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jeph19:
... We were writing a carryover course way back 300 level, it was 4 questions to answer 3, of which I've answered 1 and 3, I asked my friend if he knew number 2, he affirmed that he knew the answer but didn't know number 3, of which I wrote the whole of number 3 on my question paper and threw the paper to him

After copying he gave me a thumbs up and I was like "how far the number 2"
Sam said "sorry I can't I'm a FELLOWSHIP PAPA"
I angrily got up to go submit

He got the course B, I ended up having C

Na that kind guy u should organise an anonymous beating ritual for ... as a fellowship papa make dem just do Beating Baptism for him make ihm see road clear and ihm head clear

Eulalia:
Wish I can stop going there but its not easy cos she's my twin . And you know that strong bond between twins.

Go there but just once in a while and never tell ur sis her hubby is crushing on you.... verily, ur own Mr right is also around d corner ....

titsqueez:
done!

help him to edit his name !

rapid101:
acct no. 0420980433
bank. Gtbank

thanks bro
I really appreciate
God bless you

edit ya name ... you already exposed yaself too much.

lilsharp007:
Sometimes in life you gotta fall so you won't fall later in the future and that might be bad than the first betrayal.

Exactly, The experience is to prepare us against something bigger , bigger enough to exterminate you.

Candoit:
My betrayal stories are mainly from childhood.

As a child, my parents promised to buy me a bicycle, they didn't.

I used to lend my mother money I saved. As a student, most times I skipped snacks or trekked home to save something and my mother would borrow it promising to pay back. Well, she didn't.

In Jss1, we had a class project to make any object with clay. Somehow someone accidentally smashed my clay pot cos it was still wet and I had nothing to present other than a funny looking pot I tried to fix. Everyone laughed at me including my best friend. It was even another classmate that tried helping me out while my so called best friend kept shining teeth. Well, that was the end of the friendship till SS3. Childish mentality though....

Well, these are the betrayals that mattered cos somehow they stuck. Betrayals after these didn't stick cos I never took university friends and colleagues as real friends.

Real friends ended in secondary school.

Pathetic, God will buy you bicycle .... Forgive ya mom ... She definitely used ur money to cook food for the family not that she spent it for herself

chrish:
I was in SS1 in a boarding school. I had a friend named Esther we were very close. We stayed in the Same room, eat together, gist, go to class, read together etc. Then I discovered I am related to one of our class mates named joy... I gradually became a friend to Joy and because of me Joy and Esther became friends too. With time I discovered they started avoiding me... When it is time to eat they will just eat together without calling me, when I'm around they won't talk to me... Then I gave them space though we were still staying in the same room. We gradually became strangers. They planned how they will stay together in the same room in ss2.

Fast forward to SS2... I met a new friend ( we are best friends till date). Esther didn't resume because she changed school... Joy my relation came to me and said she wants us to stay together with my new friend. I rejected it with immediate effect... She tried coming close again but I couldn't just let her be my friend again...

Any time Joy sees my picture with my bestie she will be like... "You guys are very close oh, I like your friendship"

You are a wise girl !
Keep it up as it will help you in your journey through life .... Please and please, Don't give your heart to boys , Open ya sense too in matters of love as you have done for joy !!

oooinnn, Fantabulous.... you are doing well

Nigeriahomebiz:
Betrayal is part of life. There are four things I have found which can reduce betrayal from people;

1) Trust only yourself with your secrets (that means never confide with anyone and never tell anyone about your dark side)
2) Never depend on anyone for anything, never take people's promises seriously
3) Expect little or nothing from anyone even those you have helped before
4) Always repay evil deeds. Never forgive anyone that hurts you and let others know this. It will make them think deeply before crossing your path.

Dont always repay evil deeds, sensibly choose the one to repay in order to set a tone and mark ya space!!

Liftkid:
it was my own Brother who betrayed me, immediate elder brother at that.

I have nursed this ambition of traveling abroad for hustle, so last year, I saved 700k and contacted my immediate elder bro, I told him I would auction my bet9ja shop and he objected and asked me to give him 500k from the money to support his luggage business, that after some months he would give me 1m, that's additional 500k.

