₦airaland Forum

1Sharon:
Sometimes men just take numbers to test themselves and feed their own ego

I do do this Anyway !
It's Due to some heart Aches once you missed the Chance of getting that number ... You head started telling you sharrap little man weak man, You ain't man enough to woo that girl.. she Scares you right ... !

Attimes I just walk over .. Ramble small chats .. Little encomium ... Seek for friendship and Walk Away .. Deal done !

Sixfeetbelle:
You said sex has casted, I told you it hasn't and you're here foaming at the mouth.

Is it that nairaland males cannot have a debatable conversation without loosing a few screw nuts in their brain? Why are you acting deranged?

ohhh ... I was baffled too !

toujurs:
how old are you? Read what i wrote again! Should using someone else body as a cum bag, be free in the first place?

Are guys complaining over paying , i don't think you know what most women go through.

Just look at your dp, it's obvious heart break have rendered you into a demon. You better get out from my mention this frustrated urgent 2k bitch.

Broke girl, this is how jobless girls like you will be extorting recharge card from a guy, only to come here to pour out your frustrated lives, from thread to thread, don't go and get a job

Continue being miserable. I pity the man that will settle for a garbage like you. It's only badluck that will continue to happen to him

Wowwowowo .... Dude ... U and that girl were having good convo and I was learning from you guys ... until You went John Cena Bro ... Common Calm down your temper Bro !

Nyascobar1414:
All na the same toto...

OLODO, wey dey suffer to toast babe..

Mental nii,mental ko??

The poorest girl toto ft fresh pass the girl with high IQ..

OLODO thinks that they are High value humans..

Abi na brokeness dey worry your veinless d!ck?

Ya Father Bro

Naira20:
No ...you are the confused one.
You read the wrong manual

I don help you straight his head ... no worry jhare .. na you be odogwu!

Nyascobar1414:
Who are the cheap and hard to get girls

Is it not the same puc.i they have?

OLODO!

Once Brain and Mental faculty Differs trust me pussy differ ....

If dem born you well go toast the best girl in Medicine with the Same IQ you would use for the poorest girl in Adult Education .....

They would be wired differently mentally and Accessing their Pvssy would be different Hell yeah ... Because if you can't bypass her mental faculty you can't get in her pvssy ... that's why we men the toast and format that Head...

Small boy wetin you know ... .. Pay me to Teach you things hmmm

Your uncle na Olodo ... See ya flat Head there like Cabin Biscuits Oloshi

L1TTLE:
You contradict yourself oga, you're mixing principled men with simps, but they're not the same.

Na you dey contradict Yourself ..

If you dedicate yourself to labouring for pvssy that's hoarded for you and you later won it and Japa ... e Show you are a the Real Simp and Stu.pid ... Because That Pvssy is the reward for your hardwork ... that same pvssy you dedicated your precious time to get is the same pvssy you are assaulting and Insulting.

If the pvssy doesn't mean much why would you dedicate your precious time to pursued a hoarded pvssy instead of dedicating same time and energy for Possibly CCNA/JAVA/Data Sciences with Advanced Algorithms ....

A real Man is a Principled Man and they are Indifference to Women's Shenanigans if they can't have their way with you they move onto the next available Better One instead of seeing pvssy as a Conquest when no be Subway Surf or Temple Run !

You dedicated resources to win a Trophy and you won the trophy finish cum still dey Insult the Throphy wey you no get on a platter and you still feel like Champion... You should feel like Chimpanzee bro

If it doesn't worth it then don't Pursue it as a Conquest Nigga !

toujurs:
mad woman, they have resulted to black magic, to keep a man.

You can never see a man do this.

Na man dey do am Pass ...

Anything wey most woman dey do na Man dey teach them not fellow human ...

Even that Black Magic wey you see so Check am well, Na man do am for Them

Nyascobar1414:
You said real men value hard to get girls.. Now I'm asking what will there get eventually from the girls?

Una Head whether Cone Head or Flat head no dey get much sense like that

Real Men detest cheap girls and are not defined by sex ... that's what you read ... see wetin you post as reply ....

