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Bobloco:

I think that's also something you can put your hot head upon and you will reset to Gear 0 ... Only that, Your A.ss will get dropped if your Hustles no plum very well ... stay within your means.

Youngpo413:
This world will be a better place if men and woman can on their own... The wahala too much.

You become incomplete Half Man. You want turn the world into a total mess and abode of Zombies.

Nature already did a great Job na wey dey messed up.

Toks2008:
You must be a cultist for not seeing those things as huge sacrifices. Habba! You think it is easy to for a man to go hustle in this Buhari era and then have the mind to give a lady even 1k or for a woman to keep the home running. Guy stop this mindset

Same time it ain't easy for your woman to carry una baby alone for 9months ontop matter you accomplished within max of 9hours ...

Tell her thank You now, E easy for this buhari Era.

Kobojunkie:
Let's stop selling these moronic tales abeg!

A man makes absolutely no sacrifice of any kind by choosing to role of sole provider in what is his own family same way a woman makes no sacrifice when she chose to carry the weight of what is her own family all on her head.

No one deserves a medal or award for doing what he/she can for what is his/ her own family. And no, taking on more responsibilities than your partner does not install you as god over the other. It should simply be the case that you take on more because you dont mind it.

There is need for reward system from both parties towards one another hence the Brain gets easily bored and Gased out. Thus, both parties deserves a medal and an award system just to Maggi and Chicken pepper the adventure.

E.g. Thanks for doing what you should do

Iyaebe:
I wholeheartedly support this writeup,I don’t have any problems with giving my all to a man who is masculine enough to take his provider role seriously,it is evil and out of place not to give such man the deserving peace and happiness required from you.Let everyone know his/her role and be perfect at it.Where wahala will start is when you start requesting that I share responsibilities with you,I no knack head for ground not to know when to render assistance and cover up for you as at when needed but if you want to shine eyes and be fronting the “what are you bringing to the table “ slogan then I will make sure we apply that equality principle on every damn thing and happenings in our lives together,including the bedroom activities.

The problem is will you actually get the one that will bell You ?

I know for a secs You don't presently

The Truth is most girls wants a Man. But a Man also wants a Woman not a Girl. Same way a Woman wants a Man not a Boy.

It all boils down to the Level of Maturities across the divides:

Many girls do not metamorphosed into Womanhood

Many boys do not metamorphosed into Manhood

Relationship that will stand the test of time must be between a Man and a Woman.

Anything short is an invitation to tsunami that will end in Lamentations from either or both parties

Are you sure you are a woman or a girl

Toks2008:
In any purposeful relationship, there is need for both parties to actually contribute something substantial in ensuring the material success of the relationship. And I'm talking about both parties contributing to the financial table

But be that as it may, i honestly believe that men by default are providers and some men do not mind bringing everything to the table but one very worrisome trend i have observed is that many ladies who bring absolutely nothing to the table find it difficult to respect these amazing men who sacrifice so much to be the sole contributor.

So what is the Point?

It is understandable that for so many reasons, a lady may not be in the position to bring anything to the table but such a lady should make it a duty to bring respect, loyalty, faithfulness, lots of love to that man who does his best to provide. Honor him like a king because he is making so much sacrifice but if for any reason you find it difficult to accord him the aforementioned then simply leave his life and let him look for a better lady who will value him. If you are not ok with what you get from him, please leave him and go look for a richer man.

And if you are a man who is sacrificing so much for a lady who brings nothing to the table and you are not getting the respect you deserve please break away from such a lady and stop wasting your resources on her cos trust me on this, it is most likely that there is another man out there who is giving her much more and that is who she gives the proper respect.

No man should lord over his woman because she brings nothing to the table but it is a taboo for any lady who brings nothing to the financial table to disrespect a man who brings and no man should ever let this happen. If she can't respect you, let her vacate the seat for a lady who will appreciate you

I hope this message is clear.

If you bring 100% Economic Resources to the table and your woman is not bringing atleast Peace of Mind to Your table is your fault. We all attracts who we truly are mentally. Our Environment respond to our mental energy.

A man that lacks potents(ManPower) is a Boy. A man receiving nothing is a Boy.

