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evansjeff:



One thing I’ve discovered about these white people is that they rarely talk about their negatives, even when they want to, they just show it briefly and quickly move on from it.

I mean, I watch CNN almost all day both at the office and when I get to the house but you hardly see this fire or even the raging gun shootings across the US, but I come to Nairaland and see it and feel lost.

That's just business .... if there is wildfire in California, will you take your money there or wouldn't you withdraw your money from there ?

They are wise o !

Righteousness2:
"The World is in Total Shambles"
The brother above hit the nail of the spot.

We are Currently living in a time JESUS referred to as Birth pains.
JESUS Likened the Last days events like to a Pregnant woman in Labour. As the Days of Delivery comes close, the pain increases in both Frequency and Inrensity, until the baby comes.

So it is in these Last of the Last of days. As we get closest to the D-Day, the Earthquakes, Draught, Famines, Floods, Fires and all the birth pains will be more Frequent and Intense. All the signs are Manifesting around the World right before us.

There is Nothing more Important to the World Inhabitants today than the Gospel of JESUS Christ. JESUS is Coming!
Whatever we are witnessing now is "Testing the Mic" to what will be here After the RAPTURE.

Make your Choice for JESUS thisday. The Choice is yours.

For one disaster whether natural or artificial (human made), there are a lot of counter scientific breakthrough, innovations and inventions that promote Earth health and humanity.... you will never comment nor contribute to them .....

God is not as wicked as you always painted....

You would wait for perfect opportunity for disastrous news whether Bokoharam or Isreal Palestine or wild fire to preach the gospel of God ....

The question is, is God all about Wickedness , Fire , Punishment?

Is God not about Progress, Development, Space Technologies, Nuclear Energy ,Quantum Mechanics etc Automation and Artificial intelligence.......

Why is it that Only Disaster triggers your preaching ..... That's how Missionary killed African Technologies and Potentials ......They took our mental Development and gives us philosophies ......

God is not about fire, wreckage and disaster...

For one natural disaster, there are hundreds of scientific breakthroughs and innovations which I don't see you there .... If everybody should be like this, we might never have aeroplanes to beat gravity nor ships to defeat the ocean and take us from point A to Point B ...

Why do you always wait for Wickedness to Preach God(Good) ..... You are just exploring the fear thresholds of people and when there is no more anything to fear, they will drop the gospel ........

You have to balance the divides .... Preach on Scientific Breakthroughs too and courses that helps humanity then counter balance with Disasters too .......

What inventions or innovations have you put in place to stop the next wildfire Across Earth ... ..... Why through somebody else

Most Religion bigots are just lazy .... That's why I love pastors that are establishing universities now, they are sponsoring R& D and helping Humanity not someone hiding behind Human and Natural Disaster to penetrate people's fear thresholds !!

tonysunkan:
Even with technology, man is still at the mercy of nature. Lord have mercy.

We are always at the mercy of nature and we will always be because we are just part of Nature and it's a system ...... Imagine Earth should stop producing Oxygen, Many will die within seconds !

resenne:
Some things are beyond human capacity. Like stopping flooding, virus infections, typhoon, hurricane , earthquake, drought etc you can only run away from it. That should be enough to humble us human. Power pass power.

Nothing is beyond us ... we are just not getting the mathematics right and misplaced priorities ......

If you check most havoc and natural disasters, human activities have significant effect on the triggers ....

Our job is to help the planet Earth to help our survival and freshness if not ... we will keep triggering havoc and wreckage across board !

Itidicious:
digital trading can be bann anytime,is not reliable that is why

You are correct ... Find a reliable Career path .... Crypto and other digital skills are time based ..... Medicine is Medicine from time immemorial......

Crypto are just side hustles ... a Doctor can also be trading crypto in his office as a side hustle even NaijaBet

Itidicious:
I need your advise seriously,i am an under graduate and i am so passionate about furthering my education.

After reading more on the internet i noticed that medicine and surgery is stressful and needs a lot of serious dedication to succeed, from my finding you can be expelled if you fail twice or when you are not able to meet up to the expected standard.i need to be careful because i don't just want to make a wrong decision in my life since am the one sponsoring myself..

I really needs to be sincere,for work i am a cryptocurrency trader ,i don't read chart but have join a v.i.p signal group,i make 50 k Monthly with trading ,i am also learning other digital skill ,i am also an electrician but i don't concentrate so much in that ,i only make small money with it to gather for my basic needs. I have 200 k in my account for a start.. for accommodation i live with my Aunt.

I have free accommodation,food and enough time,

please with all this is it possible to concentrate and succeed if i decide to go for medicine and surgery ? Your advice will be highly appreciated.

The most important is time management..... it's a skill that is quite difficult to possess..... Time Management ....

I know a medical doctor who worked as a Tailor and Security Guard in the night to nurture himself through school ....