I told mom and other siblings and they all agreed, dude has been a talk and do since day one.

I gave him the money February 8 2019 and went to Lagos.

we had Indonesia in mind but my woman's mother called and told me she would prefer me going to Germany rather than Asian country.

I told her I have been a keen follower of German thread here on nairaland that I can't afford that block account money.

she told me her step son stays and work legally in Germany that it would ease things.

she contacted my brother and he agreed and promised to send the money but he never did. all he does is keep whining and whining.

in November I got married. when he came back for my trad, he gave me 30k and promised he would return my money and the 500k he pledged after Christmas season.

January came, no show. my woman's mother called him and asked him to send only the one I gave him that he shouldn't bother adding his and he agreed with all pleasure, he said on 20th of February, he would send the 500k.

on 20th I didn't get any alert, I asked momma to call him and even complained to my uncles and they did. he swore to pay me on 23rd unfailingly.


on 23rd Feb, I received 60k (60,000) alert from him. I almost smashed my phone outta anger, told momma and she was like " Nwee ndidi"


I called him and asked why he sent me 60k. dude was like " when you stayed with me after school, u stole my money, when I sent you money to build in the village you chop my money, even the 30k I gave you.

after subtractions na 60k I owe you. I want mad, I was dumbfounded, I asked him for real? and he said I shouldn't contact him again and hung up.

I told momma and she said " forgive him, He is your brother, no matter what. "

that feedback from momma even worsened my plight.

how could have a brother done this to a junior brother?

the same brother I dashed 180k at 22, after my dad's burial, when I sold an elephant tusk I bought from a nairaland guy.

the same brother that ceased my 50k because he borrowed elder sister 50k years back and pleaded him to forget about it when he was pressuring her to refund him?

the same brother I trusted and did business for years with honesty, the same brother I was very proud of.


I felt very betrayed and deleted his numbers.. since that feb 23, he never called nor even asked how i have been fairing.

just last week, wife gave birth with operation (c-section) and I was billed 140k.

sure momma or wify must have told him but he never cared, neither did the eldest brother, not even my elder sister whom for her sake same immediate elder brother debited 50k from 100k I once gave him, how the bill was paid amidst this pandemic.

IT REALLY HURTS, IT WILL BE HARD TO FORGIVE THEM

So deep .... God will replenish you.
I'm moved !!

jbravado:
And I've learnt !!!!
(modified)

I wonder why I missed it so u modified ... ... ThanGod someone quoted ...

kick:
The worst thing that can happen to you is for you to have late parents at a tender age and your only option is to go and leave with family members.

I pray my unborn children never witness this. It is prolly the worst...... Always with families with strong ties, it mostly end bad !!

Eulalia:
Did you read my first comment at all?
I said I don't like this guy for anything and we never dated! So, where's the feeling coming from? Gosh!

Sorry dear ... Too many to read ... eye self dey confuse

Olofin2:
Only this post got me fascinated. Omo odo agba ni yin o.

Baba ooo, Omode ni mi oo !!

CsRockefeller:
Lol.

Have u guys seen how they feed Lions in a cage?

You stand at arms length and throw the meat.

That's what I do, I help people but try my best not to get too close to them, that way, they dont get too close to me, that way, they dont hurt me.

If u think people wont hurt u in is life where God's son suffered humiliation and then death, then u are joking.

What you can do is to prevent the hurt from occuring frequently like I illustrated with feeding the Lion.

Lest I forget, people will only remember when they need help, dont get mad, help if u can but keep it mind that 80% of people you help wouldn't help you in time of ur need.

Reason is another topic for another day.

Kapish!!

My own analogy is like fighter jet .... Carry payload, fly it , deliver payload from afar then fly back to base as fast as you can.... God will reward you.

Eulalia:
Like I said, I hide away from him most times. And sometimes when he calls me to come close for a discussion, I just bone him.

He doesn't even have my active number. Gave him a fake one and warned my sis not to give him.
Though I was shocked when he called during this lock down and said the son wants to talk with me. Guess he collected number from her recently with excuse of this lockdown. ** yinmu*

Na only God fit help both of you guys not to later shack each other ....

