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OPTOSUN:
A couple lived in a rented apartment. Happy family to be precise. The wife earn huge salary compared to the husband... so she decided to build a house without informing her husband. After completing the house, she finally inform her husband that they will be leaving to their own house tomorrow. Assuming you are the husband, what will you do?

Off we go wetin remain .... But you have to be matured enough to quickly used the opportunity to build your own mansion more better than your wife and take her there ...... if not, the day should sh.it go happen and her female cycle influences random talks .... you go hear ween

GeneralPula:
And some people want us to believe there was one Samson that killed a lion..

This is a leopard oo. There’s Jaguar. There’s Tiger..

No human being can fight and kill any of these animals talkless of a lion..

Infact any human being that last 5mins with a lion is extremely strong..

Nonsense & different concocted lies in bible..

Olden men are strong but not smart ...

Today men are smart but not strong.....

Human were once wild animals to me and some are still wild animals till date ......

Homo sapiens is all about Knowledge

Some are still homo erectus

Soso990240:
I don't know if its just me.. why do i have this feeling that this animal can't defeat me Face-to-Face? unless it attacked me unexpectedly.

Such is life ... we all think we are superman until accosted by danger and that's when you will give glory to God if you come out alive if not, byebye !!

DenreleDave:
Chaiiii.. Instead of paying 150 dollars to rub leopard Dt will kill you..

Why nt give me 50 dollars and rub my own belly as long as you want and you will still live...

Nigerian, You will kill him faster than that leopard... you will poison him to steal his wealth !! Liar !

Pierocash:
I don't know why,I don't find this news exciting as a Chelsea fan.

Lukaku style of play doesn't suite Tuchel's pattern of football. Chelsea is a quick counter attacking and mass defending team. Lukaku is too dormant for such style.

Lukaku is the only missing link in Tuchel style ... after all the mass Defend mass attack in quick format ..

You just need a finisher and a goal and that's Lukaku ....

To marry Descent lady

You must be a descent Man ....

If you marry a non descent lady then you are a non descent man ... Ceteris Paribus!!

You marry who you are !

goodmorning40:
This list is incomplete
I did not see flogging there

When you ain't nurturing an animal .... Flogging your child is like flogging yourself ... whatever odds you see in your child are either from you or your wife if not s/he learnt it somewhere under your watch ....

I love the recommendations and they all fit quite well into my philosophies.... Flogging is the last result and one good hot slap is quite brain resetting enough !!

Ogamysamo:
good evening nairalanders,

married men and women in the house, what is marriage?

define or explain it by experience.

I'm not yet Married but I know :

Marriage is an institution where a MAN and a WOMAN come together in a Union of Raising a Family !!

Marriage is only meant for fully matured Man and fully matured Woman!!

mrphysics:
One day, I told the two to leave before I come back from work. It didn't work. So the next day, I woke both of them up to pack as I will be locking my house before leaving for work. That was how they left. I never let anyone emotionally blackmail me with how they will be rich tomorrow while I will become poor

You did the right thing. What I realised lately was that "My mental health needs to be Protected and Defended in order to do meaningful things in life also my Physical Health too" !!

Anybody not respecting my space must be evicted or I evict myself from such person ...

Become whatever or become nothing but patience has a threshold before it starts fvcking with your mental health .... May God save us from hypertension, amen !!

Ginaz:
Don’t make me angry o ... oga lawyer wey sabi case well well . I have the right to keep myself if I want to .

And you wonder why girls don’t want to share their stories, it’s cos of mumu talk like this.

You should call the Mods on him !

GardenOfGod:
Russia and China are arrogant, and people who are arrogant often miss out in terms of strategic challenges. The West is known for their non boastful disposition and smartness.
The West are like the Yorubas while Russia/China are like the Fulanis.

And you are like a fool!!

HBB1:
Naah!

I don't come from poverty.

It's a shame however that you will die poor!

You detest rich people and their money, so you can't be helped.

Pele o!

I love wealthy people because it takes more than enough to be Wealthy and remain wealthy but All Wealth has "?" .... due to the constant needs to stay afloat ..... it will always requires stepping on foot but how can a kid like you know anything ..... Anyway, we are here to teach bunch of you at our spare time!!

U be mumu ... how person wey u no sabi die poor ....

Ur left Nyansh ... Iwona pele ... Olori pelebe, Elego fifi, elenu Sonpa

Iniobong34:
And if you eventualy evacuate him forcefully and in the future he has becomes rich, how will he sees u?

This is a backward mentality .... An IQ that breeds Poverty......
If he becomes rich , I am rich too and I ain't stopping until Wealth is strucked......

I will tell him to flee ....... I have forcefully eject my cousin before ..... she didn't talked to me for four years for somebody that spent two years in my cribs all expense ......