There is no real girl that would make her body available to you on request except Hookup or Olosho or A girl already Konjified and wouldn't mind any Deek ATM !

... There's Usually a Bonding time which can be faster or timely depending on the Chemistry and Vibing between you too ... You can even kick the ground running ....

Even two male friends would take time to allow each other into their inner private life talkless of someone you wanna be doing God's work in Her Soul via Her Vagina .. Haba !

Sweetplum:

When a man gives a woman money without asking for sex, he's seen as a hero.
God loves a cheerful giver. When you give, you v down a seed of blessing.
Especially those that are dating. Don't ask her for sex in return for money or gifts you give her. If you need sex, go to brothel if you are unmarried.
I actually appreciate men who give me gifts without expecting anything in return from me. I v prayed for them and they are seeing the results.
Asking a girl to open her pant cos you feel you v given her money or helpful to her is an height of wickedness. Such a man is like a loan shark! Girls are to be pampered like eggs. We are very harmless.
Guys, give females money as if you are giving your relations. The economy of Nigeria and developing countries has automatically put a lot of ladies at disadvantage in earning or working like men.
So....be nice.
Give and don't look back when you give to a female.


Lastly,
I know some boys here that are wicked ll misquote me. No p.
Hope say you dey give girls in your family money?
You sha no go wan off their pants too?

God no make me a Useless Hero ... I get many family members that needs my money ... so if I ain't doing you charity or Humanitarianism and I'm spending money on You in a Romantic Relationships be assured we getting down pretty soon if not ... make everyone kukuma port out and face dem Hustles!

Aiye o le now !

Sweetplum:
No Amount Is Too Big To Be Spent On A Woman. Especially the one you v slept with.
Don't scream she ate my money.
Money is not food that can be eaten physically. What gulped your money is her pussy. Idi lo je owo re!
And never say she has nothing to offer. If so, why did you approach her?
I don't want to go into details cos I blv a word is enough for the wise to understand. So boys, be good and take care of your babes more!

... Na Hard truth anyway !!

Nature made it be so

advanceDNA:
Lol...guy...u no get vawulence reach ooo...

me and this one get small history... she still just dey para.....once in a while ......u gats accomodate peace...

Ehn ehn ... No wahala .. Oya go draw am much closer make una settle everything

advanceDNA:
Sigh!!! Obviosuly, I've ve done something wrong... we dont know each other enough even fight....if i've offended u....its not intentional..... so i sincerely apologize

U no well Nigga ... A lady tell you make you Shut Up and You dey apologise

Na where una no Suppose Vex una go dey vex up and Down dey cause Wahala!

Samantha123, I hereby Insult Your Left Nyansh on his Behalf for telling a Seemingly grown ass man to Shut Up

Samantha123:
If he's not sterile, then how come he doesn't have a single child with his wife?

If I do something wrong and you cook and buy flowers for me in return, I'll surely repeat that same thing over and over again because for me actions speak louder than words.

If you tell me not to do something, but your actions does otherwise, then I'll see no need to apologise..

Reality ... There is difference between Pampering and Caring ..

A sane Man Cares for His Woman But Never Pamper nor Indulge in her Silliness and I don't want to Pamper Me too nor Indulge in My Stupidities... if I fvcked Up, Simply Call me Out !

ranmoor:
This is "see finish". You shouldn't have allowed her back inside the house. She must return to wherever she is coming from. For her to even have that courage means you have been weighed and found light. You are doing good and reasonable man for woman, I pity you. Growing up, my uncle use to fvck one married woman, she will tell her family she is going for business trip which is partially true but she must spend 2 days in his house. As for me, she must bring her parents before she comes back into that house.
since you have allowed her in, the best thing is to abandon her totally, sometimes sleep out or come home very late and go straight to your room. You can even plan a trip, vacation and go without informing her. it is even easier since the kids are in university

You no go Allow Mother of Your Children Enter her own House ...

Bad Situation doesn't need bad solution Nwoke

This new era Women no be by Gragra ... She would provoke you to your own Death and she will now go out wellwell !

