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2elliot:
Don't allow your wokeness deceive you. The George Soros, Bill Gates, Klaus Shwabs, and the rest of the globalists are working had to bring 1984 to reality. While you may not believe in God, they will become your gods after when they have total control of the world. They are working seriously to attain this feat.

The Question is what are you doing about it Stop Stressing Your Brain and Enjoy your world.

Earth will not End Only Humanities will Reset if we fvcked up too much!

When Good People Do nothing and Bad People Does Something, Humanities will Be bad!

Go and Become the Bill Gates and Start Countering Them what Stops You ?

Youngwiz71:
If na me be the lady I no marry am again..... Why should I enter marriage as if you're doing me a favour...

You don see Husband for Market Abi The woman get Sense na ...

If dem born the guy well make ihm carry her go obodo oyinbo Same woman wey dey talk Sir dey blow teeth anyhow go change am for him .... ... Send him comot his own house and still dey Hustle him Monthly ... ...

Smart Woman She dey Smile make she sha comot Single Market ... e no easy

The Guy seems like a Control Freak Sha Skit or No Skit ... Never-Ever Enslave your woman, Do your Manly job make she do her womanly Job!

GreaterFuture:
The kind of Job, you no talk...
What led to you employing her, you no talk
Key aspect to the story and which would make the lesson make sense to the readers you didn't mention,
Then you said don't hire based on BLa bla bla...
Lol, Says a whole lot

Abi oooo ...

DaddyFreeze2020:
May her soul rest in peace.

May her demise also signal a new era birthed in Nigeria jettisoning the relics of colonialism and the colonial mentality from Nigeria.
Long live the King.

This is the least we can do. Other than Colonialism, We haven't Managed Ourselves Better and We have never Managed Ourselves Better.

Thank You for Western Educations, I would have been an Herbalists in One Remote Village thinking the Earth and Humanities Actually Began in My Village.

We need to Utilised everything we learned from them and turn ourselves around ...

Evolutionary Growths and Developments doesn't come without Prices including War!
What we do Afterwards makes us Advanced or Non Advanced ...

We haven't Journeyed Better and we don't like Ourselves Much than the Britain doesn't like Us ....

The Only Reason Neo Imperialism can be rotted is Sabotage from fellow Citizens who are not Patriots!

ChocolateWine:
Lol, see the angle you're coming from. What's needless? The epistle of God? Preaching holiness is now forming?

All sins are not equal. Read your Bible or go for good Bible lessons.

I Cor 6:18 Flee sexual immorality! "Every sin that a man does is outside the body," but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.

You won't go to prison for thinking of killing Queen Elizabeth, but you'd for doing the act or even threaten to. God is not callous.

You go like troubles ooo
Leave the girl alone na ... She won't hear you ... You sef go Stubborn no be small .... Life is Choice and There is Consequences for Every Act ...

God won't be Guilty for Anyone because Our Actions shall Earn Her Consequences!

OkoRemi2023:
you're making hasty generalization and still uninformed



if your pussy is sweet and you're foolishly not reading the handwriting of heartbreak, I can still be fúcking you for good 3years without getting tired



so some men have long commitment to waste your time, guys that fúck you for two weeks and change obviously have no time for relationship, we that have relationship can fúck five girls at a time



I've dated 10 girls at a time back then in school and they'll have time table of visitation, them no born you well to visit me when is not your day of visitation

I just laugh Sotey, Many Madmen Abound

Toyindiva:
Lol, no man dey confuse me is just what is happening am analyzing here am telling you bro, Na only God fit choose for person.

You presented your write ups in a Turniowniown ways.
God Factor is Everything But we are just Replica of what God gift to Us!

To Receive Your Best, Be Your Best!

Toyindiva:
What I know is just that even though you cut your head for some men who go love u go love you even though you have sex with him and is your destined husband he will marry you no matter what all those men wey nor be your ow Na dem dey dissapoint pass, so there is no manual don’t do this or that I have seen a situation whereby the woman his independent and the man still jilted her. Some men are very wicked oh even one man married his wife and still treat her like trash my own is just that marry your best friend a man that will love you the best thing is to seek the face of God.

