₦airaland Forum

satandeterrible:
My man, you've made reasonable points.
However the fact still remains that relying on money to get sex is a loser's game. If you don't agree with this fact then don't bother replying.

No woman is entitled to your money on account of having sex with you. The sex was mutual and only a hapless, game-less man will think that he owes women money because they had sex with him.

This course, this excludes hookers and prostitutes - and their patronisers.

Dunkjames5:
Lustin over her body bro damn!
I don't have any feelings for her.

Dunkjames5:
There is this Calabar girl we live in thesame compound although we use to talk crack jokes, but I don't have any sexual feelings for her.
Then just today before I woke up this morning I was having a dream she came into my house and the next thing we started romancing ourselves to the limit that we even naked ourselves before I came back from the dream land, just as I opened my door she was the first person I set my eyes on and she Shook my hand just as it happened in my dream.

Kealmin:
Please respect yourself why are you behaving like a tout, must you show your stupidity everywhere, if you can't speak maturely please get out of the thread

Sheistoopretty:
Nothing is beyond her control dear, she only saw someone who more wealthy than yourself. She's keeping close tabs on u because u are her second option (I'm sorry to say this) when the other guy is done with her, she will come back to u..

It's better it happend now than later in your marriage.. Take heart and Just move on dear

Chibueze90:
Guy you nailed it...
Na so my supposed gf served me breakfast last 2 weeks because I sent my two bank accounts with #600 in them when she requested money to fill her cooking gas, while hiding my main bank account from her just to test her....
Two days later, she sent me a message that she is no longer interested in dix relationship anymore after 1 yr of dating oo...
After that day, I fear women d more, what if na only 600 I get nko, hmmmm
And she knew that I am a university lecturer wey never receive shishi for 7months o... Ma dat one vex me d more...
After I read her message, I just replied her " No wahala, I wish you d all d best, Goodluck!!!..
Fear women
I swear

Kealmin:
Thanks Michelle for the advice, I have been thinking about this lately when this whole drama was affecting my work and personal growth just that I haven't really see someone that I love but all the same thank you

God1000:
So Russia cannot defeat Ukraine in a conventional warfare, Putin should be ashamed of himself, the so-called 2nd most powerful military in the world.

And I think america learnt from world war II that if dictators are not made to pay a price for their aggression, they will cause more chaos, Adolf Hitler started this way.


Putin should know that the west is equally ready for him and his madness, Putin must be stopped in Ukraine.

Allowing him to take over Ukraine unchecked will further embolden him to invade other countries in eastern Europe which will eventually lead to world war III, China will also follow suit by invading Taiwan

Russia's humiliating defeat is glaring to all.

Does Russia even have good delivery systems for its nuclear weapons.

Corridon:
World war 111 loading.

bonnyhope:
For you everything na money

Why won't he have erection

Is blood not flowing in him?

satandeterrible:
Stop being asinine. People like you are those who reinforce entitlement mentality on women.
Game and being redpill aware is more important in bedding women than money.

But rich simps like you think money is all you need to get a woman. That's why your kind end up raising kids that are not yours.

Chris2863:
This is very funny. Let him faint from now till next year, the court go still tidy him. I wonder how someone would be broke and still have erection

Msmither:
Just so you know, we are once naked before the whites came and gave our forefathers ceramics, guns, ordinary 50cl alcohol bottle, umbrella and some stupid things in exchange for outrageous amount of human beings.

Let them go naked, it's In their blood.

I saw a picture of alafin of OYO and his wife's back them, the wives are naked and the kind only covered his penis.

yemmit90:
That is sacrifice humanity had paid for civilization.

Civilization is good, but has destroy the peace that is left in human's existence. No one enjoy natural peace again, not even the rich, so the best way to enjoy life is to live simple.

@op, you are not alone, majority of youths don't find it easy anywhere in the world particularly in Nigeria this days. Just try your best and allow nature to sort out your future. It is pointless thinking about future that have never come, you can plan for the future but don't allow it to take the joy of your present.

