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IyaTola:
It’s boring. Ish gets real and you see true colors. It’s a test to see if you can deal with a persons negative energy. Nobody is perfect but can you deal with THAT person’s negative seasons? Can you forgive easily? Or will you eventually get tired of the bs??

You don marry?

This one belongs to the streets, hit and run or marry and wail. The Choice is yours bro.

Girls.... I have quite an experience with loads of them. Recently, one of my "run away" girlfriends sent me a text message asking me how I was doing? I sent her a text back replying I was fine and all that. She was like I didn't message or call her for about two weeks and I simply replied that you said I shouldn't message you and I kept to your words.

Two days ago, I sent her a Facebook request on my new Facebook account and funny enough, I didn't know that on my new Facebook account, I was in a relationship with someone I haven't met yet. Somehow she found out and was very angry or whatever she felt, this morning she called me and we talked for hours and funny enough her love for me increased, perhaps maybe she doesn't want to loose me to another person.

Funny enough, this evening, the person I am with a relationship with on Facebook started behaving funny and acting up that I wasn't showing her enough attention, that I was cheating on her or whatever, I obviously didn't care, I called her and her love for me increased too.

Ladies are irrational, they don't know what they want! No lady can control me or make me upset, if you want to leave, leave. If you want to stay, stay. I have many ladies around me, your absence obviously doesn't matter to me.

Op, you've been in a relationship with your girl for about three years now. During this period, it's expected that you've both cheated on one another. . You guys just need to talk and iron somethings out, ladies just like men multi date because they get a lot of toasters everyday from hungry raunchy men and that's why all your heart or mind shouldn't be in a Lady. A lady doesn't love you, she only loves what you can give her! It may be money, vibes or just a mysterious feeling. As long as you supply, she's hooked and when you don't supply, she will disengage. Relationship is transactional! Know this and know peace.

Op, what do you want? Do you want your lady all to yourself? That's not possible, for it's not possible to prevent another human being for cheating, anybody can claim to love you and still cheat on you. Ladies have killed countless men because they love them and vice versa.

Escape oneitis, have alternatives, enjoy your Life. If you must commit your resources, commit to the best ladies and remember that all ladies have their bad sides.

Haaa, it reminds me of one lady called Hannah when I was still a bad guy, this girl will post about sexual Purity and messages that will hit at my soul and almost convert me to a holy boy but you know what, that same night, we will sex chat and talk dirty. This girl who was a virgin at that time was willing to get pregnant for me!

Life is not hard, life is not difficult. Your wife or your girlfriend cheating on you is not the end of the world. Make yourself happy, put yourself first, life is short! Ciao...

Sexual incompatibility.... Hmmm, as marriage gets older, the need for sex becomes umbalanced. Either the wife witholds sex from the husband or the husband is not interested in having sex with the wife.

Sexual pleasure or orgasm is good but the downside to it is that it doesn't last long, after climax, one is brought low again. For me, I have transcended sexual energy through meditation and transmutation, so with or without sexual pleasure, I am always happy and energetic! I have a lot of ladies around me and they're surprised how I don't get sexual with them, it's all because the whole sexual experience looks like junks to me when I am eating the real food.

Sex maybe life since we all are a product of sex but life is definitely more than sex.

A time will come when you'll face your greatest challenges, everything will look bleak, no help from nowhere, sometimes, you'll loose everything but if you're strong and persistent enough, you'll know that that phase of life is just a remodelling, like a snake undergoing moulting or eccidysis, you're loosing your old self and developing a new self. Unfortunately, many die before the moulting process is complete. May that not be your portion, perhaps death is not a bad thing after all since we all will die all day, perhaps untimely death is what's painful. Unfortunately, death is no respecter for anyone so live life to the fullest unafraid of death, aware that death can come at anytime. When you accept life in it's fullness, you'll also accept death when it comes knocking on your day. Remember that every new day is a day closer to your death day, so be happy and grateful!

ZINNYBANKS:
Dead people are enjoying but the fact that I'll be gone one day use to sometimes give me peace of mind .
But again if I meditate and think deeply , a thought use to glance through my mind again . WHERE ARE YOU GOING AFTER DEATH? again I'll become so cold like a Canadian snow..

Yes for a man going through a lot of challenges, I sometimes envy dead people. Gone just like that, away from the Hassel and tussel of life, escaping the harsh reality of life. What's in life after death? Knowing fully well I could die at any moment, I enjoy myself to the fullest. I may envy death but I enjoy life much more. Goodness!

Also, Op can you say confidently that you've been faithful to your wife for 25years you've been together?

Did you once flirt with other ladies?
Did you once have an extramarital affairs?

A faithful man is hard to find, just like a virtuous wife is hard to find too.

We all blame women when they do wrong, what about the men that do much worse?


Op, your wife is confused and doesn't know why she is behaving irrationally, guide her and wake her up from her fantasy!

