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Kobojunkie:
Care to provide better information to maybe get SapioSexuals here on nairaland find Nigerian men to train?

Pack all the SapioSexuals on Nairaland you know come my side:

God knows I have scaled through all Your red wires

Kobojunkie:
And how many Nigerian men do you currently know of who would submit to be fixed by a more intelligent girlfriend or wife?

That's why I said "Willing". I already addressed everything in my previous posts oya go back and read them all from the beginning.

Some women(Higher IQ) are fixing their men and Nobody knows nothing financially, Emotionally and Intellectually(The Husband/BF makes no decision(s) unless ran through his woman):

I already begged you not to stress me

Kobojunkie:
1. ROFLMAO


2. I don't follow at all. Does relying on one's Intellectualism mean one forgets about self?

3. Build her own Man? So basically, you are advising SapioSexuals to pick men, and fix them up, zit as mother and wife in their relationships?

4. So because there are not enough sane dudes, you advocate for SapioSexuals to become fixers of men?

Yeah, just like building a start Up . Fixer of willing man not just any man.

Or Wait for the dude on higher IQ than You.

Kobojunkie:
1. Um... kids are not rewards in marriage. They are instead responsibilities, and I made no mention of kids in this given that people can and do enter into marriage for reasons other than kids.

2. Same way marriages can collapse whether a spouse says thank you or not.

Junkie, leave me alone. No use me Dispels stress abeg.

I say me will say thank you for a Job a woman should Ordinary do because if she no do am nko? You said No ! To Your Tent o'Isreal.

Na fun I dey find no be stress.

If Marriage is a business contract then I helped you termed kids to be the products of the business contracts.

Or, if the kids are Responsibilities, there is no problem if a cashier brings you the bank statement and you still utter thanks to him/her.

It's just courtesy and compliments to make the other party feel appreciated. Don't give me stress.

CumOnHer:
Please explain better.. Presentation like " You're a man, mop the floor? or " you're a man, buy beef when you coming back from work"..

In my office, sometimes these women want to take an advantage of the fact that, " they are women" as against when the odds do not favor them. Isn't that selective greed?

I'm working around 5women in my Unit.. I was trained Dude. Chaiii, u no fit understand. ThanGod for my Sabi, the day I got squeezed inside their trap after years of evasion, Hell hath no Fury than women's scorn. Na me dey respect them pass now 3 are subordinates while 2 are Superiors:

Once you Brim with Smiles and Beauty then Respect their Tresholds, You will be Okay, Infact, they will tend to you like your mama would do:

But if you Messed up, claim boss without respect for them and their Womanhood, You will be overmessed and drag in muddyShits

Kobojunkie:
Again.... I still don't understand what you are getting at. Are these intelligent women somehow also responsible for raising for themselves men more intelligent than themselves to marry?

You can also cultivate the habit of raising a "willing" someone to your level of Intellectualism. The problem lies where You don't Have the patience to bring someone Up to your Stack ? It requires a lot, can you put in the time and energy and after everything he still stays without taking Your crafts to Higher Lady than You


Also, there is a problem when as a woman you rely solely on your Intellectualism while other aspect of Womanhood in you is Dead. It is possible to know the entire world without knowing yourself

That's Where You need someone to help Defined you for you while you keep nodding like agama lizard. Now How many dudes are really ready to spell out a woman for her when there are thousands of ladies out there that ain't looking for any form of definition to cohabit with the Man.
A too expensive commodity get Jettisoned where there are same specs (Even though not same quality).

I still repeat, SapioSexual that's truly SapioSexual must have In her gearbox how to build her own Man and Retain Him because not too many Sane dudes are around nowadays.

The limited Sane dudes are not enough to go around the Demanding ladies especially in a Monogamy relationship. I doubt any Sapio would love the idea of Polygamy Yuck.

Kobojunkie:
Marriage is a to be likened to a contract agreement, a business partnership, not a preschool program where you get a reward for wiping your nose. The reward in marriage comes when both reap the benefits of the hardwork put in.

Speak for your world alone.
Marriage is beyond contract or Business. Kids can't be likened to Products.

It's like a vow by both parties committed to ensure Success is achieved and both will stick together come rain come sun just like ship sailing Pacific ocean, the crew must stick together no matter the Turbulence or Juices.

In a Business Contract, a bored Patner can divest and move as such, the business collapse.

So, there is need to still say thank you for your normal job and Routines. I need more Dopamine.

pocohantas:
E better make shark chop me, than to dey argue with man.