The feelings is there at both end , you are only taking precautions...... Sha manage the issue wellwell and avoid the home as much as possible because of Temptation !!

MYHUBBY:
my advice for men, don't attempt to marry a lady from a broken home, they're always emotionally and psychologically traumatize forever

Life is a bitch !!!

I only help people for the sake of God without string attached .... God will surely pay you back !!

Never attach emotions to what you give to people and never give to people what will affect you emotionally

Jaysleeves:
I was betrayed at work by my superior and it cost me my job, there's a document called P.T.W. " Permit to work document ". It's a written legal document that grant permission and authorization to commence a task. Usually high risk task, my immediate boss and i are both signatories to that document, i.e. I have to sign and my immediate boss as well. I did my part. Inspect work areas, got authorized by the PM and only needed my direct boss to sign to commence operation. I called him on radio as I was on the site. I.e an high rise tower of 34 floors and we were on the 34th level, My boss gave me a verbal permission to tell the guys to commence work even without him signing the permit. I was adamant and reluctant saying it's was against ethical practice, but he insisted that there isn't any problem. So I gave the go ahead only to be called that the companies "HSE Manger" is on site and on her way to supervise our activity, I was worried but not bothered as I was only following instructions from senior supervisor beside he is to take the blame. How wrong was I, to my uttermost surprise my boss denied me and claim he wasn't even aware of the designated task. I was shocked, I couldn't even say a word other workers came to my aid and said he was lying but all fell on deaf ears. This is a man I trusted so much as I have never in my life thought that this man can do such, my appointment was terminated for incompetency. It's painful but I have forgiven him. My only mistake was TRUST.

ThanGod for street OT.

Mine was when my Boss ask me to open an account in both me and his name and we will be transferring some money monthly from our organisation account into that account ....

I said I ain't doing that cuz my pay grade is not up to such task .... He chided me and told me nothing go happen that do I wish him evil ....... I know he wanna ride on my innocence because there are others above my pay grade who can comfortably do that nonsense.

I said no sir but anything can change anytime and I don't wanna suffer nasty consequences at the starting phase of my career. Though, I will reap many benefits from this including being his best pal (More money) .... But Good name is better than Gold ......

He was furious, He relieved me of all other normal responsibilities he has given to me .... He stopped talking to me , I even stopped greeting him self ......We started dusting each other .... Who born monkey father ....

He started plotting for me but I am not his match nor mate as a Yoruba boy ....Everybody advised me to take the offer but I said No cuz my other colleagues are all against it (Badbelle things) but I know one of them will be d one to cast me ......

In life, You have to limit your enemies and deal decisive blows on the stubborn ones ..... You shouldn't be fighting on many fronts.


Immediately he started doing nonsense, his case has already been tabled , if he no leave me alone, his hen go chop pin niyen........

Na ihm later come beg me and told me I'm weak , that I should man up If I go reach some level in life.......
. I just dey tell am Yessir, Thanks sir, ......

Guess who is visiting EFCC today ........

He is a womaniser and drunkard, who enter alliance with such fellow ......... when shi.t hit , he will deny me and serve me to EFCC ..... Oloshi

How I go dey vomit or explain wetin I no chop pass token While he will chop the chunk and still deny me since na my name will be responsible for depositing and withdrawing....

bestabigaelever:
she advised that I should give the man youghut whenever I'm going to see him...

We children of nowadays, how will I ever know what "Youghurt" is in the light of above communication ...


please let Temitope go , learn your lesson and move on. God didn't destined one man to help you for d whole of ya life ... Another better helper will come !!

QuinModah:
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This is why I recommend people live like they are alone on this planet. Have zero expectations. Any human can become anything at anytime.When u expect so much from people, betrayal is inevitable. Live ur life without expectations.

Word of the Day, Nay! Word of the week. 2020 resolution !!