Today he is a big boy working in a General Hospital ... see flex money during Covid-19 ....
I know another man too "My Daddy godfather" ... He struggled through Medicine .....

Many who had it all Rich dad, Rich mom, Rich families failed and fall while many who had nothing also fall because they have nothing ....... while Many are successful with or without nothing!!

But if you can be focused, manage time very well and have mental and psychological balance..... You can move mountains but you must be Ready for the challenges, it is not easy but nothing good is easy !!

Thug life ....

Live by swords die by swords...

Na river go later kill swimmer .....

Na ocean go later kill surfers......

Alaigbopress:
Na the one wey I tell one girl this week nai we still dey settle. It told her that she is so naive and unbrushed. That she behaves like a village idiot and lack exposure. As in eh the girl see me the next morning and avoided me by all means. Up till now she does not talk nor greet me even though we work in the same office. I regretted my bad mouthing her but na the girl dey causam sometimes. Friends what do I do?

Go and buy flowers and wait till closing time .... Now, let her run her venom of you and take it all in with Apology ....

SweetDipBenny:
After 1 hour 15mins of hot sèx with passionate style.
She says, u try sha are u fvckin kiddin me

... That's why you fvcked the brain not the hole ... The hole will never be satisfied but the brain will always be satisfied ... expect Aradite effect afterwards !

Lordofalmajiri:
I don't love you o , I just want to have fun and you're good in bed .... You're not really my type of guy, the thing pain me eh, girl wey I don dey reason how our future go be...
I stopped taking her serious from that day,. I kept reminding my heart that it was all a game, no take am serious o make we just dey f*ck dey go. Na she lose last last

How, because you fvcked each other ?

Odoctor:
She said on my first day of calling "I would appreciate if you can contact me through WhatsApp only, and not calls"

And the whatsaap chats are unreplied till date.

Chaiiii, That's ... Shit Happens.... Mehn !!

Another one was when I was wooing a girl in a taxi... we had a very good conversation across contemporary issues and all ... I thought i was dope because she contributed so well after initially giving me attitude ..... I thought I already broke into her Firewall Defense System ..... I'm an heart hacker

I asked for her number , she declined ... I insisted ... she declined... I hate being rejected by a woman after I put on my B game .... A is reserved for Religious and/or Academic Spiricoco ladies ... Those ones will scan your life finish !!

After she alighted, I threw a joke like sis, I couldn't believe we won't be continuing our dope conversation, I thought it was good :

She poke from the taxi window and asked me coolly, in a firm, stern and dry voice ... with a serious look :

" Do I owe you anything" .....

I said "No" with some trembling ...

she said "Ok" and walked off ......

There are other dudes and the taxi driver ... But I don't care ... I maintain Elumelu face too and refocus

vybzkartel:
I recall proposing love to one girl

And she replied:

'so u haven't stopped this your stupidity?'

I was speechless

Was really pained and heartbroken

Share yours

It wasn't heartbreaking though because she was right:

she told me :

"I've gotten a better offer" ......

I just laughed and bide her farewell ... she was surprised... I knew the dude wasn't better but na glamour shackle her .... na me dey waste time .....

I promise myself no woman will dare say that to me again and to also teach lessons:

Don't date unless you are made ...

Focus and Don't lose Focus ....

Don't Marry unless you are a Man....

Any woman or human that tells you your hustle never reach to date her is your friend!

Don't be angry, Double your hustle !!

Farid24224:
She told me that am childish, I was stunned like hell..... Am just doing me....Being friendly and jovial but she said I am too childish..

So ladies love being with a grumpy dude?!

Ladies love being with a Man, a testosterone filled Man ... Man = Money, Power, Knowledge, Wisdom, Status and Sexual !! ....

toffyz:
She said she doesn't have any feelings for me.

Bashirat UNILORIN

She helps you ... go and get made and go higher than her level ...

inoki247:
Abuja is not meant for Living things....

Welcome to Arewa Government .... imagine double taxation.....

They pay for Fuel,

they pay tax for the Generator

They will still pay for using the Generator and the fuel

Verily, Nigerians will soon be paying for each Government officials mistakes ......

You fail to supply electricity and they will pay for using alternative source of energy ....

One day one day, the whole Nigerians will burst out ....

MVLOX:
Nice points.... But I believe a man should work on his career first and foremost before getting married.... Love is not everything in marriage like money is not the key to marriage too but with money love becomes well established. Men abeg let your career path and what you earn be your top priority before you get married. The bills will always increase after marriage.

Career is it for me ....

Once a guy doesn't have a defined career path with short, medium and long term considerations and consequences also ability to possess tools to rumble and tumble as the economy is rumbling and tumbling your career ..... That marriage is dead!

A woman is meant to execute a man's leadership in a family ..... if not the man must be ready to be led and he must not complain !
Testosterone and estrogen differs ......