A boy shouldn't engage in a romantic relationship no matter his age, that's stage is for when he becomes a Man(Mental Development to get Submissiveness from a Woman without even demanding):

A woman will Automatically submit to a Man without you stressing ...

Everyone just jump into anything nowadays regardless of whether they have the Maturity to Sire the Venture at the end of the day na Cries go full everywhere.

Lastpharoah33:
I want to kickstart too on this programming journey, I'm willing to give it this whole year.

I will be taking crypto courses too. Hope it's worth it guys?

Once I get My Laptop this Year before December. I have 5years plans for Data Science/Data Analysis and atleast Basic Knowledge of other languages other than Python(My Preferred Language) make I marry am with Accounting:

I don't like going to War without Appropriate Weapons: I fight to emerge a General.

iLegendd:
I don't love.

There was a girl that just came back from abroad for her studies. Curvy, tall, smart and intelligent, but arrogant.

I didn't know she smokes SK. Do I really need to go in details? No.

Long story short, I banged her and she couldn't believe it. She called her female bestie abroad and was blushing and telling her how she had the best f*ck of her life.

She became addicted to the rod — and wants me for herself. Who wouldn't? Because no one owns me, I refused. Most girls are bisexual.

She invited another girl for three of us to do a thréesome. It happened and I thoroughly gave it to the girl she brought like never before and enjoyed it.

The next day, she angrily bumped on me and said, "Look at you? Why did you f*ck her like that? You were just enjoying yourself like a dog blah blah blah."

The argument started slowly and her anger was the fact that I acted as if I enjoyed the new girl more than her. She was jealous and angry.

At a pointed, she said I'm useless that the only thing I'm good at is sex. This really hurts me because I was broke at the time. Maybe, because I didn't have money, so she felt I was unless except in sex.

This was in 2016 and that was why I started writing the book Lasticle.

I said to myself, "If this girl said I'm useless — all I know is how to f*ck, then I deserve to teach married men how to f*ck and satisfy their wives and make money from it. God will bless me if I help these married me."

I did and today, that book is global and has made money for me and still making forever.

I bless her for that insult.

Two weeks later, she brought another girl for another thréesome and wanted me to join, but I declined. Ever since, I don't let women have me easily. I realized the value I have, so I don't sleep around and I don't take nonsense attitude from women.

Health is sanity, brain is wealth.

Machiavelli, you just dey change the narrations: This Book must sell anyway na way. I will buy One Self soon.

Explorers:
US.

Pictured, the exterior of a nuclear-proof bunker built by Texas-based company Rising S Bunkers.

Burying the bunker.

The bunkers are buried at least 11ft under the ground to provide ultimate safety.

We are actually going back to where we all evolved from: Inside Earth ..

When the inside was hot we popped up:

When the outside gets hotter, we popped in:

All I know is that Mother Earth will bury all this Generation before we Deorbit Her with Nuclear ... People wey suppose dey farm to provide green for Earth created nuclear bomb, e send us Nuclear energy

We should be intercepting Comets and Asteroids not ourselves.

There is no where to Run because Earthquake at that 11ft will still pop that flat Nyansh Billionaire Up

Human think say dem fit create wahala and no see am Finish, na lie... All of Us go dey here. If they even run enter Mars, Kasala still dey await them because the Horrible DNA is still what they are exporting to Mars: The DNA of War, Hatreds and Cheating:

Global Peace must be Guaranteed by the Good Ones: That's the Solution. Rule of Law and Respect for all. Capital Punishment for Capital Offence.

The Universe is a Box like the Maze Runner Movie: No where to Run, just stand and be Good then Promote Good.

All of them are just Depressed and Zombied.

Nwodosis:
That na old format, it won't work. The woman and the kids should visit the
nearest Spanish embassy and have their documents restored.

Simple. I doubt she knows her right. She shouldn't cry except she is illegal.

iamogunlowo:
Man spends heavily for his side chick.



https://mobile.twitter.com/JustKingss/status/1503360294629826567

Idiota is ranting on his client. An asset bought in Confidential. He for buy am for dck na.

He pain am lol

Jayzx:
U get mind o

He got Money too.
Mind is not enough on this kinda journey because when the chicken start roasting, Mind Self go cut.

