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Women are the most compassionate of God’s creatures and when we have it, best believe you will have it too. We look after our friends, family and lovers. We may not trust strangers but our loved ones have always been well taken care of, if you doubt me; ask your mothers. If you are unfortunate to feel the encompassing love of a woman then I’m sorry. 👸

I honestly don’t understand the point of doing this. Is she also going to pay his groom price and pay for the wedding?

This is just volunteering to put someone in debt. It’s one of those ideas that look good in your head but are unpractical.

It works for white people because they don’t have village people waiting for their rice and beans. White people can do this and just go down to the registry office and call it a day.

Helpme2024:
I can't afford it, and am too ashamed to tell anybody the story.
I tried telling family members when i was younger but was told to keep quiet, i have to figure this thing out

I don’t think who impregnated you holds any bearing on your condition at least physically but the abortion may have had an adverse effect on your hormones. Another reason for this could be psychosomatic. Your brain could be dealing with the emotional trauma by reducing your period. This could be something that fixes itself down the line. I really think you need therapy but if you can’t afford it then just be kinder to yourself. Stop stressing and focus on a way to better your life so that you could be away from your abusers and give yourself a fair chance at recovery and life. Take the medication for as long as you need to and get past this phase of your life.

Our periods can be impacted by our diet and lifestyle. I’m not a medical professional but I would like to remind you to eat healthy and take vitamins especially iron and folic acids (if and when prescribed) or just a good multivitamin.

Ps. You’re incredibly brave to overcome such obstacles! Be kind to yourself and if you can afford therapy, it will help you heal a little bit more. 🫶

What’s with all these sentiments? Where he slept and who he has isn’t the issue for his deportation. What did he do to be deported? What’s the stamp that was forged on his passport? What is his citizenship status? This is poor journalism. You want us to feel sorry for him, okay, we are sorry!

Paramount01:
Funny you,and you think I just married 2 years ago means I am a boy?I am very sure you can't be older than me to the point of my dad,talk your talk but don't put my papa there,pps removed your age from 43 and let me see something

If you’re an adult then conduct yourself as one. The things you’re complaining about are minor differences that will change over time. First off, respect your wife as a fellow human and talk to her with love and understanding.

When she forgets something remind her lovingly instead of being aggressive. Have you heard the saying “you catch more flies with honey than shi” it works. A little patience, more communication and life will be easier.

If you continue with your aggressive approach then a few things will happen; you will turn violent, you will have a stroke, or you will be divorced.

Your children will develop developmental issues if they are raised in a hostile environment so just try doing things differently because your ranting and bullying isn’t working.

Be friends with your wife. If you don’t like her then leave before you guys destroy each other.

Omoawoke:
It’s not possible for one person to run those 3 accounts. Only a patient of chronic schizophrenia can achieve that

Who else but Mrcork 😂

Legs wide open and the button on the bike; engine vibration, I could understand why women of virtue would want to sit sideways and die 😂

Stargurl20:
😂
I'm stubborn o ... So, I will mention u.

Given that women have right to give their bodies to who so ever they deem fit, why lie about their celibacy status to an innocent man?

Why not stay uncommitted and give your body as much men as you can, for all we care?

Who crowns the men innocent men? You?

People (women included) have autonomy over their bodies so they can claim whatever they want. You don’t decide what they can claim and not. Do you and allow others the same rights. I don’t like arguing with women so please don’t mention me again. Let’s agree to disagree. I won’t reply you again.

LoveFayfay:
All these deceptive attention seekers... Woman, rest!!!

Nairaland is full of mad people and op is the leader. 😂😂😂

Stargurl20:
I don't support deceitful women, who deceive their partners about being celibate and have sex with other men. Every women who does that will be exposed and get what they deserve. Amin!

Nobody gives a fvck what you support. A woman has rights over her body. If she don’t want to do with him and she wants to do with someone else it’s her right! Are men exposed for their evil against women? Pickmes like you will suffer in the end. Don’t mention me again.

MrIcredible:
See hypocrite
Ladies don't fall or men don't fall for girls like you?

How dare you make such request when you're not a virgin?
The new nonsense you people say is "I have low BODYCOUNT"
Really?
What's the meaning of that?
Who is doing the counting?
WHO IS EVER GOING TO TRUST YOU?
If you're not a virgin, then you're a whoré, and sensible high value men don't respect WHÓRES.
If you want respect and you want a man to agree to such request of no sex before marriage, RESPECT YOURSELF FIRST! BE A VIRGIN.

What is your argument exactly? Can you force a woman to sleep with you? If not then what are you bleating about? Whether she has low or high count, she decides who she has sex with! It’s not by your statement! 😂 men thinking they have power over women’s bodies is a joke! She can sleep with whoever she chooses and deny when she chooses. What is your argument?

“She can’t do this and that “ but you are chatting shi and you know it.

frankputer:
1000s suitors ?
No wonder your emotions are very unstable,
Fluctuating in successive sinusoidal wave form like($ to Naira).
When ever u disappoint them they leave in droves,
U then go home and cry like a poppy,
Tomorow u get 1 recruits suitor simp that will try his luck,
Then 10 leaves again the next month, u go home and cry, morn and die 10 times under your bed duvet .
And the circle continues till you become an
evening newspaper.
And menupose set in.
The End tale of a beautiful useless person with over 100s of suitors.
Never end well,
Never.

If that makes you sleep better at night. Women will always be okay because we have wider social relationships. Old women are looked after in the end, be it sons , daughters, friends, family, nephews and nieces, and lastly neighbours. We’re kind social creatures! Men are the ones left all alone 😂😂😂

frankputer:
She is a criminal for keeping 30 suitors ,
So she is expecting gifts from them,
That’s a scammer attitude .
U don’t want to give anything but u want to collect something from 30 different people in the name of they love and care for u.
If you love and care for them u will show it in a special way , equivalent to what they are also doing or demanding.
A Scammer want to give nothing or little, then get 1000% more.

You call it scamming, nature called it Feminine. That’s our gift. It’s when we lower our crowns and deal with you dusties as individuals that you go and call us names. It’s love that ruins a woman’s status. You think men marrying multiple women is a flex? Every woman, every day, has 10s (100s! Depending on her beauty) of men at her service, with gifts, money, love, and body but we’re only looking for 1. Small boys and poverty has ruined our status but every day new generations are born so nothing to worry about. The era of dusties is over soon. Better get yourself a job instead of talking shi 😂😂😂

tiswell:
if y'all are non virgins, we'll wait for the upcoming ones(virgins)to take home✌️

And if you’re broke, we’ll wait for the rich ones 👍

Do you see how it goes? Nature has this sorted. Old men will search younger women when they have money and younger women will have the pick of the lot. Just don’t be old MAN and broke 🤣

FRANCISTOWN:
What about a man who has all these things but has no money and good looks?

Ask zonefree or whatever his name, he should have 1st hand experience 😂😂😂