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humility33:
I can affirm to what you just wrote

One does not know what is a petroleum refinery sef
Some ladies eehh they even equip themselves

The fact that she doesn't know doesn't mean much. But if she doesn't wanna know then Bounce.

A woman that's interested in you will adjust and adapt your world into her world and they are fast learners due to more neurons. Verily, she will teach you how refinery gets built and How Crude oil gets extracted.

But do you have the patience ?

humility33:
I can affirm to what you just wrote

One does not know what is a petroleum refinery sef
Some ladies eehh they even equip themselves

The fact that she doesn't know doesn't mean much. But if she doesn't wanna know then Bounce.

Wittyduchess:
They hate when you see through them. The snubbing is also part of the manipulation ,they have various ways of "guilt tripping" and they see the "silent treatment " as a powerful control tool.


More people need to be aware of narcissism, gaslighting and emotional manipulations because ,there are more damaged people out there devolving everyday and developing dangerous personality disorders detrimental to sane and normal socialization and relationships.

This is True. Best is to stay away from such fellows because they have a way of infecting and inducting their closer ally into the Zombiesm.

Even if you are therapeutic in Nature, they will convert you into Zombie before you realise it except you are well Grounded. There are fewer and lesser Sane people in the World of today.

Person wey dey treat or live with madman is also a Madman. If you don't go down to a Madman's world, You can't bring Him out into Light. But if You also get Stucked in the world of madness, gbam e finish, who go rescue you

Delirium or Depression is the bane of today's Societies. God(Balance-Fair) is the Missing link in today's World.

Human(Like other animals) can't Navigate Earth and Evolution on our own, we need God to ensuring Our Scientific Breakthrough leads to true Evolutions(Mental Health Development) not a curse and Devolutions(Depressions). Whatever we developed shouldn't be used against ourselves for development.

Lions and Tigers develops biological weapons in fangs and nails to tear down their Prides and preys. Human ain't doing better, we have more than enough weapons to wipe out even Earth itself.

Offpoint1:
She doesn't know who Einstein or Isaac Newton was, couldn't held any intelligent conversation.

Flee

-- The reason women set up their sons to be failures is because they can only see things from a female point of view. A son left in the sole care of his mother with no external masculine influence is being set up for failure. The most loving mother cannot adequately guide her son, for she lacks the abstraction necessary to understand or empathise with the male existential viewpoint. These are the limitations of her nature, not a choice.

This one na Shot-Fire.

Animegirl:
I noticed right from when I clocked 17 till my current age, 22, I'm always craving for sex, even though I'm still a virgin.

Most times, my Vajay go through a whole arousal cycle during sleep, to the extend of relieving the tension. The first time, this happened to me, I was really scared because I have never indulge in any form of self-service.

I dunno what to do, I always fantasize having sex with almost all the good-looking guys but I'm still single, never dated before.

Nevertheless, I presume, I am hornier than majority of people leading active sexual lives.

I've tried to engage in so many activities just to keep my mind of the butterflies I feel underneath, but it hasn't been easy . I'm quite a religious person and I'm not the type that loves to engage in casual sex but I'm now doubting myself at this point. I don't how if abstinence is the cause of this high sexual drive.

Also I told my close friend about my sexual drive but she gave me the dumbest reply, that I should get married. Like, I'm 22, still young, I don't want to be caged in my husband's house, when there is more to life than being married, at this age!!!! Moreover, I don't have any stable income yet, I'm just going to be a liability to myself and my would to be husband.

Is there any drugs, I can take to stop this constant horniness? Is this normal?

Hit the Gym also Preoccupied your Brain with Mathematics/Sciences.

Squat, Body Twisting, Jogging on the Spot, legs and hands Jagging, can all Help to diversify the Hormones.

If it happens immediately after you eat food , Don't sleep after eating, Do little exercise as mentioned above in order to ensure proper Digestion of your food. Also, Don't be that type that sleeps most times, Preoccupied your hands with activities and let hotness be used as energy to get the job done.