If you Abandoned her totally and she Abandoned You totally Nko We have Rebellious women nowadays... Dem go match you toe to toe for Your Madness except the butterfly of love still dey fly in her head ...

No even suffer yourself by sleeping out and coming late ... na you dey suffer because she go don sleep and chopped before you come in ...

Your Aggressions go come multiply ... na ihm dey make husband dey beat dem wife or possibly murder ....

Simply call her and tell her in a very stern voice why you asked her not to trip ... una fit Raise Voice at Each Other Blabla .... Stamp your feet Down and Reverse her medulla before you have monster as a wife who will hitheto Monstrous your Children .....

A Man must be more matured than his wife
A woman would always submit willingly to a Matured Man ...

Women are not expected to Get Sense with their Man, Your Job as a Man is to Maturedly make her see things from Your Sense ... This Involves some Scamming(Reverse Psychology) ... If she get sense as You ... You can't tame a Fully Lighted Woman, She would Rebel ... Na Scope Bro !

inspirator1:
He is not sterile, Samantha. Just know their those who know how to bid their time and avoid any form of public shaming. Stories abound where ladies takes drugs immediately after copulation with their husbads; most often is because of a deep seated hurt. He did his test and not sterile even active in service.

To me being romantic is relative in my relationship. My wife loves it when I cook meals especially soup. Take This scenario now..the wife walks in excepting the husband to rant hell fire down, she see a dished meal on the table waiting for her. Aswear, thoughts will run through her heads, some frightening o. Imagine dishing the food and telling her to eat up, that you have done yours earlier.

People like you might not last long ..

Keeping Bitterness inside of You and Pretending like all is Well ....

Me ehn, I will Insult You wellwell and We go shout for each Other's Head .... I would create drama and tell you the hazard of telling you not to go Out ...

The Reverse Psychology Will now Come in like this

"if anything happens to You now You wan turn me to Widower"

You wan turn my Children to Motherless ehn, Which Women Out There can take care of them better than their Mother Ehn ....

You wan Make your Families tell me I use you for Ritual especially that Your Uncle wey get Cone Head wey go dey look me anyhow

Mbaaaa .... This House today no go contain you and I ... Na so I go lock her for Chest .... dey Drag ... na so I go shed crocodile tears small ... we begin Kiss and fvck away my disappointment....

Go again next time ... Another strategy ....

If you no sabi act telemundo and Nollywood... Nigerian Girls wouldn't find you interesting!

There is no one rule fit it all Just study your partner Weaknesses and use it against her without Her knowing and be diversifying laslas .... Show her everything is in her best interests and not your own selfish interest ...

Once You Lock Her Maternal instinct and Emotional Thresholds ... even if she wan buy Maggi she go tell you ... Na you go Tire for the tell No be You wan Hear am

Vinnie2000:
You are so OLD FASHIONED and NARROW MINDED,Bro.

Its ur Type that Locks their Wives inside House and Bans them from Using Android Phones.

A Female Colleague Just Quit in our Company because her Husband did Not like her Mingling with Males..
Now She is Complaining of being Broke all the Time.

If You as a Man Treat ur Wife Well and you Fcvk her well in Bedroom, She will NEVER cheat.

Change ur Archaic Mentality, Bro!

Never-Ever Say Never .... But She will Always Come Home Anyway ... Only Personal Resolution Can make a Woman or Man not to Cheat which is Difficult in this New era due to Cute-Beauties Dudes/Gals Everywhere. There is no One fit it All !!

Only Personal Resolution which also requires Battles not to be Broken and breached ... 2023 na ihm we dey !

Samantha123:
Okay.

1. You complain that your girls are prostitutes, but you still go to brothels to sleep with those prostitutes that you're complaining about... If you're against something, do away with it.

2. Again you complain that most Nigerian ladies can't stick to one man, while you guys also have multiple girlfriends.

3. You bash those women who are sexually active but not married, but most of you guys are also sexually active and not married.

