₦airaland Forum

tmoneyu:
I had one that time, she was driving crazy to the extent I can't even sleep without writing good poems to her, she picks my calls when she like, the true feelings I had for her turned to revenge, I foolishly followed her for 2 yrs, the day she agreed to see me, she listed out things she cannot do, as a bad guy I know how to undo things, we lodged in a hotel, we chilled in a cozy and relaxed atmosphere, she became soft, I have to allow her listen to cool blues that was playing, I pretend to sleep on the floor while she sleep on the bed, she was confused and asked me to come to the bed, I came to bed, on the AC to 16 degrees, she got so cold that she began to touch me, I have to give it to her like the way she wanted it, in midway I told her I can't, she got mad and asked why, I told her we had a deal and I don't want to spoil it, the girl begin beg me to continue, I now have full access and asked her why all this pains before, she said that am not upto her levels, I smiled and finish things, bang her again in the morning, after that I told her that we can't continue since we are not in the same levels, she wan mad.... Ladies should never use level to compare a guy because our success comes any seconds.... Las Las, I employed her to work for me but stopped having sex or getting intimate with her, I wanted her to see my success despite she worth nothing,

Iyaebe:
Are you implying that I’m a drama queen?

Iyaebe:
It’s only mouth I have, don’t take my words seriously.

KKLord3:
I end up marrying her. I followed her for 10 years.

I give God the glory. She is the mother of my 3 boys.

Iyaebe:
lol I only spoil for nairaland ooo. There’s no moderation in bedroom matters

Iyaebe:
lol only lazy men sleep after sex,strong men should be ordering for more, abeg no spoil me ooo

Iyaebe:
Just joking around,so I no kick any penalty

Iyaebe:
lol weird right?that’s what I’ll ask your friend panso to be doing ,it’s going to be part of the deal.

EshjayLee:
There was this girl in my Jamb lesson, she is always abusive towards me, whenever she sights her face on me, she always abuse me. But I didn't mind her abusive character I got closer to her and accepted all sort of insults while trying to achieve my mission.
Cut long story short, I got to realise that this girl was madly in love with me but don't know how to express her feelings. Later on we got to know eachother more, and started a relationship and she's my wife currently.

Iyaebe:
I’ll ask him to start dancing naked

cocolacec:
Thumbs up.Good submission.Our style of parenting in Nigeria had only created monsters and demons and we now wonder why the society and the leaders lack empathy for others.The root cause is inflicting pains and violence.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zWXDTJQpwWg
Made this video sometime ago.

mmsen:
I know girls who were born and raised abroad, girls who aren't even Nigerian who are members of Christ's Embassy. They're doing much the same as your niece.

My point is, being 'abroad' does not mean all will be well. You have to put in a lot of work to raise children no matter where you are. Most people simply aren't interested in actively raising children, they want to cut corners and then blame the children when it goes wrong.

cocolacec:
That was unfair and unnecessary exposure to harm.Why dehumanise your own daughter?
What if she developed pneumonia or got raped that is how she would have turned to a street girl.
Parents raising their children fails to understand these children are peer pressured in schools and the environmemt they find themselves.All you needed to do was have a heart to heart talk with her not master/slave relationship most Nigerian parents have with their children.Africans parents only thrive in destroying their erring children not correct them in love and kindness.
I will never treat my daughter like that.

Na weyrey dem take dey solve weyrey in their House: Daughter goes Frenzy(Genetic: Stubbornness): Mother went wild(Genetic:Stubbornness): Police beg, beg she no gree, She warned warned her daughter she no gree : That's the Genetic Disorder right there: STUBBORNNESS

CoronaVirusPro:
The fact that you related it to Africans is my problem with you.


African kids are the most trained and upright kid in the whole world and thats because of how morals and home training.

Since you mentioned Africa, I will ask you, Are European or American kids better than African Kids? Its a "NO"



Stop accusing Africans out of low self esteem. Africans are learners compared to the Western kids. A 15 year old boy/girl in Africa is a learner to his counterpart in UK or USA.


Its as easy as ABC to go astray in same western countries cos of this same "spare the rod" mentality.

masterpiecer:
This is so heartbreaking, that girl owes her parents great apology and forgiveness, hence it will haunt her for life especially when she starts having children of her own. That aspect of parenting is what i detest about western culture

Dshocker:
In 2008 my uncle almost lost his children to New Zealand government,after the police gave him last warning should any of his children ever calls emergency number again...He had to relocate them down to Onitsha.
Right now they have turned to full time igbo children and behaving very well.

folake4u:
God abeg! I nor wan think am.

folake4u:
Na wa.

