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Op that "madman", "idiot" you hear between guys is more romantic than that "sweetheart " "honey" diplomatic cold war words girls use among themselves. That is what being men brings.

Op take this list down and redo it. your introduction, No 6 and conclusion just made this whole write up an utter waste of time.
Sorry about your time and my tone. hope you get the message.
thanks anyway.

porozhniy:
Unfortunately, we can never truely separate gender equality from feminism. They're using gender equality to mask their true intentions. I expected proponents of that bill to identify clear areas of descrimination againgst women n tackle them not giving us '6 reasons to support the gender equality bill'.

You sir are very correct. Females carefully crafting their game again playing the Victim card... same issue I see with the gay movements even in the west ( a talk for another day). It may not be bad in its entirety, but I see this equality thing as them over playing their hand.

porozhniy:
Equal opportunity does not always amount to equal outcome;- running for a political office is open to both gender, mostly men contest. We have equal rights to own properties, equal access to education, yet a good number of women tend not make use of those rights. Heck! You even have a women ministry, special funds for women entrepreneurs, scholarships for females only, yet more whining. What y'all see as gender inequality is simply women refusing to take personal responsibility for their lives. What proponents of that bill want is simply, i.e:- No fault divorce, hefty divorce pay outs, parental alienation while forcing the man to support kids he may never see again, get out of trouble/ destroy a man's life using rape hoaxes & false domestic abuse allegations, thought police for men, mansplaining, quota system for women . . . How does any of this benefit the men?

we must first separate gender equality from feminist movement otherwise any benefit will be corrupted from this Bill of whatever we want to call it.
if we want equality, that means a leave must come for men in places of work e.g paternity leave. think of the cost implications to government and companies. there should also be ministry of men Affair.
Why on Earth should there be a quota system dedicated to women such we have a scenario like by must the VP must be a woman( choicest candidate or not) that knocks the essence of democracy out of the window. the female folks aren't some endangered species.

kevinberry:
right now the only thing I would support is that government should ban bride price,make verbal abuse a crime,after these two injustice towards men have been tackled,we can then start pondering on the points you raise....left to me,one don't need any law to become a career woman or whatever you are driving about,the general human right have already cover everybody,if the senate decide to pass this bill then they will also have to review and dismiss the homosexuality bill which was sign base on religion and moral reasons

good one chief. I like your view. Gender equality will really affect and alter many social sequences and functions.
if it's to be done in all rights, it will even take some privileges from women in fact.

Nice one OP. you have made some good points. I don't totally agree with some of the things you have written. Gender Equality has a lot of aspects that people muddle up together. it's got A social, Political, Economic, judiciary aspects among others. Getting the bill passed or voted is going to take long to come.
as for how it affects us, People seem to mistake Gender Equality for "Gender Favoritism " I have an instance for you, You must have at one point in time seen in the News that some women groups asking that women should make up 40-50% of government cabinet in the name of Gender Equality. that is not Equality that is like Favoritism because for women to make up 50% of the cabinet, that will mean some men who should be there will be overlooked because a "woman" must be there. Rather our equality should target removing limitations to the woman folks so that it makes them be at the same playing level in competition but not that you start giving the female folks quota as a right (equality would mean fairness to everybody) .
So in true equality one would expect women to also be in troops travelling for peace keeping mission in troubled Zones ( can the government afford that?). have you considered the Economic implications how many working hours are lost to Maternity leave e.t.c? the more the women the more the man hours lost.
And even a true equality would also remove the social ' customary' privileges that are attached to the female gender e.g Being a gentleman is unarguably expected of a guy be it convenient or not. Among some other things
that your point 4 is cool but the example is not really a perfect one case in point ; the matter of gender colour assignment is more of a social trend than any other thing and can change at any time and everyone will still get on board. I have at one point read that in the mid 20th century, Blue was seen as a feminine colour and Pink a male colour but the reverse is the case today and no one is really worried. Gender Equality really won't affect a case of social trend.
I'm all for respect of women but this Gender Equality movement still has a long way from being perfect. Even western Nations haven't made equality in all aspects and more questions keep rising by the day.
In all I appreciate the write up

Guys sef we dey mess up sometimes sef.

this is some real shii...
Sorry man. sorry coz I really dont have any ideas for you to make your decision easier.
But should you decide to go ahead or not go ahead, all your cards on the table think about the possible consequences of your eventual choice, if and How you are going to live with it.
PEACE

tyson99:
so which breed is your father?

I swear na chihuahua. it has to be.

petkoffdrake2:
Waiting for when OBJ, Tinubu, Amechi,etc to b called... If not na ojoro!

their own no dey panama e dey Switzerland and under pacific ocean. until those ones leak, Bro you may no see those names.

DaBullIT:
lol


I wonder if the official panama leaks has been updated, last i checked, these names aren't there except that of Ibori

and i posted the original links

the data has not been fully decrypted and analyzed so I read. it a 2.6 TB of data released on Sunday. think about the machinery that encrypted it then now imagine the work needed to decrypt and analyse it.
mind you, the Nigerian factor will still come in ( rumours). names will start coming out that even the person who owns and holds the list can find there.