Aswear Men Yaff Confuse You sotey you no even understand again but I love your Conclusions.

God, Once God chooses for You Gbam:
To Enjoy God, You have to Be Reasonable though!

Pells:
Sorry to tell you that your püssy is very wide like River Niger
No reasonable guy will like to swim inside an ocean that's why they can't take you serious,,,
I hope you go see man marry due to the big hole for your kpekus,
Try allum dey reduce the hole Sha
If your kpekus tight,no man will ever lose interest in you

... Nigerian Boys sha

robinso01:
Another good reason not to stay alone and isolate yourself from family. No matter what, let a family member know your place of residence. The family might have filed for missing case.

From Dust we Evolved, To Dust we Devolves:

Hmmmm

shantti:
Are you aware the slavery that existed in Africa was more cruel than the trans-atlantic slave trade. Are u aware. Slaves werent considered humans in Africa, they were chained to trees and killed for fun. They had no living quarters. The slavery in Africa by africans was very evil, why do we not talk about it or make movie about it. We hide it, why?? Yet we blame oyibos for the minor ones they did. You've heard about osu, right, do the descendant of these osus put up with shitty behaviors all cos of the trans-generational humiliation and agony they faced, even though they are still not considered free born even till date.

Oyibos were even humane to African slaves, Africans sacrificed slaves to deities. So don't even go there unless u r suggesting that Africans should start behaving like AA women cos of the yeye post slavery syndrome bushit

Africans are simply Wicked being the Epicenter of Homo Sapiens Evolution.

Evolve and Japa since Aeon Time till Date

We should Evolve and Stay Back to Fix Africa then Turn it around for Good.. !

LordGuru1:
Black men are actually the Senseless ones for allowing the evil colonial Cockasian manipulate their Black Women into this Distructive State. When males don't see that Protecting, Nuturing,Grooming and Developing their children and Females is completely their vital and most important Responsibility as Males, then the Males are utterly irresponsible and Senseless! A great wise Sage once said "Character of a females in a particular Tribe is a Reflection of the Males of that specific Tribe." Look around the World, any Tribe that has high % Percentage of Females as Prostitutes reflects very Useless, Lazy and Irresponsible Males as the majority of the Tribe. QED.

HoHaaa!!
21st Century Men are yet to Understand 21st Century Women: There is need for Trainings on "How to Manage 21st Century Women"

Everyone is Enlightened, Most Men 'Genetically' are not Used to Enlightened Women: They want that Submissions Bimbo Their Ancestors Enjoined without Questions....

Babe of Nowadays will Question Your Existence and we all Keep Jumping from One to Another looking for that Messiah(Saviour) But All Saviours are Woke Already

WantsandMore:
Very true Bro. Feels like you have got working experience on this matter. With women it’s wisdom or nothing . Funny how you conquer them and dey give you everything. Like they offer their souls to you . Which is scary too .

LOL .. It Happens to Any Human Bro ... You Offer Your Soul to The Protector in Trust.

You would be Scared because that's a "Life" in Your Hands. Messed it Up, You Destroy an Entire Existence ....

Karma Also Kicks Immediately without You knowing to Messes you all Up except You Sabi Fight Karma .. Another War in Itself more raging than your Odds against the Betrayed Woman/Human.

Thats how Earth Works ....

Fvck Up Someone, Be Fvcked Up by that Someone or Another Person for it shall be written for You that You must Be Fvcked ...

Raise Someone and Be Raised by that Someone or another Person for it shall be written for you that You MUST Be Raised...

... If You Guck or Dull Yourself, Either way: Good or Bad, You will be Fvcked Up ... Reasonableness is Key!

What You should be Scared of is Losing Your Mojo, so Stay Focused and Relaxed while Enjoying Yourselves !

Nature takes Very Good Care of Her Own People:

Didi2d:
Thanks man!
I really appreciate.

Seriously, at some point I told her she needs spiritual deliverance and picks that up as usual. Because she can pick argument when you least expect

Dude, Don't talk Straight to Your woman in Attacking mode ... She is simply repelling your Assaults..... Emotional Intelligence is what You Lack ... Cr7 my Dude Leg Over ... You See Neymar too ... Confuse Her Brain with Skills But Mean Well .....

