experience would get you to the top ....

Infact if they have problems that I can solve I would prefer they call someone from outside because Once they know you can tweak it all .. You become the Plug and badbelle from Colleagues Begin and Lack of Peacefulness would Hinder my Personal Growth and Developments.....

The Politics is for me to Mapped it all then Do only my Portion except a Colleague need Help which shall be granted with insider info and tatafo as Exchange ... You have to Know what everyone's motive is all about .... Be friends to Everyone and No-one!

I no wan reach 50s and look back then become frustrated due to time mismanagement!

Grandlord:
Well, before your group/clique gets out of power you should have already seen it and strategized on how to move to the new group in power. That way you stay afloat and on top of the game

Cross Carpeting is Allowed infact new group would even love you because everyone will jumpship one after the other to the newest group in Power ....

Let the weyrey continue

atobs4real:
Avoid it totally. it's not good for any staff. it's a dirty thing or comes dirty when discusing it

It's Unavoidable:

It's like saying A card Carrying Member of Apc, PDP, SDP, LP should avoid Politics ... why are they Carrying Cards if no be to win elections:

It's called Corporate Politics ... if you no do am .. Dem go Bring am to You ... if You Don't Belong and play safe Game you would be tagged disloyal and before you Realise they will start scheming against You and preparing for your boot out ...

But with God and Wisdom as well as Technical Competency You will always Win the Office Politics!

Rubyjade:
Avoid office politics at all costs."
I DISAGREE - that advice will kill your career.
You need to play office politics to succeed ❗❗

In 2015, a senior leader taught me how to 'play' the game when I was transferred to a leadership job in a new country.

- He told me who to befriend in the corporate hierarchy.
- He took me through their individual agendas.
- He gave me the best approach for each person.

When I played the game, my career skyrocketed �
When I didn’t play it, it cost me my career ❌

Here are 4 ways to ‘play the game’.

1️⃣ Understand the culture and hierarchy.

Ignorance is NOT bliss. If you want to be recognised or need support for your projects, you need to know who the decision-makers are and get clear on their agenda.

2️⃣ Demonstrate your value.

By working hard and helping others, you’ll earn respect. Speak up in meetings, share ideas and make everyone feel included - the corporate game can be cutthroat - don't be seen as docile.

3️⃣ Learn soft skills.

Hard skills are trained and measurable. Soft skills are intangible but will help you understand, empathise and connect with people on deeper levels. If you need coaching on this, invest in it!

4️⃣ Spread positive energy.

If you make people feel good and ooze positivity, people will want you on their team and you'll win more opportunities. Avoid being the pessimist. Offer solutions, don't just highlight problems.

Office politics is like a game of chess ♟️

Play it well and you win. Ignore it and you lose.

I don't set to Hurt anybody But I don't Set to Get Hurt Neither ....

I Play Office Politics like Mad ... If you Dull dem go use your head break Coconut and Still leave you to Your Wraths in the Hospital while they Move on Like Nothing Happened !

Office Politics is a Must for those who wants to Climb the Corporate Ladder Nevertheless Join the Winning Team and Once Your Junior has the ears and Eyes of your Boss ... He/She is Your Boss, Play it well with Him/Her else ... You go see wheeen

everythinggirly:
These people and destructive weapons are like 5 and 6. What d heck? They're not supposed to be amongst us.

Who is "Us" ... Una Witchcrafts and Wizardry is it for Progress or Destruction ...

Are we suppose to be Amongst them

Humans Generally loves Destructions and Constructions

Welcome to Earth !

DaddyFreeze2020:
Most of these weapons would never be used.
They only serve for deterrence and show off (pride)
God himself would wipe out the earth and create a new heaven and earth

How do You Know God is a He or She

Common Man !

SadiqBabaSani:
War merchant Putin,

in preparing for peace, prepare for war

War could be the Cost of Peace !
I hope Planet Earth would called us to Order before we Human Deorbit Her from the Solar System ....

Knowledge should be used for Growth and Developments not Destructions!

Russia has to Protect Herself But it would only take One Mad Man to Trigger it all and Another Mad Man elsewhere would respond and Everyone would send their "Hell O" !

The truth of the Matter is that we ain't Being Practical with Religion Affairs in Nigeria!

We Set standards difficult for HumanBeing to Abide By and Wrapped most people in Hideous Philosophies that has make people to be Wretched!

Some people don't even allow Blood Transfusion and they prefer to die ...

Many Extremists who don't practice what they Preach ...

Anyway, A sane Man needs to develop his own religion himself and find his own God, the True Almighty God of the Universes and Everything therein!

Don't Allow yourself to be scammed by anyone ...

I'm Out of Warped Philosophies since 2022... If it ain't Practical Reality as in Pragmatic .. It ain't Real because it can never work !

temitope66:
I am in my mid 20's, I do things solely on my own financially. I work in a company with a take home monthly pay of 70k and at the same time I'm running a part time program for my National Diploma, I'm in my ND2 now.
So I planned to quite my job by December and process a direct entry into a Federal University to get a BSc, I planned to save enough money to pay my bills during the course of schooling and I can still work during vacation as I am highly skilled in the field, the skill is highly sort for all over the country. But I'm confused on either to still keep my Job and further my Education when I make enough money and have a business of my own.
Please I need advice.

I Quit too in my mid 20s and went for M.sc and ICAN trust me .. attimes e go be like Ya village people dey do you but that's how it feels when pursing greater Endeavours in life ....

Greatness doesn't come cheap and easy ....

Ask those people that sailed from UK across Atlantic Oceans to Africa .. They were Rewarded with Cheap Labours and Cheap Resources since 1914 till date ...

E no Easy to cross Atlantic those days with what ships Self but dem cross and dem dey enjoy am till date ..