Nope, God no go let Shark Chop You . He's only seeing the world from his room until he comot house.

pocohantas:
Na people wey get time to dey argue with am.

E better make I mop ocean.

, Shark dey there O!

CumOnHer:
Real men don't get angry when you tell them " You are a man".
I won't get irritated when a woman tells me " you're a man, get this done" - it's a reminder of my ability.
But I would be angry if a woman told me " but you called yourself a man, why can't you get this done". Now, this is an insult in every word of it, because she had completely stripped me of my abilities as a man. She had doubted me and written me off.

No worry, e get how a woman will tell you "You are a Man, get this thing done" and your head will hot like fresh Bread na Presentation Lo matter.

Kobojunkie:
I still don't understand what you are getting at. Are these intelligent women somehow also responsible for raising for themselves men more intelligent than themselves or what?

Following your own post, it pretty much works against these women in the attempt that they choose then to settle for mates with lower intelligence, so dumbing themselves down for the sake of catching a mate is out of the question.

Put Straight English for me. I don't like getting confused when you sound intelligent to Only yourself

Ask me where you don't understand and make the English simple and straight

Who is responsible for raising who ?

Kobojunkie:
Why do you, after it all, blame a woman for her inability to land a man more intelligent than she is?

I don't blame the other party for My Lack. I blame myself. If I lack, that means I'm yet to reach Optimal thus there is need for more push, more elevation.

A poor man should not blame the rich for his poverty .. There is Wealth everywhere why ain't you Courting yours

Oya common on ... I need a fix and no stress me too much!

shimolv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jataDAkq-Zo

.. Madmen !

ESANMEA:
Yeah, posting actually comes with my mood and mostly when I'm kind of down.. Aside the depressing epistle you sent to me which made me down for about a day, the journey has been good though nothing significant yet but then I'm hopeful because there's this positive aura around me..

Thanks for your concern.. It's highly appreciated..

You mean I depressed You the More ? was it Oppressive ?

You are just scared a stranger got to you like that
Nothing was a big deal there, it's called "Profiling".

I don't want to be Overbearing but shoot a mail if there is anything you wanna share:

czarr:
Do women have to earn the provision and protection of the men in their lives? I want to believe that before you enter a commitment of any kind bf/gf or marriage, you've made assessment and found the person worthy.

Yes She must Earn it. If she doesn't deserve it why would you wanna provide for and protect someone that doesn't deserve it

Everyone must earns it.

if you don't earn it then you have to force it. Force is Cheating and that's where you will get the troubles because you won't also get It easy from the bearer

czarr:
obedience and submission alongside contributing at least 30percent of all financial expenses made in the course of the relationship or marriage.

Why do you expect Her to bring Obedience and Submissions

You don't demand for Obedience and Submissions, You Earn it Bro . Once Earned, it will be giving to you without asking.

siofra:
I saw this somewhere, online and decided to ask nairaland men. You guys like talking about table, so what do you want women to bring to the table?

White Jelly ! Not Skank Brain I don't like Stress.
Bring Career and Womanhood.

paulolee:
she said she doesnt like sex n dont fell anything for it, jus doing it to make me feel happy n kill my sexual urges so I won't look outside..
she also said she prefer we go no sex relationship while dating so we enter courtship n plan marriage...
I nearly mad wen my guy send me pics of her inside all nite bash with her hookup clicks, dt dey spend d weekend with d yahoo guys..
I asked her, she denied, i forwarded d pics to her mk she explain n she started crying n said she's trying to save money for our incoming wedding..
try to raise funds for our wedding by sleeping with yahoo boys?? I jus laughed out loud n told her dt even an animal do not deserve a mum as dumb as her..

Una eye dey see oo ...

chatinent:
First date in Tantalizer that year, and babe farted. Not only did I hear it was directly from her, the smell was diabolic. Guilty conscience pushed her to say sth was smelly. I was like “mess dey smell en owner?”

Fine girl denied all allegations and even began crying and raising her voice in denial. People sitting close to us were already adjusting to a place the smell wouldn't reach them. The stupid thing I did was I didn't even know why I didn't stand up there. I was all seated inhaling bad smell... I didn't know if it was because I didn't want to embarrass her or maybe I was just stupid.

Wtf.

Five hours down the lane excorting her home, fine girl agreed she was the one and started laughing and I'm like wtf is funny about being a terrorist!