It's normal within Your Age range and you will be Fine later nevertheless, Don't act on the hotness, that's how you get served.

It's not easy anyway, Biologically, that's the age to get settled but Capitalism happens to Economies and You have to use your head not your Heart.

mumzt:
Awesome. We'll done mamatukwas, long overdue thread.

Here alone with 3 kids all under 8. husband is in Nigeria and just shuffles. Schooling and working without breaking a single rule. I hope to contribute as much as possible

God Bless your strength.

losak9111:
Don't kill yourself because of high standard of life without high level of cash.
This my wedding cost me less than twenty-five thousand naira (#25,000).
Simple dress, the one I have on my hanger,
The best thing is that am happy with my wife.
In fact, no food, no even pure water and no cameraman I used my phone.
Na only thank you for coming

You resemble Seun Osewa!

Pisces are seductive and Once you got locked in their head you might be fallen.

Aydot351:
God bless you my comrade

Amen, God bless You too.

Senselessness and Dumbness.

Rubyjade:
What are your top 3 most used apps?
Me:
Messenger, WHATS APP & Twitter

Chrome, Telegram and Samsung Notes to pour out my Head.

Vyolet:
That instructor looks professional though, his body language is not suggestive.
However, i wouldn’t allow such exercise, it is a bit rigorous, all i need is situp,use the bicycle and a threadmill.

Can you analyse his mind

Aydot351:
Over the years one thing I've learnt is that, women don't deserve the stress we're stressing ourself over them. A married woman decides that out of all the ways to stretch the best one is opening her thighs to a male that ain't her husband I'll now be bothered lol. As a married woman she should know where to draw the line, professional trainer or not. No be me una go use bp kill

Peeps like us go live very Long, Amen. I will only tell her I think it is not ideal and forget it ever happened.

I don't like anything that makes heart beat anyhow

iguita:
I feel so happy and refreshed reading your testimony. I think medical personnel should mention cases where people survive these 'terminal diseases' that are terminal because of our perception of local healthcare and lack of funds.

Our insurance system also need to be revamped. I don't think there is any insurance scheme that pays for these terminal diseases

I think treatment of terminal diseases must be free. Everybody must be given a chance to live until their Body-Systems is done. Government should take over the treatment of all terminal diseases across hospitals except for Super Riches.

Once Your Terminal Diseases is above your level of Income and Total Wealth: voluntary Donor's should take Over via Gofund Me and Government must pay up any remaining Balances on the Treatment.

The Problem is abuse, Many people will abuse themselves with the expectations that Government and Donor will fund their Ailments: Kai

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Hannania:
. It's online, and cost a fortune. Our parts are different, so I'll advice you pick up something less expensive. Stutern is doing a good job, and so is decagon. But if you have the discipline, get a course from PluralSight or Udemy and be dedicated.

PS: Based your learning on projects (Building portfolios)

This is Helpful.

Kobojunkie:
In that time you weren't dating, how much did you improve on your self as an individual though? Did you apply the lessons you learned from your previous engagements to bettering yourself as a person or are you looking for another go at making the same mistakes all over again?

Gbamsolutely!

Jennyclay:
Take it OR leave it... Everybody can't be current about what is happening in Ukraine just like you.

You did a good job by enlightening her. Now that she has learnt something, if she come across group of people discussing it, she would have something to say.

That's how we learn in life. Nobody knows it all.

She's not dumb and why must you bring your private issues to social media.

Yeye boyfriend!!!

Modified: For those of you quoting me, saying the girl is dumb for not knowing Ukraine.

But if a white girl tells you to your black face that she haven't heard of the word Nigeria, Ghana or South Africa, I'm 100% sure you people will clap for her, Infact you would go as far as even mocking your own country and other...

Like I said earlier in my comment... Take it OR Leave it. She is not dumb and I'm not forcing it down your throat like fufu.

But you guys should stop your hypocrisy okay!

Nonsense!!!

Learnt something Great from your write up but an adult female (A woman) must have a little understanding of Her World. Nonetheless, she must definitely make up for such deficiency in other aspect possibly her profession.