4. You say you want wife materials, while you guys don't sound like husband materials.

5. You complain that your women are useless, while you guys are also useless and not fighting for a better Nigeria just so your women can have better working environments and stop doing the things you guys say they do... Up until this day, I still wonder what happened to the endsars protests because it seems like your police officials are still killing innocent citizens, but everyone is quite everywhere and only complaining behind their phones on a faceless forum... As men, you're supposed to be the leaders and you failed.

6. You complain that your women are willing to do anything for money, while you Nigerian men are notoriously known worldwide for using internet fraud and human trafficking just to make that quick cash... I myself nearly got scammed twice last year by Nigerians.

7. You say you want God fearing women, but you guys don't sound God fearing.

8. You don't like it when your women insult you out of self defense, but you're always insulting them for just being women.

9. Most of you guys are very disrespectful, but you expect your women to respect you.

10. When you go outside of your country, you use money to buy women's love, but you complain that all your women want in a relationship or marriage is money.. It's clear you guys spoiled them and enticed them with money, but now you're complaining.

11. And lastly, you guys can nag like women.

Hmmm .... Sense Everywhere!

We are who are women are and Our Women are who we are infact we are the One that make them to become what they are !!

May your head Oil never dry, Amen !

SUFFERInSMILIIN:
I have heard a lot of guys in the country say that women from other African countries are much better that there home women. Most of the young guys and now dreaming of Mary and African woman from outside the Country. I have also seen it in UK Switzerland and Brazil most Nigerian guys there did African women but not the Nigerian one.

One of the Nigerian guys in Nigeria which came back from Mozambique narrate how the women are. If you hear the way this guy talks about mozambican women you will be shocked. If you just see how old of this guy is which came back for Christmas from some other African countries are talking about the girls their your head will go 360. One of these guys for Malawi told me whatever you have the girls do not care they will still love you

Please do not shoot the messenger I want some honest answers

Most African Countries are Poor so their Men ain't Rich and their Women wouldn't demand from them what the society do not have !

Thus when Nigerian Men brings Nigerian Spirits and Ginger to Other African Countries their Women Usually go Crazier for kinda sparks they have never seen before !

But in Nigeria, You can't ball Nigerian Girls same way, they wouldn't respond because they have seen Finish, Imagine a girl being conveyed by Range Rover to now be on Foot With You ... Common Now ... You wan low her Class ....

Same way a Guy who can't Ball any Babe from Western Countries Would come to Nigeria and park all Our Girls because wetin no dey gel Oyinbo Girls go give our Nigerian Girls Instant Orgasms !!

Oyinbo usually find Nigerian Girls Cheaper and more Caring... The same Girls our guys are lamenting over .... Because Oyinbo can't try same madness he would do to Nigerian Girls with His country Babe ... Wahala go Gass

This is all about Civilisations and Exposures of Each Countries .... You can leave the city and go to Village to Pick Girls but once the village girl become city girl ... you are in Stew !!

Everything na Exposure Scam ....

I still Love Nigerian Girls and Money is very Important in Nigerian Relationships then Higher Level of Maturities because she will test Your Manhood and Manliness all Together !!

toujurs:
For sure a man must spend, alpha male doesn't mean you shouldn't spend or take care of your woman.

But how to be incharge, and avoid manipulations from women. So you don't get taken advantage of. Man gat spend na.

This Post was it before dem take that 5k from your hands or After because Na straight on Point Bro

Babastrong:
What do you expect when you insist that man must marry only one woman and you know the pen*s is always eager to enter different holes(kpekus), the same way our mouths are always fall for different foods.

and the same way You must Be Eager to Feed Many Mouths and Ensure Economic Sustenance of Many Humans under your Manhood .... ... Why U no add that part na ihm Baffle Me

Na only the Sex Part una care about ... typical African Restricted Head

bonnyhope:
Men have taken position of women in the homes.

They cannot caution their wives, you see women dressing indecently following their husbands for yansh.

The irony is that the husband will dress well with native.

Tuel to the present crop of men

Women are also going to War like Men do this days and Men is not enough to Conquer the economy anymore and feed the home ... The level of Testosterone running on each gender is increasing now ... Everyone na Hustler ...