Diplomatic-Relations is the only way to Managing Toxic Women .....

Na Toast and Formatting We Boys dey Use for Now ... Shower her Encomium, Eulogies and Pray for Her .... then Craze it Out when e Red only to Apologise again make she no vex ... To keep a Home Requires Skills bro ...

Take Your Woman out to a Cafe, Apologise for Everything even the one wey u no do wrong..... tell her to tell you how she think you can fix and fill the gaps existing between you too .... Crack Nonsense Story about Your Office and Solicit for her Advise.. Whine na Say she Get Sense no be Small ... Na formatting... She go Open Brain for you not just Pussayy !

Go Emotional Bro ... Na Johnse ... u no sabi act Movie ni ehn

Co-Opt Out Her Maternal, Feminine and Womanly Emotions all Together and let her Cry for You .... She will Never know wetin Hit Her ... Yeah na Motor Jam am .. na You!

If u sabi Desmond Elliot, You self Cry for Her .... Na you know say na Politics Be everything..... Wipe Out Her Tears ... Register Yourself in Her Pool of Emotions Nevertheless, Never-Ever allow her flood of emotions to tarry you away ... Get hold of your paddle and paddle her Head as You like .... She will run Mouth like Water for You then You can control the narratives from there Diplomatically without her knowing ...... She will give you Her daily Sales before You ask How much she makes ... You know what, You are her emotional Pillor, Bed and Resting place:

She will pour out all You do wrongs to You then You can Safe your Home and your Children from becoming Motherless ....


For her to Dislike Your Children by asking you to carry them away as You leave: Two things are involved :

You have wounded her Emotions more than Enough with Your Immaturities tarrying Alongside Her Immaturities... She is the one driving Your Emotions... Never Allow Women Drive Your Emotions, You will Lost .... She knows she is Immature But She wants you to Be Mature and Game Her .....

or:

She dey chew something from another dude that has shut you out of her Emotional Thresholds and anything related to You ..... She is not happy about it herself but You ain't also Rescuing the situation....

Number 1 is likely the case ... Most women don't joke with Maternal Emotions which is the strongest ......

Any Women wey dey craze for me ... I use their children re register myself back into their soul ....

You know even sabi how to make your woman compete with Her Children for You ... Use Her Head Knack Her Pikin and Let Husband and Daddy Competitions Begins while You relax and watch make everybody dey worship You .... ... Pikin dey fight Mummy for carrying their papa away ... Mummy dey fight pikin for Her husband...


How about your Bed games Bro ... Good Sex is a Means of Owning a Woman ... She will always Come Back for the Deek Even if you are a Biat.chhhh talkless of Being a Godly Bad Boy .... She will Wrestle Heaven and Hell For You even if You Messed the whole World ... She is Hypnotised:

Lewandowski is a Dangerous player in front of Goals and Many Fear Messi in football because he is a Dribbler ... Bros ... To excel in Marriage no be small work ... You have to be committed to Excellence and Call God to Bless Your Efforts!

One Woman is like Managing Nigeria as a Country with Over 500 Janjawee Enthnic Groups ... E eas, Some Woman be Like Managing Africa !


God is the Absolute no be Skills alone Bro .. Call God to Intervene and whatever God shows you Humble Yourself to take Corrections Don't Fight God ....

21st Century has alot but Humanity Render God Backstage thinking our Reasonableness is enough to Stir Earth.... We go Suprise as Everything dey Roast ....

Laslas God Always Rescue Us when We Humble ... Earth no go End ... if Earth End, Human race will still Ressurrect Somehow somewhere!