Good

emmykey0128:
I lied to her about my age, when I was still asking her out , she told me that she can't date a guy who is older than her with more than five years, bt because I really love her, I lied to her , I am 12yrs older than her , because of my babyface , she never suspected and I am scared to tell her the truth now, we have been dating for 2yrs now and planning to marry her self

Marriage based on falsehood.... Hope u will cope with the fall out in d longrun and be able to manage her disappointment for d rest of her life.

Latashia:
I don't even have a boyfriend.So many crazy guys out there.

Lamba

kollog:
Brot a Matured lady home to come stay with me for a week , unfortunately my GF showed up from School to come spend weekend with me, told her she is one of my Aunties. was fuc..ing the Matured Lady late at Night after fuc..ing my GF and she sleeps off .My GF was so happy that she has met one of her in-laws. till date its been a deep secret.

Good lord !!
No body holy pass !!

Freedomnirvana:
I went to spend a night in her one room apartment after enough banging she went to take her bath,nd the jr sis who is 21 was feeling honey after hearing d snr sound tracks nd I bleep her too....

Oluwa oooo .... Lion of Judah ... Okokobioko !!

sylvez:
She’s cool, a very nice person, industrious, beautiful, independent and well educated....

But she once made a statement that made me change my mind.

We had an argument and she was like:

“I want a man that can tell me sit down there and i’ll sit, a man that can control me, a man that can be hard on me, not a man that is weak”

Just because I always respect her choices and I don’t insist on anything she doesn’t want to do, since we are not yet married.

And I know very well that I am not that kinda man and I am not going to be !!!

I love her but I can’t marry her.

She is right ... you gatz to man up and develop for yourself some charisma .... Some super ladies hate it when they are the one in charge or being allowed to make the decision and their man is not challenging them .... They want to be challenged , they wanted superior arguement .... They wanted their decision to be cross examined by their man ..... They wanted your superior support !!

It is boring to me and to them, whenever they brought their Margaret Thatcher and you just allowed them to be ..... Challenge her like her Daddy would do ..... Help her improve her sense of reasoning .... If she later realised she did a mistake after she reviewed herself, she would consider you worthless for not posing enough challenge to her decision or not having enough charisma to usurp her decision!!


You can't cope with such girls unless you are on fast lane of intellectual prowess ..... But they are the best lover and rarely cheat .... Self worth and condescending wouldn't allow them unless to a man who does (Intellectually) what their own man could never do !!

Achz:
I have a 2yrs old beautiful daughter with another woman and I haven't let her know coz it will cause a break up between us now and I don't want that. We've even done a marriage introduction but I won't tell her until we get married fully and also got her impregnated so that the brouhaha won't be much.

Devilish n wickedness .. ... na so u tie her to you forever... badboyism

prettyaura:
The secret is I went spiritual, I mean to a pastor to help me pray for him so he can pass his professional exams and secure a good job..prayers answered in a short while ..he is now an ex tho but did not know dat behind his smiles today is a woman that cried to God endlessly in a prayer room..I wouldn't regret i did that for him..

Reward is sorely from God , May God reward you in folds !!

GuestLog:
I have no secrets from my partner, we gist like two gossip girls and talk about everything including our exes.

Exactly, My strategy of eliciting responses from girls that are highly secretive ... once both of u become a chat pal, she will tell u everything as far as she wont be judged.

Even an innocent looking spirococo girl would have seen or done things that she might be shy/ashamed of sharing .... but once she is so comfortable, ground go full.

Barney001:
God forgive me..but here goes another one


Fingered her bestie while she was in the kitchen cooking...


She was pounding yam to be precise...

U yaff spoil finish .. rottenboy

MightySirKay:
I and my ex still "roll" even though we have both moved on. We just can't get enough of each other. If we jam eachother 20 times in a day, nah that same number of times we go bang eachother.

Confam

Astride:
Yeah, she's great.
However, she's back with the guy.

Hope they are married !

tensazangetsu20:
I won't call it a regret per say. If I could rewind the hands of time I would get a job straight out of the university and not run to do a business. Running a business in Nigeria is very very hard and the country seems to get more difficult and poorer with each passing year.

You see, I love this ....

Some people will say, One should go directly to do business instead of chasing jobs or advancing one's education.