₦airaland Forum

I have sworn to never use itel.
Nonsense phone in the long run.

vickydevoka:
Ladies should learn how to apologise Bcus the find it difficult to do

True, ladies no dey ever apologize. Their head strong.

Both are correct and both are right at the same time depending on the perspective you see it from. As a man, you've to understand that you're not just marrying a woman, you're marrying her family and her family may not be like her, infact her family can even be very annoying. Just play to their tune, apologize if you need to apologize. (I have learnt that people tend to fall and can't control who apologizes, when in fact most times, you apologizing doesn't change anything. You apologizing doesn't reduce your quality, infact it makes things easy for you if you understand). As a man before you marry, you must learn how to apologize even if you're right and the other person is wrong.

As a woman, be careful of the man you're getting married to. Don't be carried away by all the love, vibes and giddy feelings. How the man treats your family will determine how he will treat you in the long run. A man true character is how he treats others and not necessarily how he treats you, open your eyes because you'll be the only one with him when you get married to him.

And for you Op, if he wants to call off the wedding, let him be. Perhaps he is thinking that you'll apologize or call him or beg maybe perhaps because of your age and all. Whereas, the truth is that God just saved you from a disaster. I wish you the best in Life. May you get married to the one who will treat you and your family right and don't let the pressure of age blind your eyes, you're unique and you're a queen.

Hahahahaha.....

Hope you Sha have the money to pay back? If not, prepare for wotowoto.

jerrykc22:
RULES OF DATING SOMEONE'S HUSBAND;

1. Never take photos with him.

2. If you called and he hangs up, don't call him back, the wife is around.

3. Don't text him love messages.

4. Satan should not tempt you to sleep at his house even when his wife is out of the country.

5. Never book the same lodging everytime you go for ahhhhh! Eeeeeeh! Ooooohhh, uuuuuh!

6. Do not involve your friends or his friends in your relationship.

7. If he calls you, receive but don't answer fast. Maybe his wife is the one calling trying to find out, let him talk first.

8. Don't call him my everything, he is borrowed.

9. If you find yourself at his place, just lift the dress or lower the trousers halfway during twa twa. Don't remove everything. In case things go wrong and you need to activate temple run.

10. Most Important. STAY AWAY FROM SOMEONE'S HUSBAND AND FIND YOUR OWN.

Lol..... One day, such person will definitely bleep up.

udofia234:
Meaning? I no I will not die but live to recount the goodness of God!!!

Lol .. which goodness of God?
You that committed fornication and adultery with another man's wife? Quickly retrace your steps and repent before it's too late. God will surely forgive you but the consequences of your action will still befall you.

The first rule is to assume everyone as a cheater. So that even if you're cheated upon, you won't be affected much. If any lady cheats on me, honestly I'll just laugh it off and I am not even affected because that's your action and your responsibility or blame. Ki lo kan mi.

Aaaaarghmed:
Avoid sending this type of long messages to a Naija girl,it means nothing to them.Infact you for use voice note,this message too long and e just be like u dey ridicule yourself

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Honestly, me sef no read am finish

GeneralOjukwu:
Certified shameless debtor.

Thanks. The country Nigeria in which you reside is neck deep in debt. How do you expect most broke Nigerians to pay loans with outrageous interest back? By the way, am not a fan of loans. Not my thing.

At Op, don't be afraid jare.
All these loan apps are paper tigers if you know how to burst their bubbles. Honestly, the interest rate is high but you can search the posts of how other nairalanders were able to outsmart these loan sharks. You'll be fine if you follow the instructions. I wish you the best

FalseProphet1:
You su¢k the water from the COCONUT with your mouth but wear gloves to eat the fruit.

If you know you know...