So Everyone is a stakeholder is this dispensation and Each Stakeholder has right to his/her World...

Unlike in the olden days where the economy was cheaper and Men can Man their Woman.. Unlike Now ... Once as a Man you can't Can .. Your Woman and Children are out there doing Orishirishi !

Na blood dey run in Our Veins, The sons of Adam can not come and Kill themselves over what the Daughters of Eve wanted to do Because Everyone is making their Monies nowadays !

Even in the olden days Any Woman making Her own Monies is a Queen and Majority usually have Simp as Husband or No Husband at all ... check History !

Economy will humble you as a Man ... This is War and Majority of Women are also in the war front even those Supplying Sex .... So

There is nobody to Blame ... Tough times is it by Capitalists Only few understand the Game!

obinnazy:
So there was no service yesterday due to the cross over night....
So, I had enough rest, woke up, did my laundries, ate something nice before taking a time out to the Mall.
The mall was overcrowded, then I saw a whole lot halfly naked ladies, but the surprising thing was, most them came with their babies, kids and with either their husbands, BFs or baby daddies.

Meaning most of thess halfly dressed ladies are married /Single mothers...

I also notice the influx of teenage girls on shorties accompanied by guys who looked way older.

Here are my conclusions.
1. Guys are the reason why we have alot of babymamas and single mothers.

2., Olosho no go dey, if guys no dey patronize them.

3. 98% of guys Simps

Guys are the Reason why Our Women are Who and What they are !

Nairaland Guys Bashing Girls should be Bashing their Genders!

toujurs:
If na lesson, i dn learn. But that one no mean say i no help, but very minimal and strict this time. If it happens again i go lock up, my sense of giving.

Any Help towards Chicks must be given twice thoughts before Parting

Help widows, all these Street mamas with dem children and Real beggars .. Yeah as well as The Disable !

But Full Grown Able Chick requesting you for Money on Acquaintance and You Parted like that ... Omo, She won Jackpot Sha ...

She just wan Cruise You Street to jonse with Her Paddies !

No be say person dey Stingy But Make some unfortunate people no run one Mugu!

I'm Large Hearted but Street is the Best Teacher !

Pojomojo:
Is it good for a man to request for a 50-50 in relationship?

As a man do you want a woman to bring 50+ to the table but don't expect them to be the NECK

Whether She contribute or not .. She is the Neck !

Sheistoopretty:
I'm still waiting for your AMEN on my Prayer oo

U will surely die a sad little man.. idiot

Bully

Lurdd:
I have actually tried my best to make you understand what happened here. I was actually the victim here, try to understand things..not based on taking sides on gender
I Know u must be hurt, but don't make ur foolishness fool you..I didn't get anything on a platter I was the victim kk

You are too Emotional Dude ...

Don't Do what You don't wanna Do and if you do Simply Face it ... Face Your Fears and Damn it !

You could have been a Friend with the Girl and keep things on the low-key instead of outrightly turning her down after the Acts, You Wrecked her Nigga because You are Scared like a Baby

toujurs:
If being good, is called jonzing. Yes i jonzed.

Make we loose our humanity then.

Bro Learn Lesson Before You Part with Your Land Documents in the name of Good !
Good Hearted Peeps are Easily taken Advantage of !

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placeofallure:
There's absolutely nothing to be confused about. If you are good enough to manage an office, you should be more than able to manage your life.

You give the impression you don't want her, probably because she's older, this is an inconsequential reason if you ask me. Whatever your reason is, allow her be. She's getting older so are you. This is a new year, be proactive about your love life. Stay out of her life and mean it. Go and find your sweet 16 and if she wants to sleep around, it's her choice. It won't bother you so much if you are not together anymore.

But this case ended in 2011 !

Chaos14:
Cut off any bodypart that leads you to sin

That Monk is uneducated. The Hormone responsible for the Disturbances in his Penis is not from his Penis !

After cutting his Dick, Konji go still Holam !

He can't avoid it