I find it very cringey to be touching someone's private parts in public.

folake4u:
Na wa oh. You keep saying I'm being emotional about the whole thing, when you nor even sabi me before?!

But oh well....@bolded Hmmmmmmmmm.
That's very wrong.

folake4u:
I really have issues with this Street thingy you keep saying. I saw it more than three times in your write-up.

Then again @ the bolded. What kind of masculine ego is that? If someone rapes or sexually abuses you, it's not right to be silent about it. It does a lot of damage physically, mentally and emotionally/psychologically.

It has nothing to do with me being peaceful/emotional or learned as you put it.

I myself was really pissed on his behalf when I saw the video.

folake4u:
What is wrong with you, please!!!!

This is the problem we're having now.

It took everything in Ruger for him to calm down. Did you see his struggle?

Men aren't talking about this thing, y'all are taking it lightly BUT YET you want him to move on

If reverse was the case, yessssssss! We for don comot person teeth by now, that's because we don't wait for someone to fight our battles.

Something has happened to your fellow guy but you want the matter to be swept under rug and move on? Wo! Until you stop tolerating some nonsense just because you want to be the bigger person, Ogbeni you will sleep there.

Nigerian men will never cease to amaze me sha, you people literally don't want to do anything on your own. You people better start fighting your battles, it's not everytime feminists will not see this one oh or "women this, women that". You people will tolerate something and start pointing accusing fingers at the rest of us for not saying anything about it or not speaking much about it. You sef speak up now!!!!
So many of you face sexual harrasment but you wan dey form "you sabi chest am".
Nonsense!

If I'm Ruger's Manager, that girl must pay for her unsolicited sexual harrasment.


Abeg make I go drink water. I come in peace!

baby124:
Lol. Let me talk as a child that wore short shorts in Nigeria. I did not spoil or do bad things. Neither did I get derailed in life. My parents let us and none of me and my sisters got pregnant outside marriage. I think a harsh reaction makes kids do things you say they should not do. She can buy the short things and hide in her bag, look decent at home, when she gets outside she will change clothes. Have a talk with her and always tell her why you want her to dress more to your taste. That you dressed decently so your child must is not enough explanation these days.

At that 13 is when they have entered teenager stage. The boyfriends stage. This is where the real fight begins. But I think if you get to them first before the boys, especially their father, they will come out fine. If their father teaches them how to handle boys, no boys can deceive them. The makeup ties into that dating and looking attractive stage because, she is hitting puberty. Despite my indecent dressing, I did not have any sexual relations till much later. Most of my friends from strict parents started between 13-15. My father played a role in that, nothing man fit tell me that will make me off pant till I was ready to experience it. That was solely my decision, no one pressured me.

Growing breast and yansh and they see their peers doing it. In fact their peers teach them how to apply the makeup. They are also seeing relationships going on around them in school and they want to be attractive to the happening guys. Now is the time you need to sit her down and have the birds and the bees talk plus consequences of that. She’s very brilliant and people like that, all the forces on earth can try to derail them at a young age if you do not get ahead of it. You need to start talking to her and spending time with her Kanwulia before her friends and those Hot boys succeed. Don’t be too harsh with her please.

Vyolet:
I must say i felt pity for the boy, he was so angry and felt restricted, walking away was the best decision, i hope he gets over it with time. If they can get the girl’s details, he should press charges, she will learn to keep her hands to herself moving forward.

On the girls part, she might be drunk and thats the same way most men get into trouble, when they are drunk, they lose themselves, say NO to Alcohol consumption.

IamBabsjnr:
Good day sir.
am a secondary school graduate aspiring to study economics and development studies at the uni.i have been admitted and am yet to resume.we have a PC at home which we use for different things.
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my question is,as a social science student,can i learn data science/analysis?
am 16 years old sir.

addexx:
Until the guy giving her all the attention she craves comes and sweep her off her feet. Then you lose and just bury your feelings cos you're forming hard guy but she lost interest in the process. Love has no rule bro. Your code won't work for everyone.

mular:
before u start any relationship with any naija gal,make sure you're ready to lose her and also tell her what u like and what u don't like,u must have a rule,if she goes against the rules kick her out,do this and u will see naija gal worship u