Lol.... Cullinlngus

You have yourself to blame Op.
You carried your legs to a man's house and decided to sleep over.
Men and women are dangerous these days. Even relatives like uncle's, cousin's etc can't be trusted not to talk of a stranger. In this life, guard yourself

Onyi22:
That's why I always advice ladies to always date a rich guy no matter what. See what this broke guy is complaining about for god's sake
@op if I may asked you, how much have you even spent on her from her year one to her final level, Is it even up to 500k? Talk more of 1 million naira
Pls if you think she's draining you, free her and let a man that is capable to the task locate her, instead of coming to this faceless forum to type nonsense.

Ladies, pls don't make the same mistakes your mum made by marrying a poor man, afflictions should not happen the second time.
Be wise

Make sure you marry a rich man but don't be a parasite. Learn how to make your own Money also

Owain:
You don Miss some..
Novice
Amateur
SENIOR (pink star)
Enthusiast
Professional
EXPERT (Deep blue star)
Legend
Veteran
Master
Ultimate.

Shey you remember now??

Yes I remember now. Thank you very much. It's been a while that's why I missed out some.

I still remember my first account then, Samourano619. I loved 2go so much, I boosted to ultimate. The levels include:
Novice
Amateur
Enthusiast
Professional
Veteran
Legend
Master
Ultimate.

After some few years, they added some level like Diamond, black diamond etc.

I met a lot of people on 2go especially ladies both physically and online. Those days I could be online 24/7 and I loved putting it on away overnight because it boosts your star progress.

Interesting stuff. Am currently rotating through pyschiatry so I can relate. Please try to visit a psychiatry hospital as soon as possible. Unfortunately many people have stigmatized "mental illness" when actually it's just some neurotransmitters in the brain malfunctioning. When you get to the hospital, you'll asked a whole of questions (they like to talk in that department ) so be prepared, they would also do mental state examination for her which is very important. From the symptoms you described, the top differentials would be a mood disorder (depression and it's like) or pyschosis (schizophrenia and it's like). Diagnosis of psychosis would depend on if she has hallucinations (visual/auditory/tactile etc) or delusions. She may be asked to do some basic tests, her past psychiatry history is also important and also family history and the likes. Treatment for most mental illnesses is usually biopsychosocial and multidisciplinary depending on the underlying cause. I hope she gets well soon, my prayers are with her but seek treatment on time before it gets worse.

Norms na but no be everybody. We still get virgins both male and female though they are few. But ladies dey pretend ehn. Most ladies will say it's been a while they've had sex whereas it's just few days ago or last night they had sex last. Nothing concern you with how your gf uses her body (that's absolutely withing her control and not yours) so don't kill yourself over one lady when they're billions of her around.

oyin44:
This is a party with structure... good one


I will be there with all my friends from the south..


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Structure that will not make your life better.
Let's change all this old recycled bandwagons 9f APC and PDP. Are you not tired of them?

Kirchoffs:
Na So una dey always talk , you’d end up failing woefully should we deicide to put you to Arrow

If you want to test me with ladies, forget it, I can't fall. I have built enough resistance for that. Countless times I have been drugged, yet I didn't succumb.

By the way, I love your moniker. It reminds me of Kirchoff and Anti-kirchoff's rule.

Mr. Joseph K. A.K.A Shaun Khan!
Mathematics teacher and vice principal.
Very strict and skillful in the art of flogging.
If he says he will give you six strokes of the Cane, that's twelve in total as he counts half, one, one and the half, two, two and the half and on and on. His half is so painful that the full one. By the time he gets to three already, your part of the body recieving his strokes his already red ready to bleed. He is a highly revered man!

Op, my first advise is to tell you to know what you want. Once you know what you want, you'll automatically know what you don't want. One mistake I made was not defining what I wanted in a lady early enough, that got me attracted to a lot of ladies and many ladies attracted to me. It got worse that a point in time, I was dating more than 20 ladies at once both online and physical. It was that crazy.

My deliverance started when I realized that it's not all ladies I am attracted to that I should be in a relationship with. I can keep them as friends, close or distant friends. And you should explain in clear terms not giving mixed or confusing signals. If a lady loves you and you don't love her or you're not sure you love her, the relationship will later have issues. For a relationship or marriage to work, you must have interest in your partner and she must love you more than you love her. There are other tiny details and intricacies but this should be the baseline. In your case, you're not ready to marry yet, inform this lady so that she will not be on false hope. Enjoy the friendship and the sex with no strings attached and watch your back too. If a crazy woman gets physical, your life is on the line as most bad single mothers are crazy, very crazy.