CaveAdullam:
1. Even if there is a God, he is not coming to help anyone. Only humans have the sole power to change their lives and environment and cause prosperity. This is not to disqualify the metaphysical necessity of the divine; God is necessary because without the concept of God humans will live worst than animals in the wild. So, whether God exists or not, dead or alive, the divine is important. However, the divine isn't interested in humans, had it been He was interested, the world would be a better place - paradise.

2. God is not coming to help you, but you can use God to help yourself. How?

A. What do you know how to do best?
B. What's your skill?
C. What are your qualifications?
D. What can you do?

3. Brush yourself and starts attending top churches and mosques. Tell the religious worshippers or religious leaders your predicament and the things you have to offer. Don't allow anyone to waste your time, it is a game of numbers and patience. Move around, there are many churches. If you spot a church with good prospects you can stay around. Aim for churches with larger auditoriums and popular brands.

4. You can still apply for jobs if you have a degree. But it is better to learn a skill at this moment than to search for a job. However, if a job can be an effective stepping stone to your progress, please go get it.

5. There is always a way. What you need is knowledge, good strategy, energy, time, and patience.

Take action today.

Thanks.

PS: for the sake of others, this may help:

Starz825:
Life is not harsh, the Earth is

We Human and Other Living Things are Harsh because of Competitions, Greed, Hate and Wickedness

Fiscus105:
U see ur argument is just lane excuses to go beyond ur boundaries by saying, it's devil ni, I dnt know what come over me, which have become a rhetoric among Nigerians.


I insist, that ur homone can be effectively tame if u ready most especially from very beginning.

If u re not myopic, u will ask ur self, why people coming back to their normal senses when they under go psychotherapy and stop doing such excessive?


I have seen number of men who stop being dog having undergone psychotherapy ditto drug addition.

They overcame it cos they fought monster within their system that ready to put them to shame and destruction




U sleep with ur own biological daughter u now hinges it on foolish homone.....

Fiscus105:
Bro, what u used to train any part of ur body, it's what will master it, if u start taming it before u know, u will have control over it, and if u refused to control it, before u know , the part will dominate u.

....take for practical example of my life experience. I had it in my mind not to have romance relationship with any of lady in my office, neighbor and church long time ago.........do u think I dnt use to face pressure to go out with ladies in the afforementioned locations ? Definitely I normally see girls that are hot and beautiful there, but for my strong self determination, I forced my *body system" to overcome it.......... Since I married few years ago, I have had at least 4 strong temptations to go out with women in area I stayed, it's these women who were seducing me o, but I totally restrained them, I achieved this, owing to self discipline I have adopted prior to the time those temptation came.

Running after anything in skirts.
Watching porn.
Drinking.
Smoking.
Gambling.. are the behaviors that one refused to tame from very beginning and in which it/they has/have dominated him/her over the time and not necessarily that the body system of such person is weak or strong.

LilMissFavvy:
Serves him right. If he had the guts to flaunt his womanizing.. lifestyle in the office, then he must have been flaunting it at his wife too, probably threatening her that he will take a second wife. Now it's madams turn to show him pepper..

Fiscus105:
Better for him, he will learn in hard way. Any man who cannot tame his stubborn manhood, let him face whatever calamity that befalls him.
Atimes, I do imagine if it's not testosterone that runs in the body of some guys/men that runs in my body. (When I see them turn to beasts whenever they sight females)

One thing about me is that, I can never, ever have romance in my place of work, my street and my church, not even office romance, most careless type of relationship.

Abizz:
By the way, man was always talking about how difficult life was for him until he got the job. Without being told, you could picture life of a man with seven children and a wife. I could only hope he saved enough which looks almost impossible with seven children. Even me wey still single sef, na blow as e dey come for years till I manage get small sense recently.
See ehn... Promiscuity dey damage things, make I no lie. Na so Egbon take return to trenches. I pity his beautiful wife and seven children, I pity the woman as well and her own three children. I even pity myself wey type this epistle untop another person matter.. Make we sha dey learn sha.
Ire o.

Omoapena:
I buy Airtel 5k data for 40GB 3 times in a month and the only thing I do with this data is to stream reel videos on Facebook, IG & Tiktok. Yet, i use over 80GB of data just in a month.