But You Survived the Attack Free Her na

remsonik:
No I don't think so,

Making a decision as single is faster while you have to consider Souls and Bodies before making decision as Married.

In fact, some Endeavours Need to be abandoned or shelved just for the Home(Marriage) if not Consequences abound.

Marriage is the most beautiful events that Helped Shaped Human Evolution and Societies. Marriage failure is the reason for Societal Vices and Devolution of human race.

CumOnHer:
Why do women often get angry or irritated whenever you tell them " You are a woman" during the course of discussing with them?

Why do they always lose their temper when you remind them that they are women

Same Way we guys get angry when a woman Reminded us ,You are a Man.

Two Ways:

When we want to take advantage of each other and the other party doesn't want to be fleeced.

No woman/Man will get Angry when you call them their gender as a form of Eulogy.

Kai, Na woman you be, Confirm, Gbam!

Ayinke93:
Who go marry us wey no Dey submissive bayi (pulling my hair and shedding hot tears on the road )

Once You meet the one wey pass Your level of IQ, You will submit. That's natural order. If not, You won't.

The problem is "How do you meet the one wey have Reasonableness more than you or atleast slightly equals to yours with little margin"

That's Where the problem is for most SapioSexual ladies !

If You settle for less that's another round of waves of Headache. If you Quit, OH Lord, let the Depression comes and Feminist Movements kicks"

Then You join the all men are dogs crew

Truly, who is to be blamed if a SapioSexual can't land a higher IQ dude

For me, the Sapio of a woman that can't land an intelligent man is Limited. She needs more work on herself before she joins the men are dogs crew

Blunttruth:
Great IQ, is a no brainer. But people who are insecure and can't stand being around someone like that will opt for the submissive dumb one. Think about the kids you will have, don't let your ego make you have a 50/50 chance of having a dumb child.

Aswear, make person pikin ask Question make their mama talk say wait mey ur papa come na ihm dey like those kains area
my own area na to cook food for ona ... God Forbid o!

I go just faint for where I dey

Streetbabah:
It's a dilemma choosing to marry between a spouse with good character and submissiveness who relies on you to make 80% of all decisions.... And a spouse with high IQ of great intellects whom u can discuss anything with be it business politics and so on with who is also a self starter... people's opinions are needed

Higher IQ infact Higher Higher... I love to chase not dragging someone.

zumbigbo:
Small challenge. If you fall asleep in the living room, she go carry you to bed.

Like a Baby but if you mistakenly fall down, you dropping like Atomic cuz you go loud for ground no be small from that height

LIVINGICON:
Kai, 12 inches no go fit reach dis one.
E go too deep.

The beauty aspect is that she is fit and well balanced at that height. Chaiiii, 6ft 9, many guys Heart go cut

Yeah. My first Ever.
But It was Good(An Eye Opener):

If dem no teach you well for House, Naija girls will help Mould a Man out of you.

You would be wise for those ones wey wan Wise

Don't take Her Moulding for a Crime, She is just trying to make You a MAN!

Candidlady:
Cigerates



Drinks


Lighter


Weed


A game console from a friend


Drugs



Something they weren't meant to see

Mummy Caught my Best lovers, Thrill and Boom, Hints(Pamela) under the cushion: She told me to go and cast them away. Omoh, I just change location.

14yo Boy on a mission then

Stargurl20:
Being good gurl in this country Nigeria only has Disadvantage

Being Good girl has Absolute advantages Provided na person wey sabi the Maths... You are just looking for excuse to go Gaga ....

Oya go and come n share us your experience compared the two: Good girl's life and Bad girl's life:

Stargurl20:
I'm not saying been bad to people in general but u know the good gurl of a thing, right? Is there really any gain in that? Coz to the best of my knowledge, the so called bad gurls are excelling far better in all ramifications than good gurls. Even guys will choose the over the gurls any time.

Bad girls will not excel.

Bad girl turned Good girl shall Excelled.

Good girl based on emotions will not excel.

Good girl based on Obsessions will not excel.

A smart(Moderate and Modest) Good girl will excel.

Op, Define Good girl

ESANMEA:
Hi..
I cried my eyes out after going through your messages twice but I think I felt better afterwards..
Thank you..

You are welcome. I discovered you ain't posting no more and Kinda worried. How has been the Journey ?

I knew it will do wonders to You. Mummy's Baby . Remember, Cry must be Eliminated, Face Your Fears Heads-On!