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Nice one.
Make dey kuku commot the pant make we dey see the real deal

Please avoid earpiece as much as possible.

I used earpiece for over ten years plus, plugging in my ears overnight everyday.

The end result, not good.

Heed my advise for your own good, ignore at your own peril.

1. Put yourself first!!

2. Always take profit!

3. If you want to do any business that you don't have absolute control over (especially online business) divide the money into four and put one part in it to test the waters!

4. Don't put all your eggs in one basket, have backup funds.

5. Eat good food. If the money you have is not enough to solve your problems, use it to eat good food.

6. Build quality relationships, they'll help you when you're down.

7. Be grateful always, no matter how bad your situation is, it could have been worse. Some are even in worse situations than you're in.

8. Do not give your heart 100% to any woman to avoid stories that touch.

9. Observe very well, learn how to be a great observer! Especially before taking actions.

10. Rule no 1, put yourself first.

Okortor:
How many person's don't have food to eat tonight? Kindly signify

Do you want to give them money?

This doesn't sound true though.

Anyways e no concern me

BRATISLAVA:
That's alright, avenger. The devil doesn't need to do his work anymore. He has delegated it wisely.

Lol... I am no avenger, I am a good boy!

madridguy:
Many of them are facing the reality now but shame won't allow them to come back to Nigeria.

No place is easy but the reality over there is better than the reality in Nigeria.
In Nigeria here, if you don't have money and connections, you're done for.

The ladies I love dealing with the most are those with entitlement mentality!

If you come across me, I'll show you pepper ehn. Unfortunately I don't do ladies as much as I do them before. It's better to take care of yourself and put yourself first! Ladies will always come and go, but ensure that you're at the advantageous position!

Date a Single mother at your own peril.

If you must date a single mother, it must be on your own rules. I have dated more than ten single mothers in my short lifetime and there was a time I was even dating four at the same time just to learn the similarities between them. I realized that dating a single mother has some advantages just like it has some disadvantages but the disadvantages is more than the advantages.

1. Many of them still "love" their baby daddies. They only talk bad against their baby daddies because according to all of them, he is not "responsible". Whereas, they also have their own faults in the matter.

2. They'll love their child above you. A single mother will always place their children and herself before you!

3. If a single mother truly loves you, she will spend on you. Ladies find it very difficult to spend on guys, it's even worse with single mothers. All single mothers I have met have sworn never to send money to guys but guess what, all of them have sent money to me because they "love" me.

4. Single mothers love sex ooo. Forget all these celebacy talk they're saying. If they're not giving you sex, they're getting it from somewhere else. Majority of them are sex demons! Use that to your own advantage.

5. Single mothers can lie a lot. It's normal for ladies to lie but the lies of some single mothers can even put the devil to shame. If single mother lie for you and you're not observant, you'll most likely fall for it.

6. Single mothers only let you know what they want you to know about them. They may tell you a lot about their lives if they find out that you're non judgmental and if they feel that you'll still stay by them after exposing their faults to you.

7. Single mothers can be very very jealous. They hate "cheating" men the most whereas they themselves are master of cheating!

8. Date a single mother at your own peril, but if you must, it must be to your advantage!

I will not be surprised if na Lagosian run this matter.

Just because of a WhatsApp text?
I can text what I like to whatever I like, I give no damn about anybody!!

Make my woman tell me say I dey flirt and with other women and tell me I am cheating? I'll be done with such and move on to another. I am in no scarcity of women at all and no woman can stress me!

If you want to leave, fine. If you want to stay, it's up to you!

Also, words are powerful.
Stop speaking negative words to yourself.
You're the cause of your own problems

I lost quite a sum of money recently, so I decided to dive into gambling just for the fun of it and I've been winning massively with the help of KMANALYSIS. Those guys drop correct odds and many people are already millionaires following their codes. Perhaps it might help you recover some of your money but learn how to be wise and take your profit.

Hmmmm

Well it depends Sha.
Karma exists and karma also doesn't exists.
What's your definition of karma? If it's reaping and sowing, then everyone is directly or indirectly affected.

All ladies are cheap!
If you're a lady don't attack me yet. Do you know why you're cheap? According to the norms(we have exceptions), a guy first "pursues" the lady and after he has gotten her "attention" the lady appears cheap to the guy (not absolute).

But that indomie and egg worked wonders in the past and it's still working wonders till now sef just that girls are more attracted to things like pizza, ice cream, sharwama and the likes.

Girls, abi I lie?

