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Look, it’s your home and you don’t need to feel no guilt about asking anyone to Leave. You tried to have a relationship with her, and your intentions were pure towards her. Now that the relationship has broken down, just end things with her and ask her to find alternative options.

Let her father pay for the new accommodation or she can go and stay with the men who she’s obviously seeing. But, I have a feeling you’re too nice and you won’t set your boundaries firmly. However, in the end you’re going to get your feelings hurt because she is abusing your kindness and playing in your face.

Give her 30 days notice, and a curfew to follow because you need to feel safe in your home. After those 30 days put her stuff outside and change your locks. You have to grow a backbone going forward because nowadays people don’t respect kindness.

Is all this to justify online begging? We don’t want it here! Nl is not some NGO, we come here to relax, unwind and chase men/women! *in mrcorks voice*

fyzaila:
Why would a married woman envy a spinster?? When majority of spinsters are they one envying a married woman and would always wish to find love and get married someday. If staying single is nice then why are people getting married every week? 🙄

A married woman might envy a spinster only if she is not enjoying her marriage to the fullest.

You completely missed the mark. Obviously married people who envy single people are not enjoying their marriage! It’s when people are not enjoying their experiences that they yearn for something else. There are single women who enjoy being single and do not envy married women. So you didn’t understand the assignment.

You had seven years to love, respect, and honour her but from the look of things you didn’t do that. If you have cheated on her and broke down her love then the tank is empty. You don’t decide one day that you will be a different man; a responsible man, when you had seven years to prove that and you didn’t.

She’s found someone who she can start again with. There’s too much water under the bridge. You finished her love and all that’s left now is resentment for you. She doesn’t trust you because you’ve shown her time after time that you are not loyal or trustworthy. She finally grew up.

She found a husband on Facebook while I only got soldiers stranded in Afghanistan or Syria needing my help to escape. That and a few celebrities who needed gift cards to give to their children because their accounts are frozen. I wonder how much she paid before she finally got a wedding. Lucky girl.

bukatyne:
@bold:

Very true.

I have a feeling she will be one of the lucky ones because of the exposure she got. Hopefully a family will step in and her story will have a happily ever after. 🙏

factwriter:
Unfortunately many don't know this.

At this present time (era) the innocence of children are badly at risk of eruption, irrespective of where they live or dwell.

Only a good "protective" system of welfare can guarantee their safety from abuse and harassment and not necessarily a particular government house or custody.

Hopefully, since the eyes of the country are on her, her story will be a different one. It really breaks your heart! A child this young and already she’s on survival mode. Look how confident she looks, her mind is growing rapidly and she’s losing the privilege of just being a child.

Racoon:
Nice structures but many of them are unoccupied. So instead of the government to allow most of these houses build mostly by corrupt politicians to lie fallow, why not mortgage it @ subsidized cost to its poor citizens?

You mean the same citizens that don’t pay their electricity bills, pay back creditors while owing their landlords 1 year’s rent; those poor citizens should get mortgages? 😂😂😂😂

Too many computer generated images, what happened to just taking a picture without all the editing and shi. This is not a true representation.

I have a feeling that the father was exploiting her image rather than anything physical (I pray that is the case) thinking he could make quick money.
I feel so anxious for this child, please pray for her that she is finally given a safe home to grow up in. Children are not safe going into the system either so I really hope she finds a loving mother figure to guide and protect her. This case really got me in my emotions.

BeggingMachine:
that is his picure

gotten from his linkedin account

he left details of his full name,school and year he graduated on nairaland..only a dunce wont pick him out

Also he applied frsc in 2018 and exposwed himself on facebook..na there i first get am

Hmmm. Okay. I just hope you’re right.

condensedmilk:
Does this couple live and work in Nigeria?

It’s a copy and paste thing. This story has been on nairaland for the last decade and more. They keep recycling it.

BeggingMachine:
why you de deny yourself

dough spinner

you are not proud of your begging exploits?

troll that left details online

Reverse Psych

stop qouting your alternate

The troll really did a number on you! Everywhere you look, you see him 😂😂😂. I’m sorry for poking my nose into your beef but what if that isn’t his picture?

I will leave you to it though and accept my apologies in case you start chasing me. 🙏👋👋👋

BeggingMachine:
you don enter twitter o..

