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Klass99:
I find it interesting that most of the commenters above me are men with similar daddy issues. As in, sons and fathers not getting along well, sons treating their mothers better and not wanting to help their fathers.

The same men will open their mouths waaa tomorrow to say marriage does not benefit men, men get neglected in old age, only women/mothers are looked after and only they get to travel, blah, blah, blah.

Meanwhile sons are the ones neglecting fathers and actively participating in this narrative they push out about men being neglected and marriage not benefiting men. Men doing men!

They talk from both sides of their mouths or should I say all sides of their mouths, never taking a stance and always being all over the place. Today it is ABC, tomorrow it is XYZ, next tomorrow it is KLM and they say they are logical.

Klass99:
Will it kill you to grant his request for a car or go above and beyond this once, then never bother with going above and beyond, again? I'm thinking we all make mistakes, we do wrong things, we fall, we get up, we learn, we grow, and we thank God for giving us another chance. None of us is perfect.

You're looking at two instances where popsie didn't come through for you (Ukraine and the US) what about the times he was there? The earlier years of your life you may not recall, like, late nights at the hospital because you were sick, going into debt to pay your fees so you won't be sent away from school, lying, stealing or cheating so he could put food on the table for you to eat, etcetera.

Don't stay focused on the occasions when he didn't come through. Even God who created us and loves us more than our parents, doesn't give us everything we want.

I say all of this as someone who has learnt and is still learning the value of letting things go for the sake of inner joy and peace as well as harmonious relationships with others. My soul feels lighter and happier when I don't hold on to grudges.

They say the best revenge is to succeed and do well. You've done that, so let go of the bitterness, and grudges. Be kind and nice to the man, he won't live forever, none of us will and we take nothing out of this world.

Modified to add: Your father did not significantly harm you in any way. That he refused to send you to obodo, should not cancel all of the good things he did or got right.

Valid points and great perspectives here, OP this is a balance advise, if you can afford it please do it

qtx:
What is this one RAMBLING about?

Badadvisor:
Niggaa nobody asked you all these trash you are saying

Fairview1:
Men be honest… would you date someone who’s a little chubby? I feel like men only want skinny woman these days and that’s something I have never been.

Dating has been super hard for me and I’m wondering if it’s because I’m a little thicker than most females I know, I’m not talking obsessed but thicker for sure.

So, men… does weight matter to you when it comes to choosing a lady to date? Be honest, let's talk.

Sheuns:
Una no suppose block the websites and arrest the operators?

okoroemeka:
I don't think his condition has anything to do with maturity,at 24 and lossing interest already in sex that is critical,I suggest you go and see a doctor,it may have something to do with the hormones

RobinRay:
lol, I'm usually surprised how most people glorify the "gig" economy being created by the tech industry.
And to be very honest how many fintech start-ups do we really need?

Also the industry is prone to trends that get hyped up unnecessarily.
From the dot-com bubble
To the era of social media
To Uber type services (Airbnb, DoorDash, Etc)
To Cryptos and NFTs
To Web3
To The Metaverse
Now we're in the era of Generative AI.


The local job market for tech talents cannot absorb all the current candidates talk less of the young ones just getting started with their first
Python tutorial .

Candidlady:



Ihate it when women fight over men.. very low... Hades low!!!

Fighting over a waste called westernlove


If you feel she used juju on your man why not up the juju you used to get him in the first place..

Women like this disgust me

See the woman defending her husband infidelity codely... Iswear it was a single father that raised this woman no doubt

Candidlady:



Ihate it when women fight over men.. very low... Hades low!!!

Fighting over a waste called westernlove


If you feel she used juju on your man why not up the juju you used to get him in the first place..

Women like this disgust me

See the woman defending her husband infidelity codely... Iswear it was a single father that raised this woman no doubt

Let go of bitterness, it will do you no good.
To start with are you married?

IyanuDeb:
My friends have been advising me to start saving money for a while now, I don't earn much but I had already decided to start saving, no matter how little, just yesterday when someone heard us talking about it, he said with the way Nigeria currently is, saving has disadvantages because my 1million today will become 500k next year.

LegendHero:
Yes, you are very correct.

Agbara in Ogun state is covered by Eko disco. That place got massive industries.

Shapeaso:
Wall geckos are monitoring spirit. I hate it like mad. Penelope abi na antelope?

Helpfromabove1:
She just use style style comot herself for matter way big pass her

Rusticating her at final year need to be avoided


Na she tell una make una go vote for renewed shege

Jennyclay:
Indeed men are white stainers, look at how banky W stained Adesua’s white despite having the perfect wedding. Shame!!!

But on a serious note, Nigerian men are wicked, evil and heartless. Honestly, I have nothing good to write about Nigerian men.

Nigerian men are randy, stingy, rape apologist, women beater, murderer etc. I can’t even list them all, the list is long

Just avoid them! Shikena!!

Herdamorlar:
My immediate boss changed his attitude towards me after I told him to send a confirmation mail on what he asked me to do that is against the company policy (though I later did it without the mail after he shouted on me?).
All my colleagues in the office advised me to apologise and move on but I don't see anything I did wrong that warrant me to apologise. I know this will affect me during my appraisal coming up next month.
Please what do you think I should do and is there any polite way to tell your boss for confirmation mail? Because I know he will still ask me to do the same thing again tomorrow

otipoju:
Tinubu dey very street smart.

lhordspy:
So we should praise and glorify them instead?.... Since they are not killing, they are only selling abi.


Most of you guys have gone n*t with the way you like to undermine Nigeria as a country. Just read what you wrote up there.