*Àpá means Scar*

My name is Oladimeji and I am 32 years old. This is the story of my Àpá. *Àpá means scar*

I finished my NYSC in 2016 and immediately, I got a job with one of the banks in Nigeria and my branch is in Ogba, Lagos State.

I was barely 9 months to the banking job and one day, a fair lady passed a cheque leave to me, she has come to withdraw money from her account and a simple complement from my end "you are looking beautiful" created a spark that would later turn me into a mad and paralyzed guy for 2 years and that has been my Àpá.

I appreciated her beauty and sincerely speaking, her complexion and beauty will make a guy to look at her more often as long as she is around - and that was what happened! I couldn't concentrate.

Though, I didn't make mistake while handling her transaction but the mistake I made cost me more. I lust after her beauty.

When I gave her the cheque leave to write her name, address and sign at the back, she returned it with her complimentary card and I promised to call her after working hours.

I couldn't wait till the close of the day, I was looking at the time every five minutes. It was as if I was in eternity - the time was just too slow.

My colleagues noticed my uneasy acts and they were just wondering - what's happening to Ola? Someone who won a lottery would not be happy more than me that day. I never knew I was entering into a journey that will take only the mercy and deliverance from God to save me. Still, the Àpá is with me.

After working hours, I put a call through to her and we fixed an appointment to meet that weekend.

Devil so planned it that it's just #100 from my place to where she was staying at Ogba and by weekend, I was at her place.

I can never forget that Saturday evening. She welcomed me with open arms and asked what I would like to take of which I responded "anything". Well, she didn't offered me anything but she did offer me something. She offered me what she called 'Nneka Treat' and that was the beginning of the Àpá.

For 30 minutes, I didn't know where I was again. It was after regaining my consciousness that I realized that the BJ in her complementary card meant Mouth Gig.

Her complementary card reads - BJ Services ...for all your pleasures, and her name Nneka, as the Managing Partner. So, what she had just offered me was a BJ and that was the first time I will experience such. That was the birth of my Àpá.

Well, I was a Christian but not a serious one then so I will categorise myself as just a church goer because I lost all my church sense that day.

After the BJ experience, we ate and later had sex and the Àpà was stamped. I couldn't even go back to my place until the following day and I am sure if I wasn't going to resume work on Monday, I would still stay another day in her place.

When I got home the following day which was Sunday, I started calling her everyday for the next 4 days. The purpose of my calls was just to greet her and to ask for what she wanted and it was the same sentence anytime I call. "Hello Nneka, how are you today? I just want to ask you, what do you want?"

On Monday, which was the first working day after the incident, I called her in the morning in a place called "kitchen" at my place of work and I asked what she wanted for the day, she said, "I want you to transfer all the money in your account to me", and my response was just " yes ma". You would have thought I was transferring my 'close to a year' savings from the bank job to save a life at the hospital, that was the speed I used in transferring #256,000 that I have in my account to her. I had to even beg her after doing the transfer that I still have #1,032 left in my account but I couldn't transfer it and she said no problem.

The following day, Tuesday, she asked me what other investments do I have, I told her "I have a land bought from cooperative and another land that my late dad gave me." She asked me to sell it that day and transfer the money to her that same day and I had to sell both lands for #65,000 so that I can meet the deadline she gave to me.

By Wednesday, I had to sell all the electronics in my apartment and the furniture for #20,000 at Sabo. A guy living in my neighbour organised everything after I left for work, he just gave me the #20,000 as the amount of the goods sold.

By Thursday, I didn't have anything to meet up her demand and her response "then that's the end of you" was what I heard last...

Until after two years...

I heard that I ran mad at the "kitchen" after making a phone call. The kitchen is a private area in my place of work where we freshen up before attending to customers and to cool off the stress of the day. I had been calling Nneka from there since Monday after my encounter with her, and I think since I didn't have anything to offer again after my call with her on Thursday, that was why I ran mad and later became paralyzed.

I was told that it was the staff who knew the Church that I was attending that took me there and they put a call through to my mother to come down and attend to me. I had filled her name in my file as the next of kin.

I was told that it was the stress of my state of madness that cut short the life of my mother because I was not just a mad man, I was a paralyzed mad man.

I was told it was my mum that will carry me to the bathroom, to the toilet and she was there to take care of me. The church could only do little.

I was told that after one year in that state, my mum died and I was transfered to a prayer mountain with the help of Bimpe.

It was on the prayer mountain in Ogun State that I heard people shouting Hallelujah. For a very long time, I didn't know what was happening. All I saw first was that there were mad men chained under tress around and after a while, I saw Bimpe.

I could recognize Bimpe after two days of gaining my sanity fully and being able to talk.
Bimpe was one of the marketing staff in the bank where I was before the whole saga and she was my friend there.