Na we Human God Bless Pass ... Tap God to Help You Tap Your Maturities so as to Rescue the Situations:

WantsandMore:
Fam you can’t be tired, lol, as ridiculous as this sounds & talmbout wife battering, nah, don’t even go there, since you mentioned people already interfering, same people will blame you and tell you 1million reason why it’s your fault. Okay, she gets on your nerves agreed! Do you smoke? Drink or have any vices ? If not be careful not to over indulge to escape your reality . Make your kids the center of your attention, ignore her, do not talk to her, perhaps if you must, drop notes , play with the kids if you are at home , still be kind to her , not nice , be kind . If yuu can afford to get her stuffs as you used too when the whole love been dey shack una, do am with a note , she’s annoying , yes but she’s yours, lol. When she playfully comes around, ignore her. This is only temporary, if she offers kpekus, collect , it’s rightfully yours . Other than that, ignore her tantrums. Always laugh or smile when she begins her drama while sounding serious if you must engage her in any meaningful rebuttal. If you want to fast track this game, drop a note, notifying her thus “Dear beautiful wife, I understand you are under pressure due to circumstances i May not understand, as we do not communicate as much as we used too, in light of this, I’m considering adding a new wife to ease your burden so as to enable you take care of business , this does not change the fact that I love you dearly .” Yours loving husband. Drop this note with a gift .
Move around with smiles and laughter around the house, women are good emotional gangsters, you have to beat them @ their game. Be liquid, find somebody you can always be talking to on the phone so as to make the suspicions real. Lol.. play this game fam. Don’t move outta the house . Will you be able to do this? Maybe, will it work , I honestly don’t know . However, make sure there’s no form of abuse and always ensure the kids see that the fault is from the mom, this way she cannot turn the kids against you in your absence, if t helps, get a separate bedroom. Man this marriage thing is a long con game and you have to win with smiles , be flexible in your dealings . Red flags or not she’s your responsibility, take care of her, if you must argue with her, always discredit her point of view without actually saying anything meaningful. Make it seem she’s the issue and you are only tryna help, if not why would you raise fund for her business venture which has eventually taken your place . At this stage she may begin to ask around who is your side chickito, you have to make this a secret too..omo i don type oh. If she no heard word. na she sabi, if wetin I write make sense modify to your taste, remove wetin no make sense . Perhaps ignore the whole thing and do wetin dey your mind, last, last, fo ths life experience is a better teacher and also pray for her if you be spiritual person rather than complaining . Sha stiill Do you .

You have really posited alot of Great Strategies but with a Toxic Woman, OP can be Poisoned or Planked during Sleep:

Maturity is beyond Financial Needs....

A Man Maturity is when you are able to control/Manage the Emotions and Mental Faculty of Your Woman even in Your Broke Phase:

Different Women with Different Emotional needs that's why "Players" are the real Men for Most Women .....

I have adapted to be whatever A Women Needs not "Want" ..... Most Wants Are Insatiable but Needs are Essential:

14years is enough to handle a Woman's baggage of Beans and Quench the fire in her Head...

For you to Manage same issues for 16years shows You ain't fit to manage her ....

Go on Sabbatical Yourself and think through everything then Beg God to give you the wisdom and Maturities necessary to Manage your Woman...

You will see what you are Missing then Fix it, You Fix her.

Emotional Intelligence is a Skill 21st Century Men must Possess in order to Manage 21st Century Women and Receives Best Deals like Our Forefathers Received if not that Marriage is Going for a Crash like a Plane without Fuel !

lailo:
Let them be playing with cancer . Meanwhile despite this, u need to convince me why white ladies would still come to Africa for gbola

Cancer is the real Problem because when the cells in the vagina Wall is Over stimulated and the Brain Keep producing Dopamine ....

Worn out become easier and cells/neurons could start misbehaving .

Dearlord:
Can someone just tell me the essence of this nonsense?

Such inventor is one of the major problem to mankind

It is not a Nonsense ...

Some women would need it to keep them Sane:

Rozross:
Very soon some women will no longer need men, I’m an exception because as a strong dependent woman I’ll need a man by my side to perform his duties.

Every Women need Men and Every Men need Women But When Either fails to meet the one(s) solely created for him/Her then You result to gadgets or technologies which comes with Its Depressions too:

We need each other Tech or No Tech
We are all Biological Existence that can't exist in Isolation without critical prices to the mental faculty!

