This was the best part of my wedding process that I love most. The proposing part
NO celebration shenanigans
NO kneeling down (what if she says no)
NO expensive food to entice
NO drinks what so ever
NO external body to pressure her to say what's not on her mind
NO expensive shoe or clothes to boast

Just flipping a simple question even jokingly 'Will you marry me?'

Now it's 3years and still counting. I love you my own OluwaTomiwa Ayanfe Samuel-Fakolade

Smiles... The truth is, you were not prepared for marriage, you only prepared for wedding.

Marriage is like following Christ, two things must be involved

1. You must count the cost

2. You must let go of every idol

Let me shorten my sermon. Your old church is your idol and remember what happened to Rachel who stole his father's idol.


Your husband and you have to go back to the drawing board and design how you want your home to look like

While closing today's service, the pastor sang TO GOD BE THE GLORY. I think it has become a norms anyway.

I was on my way home and I heard the same song from a nearby church. I never take it to be anything but when I got home and heard the same song from another church close by, I was taken aback.

I went on my Facebook account to check what's up and I came across a Christian page having online service and the choir were on the ending side of the song, then I conclude that the song is definitely the most sang song in Christian gatherings.

Has anyone else notice that?

Many don't even know this day exist

Someone should help me out.

I'm trying to change password through 'forgot password' and it's showing me that portal has been closed for profile update.

What can. I do? Please help me out

Someone should help me out.

I'm trying to change password through 'forgot password' and it's showing me that portal has been closed for profile update.

What can. I do? Please help me out

I can't believe am reading this.

Is this a joke or what?

obembet:


U should have focus more on LCC now since u have graduated from Wofbi instead of saying nonsense in public. is that what u lean in BCCCongratulations anyway..

Hunmmmm.... You don't even feel any remorse

Copy and paste. You copied, edited and paste my write up. Can't you compose something different?

Na wah oooo

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In Ibadan find a bus to Iwo Road. From there, choose anywhere you are going on earth.

In Kaduna, just ask of Central Market (Kazuwa/Kasuwa - depending on your tongue), from there, you can take a bus to Jamaica.

In Abuja, find your way to Berger Roundabout, from there, ask for anywhere on earth. You will get a bus going there.

In Onitsha, just go to Upper Iweka (pronounced as Oppy Iweka). You can even get a bus directly to Singapore.

In Calabar, simply find your way to Etim Edem Park, you can get to Iceland in seconds from there!

In Enugu, find your way to Holy Ghost Old Park. From there, even angels can take you to your destiny.

In Kano, find your way to New Road or Sabongari. You can take direct bus to Iraq from there.

In Port Harcourt, just find your way to Rumuola, Garrison, Mile 1, Lagos, Rumuokoro Roundabout or Waterlines. Even where planes cannot reach, you will get buses that go there from those places mentioned.

In Ilorin, find your way to Post Office or Taiwo Road. You can from these places enter Malaysia

In Benin, find your way to Ringroad, New Benin, Iyaro or Oluku junction, you can get a bus that is heading to Italy directly.

In Yenagoa, just go to Tombia Roundabout, believe me the rest will be history.

In Lokoja, just find your way to Ganaja Junction, if you cannot find a bus going to where you are going in Ganaja Junction, then you are going nowhere.

In Uyo, take a taxi to Plaza, leave the rest of where you are going to the drivers.

In Jos, go to Terminus. From there, you can even get a bus to your destiny.

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This is so awkward or is it just a reaction?

Who can interpret this chat?

I have seen many things under the sun but this is quiet disheartened.

What actually does women want

Karleb:
So if there were no evidence, you'd have probably been guilty for life for an offense you didn't commit.


I'm still surprised why your boss hired soldiers to deal with you without questioning you. I guess it's the sisterhood thing.

That was what shocked me most. I have to resign and it was the best decision I ever made

DICKstractor:




I'm happy to see that we still have disciplined men on earth. I thought I was the last of our specie . Men that think with their head and not their balls.


Nothing beats integrity, dignity and commitment.

Thumbs up OP... I'm proud of you man.


If you weren't married, I would have offered you the best olosho Owerri can offer...

Lead us not into temptation

I read the story of a guy who accommodate an insolent girl but some people seems not to believe his story. Believe you me, I have been in that shoe before

https://www.nairaland.com/6526382/accommodating-insolent-girl/22#101192598

I worked as a manager of a firm and after covid-19, one of our major staff didn't return for any reason whatsoever. We have to put out an advert for the position. We shortlisted two (A boy and a girl).

Truth be told, the guy is more qualified than the guy and I prefer working with him because it will make my workload more easier but the CEO (female) prefers the lady and said I will have to bring the lady up to speed. All efforts to convince her to take the guy were abortive but I have no choice.
The lady on the other hand said she lives with her step-mum as she has lost her mum years back and the step-mum do maltreat her and she wants to be leaving home by all means. I told her that was not an enough reason to employ her but my boss thinks it reason enough.

This lady started well but her speed was too slow for my liking, so I have to be adding even her own responsibility on mine and share to other staff most times. Instead of her to learn, she will always be on her phone listening to music and games. She will complain the office is boring as everyone was busy.

She got my number one way and she added me up on WhatsApp and started flirting with me. I was not comfortable, so I have to show my wife the chat. My wife trust me but she cautioned me. I tried to avoid this lady till she sent me her nudes (someone who claim to be a virgin to everyone in the office) and said 'Mr. Sam, this is what you are missing'.

I was mad and wanted to report her but my wife said I should be able to control the situation.

I got to the office, invited her to my inner office and gave her a Stern warning but she bluff it off.

I decided to abandon her totally and blocked her on WhatsApp, so as to keep things official.

She longer stay at the office but to the next office office to gist. The CEO who do come once a while met her there on two different occasions and was mad with her, could you imagine this lady claim I was harassing her sexually and that why she has been avoiding office. My boss didn't say anything but went to invite two soldiers to come and pick me up and deal with me. When we got to the barrack, one of them asked me why I have been harassing my junior staff, I was shocked and I was given a fair hearing. The lady was brought but I didn't say a word, I just went to my email (because I do screenshot our conversation and save them in my draft box) and brought out all the chat.

My boss was shocked to the discovery and started apologizing. People of God, the lady was fired but I later resigned too

martinsoreoluwa:
@Op you have done well. but don't go too far. she might frame u up that u wanna bleep her and she is not interested...that's the cause of your attitude towards her. fear woman ooo. I will advice u to calm down and resolve d issue amicably.

regards.

I was once in such shoe

Rocktation:


Why do some of you even quote people, when it's almost as though your brains can't process written words? How does what you said now, correlate with what I wrote?

To identify a devastated feminist who doesn't know the difference between courtesy and being disciplined is not hard.

The greatest dullard of the century, no wonder you still remain like this

Rocktation:
But she clearly told you that she couldn't cook due to unavailability of water. You are the host and very likely the one with the muscles. I don't see how fetching water for your guest to prep your meal is a big deal. Unless, you want her to pay for the roof over her head, by doing all the house chores, I'm certainly not understanding what really prompted this fight.
There's probably more that you are not telling.

You said a host not a slave. Does that mean if you visit someone, you can't help them out with anything?

Women and their shallow thinking

harrwix:
Apart from your actions, I appreciate the fact that you initially reached out to her. Let her know henceforth you will not welcome an insolent behaviour of which she has two choice, apologize and turn a new leaf or take her stuffs and leave your apartment

To add to that, let her be sleeping on the floor while you reclaim your bed back.

Make sure you guys don't eat together. Cook your food different.

I am having this infection on my finger and toe. I have been to hospital twice and I was given drugs which I used (despite am the type who doesn't take drugs before) but all to no avail.

The drugs worked but immediately an done with the drug, the infection resurface again.

Who have any idea of how I can go about it as it has already start spreading to other fingers

If I may asked
Why do girls wear waist bead in the first place

Then come to talk of this one here

Guys are we save?

Yes, I quit my job last month and I think that's the best thing I ever do this year. Not that I have another job but I can't endure abusive situations anymore.

I know many will criticize me but if you have an idea of what I passed through in my boss hands, you will definitely do same.

I know am back to labour market but I am doing that with pride

Copied
This is what it takes some men to make 2k.

It takes a labourer several hours of labour to earn 2k

A laundry man may need to iron 6 shirts to make 2k

It takes bro John to sell 4gig to make 2k

It takes a bike man to work several hours under the scorching sun just to make 2k.