She told me she had to resign from the job after 1 year the incident happened to me because she heard from God that I am her husband and she said the confirmation was strong. Though, she said it wasn't easy for her but she knows the voice of her Father. Her family too supported her and she was with me after the death of my mum. Together with the support of her family, they were the ones who carried me to the prayer mountain in Ogun State and she had been there with me for a whole year till I receive my miracle.

It was a Mouth Gig of few minutes and one time sex with Nneka that put my life and Bimpe who is now my wife on hold for 2 years.

I was called a mad man for 2 years and though I'm healed but the Àpá is still there because now I use crutches.

Not many will receive mercy as I had received it from God.

Bimpe discussed with me some of my manifestations during the deliverance sessions and she said it was just God's mercy that restored me.

Truly, I am a living testimony of what is called Sexually Transmitted Demons as Bimpe said I manifested a whole lot of them before being delivered.

Now, I'm still using crutches and I can't go back to the place of work again. I will have to start arranging myself to find a new job but it will take some time.

However, I give thanks to God for delivering me from the shackles of Nneka.

The question I ask everyday is - How many people who have been trapped by Nneka have such testimony as mine?

If only the youths of this generation will learn from my experience and know that the best thing to do is to flee from all appearances of evil, sincerely it will save them from a lot of Àpá.

This is the story of my Àpá.

Àpà means scar and even though I have been delivered, the Àpá is still there.
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Nothing has stolen more dreams, dashed more hopes, broken up more families, and messed up more people psychologically than our propensity to disregard God's commands regarding sexual purity.

Sexual immorality comes with a commandment from God.

Flee!!!

Source: CAC Sunday School Facebook Page

Chige777:




Bro you are the only one who understands what I am passing through. This babe is everything. Her brothers don't like the other guy because of how he bypassed them and went straight to their parents. They even had to call me one day to tell me about the guy. I told them their sis had already told me about the whole drama. Now the girl is not done with school and the guy is seriously pushing this marriage thing so much that her parents gave in even against her wish. That was why she swore to keep seeing me because according to her I make her happy and she is very free and comfortable with me

Bro, understanding you is not a justification to continue.

Grace differs but if you enjoy grace like me, stop after she gets married but if you are not sure of the grace over you, kindly avoid her now to avoid HAD I KNOWN

otikpoko:


Not everyone going to preaching are Ordanined ministers of Jehovah and it may be that this lady in question is not a baptized but since she attends meeting and goes to preaching he feels that she is a witness.

If she is Ordanined and still engaged in something like this, it's a serious Sin and Requires strong DISCIPLINE becasue it's certain she is an unrepentant sinner.

These are the folks that Drags Jehovah's name to the Mud that's if this story is true.

This guy is a JW

SIR0:
It's good like that. She would feel insecure if she knows you once had s*x with her.

Exactly and she has been helpful and supportive in the past. I feel like she sewing for my wife and daughter is the little way I can repay her as I can't be giving her money all the time.

Though I still assist her in time of needs but not too much that could make my wife think otherwise because I don't hide things away since I got married

I have once been in your shoes. I had a friend who is a JW lady. She's pretty, lovely, romantic, hardworking, industrious, caring and loving. She's a rare of her kind. She is a good home maker and the dream of every young and responsible man.

I love and cared for her. I wanted more than s*x. I wanted relationship and marriage but she declined. I even wanted to convert her faith but she said NO. She said I should become a JW only if I wish but shouldn't be because of her. I later found out she had a guy who is a JW too, so I backed out of relationship talk and enjoyed the f**k while it lasted.

After I got married, she still wanted us to continue. She begged for it passionately but I told her I mean the vow I shared with my wife on the altar. It pains her and thought she should have been the one I married but it's a pity it's too late.

She's my daughter's godmother and my wife's tailor but I never tell my wife what happened between us in the past.

phelonrays:


Bro, you are deeply confused.

How do you gush about your current family and then at the same time fancied yourself grooming a better family with your ex

There is nothing wrong with you other than Jealousy....

You really think so?

Am I not to cherish what I have while thinking I could have better?

Thanks for your comments and advise so far. I really appreciate but I will like to point out something's

1. It was a NO SEX relationship. All I could remember was we kissed and romance once but we never had sex.

2. I can boldly say I wasn't thinking of her in any sort when the dream keeps occuring. Infact, the dreams comes when I have forgotten she exists.

3. She re-add me back on social media after I got married and congratulated me. She has also been trying to establish friendship (for us to be talking) but I have always give her monosyllabic response and shutdown the conversation because I know it's not healthy enough for my marriage

But yet, all these dreams won't allow me rest

I never see myself doing this but I can no longer help it. I will try to shorten but I want all the best of advice I can get.