Divay22:
I don't know why you guys are always confuse...
Una no dey love the one way love una o, na the one way no care or give a damn una go dey fall for...

I just want to believe the only thing stopping you is the fact that she's a single mom, any other thing na just excuse.

Truth! If a single mom cares for you, they do it with the whole of their heart. I have dated close to 5 of them in the past, they've good character if they know you're genuine but they don't like to be cheated on, well no lady likes to be cheated on. Just like there are good people and bad people, there are good single mothers and bad single mothers. The fact that a lady is a single mother doesn't make her bad, I hope men can understand this Point.

Danny50:
Spit on your left balls... You never see temptation brother and you must surely fall if you see one.

Temptations will surely come but there is always a way of escape.

Dtruthspeaker:
My hope of finding a young virgin boy fighting through the evils of fornication and wrongful sex pushed me too much to say what I should not say to you.

My words are for the young and undefiled or grown and undefiled, who are still holding on to The Lord, so that they do not fall whether in their youth or in their adulthood.

These female evils don't stop coming to destroy, steal and kill especially as they increase in the Life given by God until you fall or sleep (die)

Your words are powerful and true and I can relate with them because I am grown and undefiled (not married yet). While in my younger years, I held on to this strong conviction that I wouldn't have sex before marriage and since then, many events and situations that should have made me compromise happened to me but I didn't. I realized that many times when I had the opportunity, I wasn't interested and some times when I was very weak that it was certain I would fall, the opportunity wouldn't come no matter how hard I tried to fall and when the opportunity would later present itself, I wasn't interested anymore. I have faced sexual temptations of several kinds and several levels and though I still don't totally understand the pathway to destruction via sexual immorality, I have witnessed many lives destroyed by this disease and many times I want to give up my virginity, psalms 73 and proverbs 2, 3, 5 and 7 kept me going. Though I still ask why the authors of the bible that wrote against sexual immoralities were they themselves victims of sexual immorality, I now understood that they wrote it from a point of retrospection to warn the coming generation not to follow the same path they did but I have realized that people prefer to have their own negative experiences themselves than to learn from the negative experiences of others.

Sometimes, I wonder why am different. I don't see ladies as sexual objects at all. And ladies are very free around me because they know I wouldn't take advantage of their weak moments. I have studied ladies a lot and I know quite a bit about them. Many of them have sworn to even disvirgin me and none have succeeded till date.

That's just by the way, the truth is preaching against sexual immorality wouldn't even stop the act. "Most of the people preaching against it are the ones engaging in it the most"

Kirchoffs:
You think it’s easy right? It takes God’s grace and serious discipline to resist a randy woman . I dey talk from experience here, when you see firm standing boobs pointing at you and a seductive smile you go loose control lol.

Speak for yourself, not everyone is like you.

Anybody wey wan bill me at this moment go collect. That's how one of my cousins begged me for money, I get the money but I use am chop rice and chicken. If I get enough money to spare this week, I fit reason am.

If I'll give you anything, it's out of my convenience and violation. Not that you'll come to my DM and be saying trash.

Message me on WhatsApp.
There is a legit arbitrage WhatsApp I joined recently where I buy dollars at 532# and you can sell at 690#. Very nice business to do. If interested, mention me

Melagros:
My brother help me ask

It does ooo

Zee0007:
After typing nice somewhere, you now came here and typed like a child.

Yes, because I want to know what he would do should the same thing happen to him.
Interesting how humans are hypocrites and how we will do worse when we're paid back in our own coin.

Op, na man you be jare. Nothing fit do you. STDS dey see you clear road for you. Continue your escapades joor!

Rozross:
Does it matter?

Then you're most likely not and yes it matters.