Since 2016 we make up in 2021 .... Nonsense !

If I want you out , you are out if you like become Dangote ... I'm also aspiring to become Bill Gates .... Las Las Wealth Hardly Fight and Hardly befriends....

Everything is Business !!

SeaTrade:
Too much wickedness mehn,especially the rich people we have here.Very wicked and jealous,they hate it when a young man wants to succeed.
I really do wish that boy well,I will look for him and I hope I find him.

May his head lead him to you ....

So this na LogoBenz .... kaiiii, u ehn !!

Madman

SeaTrade:
Have been very busy all through today trying to fix some things,
So after all that ,decided to go to coldstone to grab some ice cream to calm my head.
Seated inside,wasn't so pleased while I was having it because I saw a lot of things I don't like.
1)Parents pampering unruly children.If you carry that behaviour come close to me I will give you a stern warning infront of your parents regardless the outcome.
2)Treating maids like subhumans.Nigerians are very fond of this,like it's so easy to spot the maid amongst them because usually they cloth them in rags,their hair always turn to baobab tree under their watch whereas their kids always look fly and fresh,they are being talked to so rudely and with so much authority whereas their kids who might probably amount to nothing in life are always spoon-fed and get the best treatments,seated at different tables even though they came together, atleast the one I see today them try buy am ice cream sha
Anyways,got uncomfortable with the whole environment and left.
Got to my car,a kid (10-12yrs)approached me and asked me for food money or something ,didn't respond as I usually never do cos I really don't like begging ,but then as I was about to leave ,I asked the boy why he doesn't get a small job instead rather than beg?
His response shocked me till now.
He told me if I could buy him a box of pure water to sell,that I will not see him there again begging.
Was dumbfounded as I didn't expect that kind of a response from him considering his age and also I thought he was one of those career beggars.
I wanted to give him cash but didn’t have any,I told him I will come back,and left.
Now I wanted to go and withdraw and give him cash but on a second thought, I said why don't I go and get him those wares instead rather than hand him cash?Atleast he will have to work to sell them off to generate cash from it ,which will teach him some principles of money atleast.
Went to the closest store, bought Ten 12bottles/pack bottled water ,load up and head back there.
Looked for him a bit around and later found him sitting helplessly,hopelessly,aimlessly on a culvert looking very frustrated mehn,probably thought I won't come back.That thought still never commot from my head like this.
Anyways,handed them over to him,advised and encouraged him a little,asked how he was gonna refrigerate them?
He said there are some abokis in his street that can do that for him and he will pay them small money.
Asked how he was gonna sell?He said he will take them to pleasure park tomorrow to sell.Was impressed at his sharpness tbh..he had answers to all I was asking even though he was shivering a bit cos he was intimidated or something.
Wished him well,help carry them close to the road,before I could turn to head home ,he had already moved them to the median of the road and I think I saw him counting the bottles or so ,couldn't figure as I passed fast,
Reached a turn,turned again to go add his inventory but dude was already gone.Damn!
Anyways make we dey see...just make we dey see.
I think Nigerian Parents, the church and religion are the reason why children are still experiencing this kind of suffering at this point in humanity.
Felt really bad today mehn,really bad.
It's to be selecting the ones that want to hustle from them and help and leave the career beggars alone .
Children only,no old person.

If the rich are doing what you did ... many would have left the street .... The street is cruel and very cruel but that's home to many .....

Cruel aspect of Capitalism.....

I learnt a lot from your post .....

Kindly check back to see how he is faring ......

You may want help increase his inventory or diversify for him ......

Maybe he will be your next Cubanna Chief Priest !!

Thanks for lifting a soul from the bondage of Slavery, Servitude and Wretchedness in abject Poverty ......

Too many Wickedness in Africa!!

Blessedofchrist:
you are among the 3% wise people that has commented on this thread

Thanks sir !

Blessedofchrist:
Their natural senses is deceiving them

You dey mind them ...

HBB1:
You are quite daft!

Wallow in you poverty.

I am a professional and a businessman...

I make good money working hard and by my brain power.

I havent stolen from anyone nor dipped my hands in anything foul.

Broke-ass!

Na you go first get money in your family abi ... e dey shack you ....
https://www.nairaland.com/6680806/nigerian-medical-student-shocked-see#104333859 ... let me shock your ancestors .... No be medical scam be that.... Some Docs will be cashing out from those deals ......

bepositive11:
This is a very interesting question.

