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You guys are just wasting your time advising a 19year old. Ladies no dey listen to advise.

This guy justs wants to hit and run.
Unfortunately, If you're not wise, you'll loose your virginity when you guys meet because he is more experienced in the game and he will capitalize on your emotions. So, all this advise we're giving you will not count. Ladies like recieving advice from people but will never take advice because their emotions control them more than their logic controls them!

Nawa ooo
My future wife no fit try this nonsense with me
Deny me sex?
Behave irrational?
Impossible!

Bro, to tell you the truth, you're part of the problem. And solving this is not too difficult.

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Ladies ehn.
Marry a hoe or a repented hoe at your own peril .

Rest!

And that's why it's ladies that give me money in a relationship and not the other way round. The true test of love is sacrifice. If as a lady, you can't give me money, forget it!

PS: I AM NOT BROKE, I just use that basis as part of my litmus test. I still have other tests though.

thegroomspa:
Continue...

She went back to work, and later that day evening I started receiving a message on Whatsapp from her friend I once meet asking want happened between I and her friend...

On explaining things to her, she said there was nothing wrong that if I love her friend enough that shouldn't be an issue...

I was so angered that I stopped replying to her friend...

Then my girl started texting me on Whatsapp apologizing and at the same time swearing with her life that she can't sleep or do anything that her head and her heart are heavy...

I became afraid so she doesn't hurt herself, I then replied her and fixed a place to meet her after work...

We meet and I pointed out everything she burst to tears saying it wasn't true that it's not what I think and was swearing with her life...

I told her I forgave her...

This month made it the 7th month and i have not bleeped her since we met...I initiated it to ease up a little bit...we've made love twice now...

But I still feel insecure when ever am around her and don't trust her...

I feel like quitting...




Am so pained...

You're 35years and you still have the mindset of a kid??

The truth in life is that, you'll always come across women beautiful than your spouse, and the same goes for your spouse too. You've to learn how to control your emotions, control yourself. Young men are targeting married women these days just like married men are targeting single ladies. All this makes marriage seem like a joke!

Be careful of ladies ooo.
They can show you the best of love yesterday and kill you with so much hatred today that you wouldn't even notice the signs if you're not observant. May God keep saving us from killers like this, karashikas and delillahs.

arantess:
Post partum depression

Poor children, wicked mother

Still not an excuse!

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Thank you very much

Ammmy:
unable to send u a pm. Please drop your contact

Alright.

09024387119

Send me a pm, I can arrange something for you that will change your life forever if you wish.

It's a very simple tactics and it works almost everytime. He is a player. When I was in school, I used this tactics on my mates and juniors and it works.

I stare till they become uncomfortable. I tried it on my seniors and it worked. I was crowned baba for the girls because I knew the pathway to a girls brain or heart. If it comes to girls, forget I be top gun.

If Nigeria make one nuclear power plant station in the next twenty years, make I bend.

We have the resources to make it sef but maintaining it is the main deal. Unfortunately, Nigeria is very bad with maintenance. It's so sad

Napata77:
Dude, contracts have been signed with Rosatom. The project is irreversible. Nigeria wants it and Nigeria will get it.

The Buhari government does not joke when it comes to contracts and projects.

They see them through to the end, unlike their predecessors.

Kenya, Tanzania and Rwanda are also pursuing nuclear power, though Nigeria is far ahead in the preparations for it.

Because you be buhari's brother abi?
Na nonsense you talk so, abi no be Naija you dey live or type from??

I give her transport fare to go there nah.

naniawini:
Happy Sunday Dontrulee

Gigi, how are you doing?
It's been a while.

Well, endogenous production of breast milk is mediated by the hormones, Oxytocin and prolactin. There is a feedback mechanism that ensures that as long as the mother breastfeed the child continuously, the milk will be constantly produced and replenish itself.

To boost breatmilk production exogenously, taking substances rich in oxytocin or oxytocin like compounds will be beneficial. It is advisable that you eat fresh fruits, vegetables, balance diet, drink enough water because what you eat directly or indirectly affects your baby, so be careful of what you consume.

By the way, she is such a cute beautiful girl.
Send my greetings to Emmy. Wishing you the best and take good care of yourself.

Nothing special about waist beads. Just an ornamental jewelry, not my thing and not against it either just indifferent.

Magnoliaa:
Your mother in the old woman, and your sister a hórny stalker.

Oloshi.

Like all the vaginas you've been sticking your limpy, watery-cum-shooting deek in abi?

Like all the vaginas you've been killing yourself over trying to enter?

I am a vagina, but you dedicated your whole stinking and shredded life to write books for fellow lowlifes like you on how they can enter "there"?

The same vagina that gives you worth and pleasure? The same vagina you take pride in using condemn and fairly used household objects in attracting?

Ti won ba tun bi poriporipopo e da—make I repeat am for English sef

If them born, born, born, born, born you well, repeat that nonsense you said to me at any time on this forum again.