Haaa, ladies love fantasy more than reality.
Fantasy, emotions, excitement, ecstasy! All these unleash the bad side of women.

Women, ah women, necessary evils, beautiful yet deadly, enchanting yet disastrous. The onus is on you to save yourself.

Have a wonderful day ahead.

For you to type this at 3:44am shows how pained you're.

If you read ubanja's post about how good girls fall for bad boys, you'll understand better.

Every girl has both a good side and a bad side.
This knowledge unfortunately has made me explore the bad sides of most females both physically and online.

Many ladies that appear good are very bad inside, they're just waiting for a bad guy to touch them and make them express themselves.

I know this from experience, many ladies have told me that I am a bad guy but they can't leave me because their boyfriends is very boring and I am very exciting.

After a while, marriage will get boring with time. The bad boys will exploit this if you're not watchful and vigilant especially over your wife.

It's a very crazy cycle and I pray you don't experience it, only few ladies, very few ladies are chaste up to 70%. You see the remaining, they're either just pretending or they don't have the opportunity to express themselves yet!!

Haaaa, my Mom's friend a good and virtuous woman, one who taught many the way of God and married a virgin even almost fell into the trap, from that moment I knew that no one can be 100% tested and trusted.

Many ladies message me about how bad some of their boyfriends treat them and yet they can't still leave them! And the simple reason is because their bad side is resonating with the bad side of the bad guy.

Most ladies just want to catch fun and vibe, they follow their feelings more than their logic.

It's very funny how once, I was chatting with my ex and she was requesting for a breakup or a space and within five minutes, she was requesting I updated my Facebook profile to show that I am in a relationship with her, this was someone requesting for a breakup few minutes ago. To test my theory, I updated my profile to show that I'm in a relationship with her only for her to tell me that she can't confirm the relationship because she's scared and that she didn't want some of her friends to mock her that the relationship wouldn't work bla bla bla. This makes me to understand to an extent that most ladies don't know what they want!

Haaa, ladies don't know what they want most times, as a man, you're the driver! When I was still a top notch bad boy, I can video a very "SU" sister, we will have fellowship or devotion together, study the word of God and even pray together for like two/three hours only for me to turn the conversation sexual and the lady will be moaning for me on phone. Is this not the lady that was fired up praying few moments ago?? I have done this with more than 100 ladies who claim to be sexual Puritans many of them are virgins but with the right tools, any lady can become vulnerable to you! I have done some really crazy things in the past but thank God I am repented now.

Good ladies find it exciting to fix bad guys, it turns them on. Ladies will claim they don't fight over men, they want to be the only one but all ladies I have dated have always asked me, "how are your concubines, my rivals doing"? Some have even confessed to me that I like it as you're baba for the girls, they'll say, I hate a guy that has multiple girlfriends but I like you that have many girls around you! Does that not show that ladies are confused?

Marrying is tough job. Fortunately for me, my parents are very opened, they've passed through many stages in their marriage and it makes me wow at how opened such people are towards each other! Anyone in the house can access their phones at any time, they talk about sex freely and liberally, they'll tell you the right path and still tell you that you can choose the wrong path but can you bear the consequences? They're marriage counsellors and they paint and give scenarios of marriage situations they face everytime. They're open about their strength and weaknesses. They make marriage so sweet and interesting!

The solution for you Op is to be a bad boy to your wife! Women love to hear bad things especially if it's coming from a man they Love.

I hope this my long write up helps someone. Thank you.

If you wan bleep, bleep. If you no wan bleep, face front. Life no hard jare

Why are you covering your balls?;

Nice one.
Make dey kuku commot the pant make we dey see the real deal

Please avoid earpiece as much as possible.

I used earpiece for over ten years plus, plugging in my ears overnight everyday.

The end result, not good.

Heed my advise for your own good, ignore at your own peril.

1. Put yourself first!!

2. Always take profit!

3. If you want to do any business that you don't have absolute control over (especially online business) divide the money into four and put one part in it to test the waters!

4. Don't put all your eggs in one basket, have backup funds.

5. Eat good food. If the money you have is not enough to solve your problems, use it to eat good food.

6. Build quality relationships, they'll help you when you're down.

7. Be grateful always, no matter how bad your situation is, it could have been worse. Some are even in worse situations than you're in.

8. Do not give your heart 100% to any woman to avoid stories that touch.

9. Observe very well, learn how to be a great observer! Especially before taking actions.

10. Rule no 1, put yourself first.

Okortor:
How many person's don't have food to eat tonight? Kindly signify

Do you want to give them money?

This doesn't sound true though.

Anyways e no concern me

BRATISLAVA:
That's alright, avenger. The devil doesn't need to do his work anymore. He has delegated it wisely.

Lol... I am no avenger, I am a good boy!

madridguy:
Many of them are facing the reality now but shame won't allow them to come back to Nigeria.

No place is easy but the reality over there is better than the reality in Nigeria.
In Nigeria here, if you don't have money and connections, you're done for.