Quit Bro !

Goodlady:
Something legally should be done quick cos the woman has right to talk. We the public now need to know if she's lying or not.

His PRO should have handled it!

Goodlady:
Make Dem do DNA test naaa.
There's one Ibadan girl too that said Davido do her wayo. Say na she born first born before Imade. The child come resemeble David for my eyes.
Do DNA in 2 different places and bring the matters to rest.
A times, men can be randy to the extent that they won't v records of their sexcapades.

If He should Oblige this woman publicly with DNA, Do you know how many woman in Lagos alone can start accusing Big Men and Public Figures for impregnating them just to trend ....

He should organise Private DNA ... this issue shouldn't have been allowed to get to Public !

atheistandproud:
Globalization feels like an Orwellian dystopia to me.

That's My Projection of the World of Humanities!

One Mankind, One Law .. "Fairness" !!

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atheistandproud:
Because of the above, all of these things are factors that lead to a sort of trap that is very difficult to break free of because the young ones are, to all intents and purposes, born into it and will probably never escape it.

All the Odds established are all Effect of Globalisation and Everything is in Order for there is no any cause of alarm to me ....

These are all as a result of Global Cultural Clashes and Cultural Wars going on ....

In this dispensation Many People would die due to lack of preparation and Immaturity to respond to contemporary Challenges of the world because the tools to respond is not in the Gearbox(Mental Faculty) of Many People ..
Imagine Chinese Cultures Affecting Nigeria which an Average Hausa/Yoruba/Igbo/Ijaw/Igbira is not Matured Enough to Bear due to Strangeness such people Could Die after fighting for long-term without Breakthrough and Many People find it Difficult to Metamorphose from their Heritage Cultures because all their Genetics is already Adhered and Adapted !

Nevertheless, The Next Generations of Humanbeing Would Come Prepared as you can see Many Children are Born Woke .....

Globalisation is the Peak of Human Civilisations then the dust would settle with Globalised Laws and Norms then Families would Be Settled and Societies is Settled...

Incidence of BabyMama would be Abolished because the cost of Babymama would be higher than the cost of Marriage while Divorce would be stringent because the cost of Divorce would be higher than the cost of marriage..

Abandon your responsibilities and go to Jail as a Man or Woman ...

You can't born more than your income bracket. Children would be on Allocation based on Income Bracket not Mere discretion...

Polygamy would be Promoted based on Income Bracket same with Polyhandry all based on Income Bracket ....

Eggs would be freezed until couples are ready for fertilisation...

The World would be ruled by Sciences not mere Spiritualism



Welcome to Heaven on Earth

ranmoor:
Do you mean the man is not mature and that is why the woman disobey him? Don't u think the man has already stamped his feet and insist that she should not go but all to no avail? So as a man you are scared of woman leaving you? SMH.

My bro, there is a stage in marriage when your wife will grow wings especially when she thinks she doesn't need you or just out of "what will happen". How you react will determine how your marriage will be for the rest of your life.
I have a boss, he built a house and wanted to move in. At that time, all the kids are grown in Universities. The wife said she is not going because that place is not in the main town. There was still 3months rent left when the man moved, the wife didn't. After about 4 months, the wife came to beg that she wants to move in. The man asked who do you think you are that I your husband said A and you insisted on doing B?. He asked her to go back and live her life in the city. It takes the intervention and plea from the wife family before the man later accepted her.

Case 2: I have a very close neighbor. l was very close to both husband and wife. Both are well educated, husband works in O&G, very gentle and cool guy. Everything is going very well. One day, I came back from work, I saw the wife's face swollen and bruised. 2 days later, I asked the wife what happened. She said it is one woman (who is already divorced) pushed her to not tolerate rubbish from her husband ooo. All because the husband is giving his family some assistance. She told me she has learned her lesson. She knows she over push the husband, she even tore his clothes... Etc

So my brother, women know what they are doing. They will always want to test water. How you react makes you a man. There are stages for talk and actions.

So true Bro .. Thanks for the OT ... I really appreciate

Companionship and Children !

It's get lonely as you age !

1Sharon:
Sometimes men just take numbers to test themselves and feed their own ego

I do do this Anyway !
It's Due to some heart Aches once you missed the Chance of getting that number ... You head started telling you sharrap little man weak man, You ain't man enough to woo that girl.. she Scares you right ... !

Attimes I just walk over .. Ramble small chats .. Little encomium ... Seek for friendship and Walk Away .. Deal done !

Sixfeetbelle:
You said sex has casted, I told you it hasn't and you're here foaming at the mouth.

Is it that nairaland males cannot have a debatable conversation without loosing a few screw nuts in their brain? Why are you acting deranged?

ohhh ... I was baffled too !

toujurs:
how old are you? Read what i wrote again! Should using someone else body as a cum bag, be free in the first place?

Are guys complaining over paying , i don't think you know what most women go through.

Just look at your dp, it's obvious heart break have rendered you into a demon. You better get out from my mention this frustrated urgent 2k bitch.

Broke girl, this is how jobless girls like you will be extorting recharge card from a guy, only to come here to pour out your frustrated lives, from thread to thread, don't go and get a job

Continue being miserable. I pity the man that will settle for a garbage like you. It's only badluck that will continue to happen to him

Wowwowowo .... Dude ... U and that girl were having good convo and I was learning from you guys ... until You went John Cena Bro ... Common Calm down your temper Bro !

Nyascobar1414:
All na the same toto...

OLODO, wey dey suffer to toast babe..

Mental nii,mental ko??

The poorest girl toto ft fresh pass the girl with high IQ..

OLODO thinks that they are High value humans..

Abi na brokeness dey worry your veinless d!ck?

Ya Father Bro