Stupedinluv:
Tbh you made strong points. H'ever, the constant humiliation of women here can make a lady see more reasons to be arrogant.

(bolded)Lol must be because we "have fish brains" generally huh?

funny enough I haven't used the phrase "fish brain" when it comes to women but I've heard a lot of guys say that and almost in all cases it's usually based on a relationship theme. when guys talk about how confused their Girlfriends are and how illogical their girlfriends make situations. But on a general note, guys don't use fish brain for girls when it comes to full scale intellect( a lot of female folks have shown great intellectual capacity and zest). For me I find the female folks' perspective interesting on non relationship matters( I'm not chauvinistic) coz u ladies attach emotion to things and I prefer to handle things with Logic rather than emotions. the fact that I get to find my own logical way in the midst of emotional cloudiness makes the Female mind interesting to me.

Stupedinluv:
Intetesting! You must be a busy man

I have my free moments. but most of the time I'm often busy. I think the decision is a lady's as to how she replies her pms but some take it like you sending them a Pm and they "seeing it" they are doing you a favor. Some get real rude about it and start the ' thirsty nigga' mantra.
life is fun and serious at the same time. nobody needs that attitude. Your firm polite NO puts things in Perspective. when it becomes a Bio message and stuffs like that, I see it as just a show of attention seeking. why would I subject myself to such self Humiliation? ( I'd be disappointed in myself) .
but in all, intelligence ALWAYS Makes me want to talk to a lady. Female perspective is always interesting be it right or wrong.

Angelberry:
Cos I hate PMS You like PMS

PMS as in that lady stuff that run their guys mad?

sorry where is the Pm button at again?
BTW, the way some females put the 'don't send Pm slogan on their head' you'd think they are busy writing nuclear code or developing a formula to Eradicate poverty from south Sudan to Cambodia.
don't have the chill for that shii
Op for me their nothing except it's business, any serious discussion for chit chat, Lionel Messi merry-go-round, nah...

Adesina

I smell trouble brewing real soon... I'll be here when it goes down.

at this point a Rashford goal won't be a bad idea. 1-0 is never certain with Manutd.

amokeme:
Really?

don't mind the OP he is one. he is really doing a good job selling the trade.

LadyVerah:
ahm proud to be a LAWSANITE... inbetwn... happyyy bday to moiii

please what does LAWSANITE Mean?

I personally I have always wanted to date a Lawyer, Doctor or an Engineer. I've always imagined how nice it would be.

But OP if that lawyer wants to wreck you, you won't know the end of it. especially if you aren't at par with them in terms of intelligence.

Sanchez01:
Just imagine the names of people you mentioned

Lol I was replying to her statements and the fact that she said " how many people has bought ticket to beyonce's show". I just said those to point I support other women if not Beyonce. she doesn't have to be the gold standard for a rich powerful woman. duh!!! she is into mainstream entertainment it comes with the territory.
My response was not to discredit her, or her reasoning just the example she stated. sarvy??!

Richiy:
This world is no longer a world of ladies sitting back and receiving all they need.

The desire to leave something worthwhile, a mark should consume every lady. This transcends just being successful.

This is no longer a period of walking around purposelessly or thinking the world revolves around you, your nails, body, shoes and clothes.

I want to see more ladies burn with the desire for knowledge and it's application. Burn with the desire to make a change while looking making profits/progress. You are also allowed to be pretty while doing that

from your profile I saw that you are a Quoraaddict. that tells me I should expect something like this from someone like that. Keep thinking, keep geeking, geeky-ness can the new sexy. cheers.
the comment was spot on though.

KingCheezyPuff:
Why do ya'll cry everyday about gold diggers but want women that look like Beyonce
Well Beyonce don't come cheap!!!
Have you even payed fer tickets to her concerts

When there is Bola Are, Tope Alabi and sikiratu sindodo. Beyonce ko o beyond the sea ni... who Beyonce don epp?

Ioannes:
OK bro, no wahala. I go block you for the junction. Abeg hold your bow and arrows, I go carry my dane gun in case.

God bless you. cheers

dachaste:
They r all fvcking whores.

Shikena

right here is a lady that's got no chill I like that.

Ioannes:
*EyesPopping* Damn! I think I need to visit Borno or Yobe. I need to see for myself in case this is Photoshop.

guy on your way there. I go dey that sambisa junction.

joey150:
every tribe has beautiful people..i have seen a fair share of the world.. And all i saw was beautiful people.

Beauty is beauty...you can't define or grade it..because there is no accepted standard, our eyes see things differently.
Forget beauty pageants... Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.

But wait oh... Na only una make unaselves champion??

I like what you have written. good approach.

PushPlay:
It is what Yoruba's call Oriki.

You don't have to be a yoruba's husband to be called Oko mi.

The message could be from anyone ranging from mother, relative or admirer.

You need to explain the origin of such a message for me to give you a clear interpretation.

Just had to let you know so you don't misinterprete this.

thank you o before she Carry her own hand scatter better tin.

some shii 'boutta get real...

I know shii will get real quick here. Just waiting for when.