I recently watched an interview with Obi Cubana where he said that integrity is one of the most important skills required for success in business

What I will say is that if you look at wealthy people of the likes of Bill Gates and Jeff Bezos, while they don't directly take part in dirty deals of the sort you mentioned, they look for ways to suppress competitors by any means

I recently chatted with a former senior executive of Microsoft and he told me that their Edge browser is pretty much a duplicate of Google Chrome. They copied the exact same code. Not a dirty deal but it is cheating in a way

Speaking of Jeff, Amazon cannibalize their competitors. They either try to buy them over and if they disagree, they put them out of business by driving costs down and so on

Dangote runs monopolies. Microsoft Windows was also a monopoly for years which contributed immensely to Bill's wealth

So, my point is that, to win a big market share and become wealthy, business men need to find a way to undercut their competitors. Now, is this illegal? No, it's not. Their tactics are legal, yet they may not seem ethical

You cannot be a good Samaritan and become wealthy. You'll have to pull some strings in ways that may not seem ethical. Yet, the wealthy tend to be very hard working, very intelligent, very wise, and so on. They also have very high levels of personal growth. They see the world and think very differently compared to average citizens. Their character is also very different. All this contributes to their extreme success

FYI, I'm not talking about criminals and politicians who get their money through illegal means. My comment is about wealthy business men and women

Hmmm, Your Brain is well Nourished .... I know you love Fish ... Fishe gives such a very good Brain oil for such submissions!!
You well lubed !!

Cholls:
My brother to be rich you have to have these values

-Opportunism with lack of empathy
-Overwhelming pride
-Manipulator
-Liar
-Selfishness
-Devious
-Deceitful

And you will not last in the corridor of Riches .... You will die because once you fvcked with powers beyond your wealth or conglomerate of small powers.... You will be done !!

To be Wealthy, You must be opposite of everything you mentioned except:

"Opportunism with lack of Empathy"......

Meanwhile, to maintain your stance .... Know your level, know when to Roar and when to Chill .....

Also, Never fight the Government .... Never Fight a Constituted Power

TOPCRUISE:
There are some people I thought made their wealth with genuine honesty but when I partnered with them then I know behind that honesty is something else

.... You go Fear .... I'm never enticed by Glamour....... If you have what it takes don't be closer to Wealthy folks ..... if you gonna be .... You must be rooted yourself if not .... You will be a sacrificed to the god of Wealth

ModelLook:
Alot of Clients have Manipulated And Cheated Me because I have a good heart.

They think they might have won but God is watching them for their reward is coming or who knows maybe it has already hit them.

Protect and Defend your heart though ...

Cancel the Deal that's gonna cause you heartache .... your brain is taking statistics and when it accumulates, they will kill you with Depression!!

Never allow yourself to be cheated beyond some thresholds !!

MrColdsweat:
Impossible.

Labour exploitation is the basis of wealth.

Infact, wealth is the major cause of poverty.

That's true .... how can one man hold the lives of Millions in his Hands and determine their fortune ............

That itself is Dirtiness .................

Do you know how many people that are poor today simply because Dangote, Elumelu, Adenuga etc must stay Wealthy at all cost no matter what the economy says Boom or Doom

That itself involves Manipulation and Cheating.

But they all call it Smartness ......

Whereas it all involved Dealings .... In financial cycle they call it

insider dealing: Ability to be privy to beneficial information before it gets to public ......

I wanna be Wealthy too so I know what it is !

HBB1:
So footballers and basketballers are worshipping the Devil?
Or Wealthy Doctors in the US?

You see how daft your analogy is?

You think there is no manipulation and cheating in football .... or no Manipulation and cheating in Medicine and Basketball......

No game fixing and Manipulation of dead bodies for Research and Development........

Most of you are just born not to think wider...

Wealth comes with Dirtiness...... If you wanna know ... Start climbing the ladder and see for yourself! ....

Wealthy ones cry behind close door ........... It comes with Prices Sweet and unsweet ........

When you are making decisions that can influence a lot .... it comes with costs .... Cost of Decision making can be severe or simple ... But there are costs !

humilitypays:
It is possible my dear. I can be classified as rich somehow and I haven't done any dirty thing.


What you need to be financially successful are:


Discover your talent/passion
Develop a skill based on your talent/passion
Build a business (not salary job) based on your skill
Be consistent in whatever business you startup
Love your business and stick to it
Make sure your business is solving people's dire needs or offering solutions

Explore other money making opportunities using the capital you have saved from your initial business.

Avoid lending money to family and friends until you are established to a good level.

Avoid superficial/materialistic ladies as friends or lovers or mistress until you are fully established.

Date contented and success driven ladies who are not greedy and materialistic, this will help you stay focused and not get financially overstretched.

Above all, there is atom of luck, destiny and time.


Be patient, pray or develop a positive mental attitude known as faith in your ability, in your desire to be successful and in what you do. Dont ever be scared of failing or not making it, always stay positive no matter the situation, keep reassuring yourself that you will be successful and rebuke any spirit of fear that comes in your thoughts.