A man without clear cut career path is liable to become an aggressive man when economy slides and economy will always slide !

simbaleo:
So apparently money is not all there is to easily getting women. Here is a man earning roughly N1m every week yet can't muster enough courage to talk to women.

That's mental health and that finance job is eating his brain .......
If to say Nigeria now, they will say Village people get to him ...........

Eyah, the wife needs to do more but I think couples need to be thought psychology .....

Those in STEM needed to be helped alot to blow out steam from mental exhaustion if not................. They will run mad !!

Fejoku:
Crying to the fulani cabal running Asorock is a waste of time. Men across different lands must rise up, arm and take the fight to them. This was how the allied forces rose up to checkmate Adolf Hitler led Nazi government. They didn't stay begging and crying. The attacks are meticulously planned and executed with a clear agenda. If you refuse to fight now in defence of your land because you fear you might die, you still will be killed by them when they've successfully taken control of your land. You're of no use to them being alive except as a slave. The earlier you fight back the higher your chances of victory and survival. These fulani terrorists will not go away through begging or monetary appeasement. In reality, they need your land to graze their cattle. They've ate up the little foliage in the sahel and turned the land to a desert. Instead of working hard to regrow it they prefer to come to your lush green land and possess it by force because they believe it is easier wiping off humans than growing the land. How you respond to them shows how much you value your life and ancestral land.

They want to ravage the Green Land of Sudan Savanna and turn everywhere into Sahara Dessert in the Sahel Savanna...........

They don't plant, they consume ....

Only those who are fighting for mother earth shall win !!

FreeIgbos:
I like the way UN is inundated with petitions about ongoing state sponsored terrorism in Nigeria. At least they won't feign ignorance of it because it seems like world leaders will also have their conscience disturbed forever just like it happened when they failed to save lives of Tutsis in Rwanda until it was too late to act.

It's deja Vu once again in Africa, this time with a worse form of genocide about to take place in Nigeria.

World leaders don't give a ratazz about anything.... Lions has been killing other animals in the jungle and safaris are watching nature taking its course .....

Unless it affects business, Banditry and Terrorism is a state matter to World Leaders not a World matters but once Oil flow is affected, it becomes a World Matter .... That's the Politics !!!

I think Nigeria across divide should jettisoned their differences and petty politics and face Ravaging Fulani Herdsmen if not they will all be conquered from top to bottom .......

God doesn't care about f.ools, World leaders will only care if other Nigerians especially Southern and Middle Belt come together and present their case before United Nations.....

World Leaders are busy Business Men !

Stupidquestions:
Is it possible to lose interest in people in general?
I only want to stay alone, far from where people know me, I don't want to have a friend who checks on me or who calls me, as I also don't wish to check on people or call...And my house should be as silent as solitude with no unnecessary movement of people around or prying eye. Just want it standing alone.
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..far from people who know me or who might take interest in me.
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And when I meet a woman, I want it to be for the moment, nothing serious, no reason to hold anyone accountable even if it lingers for some times. Just be free as bird and as well discreet ( private)
I just want to stay by myself and my own rules. And pursuing my personal interest..
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Is this possible or is this feeling normal?

It's a normal feeling but don't allow the brain to degenerate into schizophrenic state ...... The Brain must be socialized to some extent !!

Karleb:
The point is, imagine if this woman didn't care for her siblings. By now, some if not all of them would be in the village, tilling the ground even at old age.

Family, friends and neighbors should do their best to uplift one another where necessary, it's not even about money alone.

Nobody should have this mindset of, I owe nobody nothing. Nobody should expect other people to be fully responsible for them either.

That's because they all share similar Philosophies as hers .... some would just waste your money, go diabolical and still blame you for their misfortune......

Once we don't share similar Philosophies, I'm out of your ears and eyes and nose !

mariahAngel:
Now, I get it!

You’re the annoyingly persuasive type...just like one of my brothers.
He’d get so persistent, I’d give him whatever he wants just to get him off my nerves. Urgh!

Most boys with sisters are usually entitled spoilt brats!

Hewwwww ... First son with 3 immediate sisters .... Now u know how we get it done ... You just have to help our cravings else we will hang on your shoulders and helping you with chores ... Anything for the meat and when we misbehave we would have done things to make you overlook it for us .... Then you join the crew of those spoiling us ..... I toldya .. I know how to bribe my way out .....

Kuriosmynd:
Sure we get to do this once in a while, but the bad feeling I get after it actually worsens my self image...so I feel it's not a solution..and I try as much as possible to avoid it
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Being a man without sex is crazy honestly. Especially for people who don't like going to brothels...na fucckk up

Dude stop whining, fix your life and get married ....

A Man in 30s doesn't lament over something as silly as Sex .... You should have other interests beyond sex .... if Konji hold you silly, masturbate it out and move on with your life on a clearer vision and mission.