Karleb:
I don’t know why it's flying over everybody's head that she asked for the date.

Whoever asks for the date has to pay full bill unless there was a discussion about payment prior to the date.

Exactly, you're right!

The things ladies do especially these teenagers ehn will shock you.
Funny how I have many of them flocking around me because recently I taught some these year and more than 70 of them had 300+ (I am a good teacher by the way, no bragging) but the things they say, watch and discuss cringe me. Those girls are bad mhen, thankfully I have a very high level of control so I wouldn't take advantage of anybody's daughter. That made their parents trust me to the core and many of them still call me everyday to appreciate me! There are many who will even call me late at night around 9/10pm and I'll be like, won't your parents get angry with you thinking you're calling your boyfriend? And they'll be like, they're aware I am calling you and they're hear with me, will you like to speak with them? .

Some of the parents are even hinting me that if I like their daughters, I should come and take them, imagine

In summary: I have interacted with a lot of teenagers and I have come to a conclusion that majority of them are not pure or innocent as they appear, they're battling with "hormonal changes" and many of them rebel and make mistakes if they're not guided right, and because majority of them are naive, many guys prey and take advantage of them. That's very bad!

jerryforgood:
Is it only the man that should spend money on the woman. What about the woman spending money on her man?

Exactly, it should go both ways.
A woman should also learn to spend money on her man.
The funny things is that 90% of ladies I have met in my lifetime have told me and swore that they can never give money to a man in their lives again but guess what, they've all given me money. Yes ladies give me money, they beg me to collect their money!

As for me, if you're insisting on a date with me, I'll tell you the bills are on you!

Interestingly, I only say this jokingly but in my experience, more than ten girls have agreed and they paid my bills but surely I pay them back times two after we leave.

Summary: ladies can pay bills for the man they love, don't be a fool and waste money on a lady that will dump you without thinking twice when the chips are down!

It's actually fake though.

An actress released a video of them together to debunk this rumor.

Let me debunk something here tonight, a lot of people are going through "mental illness" and some are not even drug related. Not everyone that's roaming the street is into drugs. A lot of factors can predispose to mental illness. We have genetic factors, environment factors, adverse life events, social factors, financial factors and many more.

You guys are just wasting your time advising a 19year old. Ladies no dey listen to advise.

This guy justs wants to hit and run.
Unfortunately, If you're not wise, you'll loose your virginity when you guys meet because he is more experienced in the game and he will capitalize on your emotions. So, all this advise we're giving you will not count. Ladies like recieving advice from people but will never take advice because their emotions control them more than their logic controls them!

Nawa ooo
My future wife no fit try this nonsense with me
Deny me sex?
Behave irrational?
Impossible!

Bro, to tell you the truth, you're part of the problem. And solving this is not too difficult.

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Ladies ehn.
Marry a hoe or a repented hoe at your own peril .

Rest!

And that's why it's ladies that give me money in a relationship and not the other way round. The true test of love is sacrifice. If as a lady, you can't give me money, forget it!

PS: I AM NOT BROKE, I just use that basis as part of my litmus test. I still have other tests though.

thegroomspa:
Continue...

She went back to work, and later that day evening I started receiving a message on Whatsapp from her friend I once meet asking want happened between I and her friend...

On explaining things to her, she said there was nothing wrong that if I love her friend enough that shouldn't be an issue...

I was so angered that I stopped replying to her friend...

Then my girl started texting me on Whatsapp apologizing and at the same time swearing with her life that she can't sleep or do anything that her head and her heart are heavy...

I became afraid so she doesn't hurt herself, I then replied her and fixed a place to meet her after work...

We meet and I pointed out everything she burst to tears saying it wasn't true that it's not what I think and was swearing with her life...

I told her I forgave her...

This month made it the 7th month and i have not bleeped her since we met...I initiated it to ease up a little bit...we've made love twice now...

But I still feel insecure when ever am around her and don't trust her...

I feel like quitting...




Am so pained...

You're 35years and you still have the mindset of a kid??

The truth in life is that, you'll always come across women beautiful than your spouse, and the same goes for your spouse too. You've to learn how to control your emotions, control yourself. Young men are targeting married women these days just like married men are targeting single ladies. All this makes marriage seem like a joke!

Be careful of ladies ooo.
They can show you the best of love yesterday and kill you with so much hatred today that you wouldn't even notice the signs if you're not observant. May God keep saving us from killers like this, karashikas and delillahs.

arantess:
Post partum depression

Poor children, wicked mother

Still not an excuse!