Dingbat.

Who is this fool?

What arrant nonsense is this?

The father dey behave like person wey no get sense. At 68years??

Nawa oooo. SMH

Mhistaedie01:
Please please please redpillers I came about this issue while flirting with a girl, it seems she caught feelings and asked me if I like her. I don't want to give her a plain yes since I know being direct with girls isn't the right thing to do. Please I need a way to respond to this girl please help it's urgent

Being direct with a girl will put you at a disadvantage. You become boring and predictable to her. To engage ladies in long conversations, avoid direct answers.

Mhistaedie01:
Please please please redpillers I came about this issue while flirting with a girl, it seems she caught feelings and asked me if I like her. I don't want to give her a plain yes since I know being direct with girls isn't the right thing to do. Please I need a way to respond to this girl please help it's urgent

Quite easy to solve.
Let me give you a template.

Girl: do you like me?

Me: it's you who like me, don't you think so?

It's called the reverse question or attention, what she gives you, you throw it back to her. It engages her mind and her emotions.

Prechgold1180:
Oga keep quiet nothing is verified
Do your findings

Even eniola don delete her broken emoji

Unah just see news unah nur go verify

Did you see anything like that on Davido account or chef chi account

Alright, we will know by tomorrow.
I hope the news is fake

itsmayiela:
God

What happened to God?
Na God kill am?

I don't know the affinity of celebrities with swimming pools. I don't even fancy it at all.

Why will you be introducing your three years old child to water? Most children like playing with water, it's almost like an inbuilt nature.

May his soul rest in peace.

Prechgold1180:
Unah too Dey post unverified news

Be like u want wey Ogun kill you

It is verified Bro

You're still young Op. Don't give in to it. What will the future consequences be like?

Many ladies including my exes want or desire to have my child but I'll never allow it. Even if you're capable of taking care of the child, what will the fate of the child be? From your write-up, you don't intend to marry your ex, so why get her pregnant?

You should know that when a lady desires to get pregnant for a man, she is playing a subtle manipulation game that attempts to remotely control the man? Although many ladies are not even aware of the game that's why it leads to failure and many of them end up as single mothers.

Bleep and move on or bleep and deposit and give birth. It's your choice, your body anyways. Enjoy!

@op, I understand how distressing the situation can be at the moment especially how it happened right under your nose. What has happened has happened, it's not the end of the world. After her pregnancy, she can still continue her schooling and do whatever she wants to do. Gone are the days when unwanted pregnancy can stop one from furthering their educations. This is the time she needs enough care, love and support. If you can do this for her, she will be grateful and it will stir up a seed of greatness within her because it's the nature of humans to express their best abilities if they're shown unconditional love and affection especially if they're undeserving of it. There will always be that feeling of indebtedness within them that pushes them on.

So, embrace it as part of life and move on. Isn't it interesting how the extremes of two sides of life can be at consonance with one another. You had to wait eight years before you had a child. Your maid didn't even have to get married before she had one. Life is not fixed in stone and anything can happen. Even the most taugt lady or most supervised lady can choose to rebel and get pregnant. No one has 100% control over anyone. Learn from this lesson so that your daughter (if you've any) will not follow this path and hope she won't follow it because if she follows it, there is nothing or little you can do. Wishing you the best as you resolve this knotty yet interesting issue. Gracias

Men can be decievers and some ladies can be quite easy to manipulate. A lady can hate a guy with passion and end up getting pregnant for that same guy. Life no balance.

I taught secondary school students for some years. The things these people know and do ehn. They just have this innocent face, many of them are not. Many of them know the right thing to do but their hormones won't make them think straight. Sex is very cheap to get, very cheap. I don't engage in sex because it has the lowest level of ecstasy that doesn't even last long. Almost everyday, I reject more than ten signs of sex because I know how to control my emotions and not the other way round. The mistake many parents make is to see their children in secondary school as small babies with innocent faces. They'll just tell one or few things about sex without follow up because they're either busy looking for money or thinking about more important things until the lady brings pregnancy for them.

mariahAngel:
You see some boys ehn? They're like horñy ekuke dogs that cannot control themselves.
Going about, ruining destinies with their nonsense "one eyed snake".
Nonsense!



Of course!
If the irresponsible boy is old enough to have sex, he should be old enough to accept the reward/consequence that comes with having sex.

Hope they've not ruined your life also?

You can't blame the boy alone. It takes two to tangle. Women play the victim card because they're the one carrying the product for nine months. Having sex is not bad, it's the lack of knowledge about proper sex education that's bad. Even though she's still a minor, she's attained puberty and her hormones are definitely on a high side. Many live reckless life at this point because they lack self control. More than 90% of girls are disvirgined while they're in secondary school. It's even worse these days, unfortunately nobody is making any effort, not even their parents