This is why you should fix your life in earliest possible time ... find woman of your type and marry !

Kuriosmynd:
A woman can get sex quite easily than guys, especially for guys who don't like prostitutes.
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And to be frank with myself, I realise I have lost motivation to pursue my interests while also fixated on my long spell without sex.
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I feel it's not normal, and it has impacted on my self image, even though I'm quite smart, outspoken and good looking in my early 30s.
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I don't like prostitutes or masturbation, and the time and energy it takes to bed a woman from the street put me off, cos of the pretence and all. I'm of the opinion that if I like a woman and she can't give me sex, then there's no need tagging along for relationship cos from my experience, I usually lose in that hard to fvck game.
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The question is, can this lack of sex or relationship be the cause for my low zeal and lack energy in many areas of my life?
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But I know I need sex from someone who will also reciprocate the emotions.
Laying with Prostitutes is sort of disgusting and doesn't align with my personal value at all. Just confused. I will appreciate honest comments.

Guys can get sex easily than ladies ......... Especially here in Africa ... Most ladies are scared of being judged by the society.

Most ladies attached emotions to sex .......
Sex is physical to most guys ............

Ladies sexual organ is deep inside thus the emotion in order to lure the brain to wet the sexual organs ...... if not for emotions then Financial gratification........ or others .... only few Idc ones get sex for sex and physical purposes only !!

That said,
Dude, You low energy has to deal with your life all together .... I think you have inferiority complex because even in 30s and you still think women are rocket science, neither are you mastubating nor prostitution then you have self esteem issues which is eating your brain thus the Low energy and Zeal ..........

You need to develop yourself mentally and have some charisma and boldness ......

Also, lack of sex especially for adult man/women clouds the brain and impair decision making processes (Zeal and interest) ...

You need to let out that steam .... so, go and marry bro don't fornicate

mariahAngel:
So?
You need not sneak around.

The look I’ll give you ehn...when next you want to repeat that sh!t, you’d see my face in the pot!

.... I'm just spoilt !... It's just like snacks.... something to keep the mouth going when I'm bored or enthused!..... e.g. I'm enjoying a movie and I feel like having a cafeteria feeling .... I just serve piece of meats and some others then bring KFC/Chicken Republic home or when I'm bored and the pot is heavy .... !!
Only if you know how much I can get around looks (I can be very persuasive like "Mummy pls last chance" boy ) ... it will turn to a finger smack on the nose trust me.... and uhmmmmm .......

I just know how to go around it without making it look insulting but Romantic At last, we go dey chop am together because I'm infectious and contagious !!

Massiveglory:
So pathetic.
Humans should learn to respect animals.
We all are humans and everyone has their mood swing.

we are all animals...
Human is just advance specie of other mammals .....

Nonetheless, some animals are higher Intellectual and intelligent than some human ..

The elephant that killed that dude is more intelligent than the dude !!

Gratefulheart1:
I can only see boys showing off new toys to foes and allies.

The worst that could happen in a decade like this is a cold war, epidemic, climate change and the rest.

If the world were to end through nuclear armageddon, weapons of mass destruction would have located

the hands of black man instead of white race.

Only black men especially Africans from shiithole are dumb irrational enough to pull a trigger that could end the whole world.

Give black monkeys religion, they turn it to avenue to destroy each other. Give black monkeys oil, they turn it to avenue to destroy each other. Give black monkeys gold, they turn it to avenue to kill one another. Give black monkeys tech, they turn it to weapon of mass destruction. Give black monekys witchcraft, they turn it to dark power to destroy one another.

Since life itself is wise enough to keep such kind of tech, knowledge and weapon from black men, we're all

in safe hands.

AswearuGod ...u get correct sense !!

mariahAngel:
You better stop it!

I can't especially when I'm buoyant!

even with you ... you will have to punish me or I bribe you in other sphere so you can overlook it!

InTheCloudySky:
"My" pot of soup? Rubbish.

I would ask him if he wants more and tell him to eat from it anytime he craves meat or whatever's in the pot (OUR pot of soup).

Good Wife !!

CharisEleos:
What will I do to an adult?
I'll simply let him know he has taken his own portion. So when I'm serving his next meal, no meat.

I know someone who does it and still expects to be served food with meat.

You gonna make a man cry .... Stopeeeetttt .....

What a Punishment.... I must sneak to eat and I must be served and I must pay with money and other ....hmmmm ......

Romanoff:
If the bills are split and he always eats the meat in the pot, what wrong with him bringing more money for his meat snacks?

Dont mind them .... I have that habit of sneaking to pick meat as snacks .... But I must provide the money for replenishment.......

Izido:
If you caught your husband stealing meat in your pot of soup. Wat will you do as a good wife?

My number one bad habit...... I did it to my sister yesterday........