I always respect few women who are interested no matter how little about Global Affairs and Economies not just Telemundo and Celebrities!

backbencher:
Yeah, they may be, but since Ukraine is not a member of NATO, NATO cannot intervene without provoking WW3.

Sometimes, reality has to set in.

US and Europe Lords pushed this Man into this War and now they are supporting him with sanctions against Russia instead of Boots and Machines.

Was Ukraine used to Pushed the Price of Oil Up ?

Global Cabals and Heartlessness!

GeneralKoko:
Good day Nairalanders!
I don't know if anyone has passed through this but I really don't how to make firm decisions. I don't know if I'll attribute it to lack of boldness, lack of gut or fear.
In cases where I should say an outright NO, I'll end up saying maybe or just going with the flow. This has gotten me into deep shit at the moment. I don't just know how to be brave ND bold or something. It's really getting me exhausted.
I also think I give too much respect to what others think or feel about me. I don't just know, I'm a people pleaser in a lot of cases . There are lots of people I should have cut off but no!! They're are still lurking around because I can't tell them how I truly feel.
I just tire!!! I need help.

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique Roctation farano please front page

You are a General ...

Go and Hit the Gym and Start Punching the Wall.

You need to Hardened Up Your Brain and Muscles. The pains therefrom will make you look at people in the eyes and blast Your No, When it's a No.

Na sufferness dey make Military man Tough.

Don't wait until your bia-bia land you for trouble. Weaker ones get taken advantage of.

Lukgaf:
According to Wikipedia, "An honor killing, honour killing, or shame killing is the murder of an individual, either an outsider or a member of a family, by someone seeking to protect what they see as the dignity and honor of themselves or their family."

So, what is the position of Islam on this?



https://islamqa.info/en/answers/101972/ruling-on-honour-killings

This is of Great Essence. May we all be Forgiven of Our Attrocities, Amen.

pansophist:
The day Nigeria get its act together and develop weapon of mass destruction, that would end western hegemony in the country and Africa at large. The black world is desperately looking up to Nigeria as their big brother, just as Asians looked up to China, but we are still deeply asleep, with no guarantee when we shall wake.

You as a country wouldn't look up to Nigeria even if You are a Togo. They are only trying to Woo Nigerian Investors to come and invest their stolen wealth in their economy Nothing else.

Nigeria is Many Countries inside a Country. The internal tussle is beyond Ukraine/NATO vs Russia and Russia vs US cold War.

Mastakija:
no sin is worse
All sins are thesame
Its just d way we humman view them

Masturbation and Murder no be the same o.

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

As conji would have it today I decided to masturbate in my shop, I was almost caught by a customer, my only saving grace was that I was doing it behind my desk......

I have also masturbated in a commercial car, after I traveled to the village and spent two weeks without masturbation conji wanted to kill me got a little chance in the car as the driver wasn't around and there was no passenger with me, I did it quickly within 4min I poured and felt relieved, took my handkerchief and cleaned up but I was almost caught by a fellow passenger who wanted to join in the vehicle.

I have also masturbated in the bush, it was during a festive period all members of the family were around, I had to port to the bush and relieve myself This time I wasn't almost caught.

.. Ur Don turnioniown!

Proudlyomonna:
Say what??
So I must sleep with a girl I don't like just bcus I helped her?

Sleep Ke, Your understanding is kinda slow. Did you see anywhere I state you should sleep with her.

I said to Help a girl, you have to overlook alot else you will fall into her emotional slate. Instead of you to ask for interpretation, you jump into conclusion.

If a girl is happy with what you do around her, especially emotional type due to Lack, She will offer you the Sweetness in her just to make you Stay until She sees a replacement. That's not mischievous to me, that's just invitation into her world.

A Sane dude must have a way of avoiding such state ab-initio with Firm-stand and she will see the help without String. Don't turnaround to be angry for you now a Friend.