Paraphrase
I dated a lady for roughly 11years (right from Pre-Degree days at UNAD) but it was a distant and on/off relationship. I lost track and went wayward. She waited for me and we re-united. The relationship would have been the best but I now base at Bonny Island area of Rivers State while she based at Ibadan. She pleaded with me to relocate back to Ibadan owing to the fact that I wasn’t doing anything reasonable at Bonny Island as at then but I insisted. As time goes by, she agreed and we planned to settle down in 2017. Two months to our introduction, she blocked me on all social media and moved on without looking back. She got married December 2017 while I moved on and married too September 2018 to a lady I met on Facebook and trust me when I say we are good.


The Dreams
The problem started after I discovered she got married and I started having different strange dreams of her begging me to forgive her and continue with her. I do tell her in that dream she is married and I can’t have anything to do with her. These dreams became repeated like 4 times in a week and I was disturbed. I got disturbed but nothing I could do.

After wedding
I got married and believed that would be the end but it’s like I was fooling myself as the dream continues with me married and she too married but to different people in that dream. She will be begging me and saying we can still make it work despite being married to someone else. The problem is that I do see my feelings being resurrected back towards her when I wake-up. At times, I see us getting along in the dream.
New home
My family and I are doing great and we now have a lovely daughter and I love my wife dearly.

The Trouble
At times I feel like I have the best family on earth and appreciate God for not ending up with my ex but I can’t seems to get my ex off my head and I do feel like I could have been better if it’s my ex I am with.
How can I get her off my head please? What could have been the cause of these strange dreams?

Somebody HELP!

Bro, you are stingy. She loves you more than you love her. I am a guy but with your storyline, you are the one using her and taking advantage

Kindly help a brother. I need someone to put me through on Whiteboard animation and cartoon video animation.

Kindly reach out to me on 08030834800

Exactly sir

Covid-19 in Nigeria.

Over the weekend, Friday to be precise.

My neighbor's son sustained a head injury while playing with his fellow kids and was rushed to the general hospital in my area here.

The little boy wasn't sick o.
Just a head injury that happened in my presence while we were outside discussing.

On Sunday, I went to check on the boy to see how he was doing, he was already playing with other kids though his head is still bandaged.

I started talking with his mom and she told me what now seems to be the new trend as regards Covid-19 in Nigeria.

She showed me the receipt issued to her by the hospital.
It was marked Covid-19, case 353.

I was surprised to see that.

She said when she saw the receipt, she asked the nurse what was the meaning of that?
That her son isn't a Covid-19 patient.

The nurse told her not to worry, that it means nothing.
That she was only doing what was required of her.
So she shouldn't worry.

According to the woman, she was still worried seeing that on her receipt but the nurse further reassured her and told her that if she doesn't do that, she could be issued a query. Wow!

What this means is that, according the receipt, the boy is case 353 treated and discharged.

Can you imagine that?!

That is possibly the new trend now at government hospitals.

Once you're sick and visits a government hospital, you're a Covid-19 patient.

If she hadn't shown me that receipt, I wouldn't have believed what she told me yesterday.

And you keep wondering why we can't see common pictures of patients in the isolation centers. Common pictures o.

All we see everyday are numbers upon numbers.

Let me leave it here for now.
Tariere Fiebai
#NIGERIA_GOVERNMENT_I_HAIL

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Salatavor:
They are not joking anymore

Exactly

Oyo lawmakers enter the floor of the House in Amotekun Regalia over the passage of the Amotekun Bill into Law
Plenary still on going...
#insideOyo #Amotekun #oyostate

World Heavyweight Champion, Anthony Joshua Playing With His Fans In Nigeria!!!

Describe him in one word!!

Exactly

IS TOPE ALABI UNTOUCHABLE AS HER FANS WANT US BELIEVE?

Lanre Teriba, AKA Atorise also started with a fling like this until he declared a full blown identity of Arambabi Jesu with KWAM 1.

I remember vividly, how his lovers also justified and supported his stance then when some of us alarmed on the signal of a backslidden man we saw in him.

Not sooner than he sang his popular reconcilatory song, "moti pada" that his supporters admitted he obviously backslided.

I can see the same with supporters and lovers of Tope Alabi.

Rather than gallivanting all around social media attacking those who genuinely show concerns about her obvious fling towards backsliding. Why don't you spend the same time praying for her since you did advise us to do same.

The fact that we come on social media to screem this fling does not mean we don't love her, pray for her or stopped being her fan.

As Christians that we are, we consider this world as battle front and everything we do should be towards making us battle ready.

When as a soldier in Christ, you see your fellow soldier running into a booby trap set by the enemies. What you need do at that point is screem that soldier out the path especially when your perimeter is far from his or if close pull him out from the path.

You don't help a fellow soldier approaching a danger zone by sing-praising him to danger just because you love him or you trust so much on his infallibility.