Exceed15:
Can ladies who are sexually active refrain too? As e dey do man na so e dey do woman.

e dey do woman pass man.

meobizy:
“Ladies, will you date a short man?”
“Ladies, will you date a man richer than your father?”
“Ladies, are you really ladies?”
“Ladies, will you marry a guy with a bent phallus?”
“Ladies, will you…”
“Ladies…”

Back in the day I wasted time responding to these low self esteem questions. Today I shake my head and wonder how ugly these boys are. Nairaland being anonymous helped many people.

But you still Responded...

Safe Yourself the ego on an Anonymous forum and just enjoy yourself.

Zimzy:
By default I and my girlfriend now my wife didn't even discuss that and it never happened even though we dated for four years.

4 years ... Una na SU
Make I kuku no date at all ...

How Person go dey with woman no touch, smooch talkless of shaggggg .....

Flee Fornication na ihm dem talk ... If I no Flee e mean say I go do am ...

Nicepoker:
Says a knocked off spare part.

Dear God .. She only responded to Op

Realestatevixen:
The best approach is exactly what the teacher is doing. Remain calm until she is done throwing tantrums .

It may not be easy when you start this journey, but with time it becomes part of you.
You see ehn, children actually depend on us for calm. You as the adult should model how to control emotions before these children. When you hit that child, you have compounded the problem because you have not taught the child anything about calm and managing their emotions.

Whatever method you decide to employ, please ensure you DO NOT BEAT the child.

P.s If you are here and you are saying beat, knock her etc., then there's no difference between you and that Ugandan woman in that video torturing that innocent two year old little girl. I wept profusely while watching that video, in fact, I am yet to heal from that trauma.

Bro, Walahi I will Beat Her and She will Sleep ... then when she wakes up we shall take a ride to Ice cream and toy Shop then sit down and discuss about Everything.

I dont like Madness from kids ... that dirty water Fuelling such mad emotions for destroying things needed to be dried out from her Gene !

Unless I dey abroad but here in Naija ... I go Beat am till she says Daddy stop and she must be made to Apologise and promised with written and Signed Undertakings Never to Destroy anything again for Life Home or Abroad!

maureensylvia:
ADHD!

ADHD kids destroy property as a way of coping with anger.

They can't control there frustrations and extreme feelings until they destroy properties.

It actually calms there nerves for a while and make them feel satisfied.

Best is to wait until the girl has calmed down before punishing her, while she's growing and she continues such,they should make her accountable for the destroyed properties

If She sees Worst ADHD( Abi which English you Speaking) ... She go pack one side and Scoffs till she sleeps off:

African Child no dey do ADHD even the one in the Street Once they are Hustled for Once, they are Humbled ....

Which kain.

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
Vawulence

When a vawulentic sperm fertilise a vawulentic egg

The resultant offspring

The Mother's Gene Right there ....

NotBeenPaid:

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An untamed child - It's America.

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At that Point All She need is One Resounding Slap and All the Demonic elements in the Brain will Reset to Oblivion and She will tell us what the Problem is With Immediate Alacrity:

We then Shower for Her and She take a Cup of Tea and Sleeps:

Next time she tells us what's up not Messed Up .....

Dem Don too dey spoil kids for Yankee ... Africa manner of raising kids is still my Favourite ......

E get way your parents go handle you you go confess wetin you no steal ....

jeromestarks:
You tried. You really tried. Well done.
Blaming men is just a crunch to make you feel better; it's not helping.
Sweetheart, why do you blame men for the indecent behavior of women and young girls? I thought everyone is supposed to have his or her own brain.

You don't have to Shower Me Encomium

Those women being Fvcked ain't Crying they Enjoy the Sex and Your Money ... Na you Lose Sperm and Resources but of course Your Brain No go Tell You Because You No Sabi Pass Fvck

You are the one crying on their behalf because your Tendency of getting virgin is less in 2022 .....

When Slow Men like you Abound and Fvcked Most Teenagers Nigerian girls only for Same You to Come Around and Be Demanding for Virginity from Same Girls You and Your Goons have Shagged

A Stu.pid Man is the One who Eat PuffPuff Finish and Still Looking for Same PuffPuff Everywhere.....

As You Dey fvck the ones in Ya Area na so everyone dey fvck the one in their area so and You still Blaming Women Who are Principally Created to Tend to Men ....