Your flat Nyansh there

Proudlyomonna:
I am currently facing this now.
Paid school fees for her 3years ago in her finals.
Took it upon myself to see to it that her sick mother got good health care,but the daughter of evil kept pushing herself on me.
Now she is even playing gimmicks to sabotage my relationship with my wife to be�
Some of this women don't give a penny cent care about all this una woke feminist shit.
They got pussies and are going to use it to their advantage, mischievously ofcus.

She is not mischievous. You are the one that's not clearly defined. When you Gifted a Woman, the ultimate reward Biology wired her to gift you in return, most times emotionally, is her body. That is her way of letting you into her inner soul such that you can become part of her forever.

She is just trying to Reward You and with That she can have unhindered accessibility to More of Your Blessings. It starts Emotionally in the first instance but when You rejected, immaturely, She Goes to hate You.

Helping a lady needs higher level of Maturity and Overlooking a alot else you get trapped yourself into her Emotional Slate.

Munzy14:
Pamper your woman and spoil her as you like with gift and all te tenderness in expression of love...But for sex, you must fvck her like you miss/hate her. That will be one among few reasons she will greet you Baby/sweetheart good morning... Don't say we no tell you the secret..lol

No matter how strong your woman is, she want you to be the man...

Afu dimkpa afu ogologo Imi ya..
Afu dimkpa anu isi ego.

Afu dimkpa afu orgasm..

You are the Man in the Know .

Kindly interprete all the Igbo therein in English.

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
It's a revenge for the first girls that they liked that probably broke their hearts and now they want to destroy as many of the good girls as possible , its even a game now , one girl will be on her own and they will be like " I bet you I fit chop that girl " nothing wey she do Dem , I don't know why, you'll have to ask them but my own guess is revenge , even the very decent looking guys are hiding among them .
I'll probably regret this but let me just post it , in my town I can say I'm among the most decent girls around and it doesn't mean I'm a saint it's just that I don't like drama and I just avoid everyone but deep down I know if I plan to settle down with someone from here I'll have to start paying attention to some of the guys that come around which I did and I ended up liking 1 , he looked decent , he worked in my church so he was an active church goer , had a job , lived alone , he had decent looking friends , doesn't smoke , had all the good guy traits and I let my guard down , let's just say he just wanted to have sex with me and it almost ended in rape because he didn't inform me and I even brought it up that I didn't want this and he made a promise that we wouldn't and here he was going back in his word and the next thing we'll know is someones saying that it's my fault and I'm not decent or whatever , this guy is a good guy by community standards and worse he's handsome but [/b]He's just like the rest of them[b]

And they go around like that telling you how different they are and how special you are and how beautiful you are and how they want something more , they'll tell you you're not like the rest of these girls because they already told those girls what they're telling you now and they bleeped them and now it's your turn , I'm not a saint , if I had my way I don't care about the sex but apparently it's a big deal to these guys and even if I'm Hot I have to hold it in because there's no mature guy that can have sex with you and still respect you and it sucks
I try my possible best to not get involved with anyone in my area because even the men that are in their 30s are listing down names of girls they want to Bleep this year and you don't know who to trust anymore and still it's the girls fault for being a premeditated sex target
And the comments here are annoying to read

This is Huge in a Nutshell.

HARDDON:
The government must watch the junks movie makers push out. Music audio/videos must go back to being clean. High moral values must be inculcated into young minds.
And their creative minds modelled appropriately. This is a ticking time boom. The earlier we tackle it, the better.

And as the day breaks tommorow, I know not what it holds, but one thing is certain as the sun, these are foretellings of things to come and a discerning mind must ponder and use his tongue to count his teeth....

lalasticlala Mynd44 Seun Farano Rocktation (if you may...)

Welcome to Globalisation where the Evils in a Society spreads like Wild-Fire in another Society. The negative effect of Digital Powered World and Liberalisation.

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sty1es:
Frankly speaking, sex itself is nothing. I made myself believe that sex is pleasurable and a big taboo all these while. Looking back now, I guessed wrongly.


The talk of sex is dragged around the internet daily and I had always imagined sex is sweeter than food. Ah... Stupid me.

... Body go still drag you there !