While I understand obviously that some chided her out of contempt and hatred. But be rest assured that many of us who show concerns love her and we even do better than you sychophant who think no one can talk to your idol.

Are we doing so because we are perfect? NO

But when we see our fellow soldier approaching danger. What we need do is to secure his safely regardless our our own human failing.

If everyone is waiting for the perfection of another to have a say. It means no one, I mean no one including you the sychophant would have no temerity to speak to any issue.

So, stop attacking those who show genuine concern about Tope Alabi just because she is your idol.

Stop that nonsense because no one needs your permission to take a stance on issue.

I have seen and heard about many people who claims to be celebrities but have no good or worthy legacy to hang up to. I couldn't see you in screen but lost count of movies your great pen has written that affected life positively than the drama queen and King in the Nollywood industry that we have but it is unfortunate death took you away too sudden to fulfill your destiny.

Osang James Abang, trust me when I say my wife and I relax from each day stress with your masterpieces. The likes of Tinsel, Battle ground, forbidden, brethren amidst million of them.

Rest on till we have a perfect replacement to brighten our screen which I doubt there could be any.

It's a year today that you left us. Rest on great script writer

@op, you are not a man

superfitsez:
some men are very stupid, I can never be friend with someone like you, imagine this op tufiakwa,,nkea bu aturu

@Op, you are not a man

Office of the Vice President

Press Statement

FG, SOUTHWEST GOVERNORS AGREE ON AMOTEKUN

Vice President Yemi Osinbajo, SAN, met today with South West Governors, the Attorney General of the Federation and the Inspector General of Police .

The meeting was at the instance of the Governors who had asked to see President Muhammadu Buhari over the controversy surrounding the Amotekun Initiative. However due to the President’s foreign engagement, he asked the Vice President to host the meeting.

The meeting was very fruitful and unanimous resolutions were made on the way forward.

Having regard to the need for all hands to be on deck in addressing the security concerns across the country, it was agreed that the structure of Amotekun should also align with the Community Policing strategy of the Federal Government.

It was also agreed that necessary legal instruments will be put in place by each of the States to give legal backing to the initiative and address all issues concerning the regulation of the security structure.

Signed.
Laolu Akande

Me: We all can now go to bed.

SEGLIZ:
sense in it all.

:-XFor real?

I stumbled on this post on Facebook. Trust me when I say I was astonished.

I think side chicks now have liver


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Mightymanna:
Non of these regional security apparatus will help Nigeria's unity because they are conceived with sinister motives toward some ethnic groups in the country. For those that are shouting HISBAH and civilian JTF in the North are also illegal, they should look at the aforementioned from different perspectives because Hisbah was created by Kano state and civilian JTF by Borno state non of these Security agencies are allowed to use gun or any sophisticated weapons
But amatekun or whatever they call it is a different case because
1.a whole geo-political zone decided to create it
2. They will be allowed to use weapons
3. They are being supported by people of questionable character e.g Nnamdi KANU
4. Other regions might do the same hence the federal police will be useless and conflicts will started based on perceived injustice by people of different ethnicity.


Therefore amatekun or whatever is dead and buried the Northerners will not agree will these sort of security arrangements, if you want secure your region cooperate with the police and army in your respective states, support them with necessary , material and financial support and watch how things will change

With this post, I am glad to announce to you that the poster is a brainwashed political bigot whose sense of reasoning is located at the anus.

.1. what is wrong being a geo-political zone initiative?
2. From which source have you heard or seeing them carrying weapon. Or what is the Fulani cattle rearer used for?
3. Is Kanu a governor in SW?
4. Who is stopping other regions?

Please grow up and stop thinking from your anus

Federal Government was in support of "AMOTEKUN" before, until they came across the picture of the Inspector General of Amotekun IGA... LOL

#JOKE
#NOHATESPEECHINTENDED

Honest and best answer from a happily married man

1. Leaving her now is not divorce because you were never married, you are just senior fornicator


2. The new lady is who is really getting you confused now


3. The lady was not ready for marriage when you impregnated her. She would have aborted the baby if your mum hasn't intervened because she needs to see her grandchild in quick.
Now, your wife (sorry, senior fornicator partner) is no longer feeling comfortable with the idea of you chaining her down when her single peers are there hoeing.

I can categorically tell you she is also hoeing another man right now but can't leave because of you guy's family involvement. Don't lie, you too has been digging another hole by now.

If you now want to know what to do, WhatsApp me on 08030834800 and let's talk

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Christ is indeed for all nations. Thank you Sir. Thank you for such an inspiring and exemplary life.

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Rest in the Father Reinhard Bonnke ❤❤

Rest in Peace
Evangelist Reinhard Bonnke
#FarewellGodsgeneral

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