They already give you the Pvssy You want so Stop Asking for their Brain ..... If You want Brain, Give them Brain and they will give You x10 of Whatever Brain You give them .....

Same way, Shag Her One time and Pass Am Over ... She will Shag 10men ....

Men Fail Women:

sheba123:
Sleeping with your married boss even while pregnant for your own hubby?? I don't even know how to react to this tbh.. wait o, did they know all this and still went ahead to elect her as MP with her questionable character?? Christ Jesus!

They knew everything and it doesn't matter one bit:

You also have your own Dirt, She has her own dirt and we all have Dirts ....

No Animal/Human or anything is Holy:

I think You said You have worked with Brits but can't fathom why a shagged woman still emerged MP/PM in 2022 Her Sexcapades doesn't Affect Her Job or Judgements... She Slipped and Dust Up Since Years:

Note: Pvssy is Meant to be Fvcked and D.ick is Meant to be Fvcked same way Mouth is Meant to Be Fed:

Sex Was Only Regulated to Keep Sanity in the Society and Avoid Chaos like in Animal Kingdom because Well Shagged women/Men would simply shift emotions from her primary mate unto another man which can lead to War and Mass Chaos:

Don't stress Yourself over it, Liz Knows and Wear it like a Crown, Everyone knows but Only You It won't move her One bit even when thrown to her Face .....

jeromestarks:
My kinda woman. Intelligent, beautiful, elegant and sexy.
Young people are leading great nations all over the world but Nigerians decide to stick with old people.
Modified:

No Nigeria girl at her age will reason the way Truss reasons.
Do you know that this woman has been leading since age 19?
19 year old nija girl is thinking of how to get money from a guy or how to increase the likes on her Facebook page. Shame on our girls.
Most of these girls in their 30s today did nothing when they were young. All they did (and still do) is thinking how their pvssy can get them a man.

A happy home produces mentally stable children who can lead the world. To have stable home do no marry a woman you did not disvirgin else you will be training someone else's child.

Once your woman starts misbehaving, know that she has met another man. No woman will joke with the only man in her life.

If you marry a woman who has ex just know that she will fvck her ex the moment he shows up.

Finally, fvck any girl you want but when you're ready to settle down, find a virgin.

Most of the Girls you mentioned were trained by People like the father that trained You:

In Any Nation, Women are Replica of What Men are all About:

You Want Just Pvssy, They Give You just Pvssy, You want Higher IQ, they give You Higher IQ:

People like Truss won't get Husband in Nigeria easily because she would have been tagged Opinionated and Verily Janjawwed as times Evening Newspaper:

If 19years old Nigerian Knows Nothing then Their Father Knows nothing same way You know Nothing .....

What have you done to increase the Values of Womanhood in Your Constituency

At the End, You still Ended Everything with Sex ... Dark Brain .... When You fvck the Brain out of all the Girls, Si.lly you would still be Asking them for Brain wey you self no get .....

Men Trains Women:
Your Women are What Your Men are:

placeofallure:
My husband is 12 years older and we're fine.
Now, that's some years. It takes some woman who is mature, with sense of purpose about what she wants to be able to handle that. There's a generational gap I won't lie, can she handle it?
If the both of you will cope, it's really not in the years but your personalities. You need to create a point of convergence, something like meeting yourself in the middle to strike a balance - she will exemplify adulthood tendencies and you will act more youthfully than your real age.
You can manage don't be scared. In my marriage for instance, I'm the more mature partner, our ages regardless.

You are truly Experienced and Matured:

MEGAdime:
A "Millennial" getting married to a "Gen-Z"
Verdict: It will end in tears.
Good luck!

Weyrey ...

Gen Z of Today go turn Millenial of Tomorrow ... Na turn by turn

ibechris:
U are complaining for me.
How is it my problem...giving my money and gift to my dad makes me feel good and mentally balanced.

If it hurts u...so be it.
Did I tell that I find it difficult giving to him.

Small children wey think say life is all about Internet. Wake up and stop being childish.

I for Speak on Your Behalf but You already dished out to Her well Served:

Children of 2022 Do not understand how Earth Works until they become older themselves:

Life is a Cycle, Be Good to All just use your Sense: