₦airaland Forum

Nwaotu10:
Well, it's always been I and my tiny lonely world.
Sometimes, when my frustrations got an unbearable level of apogee, I will quickly take an overdose of sleeping pills, with an expectation of not wakingup again.
However, I do, and I always feel a teeny little sliver of guilt.
I will keep on trying.

imam07:
moji Makanjuola is from Okun side in Kogi State. Unless u can tell me she got married to a Kogi man. From day one I knew she is from Kogi state

CharisEleos:
Step up how? Una don start.

Nelson21:
The photograph says it all.

If you are a guy and you're still struggling financially the best advice I can give you is focus on your hustle and ignore/avoid ladies.

Thank me later.

Riele:
He was a pastor ! Wasn't he prayerful enough ? .

God , why did you let this happen ? .
What reply will his family give to those who taunts ? .

God , sometimes , you make me doubt your existence .

I'm so sad . I also lost a best friend today . He too served you .

I dedicate this FTC to my friend Isaac . May his gentle soul rest in peace .

Nehemiahjnr:
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything.

She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.

When I ask her what happened she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.

Am tired of the relationship sef.
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo.

What should I do?

manchester4lyf:
One will think ur own story was more pathetic,Read mine ,I dated a lady in d university for good 4 years ,and she happens to be my first date in d university den ,and der was no sex between us for good 4 years ,and we were so attached to the extent of winning best couple on campus award given to us by JCI nd we made the magazine ,nd I couldn't have any other relationship throughout in school ,it was so bad that ,even a lady worked up to me to toast my by herself ,but fear of not breaking her heart couldn't allow me take chances ,all my plans on how to enjoy sex while in school was chartered away ooo, and at the end ,we didn't end up together ,. I beg ,na who loose

33bandit:
Loool ..im sure you don't value your peace of mind

pocohantas:
, don’t marry for money, but go to where the rich are and marry for love.

RICHOLAC:
We kept having misunderstanding every now and then, and so I got tired. Could you imagine a girl that had the temerity to tell me that she went and see her so called ex in his lounge? As if that was not enough, I began to suspect some flings with my colleagues, like the other day she addressed my colleague ( married colleague) whom she got to meet through me, as,"sweetheart". Something she had never opened her mouth to call me for once.

Mistake I made was that I showed her that I really loved her so much, and so she took advantage of that I supposed.

Just two weeks ago I ceased talking to her, whether by chat or calls. It will baffle you to know that she on her own part has never called nor chatted me up even though she sees me online always.

This is a girl that nearly committed suicide, if not that God used me to calm her down.
And to even think that she would be this dumb after all her secrets I have in my archives, is quite ridiculous.

Whatever happens I have keep on praying to God for my own woman, whom will be supportive in every sense.
Never knew I could have such peace of mind, even though seeing her online always triggers this bad feelings. That's the only challenge I have now some how_ never wanna block her.

33bandit:
Leave her black ass if she's strong headed

yemmit90:
Calm down, we are still saying the same thing. Those you helped to the top that used their positions to witch hunt you are the group of selfish Nigerians we are talking about.

No one live in isolation, and everyone needs help at one point in life (be it government or individual), it is the behaviour of these wicked fellows that makes our society what it is today including our leaders who would rather watch you die or live in abject poverty than to do the right thing.

33bandit:
You'll find them challenging to date when you're all out to please them ..
Every behaviour in a woman could be manage to an extend .,..women actually mirror their love ones behaviour once they love them truly..
More like u get what u give ..
If you're the emotional one sure she might adjust to be just that ..if she finds out that you're not the type that cares about her tantrums and petty mind games she wouldn't bother playing such games with you !

jesmond3945:
if your uncle turns you down he has every right to do so. He doesn't owe you. He has right to help anybody he desires. Ask yourself why did obi cubana make chiefpriest who is not his brother his bar man? You know why mutual benefit. Chief priest has something going in for him and obi cubana know investing in him would bring returns. It is only a politician that would help you when you approach as his relative without expecting any benefit. You talk as if you don't know this. I remember when I went to my uncle's house, I just went to visit and go home. I converted myself to errand boy, even fell sick in the process. When I was leaving, he gave me a fat envelope. Why, because I was of benefit to him. If I just came to his house for a favour, he might not honor my visitation next time. Summary don't impose your request on anyone, every body has right to do as he pleases with his money.

yemmit90:
This is exactly what we are saying. Must we benefited from helping one another? Must we always be self centred? Must everything revolves around us? Must we always dominates or want people to worship us.

This mentality will keep making Nigeria and other underdeveloped Africa countries remain backwards for centuries to come. We are just too selfish and ignorant to create an egalitarian society.

heniford2:
she has forgotten her action towards me and my family this particular lady made me watch my mom shed tears mom sold all her clothes everything she was wearing turn to rag, my fat mom slim down to "i" the started saying she has AIDs blah blah the make mockery of my mom in front of me i watch her talk trash of my mom all of them will test it from to zee

Bigiyo:
She say make u no tell anybody but u don tell us

EmekaBlue:
I will either press her breast or tap her ass

siofra:
In these times of gender equality, if a woman hits you first would you hit her back?

SonofGod231:
I just make their names sound like designers flavor in their ears.
When I meet Margaret I call her Maggy.
I met Sandra I called her Sandy.
Nowadays,na only Igbo girls I dey meet.
It was pretty simple, I Called Nneka,Nekky.
Called Nkechi,Nikky.I met Ozioma and called her Ozzy,Met Oguochuchukwu and called her Oggy.The whole thing was going well in Love and Harmony until I met Oluchi,I got confused and started calling her Olu because this one the Chi=>chy na follow come but she warned me to stop calling her Olu.That it was Luchy instead.So now I'm with Ugochi and call her Gucci.

Gabkosh:
No reason you shouldn't help your family.

By helping your family members? You are also helping yourself and the future of your children while reducing stress of poverty from your neck.

So cos I am struggling now, doesn't give me reason no to help my family.

I hate seeing my family suffering.

heniford2:
Low mentality in Africa is the problem,i Remember back then when i lost my dad i went to ask loan from my Aunty who my dad helped, i remember her coming to visit my old man than my late old man will empty everything we have in house i stop my primary 6 then just because p man wan help her beloved sister then he died what my aunty opened her stinking mouth to say to me after my dads burial"hey come here, see if you think my money or any of us will give u guys any penny your dreaming right i owe u guys nothing likewise my brother and sisters so if u like go and hustle" it shocked me because we just buried his brother that day i saw her crying why this vaxation i thought she was joking till i went to ask for money to pay my school fees i saw the shock of my life Never hope on anyone Not ever your own blood brother make plans for yourself and your children, right know she's asking me to help his son to come over to germany guess what i will Bleep them up in a very big way will allow the boy to come over then set him up they will lock him up or deport him for illegal stay and position of drugs

chloride6:
God also put your nails there for a reason. Why don't you leave your nails without cutting them?

Humanoid01:
Look how quickly it escalated to this. You were acting nice at first, and then something about my comments struck a cord then you exploded. Haha! No wonder you were so firm in defending the other guy.

I don't think there's a possibility to think of the words “myopia” and “narrowmindedness” and not associate those with you.

Everybody has a right to believe in what they want and teach people that belief. These things are prophecies that were foretold many years ago. God works in a different timeline from this universe, and even though the events are not happening in the exact periodicity and frequency which one would expect, the point is they are unfolding.

What Righteousness and other “end times” evangelists do is to make people see that these things are not merely a result of what we see (man's activities, etc). The spiritual approach to these matters do not necessarily contradict the physical mechanisms. Rather one is an expression of the other. Since the spiritual controls the physical and these problems are essentially spiritual, then the more important solution is a spiritual one which Righteousness always suggests.

However, that doesn't mean we shouldn't take practical steps to ensure a solution. Instead of creating a conflict between faith and the scientific method of doing things in this world, it's important to create a balance because there are a lot of questions that science cannot answer.

This is where your narrowmindedness is expressed: you think everything is about science and therefore, there is no room for faith and the supernatural. Then you create a concept of “God” in your mind, to not make you look like an atheist. How myopic!

You keep talking about data analytics and robotics here and there. It seems you just developed an interest in those fields and the little you've learnt makes you feel like a genius already. What have you created yourself? How have you contributed to humanity and approached the problems in it? Have you made any substantial impact, or you're just the “all talk and not do” ambitious type? What makes you think that besides preaching and warning people about peril, Righteousness doesn't take practical measures towards creating a better global environment? Does everyone have to be tech savvy and skilled in every field? You see that you are indeed myopic?

If you are gifted in technology, that doesn't mean the next person has to be. If the next person is gifted in biological sciences, that doesn't mean you have to be. We just have to find a way to compliment eachother and work hand in hand to make sure our gifts are tangible. I think that's an advantage of diversity.

NB: I do not support extremely radical and uncontrolled preaching, but I believe in the right to speech. If you don't support someone's opinion about a concept, there are better ways to relate with them and try to make them view things from your side instead of playing the “all knowing” science nerd.

obonujoker:
Lol..... Another thing is that the likes of them don't read history, and also they don't know God....

abbey621:
Then you clearly have no idea what life is or what marriage even means. In this life we have seen doctors, engineers, people with good careers tumble and fall into deep depression to the point of almost committing suicide, if as a partner she cannot encourage, motivate, be there for the partner to overcome the dark times then of what use is the woman?

A woman is meant to execute a man's leadership in a family? What does this jargon even mean? In a world where young men below 40 are dying of hypertension and heart attack, it would be wise for women to recognize the gray areas in life, if she carried the leadership mantle for awhile so that the husband can get back on his feet, sky won't fall o, the world won't end o......Men stop putting unecessary pressure on thyselves......Superman na fairytale o, everyone needs help once in awhile.

Farid24224:
So you mean am not behaving like a man to her?

Humanoid01:
Noah didn't prevent the flood from happening, he rather opted for a means to be safe from the flood, as he was directed by God.

He didn't do all that without warning people, so they could all build the ark together (or more arks) so they could be safe from the flood till it was over. But what did they do? They mocked him.

That's pretty much the same thing you're all doing to Righteousness and it's a similar event taking place now.

He can't prevent the rapture and tribulations that will take place, but he's suggesting a solution for everyone to be safe from them -- the only solution available. But what are you all doing? Mocking him and calling him names. Doesn't that make you one with those who mocked Noah?

Humanoid01:
That guy I quoted seemed to be hateful, with the kind of words he typed. That should call for a self examination. Everyone needs it.

So you think it is not important to warn people of the impending doom awaiting the world, which the Bible (you supposedly believe in) talks about?

Is he preaching heresy or the truth? That's the question you should ask. It's people like you that existed during the time of Noah, criticizing people who dare to say the truth. When someone tries to bring to the awareness of the masses, a futuristic reality, you lot see it as a threat because you find it difficult to accept the truth.

If the people don't hear, how would they know? By the way, what makes you think that he doesn't indulge in the other aspects of the gospel? Do you know him personally? Is he forcing you to believe or accept his preaching? If he's not, then cut him some slack.

Humanoid01:
My choice of words? Where?

Humanoid01:
Yes, very substantial.

Your comment was filled with bile and hatred. How can you hate someone you haven't even met before, so much? It's just not making sense to me.

From one of the statements you made, I believe you uphold the Christian faith, but your choice of words make me think otherwise.

sweetjohn:
All these people attacking Righteousness2 and Righteousness89 seems to me as agent of devil sent from hell to confuse and deceive people from listening to him. Otherwise, why are you all so pained every time this guys make a post? Can't you folks just mind your own business and move on without attacking him? Afterall, he didn't mention any of you names, he only make a post and preach his faith. You too say your own and preach whatsoever you believe in and leave him alone. And carefully looked, its same people that attacked any post on men of God, church and Christianity. There are indeed many agents of devils in nairaland. But God almighty pass them