57 views , 2 shares

i am looking for how to jack your coursemates

Don’t you think you’re taking nairaland a bit too seriously?

I can’t lie it shocked me like I was the one. I felt her pain 🤣

MrCork:
...GO AND LEARN MECHANICS JOB....YOU LAZZZY YOUTH!!! (we juss tryina help u..begggar)

This is puppy love 😁. Op is so cute! Don’t listen to these cynical people who have had their hearts broken.

HellVictorinho6:
They have wisdom there


Wisdom means intelligence

There cant be wisdom if there isnt knowledge 2 benefit from

for example; people know drinking alcohol is bad for their health (knowledge and the intellect to understand that) but some people drink anyway. A wise person knows that knowledge (intellect) and acts on the knowledge (practices the knowledge) by not drinking.

An intelligent person knows how to make money, how to grow money but lacks the wisdom to turn that money into wealth so they could just hire people (companies) to help them where they lack.

You guys are romanticising wisdom as if it’s some magic pill. Wisdom may even have you chilling and being content with your portion because you could see the full picture.

Goodlyhrt:
Takes wisdom to know and identify the right/skillful people to entrust with your wealth.. so..

No it really doesn’t. If you have basic intelligence you can find the right people and systems to use. Wisdom is just knowledge acted upon. You can be intelligent and make and keep money. Look at the youngster now hitting millions every year, they don’t have wisdom on their side they have intelligence and the right people managing their money.

Thoughty2:
You don't know wisdom and I doubt that you are old enough.

Money can never be compared with wisdom. What is money when wisdom will teach you how to live your life to the fullest and also teach you how to make serious money alongside.

You’re confusing wisdom with intelligence. Wisdom is implementing knowledge, you can be intelligent and lack wisdom. There are many unwise people with money and they use systems to help them navigate the world with their money in tact and even increased. There are also just as many wise people without a dime to their name.

I was with her up until she said she deserved a big ring because she didn’t get a wedding. She knowingly married a man who couldn’t afford a wedding but she thought he could afford an expensive ring?!?

She was playing good girl ( not needing a big wedding, gifts, and expensive bride price)
but her mask just dropped when she went online to air her husband out to the world.

She should just return the ring and get the money back, apologise to her husband for speaking to him in a way that he felt disrespected by, and move on with her marriage instead of shouting on the interwebs.

You could hire people with skills to help make your money work for you but your wisdom won’t guarantee you any money.

Money everyday and this is coming from a wise old woman!

Meerahbel:

You want to be treated like an adult but look at the way you respond! I just picture you pouting when you don’t get your way 😂😂😂

Edited: another bs thread by an nl bot

franugo:
Nah this op is just plain stupid....just read the link HE posted and nowhere was it stated that drake was shot

And you came to Mrcork’s thread looking for news? You guys cracked me up this early morning. 😂😂😂

wizrose:
SURE I MEAN NO HARM BUT IF YOU WANT VIOLENCES THATS MY TITLE... HUH THAT REMINDS ME YOU SAID SOMETHING TV I HAVE PLASMA 45 INCHES IN MY HOUSE BUT THAT ONE ASIDE FIRST MY IPHONE AM USING NOW CAN FEED YOU AND YOUR FAMILY FOR A YEAR AND SOME OTHER MINOR ISSUE THATS JUST THE FACT I DONT BRAG

Nah, this ain’t bragging; it’s just cosplay it’s what gen z excel in, if y’all want something y’all just identify with it and 💥 y’all feel better.

advanceDNA:
it's okay to assume and jump into conclusions if it makes u sleep well at night shaa

I support y’all’s recovery.

TheSuperX:
You are talking as if those black bitches aren't the same, they are birds of the same feathers.

You guys are hilarious, you hate women but want to have a peaceful home with a woman. Continue and be like tyrese crying on the internet periodically and we’ll comment on your posts.

Confirmedzombie:
Im a senior lawyer. The matter is simple. Tell him to reach his lawyer with the pictures and his lawyer will advice him better.

He had a divorce and a lawyer represented him in court. Let him go back to the lawyer with the pictures.

This is not an issue you should bring to Nairaland for advice.

I believe he will get justice from the court for the custody as far as he has been paying the money.

So as a senior lawyer, your expert opinion is that he should go to his lawyer? 😂😂😂😂