Dirty things or illegal things can make you acquire huge money, but I don't know if they can make you stay wealthy for long.



Becoming rich is not too difficult the way people think, and it is very possible to become rich in Nigeria even though you are born poor.


But bear in mind that before you can become truly rich, you must own your own business or company offering services and solving societal problems.


You can be rich by working in blue-chip companies but it's not usually easy. It is easier to become rich as an entrepreneur than aiming to get top paying job in bluechip firms.


Wishing you all Godspeed

You just equate Wealth to Money .....

You don't know "Wealth" .... Dangote is Wealthy so is Bill Gates, ..... Tinubu.... and their Likes ....

Wealthy ones are those who when they sneeze, the society sneezes too ....

Rich is just one characteristic of being Wealthy ... Others are Power, Influence, Authority, and Connections (Intercontinental)

You can be Rich without being Wealthy but You can't be Wealthy without Riches ...........

Wealth is beyond Money bro !!

Riches Doesn't Even Dirty Deals ... You Normal Hustles Can be Enough ...

Wealth & Powers Involves Dirty Deals & if You ain't Matured Enough in the Game of Deals Both Clean & Dirty, You will Just Be Downed & Perished to Time ...

You will Be Killed ....

The Oceans & the Jungle even Space are for Wild Humans Not Normal People .... If You Don't Have what it takes, Stay In Your Mama's Bossom or Your Wife's if not ... Be Warned ⚠️!

SonofGod231:
For the bible to even say "It will be easier for a camel to pass through the needles eye than for a rich man to enter the Kingdom of God" Apparently,I wonder if any rich man go make heaven. The parable dey confuse me every day because camel no go fit ever pass through Needle eye.

It means You will account for every penny as to how you get them and how you spend them ...

Also, A wealthy man that fails to make heaven is a Fool .... what do you use wealth for if not to buy Heaven ....

Bill Gates that sponsors Roll Back Malaria in Africa is not a Fool and all the Billion Dollars he committed to Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation will all count for a lot before God ...

Now you know Pls don't tell anybody !!

Goldbw122:
That means this world is a world of dungeon and jungle.

The World is a Forest and an Evil Forest .....

You can't be atop of Evil Forest without being Evil yourself........

Yoruba says Isale Oro legbin (Beneath Wealth is Rottenness) !!

Goldbw122:
When I mean dirty deeds, I mean manipulation, cheating, fortifying of document and many more.

When you look the good business and transaction you have done, over the years, you see that you have wasted your time, you have had different opportunity to make your life wealthy, but you justlet it slide because you want to have a good record, but along time line no money to finance your life. And you have the opportunity again, is it wise to do the dirty deeds or not.. regarding the consequences that follow.

In Nigeria, No !

In the Global world of today No!! .....

If you don't meet Devil, Devil will meet you ....

Devil will chase you out of your legit work or use your clean work to cleanse her dirts


If you don't know how to wine and dine with Devil, you will be choked ....
If you are more devilish than the Devil ... You are saved !!

Top of the World in terms of Wealth and Power is Quite Stormy and thunderous .....

To maintain Cleanliness, You must be ready to go to War and War is Dirty itself .... There shall be Damages and innocent souls can be involved as collateral Damages !!

The least you can get from Wealthy people is "Manipulation" .... No one among them is sincere .... No one!!
Across any sector that engineers and oil their Wealth !!

Wealth is Dirty !! ..... You can stay off dirtiness then stay off being Wealthy just be Rich and comfortable!!

imam07:
if she is from offa then she got married to a Kogi man. I know her very well when she was in Kwara and I can remember when she was using peugeot 404. Red colour. I don't think u have known her this period.

I know she started from NTA ilorin and her family compound is at Offa but I don't know where she married to !

MizJanet:
The bold echoes the Fact that some people are married and still lonely

I'm single but I believe once you marry outside the scope of your philosophy, you are bound to be lonely for the rest of your marriage !

MeghaneMorgane:
Same here but I’m tired of it because at work I look at a computer screen all day, I come back home and I’m still looking at a screen. My eyes is tired.

if your profession has professional qualification then you should start writing now like ICAN .... Use the opportunity to learn new skill e.g. Data analytics, Advance excel, Database... You must use social media as a relaxation spot after you are done with Office and Personal Development..... Sleeps and wakes .... Do your Domestic Chores , Office routines and let your personal development take up the remaining space end it all up with social media .......

This period is the period God is trying to tell you to advance yourself or possibly find a worthy partner and settle down !!

I manage mine by investing heavily in Academics, Professional qualifications, soft skills I mentioned above then social media to cool the brain .... and makes it play so as for her not to fry like akara!