Jayzx:
But science could have find something to end this AS issues start from the costly IvF and other methods

Already been found but expensive and Success rate too. Also, Pray there won't be post surgery complications.

Stem cell (Bone Marrow) Transplant.

PrimadonnaO:
AC and AS can't have SS kids.

But they may have an SC kid.

what's the difference between SC and SS ?

Do SC also have crisis or pass through same Phases as SS or they differ ?

PrimadonnaO:
I don't subtly ask.

Infact, after asking, and it looks like a relationship I may want to pursue, you'll have to go get tested at a reputable centre.

Infact, make it 3 different reputable hospitals. You can't be too careful.

Before the marriage visit go back to the 3 different reputable hospitals and add extra 3 different reputable hospitals.

Check everything checkable. SS is not a good idea. How could a child be born into Hell and Suffer all through his/her life 20years, 30years different stages of crisis only to eventually die with serious Catastrophic trauma on the Child and the Entire Family.

bosschinalu:
Please Nlanders, Can AC and AS give birth to SS?

Not a good idea as far as Nigeria is concerned. You can even birthed SC and SS. Run, both of you can only Relate with AA except you wanna go IVF route then Hold your Money.

Zonefree:
Like, money for divorce is just for therapy. After divorce, it's expected the man has to pay the woman so she can see a therapist.

So, who will now pay for the man's therapy?

Women are just weird. I still wonder why God created them out of our ribs instead of brain.

Then they would be Man. You like Gay ?

Iyaebe:

Checkmate!! Yippee:
you see why panso dey run from marrying you

Iyaebe:
I have them queuing up in abundance,I swear I’m the one spoilt for choices,grace found me

your left Nyansh there so why did you create a thread and tagged it "Hard" when you have them in abundance

Abundance becomes Hard

Iyaebe:
Yes I can say I’m successful and got all it takes to want such kind of man.

"to want" is different from "to get". You can want to become President of America but Do You have what it takes ?

If truly you are, nature will supply you with abundant of them if not, You won't get shingbae.

Iyaebe:
Are there still rich young men who are very successful in all aspects of life without been a smoker, alcoholic, fraud,cryptocurrency(modified name for internet fraud),womanizer or into deceiving old white women for green card?

Are you successful in all aspects of Life.

You can't get who you ain't

You will always get who you are but we all like ourselves always faulting the other party

Just look innately inward. Pansopist wife.

nickyj19:
Hello Guys,
A relationship would not go well or even last long if one
person does not overlook the excesses of the other and
that is where acting like an idiot comes in.
You have to overlook some of the things you see and also
things you hear for the relationship to keep going.
the fact that two captains can not control a ship. It is
either one person is smart and the other behaves like an
idiot (is able to overlook certain things) or there will not be
long lasting peace in the relationship.
For your relationship to survive this long, definitely one of
you is the “Idiot” who is keeping the relationship breathing
by forgiving, overlooking the hiccups and that’s okay.
The million dollar question is


Who Is The Idiot In Your Relationship??


Lets hear from you all

A relationship with one idiot is bound to fail.
A relationship with two clever persons Geared Towards positivity is bound to stay.

Atleast, You know both of you are aware of each other's sensitivity thus Inhibiting some stupid moves. You will get got and easily figured out. Respect is Bound to happen.

Wittyduchess:
sounds like a good idea. Cos it's seems the only way to avoid such people is to live in a cocoon which will not be possible. I like your approach ,maybe you can give me tips or recommend a book or something for me as well.

Aswear to God, I don't read Books like that except my Professional Book and Religion Book. But Meditate alot Emotionlessly on my Own.

I approach life Mildly no Need to be frenzied nor pain. No Delirium no Depression. The Brain is meant to solve all worries and problems once you dedicate time for it. But Your Brain is as vast as the Level of Education therein if not, You will bridge her Thresholds which shall lead to Brain Hemorrhage.

The tip is that "Whomsoever that's not linearly related to your Thought Processes should be Distanced or related with Diplomatically"


Remove toxic ones from your life if you can't remove them due to reasons beyond you e.g family or work. Develop tough skins against them but Never-Ever respond in like Terms that's how you get infected.