It takes some barbers to cut 4 customers hair to make 2k

It takes a commercial driver to run several hours on the road for 2k

Some ladies will say "ordinary 2k"
But it's "urgent....."

Always appreciate those that send you 2k when you need it.

It's their sweat!

Read and give your opinion

I came across this picture online and after looking at it twice, I agree it is full of wisdom.

Do you actually think the cartoonist is right?

Do you think what's on this picture is right for children of such age even if they are siblings?

#Copied
My Wife’s Salary Was a Mystery Until I discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth

In 2016 she told me her salary was GHC950. And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only Ghc350 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. GHC4,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine.

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.”

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. His father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?” I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?” He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”

My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Last she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money. She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all. She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a divorce, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions.

Tohsynetita1:


what kind of Job do you want

Any good and legit job sir

Tohsynetita1:
what are your Qualifications so that those that will help you will know how to strategize.

B.Sc in Geology

Osimebuni:
Job Title: Safety Officer

Location:Delta, Anambra, Benin and Lagos
Type: Full time

Job Profile

We are looking for a responsible and experienced Safety Officer to facilitate compliance with occupational health and safety (OHS) guidelines in the Maritime / Oil and Gas industry.
You will provide advice on measures to minimize hazards or unhealthy situations. You will also be on a constant lookout for violations.
The ideal candidate will be a responsible individual who swears by OSH regulations.
Your work will be largely focused on prevention, so you need to be conscientious and farsighted. The ideal candidate will also be detail-oriented and ready to act in emergencies.
Role Objective

The goal is to establish a safe workplace according to the company policy, regulatory standards and foster a culture of attention to health and safety.
Responsibilities

Support the development of OHS policies and programs.
Advise and instruct on various safety-related topics (noise levels, use of machinery etc.).
Conduct risk assessment and enforce preventative measures.
Review existing policies and measures and update according to legislation.
Initiate and organize OHS training of employees and executives.
Inspect premises and the work of personnel to identify issues or non-conformity (e.g., not using protective equipment).
Oversee installations, maintenance, disposal of substances etc.
Stop any unsafe acts or processes that seem dangerous or unhealthy.
Record and investigate incidents to determine causes and handle worker’s compensation claims.
Prepare reports on occurrences and provide statistical information to management.
Requirements
Required Education / Qualification:

BSc / BA / OND / HND in Safety Management, Engineering or relevant field is preferred
Valid certification in Occupational health and safety (Maritime/Oil and Gas sector) is a must.
Required Experience:

Minimum of 1 year of relevant experience.
Preference will be given to candidates currently in similar roles within the Maritime/oil and gas sector.
Required Skills:

Proven experience as safety officer
In depth knowledge of regulatory guidelines (e.g. OSH/Maritime) and procedures.
Knowledge of potentially hazardous materials or practices.
Experience in writing reports and policies for health and safety.
Familiarity with conducting data analysis and reporting statistics.
Proficient in MS Office; Working knowledge of safety management information systems is a plus.
Outstanding organizational skills.
Diligent with great attention to detail.
Excellent communication skills with the ability to present and explain health and safety topics.
Benefits
Salary: N50,000-120,000/month

Application Closing Date
19th April,2021

How to Apply
Interested and qualified candidates should forward their CV to: hr.jeocino@gmail.com

Can I talk with you via phone please?

I need your help fellow nairalander. I am a married man with a blessed wife and beautiful daughter and base here at Rivers State (Bonny Island) though I am a Yoruba.

I need a job around Ogun state, Oyo State or Osogbo as I really want to relocate back home badly.

It's a very serious matter as I have been enduring abusive encounter from the CEO of the firm as work as the manager.

This daily abuse is affecting me psychologically and am beginning to transfer the aggression on my beautiful family which ought not to be so.

It's difficult getting a better paid job here in Bonny Island because of community hostility and I believe being with my fellow Yoruba will not only help breeding a great family am building but also enable my daughter learn the right culture and not make her to grow up in an hostile environment which may affect her pyschic.

I will be very grateful if you can help me post it on your page if I can get something doing at any of those designated places.

Thanks and God bless you.

I can be reach via 08030834800

Ok. Thanks