The ladies I love dealing with the most are those with entitlement mentality!

If you come across me, I'll show you pepper ehn. Unfortunately I don't do ladies as much as I do them before. It's better to take care of yourself and put yourself first! Ladies will always come and go, but ensure that you're at the advantageous position!

Date a Single mother at your own peril.

If you must date a single mother, it must be on your own rules. I have dated more than ten single mothers in my short lifetime and there was a time I was even dating four at the same time just to learn the similarities between them. I realized that dating a single mother has some advantages just like it has some disadvantages but the disadvantages is more than the advantages.

1. Many of them still "love" their baby daddies. They only talk bad against their baby daddies because according to all of them, he is not "responsible". Whereas, they also have their own faults in the matter.

2. They'll love their child above you. A single mother will always place their children and herself before you!

3. If a single mother truly loves you, she will spend on you. Ladies find it very difficult to spend on guys, it's even worse with single mothers. All single mothers I have met have sworn never to send money to guys but guess what, all of them have sent money to me because they "love" me.

4. Single mothers love sex ooo. Forget all these celebacy talk they're saying. If they're not giving you sex, they're getting it from somewhere else. Majority of them are sex demons! Use that to your own advantage.

5. Single mothers can lie a lot. It's normal for ladies to lie but the lies of some single mothers can even put the devil to shame. If single mother lie for you and you're not observant, you'll most likely fall for it.

6. Single mothers only let you know what they want you to know about them. They may tell you a lot about their lives if they find out that you're non judgmental and if they feel that you'll still stay by them after exposing their faults to you.

7. Single mothers can be very very jealous. They hate "cheating" men the most whereas they themselves are master of cheating!

8. Date a single mother at your own peril, but if you must, it must be to your advantage!

I will not be surprised if na Lagosian run this matter.

Just because of a WhatsApp text?
I can text what I like to whatever I like, I give no damn about anybody!!

Make my woman tell me say I dey flirt and with other women and tell me I am cheating? I'll be done with such and move on to another. I am in no scarcity of women at all and no woman can stress me!

If you want to leave, fine. If you want to stay, it's up to you!

Also, words are powerful.
Stop speaking negative words to yourself.
You're the cause of your own problems

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Hmmmm

Well it depends Sha.
Karma exists and karma also doesn't exists.
What's your definition of karma? If it's reaping and sowing, then everyone is directly or indirectly affected.

All ladies are cheap!
If you're a lady don't attack me yet. Do you know why you're cheap? According to the norms(we have exceptions), a guy first "pursues" the lady and after he has gotten her "attention" the lady appears cheap to the guy (not absolute).

But that indomie and egg worked wonders in the past and it's still working wonders till now sef just that girls are more attracted to things like pizza, ice cream, sharwama and the likes.

Girls, abi I lie?

Karleb:
I don’t know why it's flying over everybody's head that she asked for the date.

Whoever asks for the date has to pay full bill unless there was a discussion about payment prior to the date.

Exactly, you're right!

The things ladies do especially these teenagers ehn will shock you.
Funny how I have many of them flocking around me because recently I taught some these year and more than 70 of them had 300+ (I am a good teacher by the way, no bragging) but the things they say, watch and discuss cringe me. Those girls are bad mhen, thankfully I have a very high level of control so I wouldn't take advantage of anybody's daughter. That made their parents trust me to the core and many of them still call me everyday to appreciate me! There are many who will even call me late at night around 9/10pm and I'll be like, won't your parents get angry with you thinking you're calling your boyfriend? And they'll be like, they're aware I am calling you and they're hear with me, will you like to speak with them? .

Some of the parents are even hinting me that if I like their daughters, I should come and take them, imagine

In summary: I have interacted with a lot of teenagers and I have come to a conclusion that majority of them are not pure or innocent as they appear, they're battling with "hormonal changes" and many of them rebel and make mistakes if they're not guided right, and because majority of them are naive, many guys prey and take advantage of them. That's very bad!

jerryforgood:
Is it only the man that should spend money on the woman. What about the woman spending money on her man?

Exactly, it should go both ways.
A woman should also learn to spend money on her man.
The funny things is that 90% of ladies I have met in my lifetime have told me and swore that they can never give money to a man in their lives again but guess what, they've all given me money. Yes ladies give me money, they beg me to collect their money!

As for me, if you're insisting on a date with me, I'll tell you the bills are on you!

Interestingly, I only say this jokingly but in my experience, more than ten girls have agreed and they paid my bills but surely I pay them back times two after we leave.

Summary: ladies can pay bills for the man they love, don't be a fool and waste money on a lady that will dump you without thinking twice when the chips are down!

It's actually fake though.

An actress released a video of them together to debunk this rumor.

Let me debunk something here tonight, a lot of people are going through "mental illness" and some are not even drug related. Not everyone that's roaming the street is into drugs. A lot of factors can predispose to mental illness. We have genetic factors, environment factors, adverse life events, social factors, financial factors and many more.