Be the One to infect them with Peacefulness and let them see How Mad and Crazy they have become: but to use Peace to Withstand Fury, You need Abundance of Peace inside of You Yourself .. Now, How do you get Abundance of Peace ? You can't use a cup of water to quench a gas plant Raze ... You Run !

But if you have what it takes, then You approach but also with Highest Level of caution in order not to be razed.

Let's follow each other ?

Wittyduchess:
True.
Also Some people have this savior complex,they believe they are assistant Jesus especially some women. They believe staying and trying to fix him makes her better than the other woman who walked out. They believe in the eyes of society,it makes her the biblical "virtuous woman".

People have an invisible medal and honorary award placed on "struggle love". That constant need to prove we are better than others even to our own detriment has pushed alot of people to be caught in the web of toxic energy without even realizing it.

Jesus really tried ooo. How many Demons he had to expunged and Assumed.

If you ain't careful and Rugged, person no go live long answer.

Redpill on point to Zombies now.

Wittyduchess:
Sure there is always room for improvement on one's self awareness,intuition and even behavioral pattern.


But that being said, they can be anywhere and everywhere.would you turn down a well paying job because your red flag alarm goes off that your soon to be new boss is a narcissist?

Self Management is my present area of interest. Idgaf who anybody is nowadays because the entire human race seem unwell ... I'm trying to learn adaptation and immunology. How to protect ones Mental Health And Remain Sane in a Toxic Environment.

I will just put up Shields and Move like nothing Happens.

Never Allow them to Infect You. It's a virus.

Wittyduchess:
It's called self preservation. It's a default human trait some people tune it down because they see the world through their own eyes .

Anyway, Don't allow yourself to get easily provoked or be put in Defensive/Offensive position for your mental health. Once a Conversation is not linear stay back na dem

I Learnt this the hardway. Now you should see you still gets some work to do

humility33:
Thanks for this bro

Will take note

I have an issue right now

I am highly sapiosexual. I like I love intelligent discussions in politics, economics, sports, geography, history,animal science and lots more and when I relate with ladies they seems not to fit into this, I swiftly loose interest I just dont know how to manage this

My own is that I don't like a lady that doesn't have a good grasp of her field. If you are a Medical Doc, When I ask Question on Medicine, I want Professional Answer or atleast a Reasonable idea but if you tell me You don't know :

Red flag :

I'm 50% out.

I can't be asking someone the function of liver in Digestion of food and you are beating around the Bush ...

Wittyduchess:
You don't need to pity such people. You could get sucked back in if you let the feeling overwhelm you . Then you might start feeling a need to try and fix or save him. It's not worth it.

Don't conclude it Is not worth it. If you meet a Depressed Soul that's sober and ready to come out. Then 50% of the job has been solved then you can help the lifted hands.

Many people don't actually understand what's happening to them. Only few Brains can actually diagnosed itself and fix itself.

Many needs help. But if You are Stubborn and an Obsessive type. Usain Bolt dey joke where me dey run.

irijuola:
I think he got disappointed at a point when he’ll try to provoke a reaction from me and I’ll just give him a blank. Sometimes, I’ll start pitying him and wonder what damaged him to this extent

The emotions is the trap. I don't pity anymore before someone wreck my Head.

Wittyduchess:
Men are more enabled due to patriarchy. Men have more opportunities to devolve and get away with it. Infact being toxic to some is a "manly trait", Most people don't even know how to differentiate being toxic from being manly.

But make we no lie you self go get small Aggressions .. dem Don show you pepper u just gatz fight your way out ...

Wittyduchess:
Not True , they are everywhere ,in your family, work place, church, as your neighbor , anywhere and everywhere.


And don't make this about me, i know it gives you and your kind adrenaline rush to find ways to blame the victim and even more so if it's a woman. No disrespect, but just shut up.

You are correct but not withstanding no one is perfect. Work on Yourself implies do better to attract the saner ones. Emotions is the Number One culprit to attracting the insane ones.

We4all:
Some people are shameless. A guy took a lady out and she gulped 7 glasses of yoghurt. I was dumbfounded.

E no much na. How many hours dem spend together. 7 glasses not 7packs.