This is eating me up honestly, what plan do you subscribe for and how long does it last you

Heffalump:
You judgement is very weak and far from possibility.
Should Putin use nuke, it will be followed by rapid and responsive repercussions like never before.
There's a UN charter on the prohibition and deployment of nuclear weapons. Any violation will witness a reciprocal reactions. Of course, several parties will be involved, and there will be a nuclear war!

Putin is just bluffing. He ain't gonna try that shit.

AbdulHakeem44:
I guess Putin

1. Systematically took four regions from Ukraine already either legally or illegally. The legality is as defined by the interested powers.

2. After settling down a bit with his newly recruied people into the army, move them and heavy military presence to this annexed regions,

3. Continue to warn Kyiv of joining NATO, Zelensky defying that again and the same process all over with the end Russia annexing another part of Ukraine.

Could this be the game??

Let's keep our fingers crossed.

justli:
This is why the west hates Putin: this is first, war on culture and identity . if you listen to the new Italian PM , she echoes the same thing: some people want to reduce all of humanity to mere numbers, no identity and sense of direction.

How can we trust people that say a man can be a woman and vise versal, and if you dare to think otherwise you can be cancelled.

How can we trust people that thinks mum and dad should be replaced with parent 1 and parent 2 just to accommodate the homosexuals?

How can we trust people that organises hormone therapy for children under 12 permitting them to change gender

How can we trust people who have declared an all out war on farmers, taking over their land, banning them from engaging, and by so doing systematically engineering global famine?

These people are evil... And time will tell

Heffalump:
Putin is a very bad student of history. Hitler tried this nonesense 77 years ago and got his ass burnt out.

The nuclear war he's banking on will consume everybody, including himself. He knows it'll be difficult to win this war. This attempt of annexation is to save face

Holywater123:
Honestly, I have 3k with me but it is for an emergency tomorrow. I have sent them an email to know if they can deduct the money back.

Kasssandra:
Coups do not work, and do not solve the problems they are meant to solve.

Several months ago, Burkina had a coup, and most of you Nairalanders were saying that we should have the same in Nigeria.

Well, in 1966, we had a coup. January that year. By July we had another coup. By January 1970, millions of people who welcomed the new year in 1966 were dead. DEAD. For nothing.

In 1983, they came again. Told us that Shagari was wrecking the economy...yet in one year, we were queueing up for food. When they came in, naira was less than N2 to one dollar, by 1999, it was N90 to one dollar...if not higher.

And yet on Nairaland, I see kids...yes kids...who were lucky to be born when we had democracy...calling for coup because they are mad that Buhari won in 2015.

How about people like me that are mad that since 1999, we have not gotten a great democratic government.? People like me that have never voted for PDP, or Buhari, or any major party since 2003, when I cast my first vote? Because we saw the same old people in those parties?

Yet, I don't want coup. Coup always leads to more problems.

Anyone calling for coup does not know how hellish it was. MNK that most of you like...if it was millitary ruling now, he would have long since shot him, and passed a decree and backdated it to cover his legal ass. And if any biafra supporter comes out, they would be gunned down in high numbers and detained in high numbers than what we have now. Same for oodua, same for even Boko Haram. There would be no freedom to protest, newspapers would be closed down, and they will pay you bad salaries, and you will dare not go on strike because...you would be jailed for protesting.

And coup always leads to more coups and more coups and more coups.

Better continue with democracy. It is hard work...but it is better than army rule. Army rule did not solve our problems, it did not make us a better country, it even wrecked the army...which it has not yet recovered from, and gave us wounds that we are still recovering from till today.

Sorry, but democracy is better.

kerry57:
But why have Africa refused to grow. Developed countries are talking increasing tech, research, innovation and inventions, we are still struggling with coup, old leaders that refused to rest, corruption, rituals etc. Na who do us this thing abeg?

Hidewell:
There are things that really hurts more than breaking up with a spouse.

Mine is seeing someone in need and yet I can't help.

What of yours? Nlfpmod

KalioPeter:
Amongst other things...

Does both party not enjoy the act of sex?

you ladies making it seem like we the one in NEED of it

KalioPeter:
Can't men also do prostitutions?



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