₦airaland Forum

oga when the love was catching you did you use your business capital on Dates and clothes for her? if yes, bad market your stock market just took a hit. if no which I pray is the case, chase your dream tirelessly, there are good girls out there but one idiot can't speak for all. Hope you haven't changed the course of your life to suit her? if not, Bro arise and shine the Lord just delivered you. Why is it that you can't eat? is she going with 50% of your assets?
can't see anything to be sad about here. She no dey do again wave to her say "bye bye take the next right , head straight to the end of the road that hot hellish place is your abode ".

hi, hi, hmm, hi, hi, hmm, hmm, hiiiiiiiiiii

hi, hum, hi, hum,hum, hum, hiiiiiiiiiii

chai see torment...

Estharfabian:
If Guys Could want A Girl with Kim's boob,,Nicki Minaj's Ass, Ariana Grande's face, Beyonce's Voice, Iggy's hips, Who Cooks like Rachael Ray, and does laundry like Gum jan Di....Why shouldn't girls have Both? guys with 8-pack and 8-Cars, I mean?



That gender Equality bill Really need to be Signed and sealed! like ASAP!

it sure doesn't cover issues like this. it's of little or no political significance.

walexy30:
seconded. Christianity has beclouded the sense of reasoning of many

Christianity or religion you mean?

Wowzer:
Wow... 99.99% of all those who made comments on here are negative towards the lady. Not her fan and neither do I worship Pastors. The truth is what matters most.

One thing I know is that for a Pastor to slap a church member witch or no witch. it's wrong. That's Assault.

I also know that if I were to be the owner and builder of a collapsed building in Nigeria where lives were lost, My prosecution would have been faster and definitely would have been jailed long time without delay.

If I were a member of a church and my pastor is accused of taking someone else's life. I will humbly try to find out without bias if it were true. Wouln't mind asking my Pastor for his own version.

Defending a Pastor you know nothing about his or her private life aside what they have made public wouldn't
help your salvation.

I wouldn't bother myself about the messenger, what matters most is the message. Truth or Lies. Her statements has nothing to do with sanity or weed.

From a neutral reader.

Yes sir all pastors aren't saints, all alfas, imams aren't saints. Nigerians are sentimental what else is there to say? but I believe folks here are just approaching the issue from the angle of the Credibility of the messenger. how did she come up with this? does she have any Evidence any proof? she seems to have a vendetta against the Pastor case in point she has at one point said he is gay, at another time he is a liar and some other stuff like that. Now he is a murderer killed a police officer. I wonder how she knew this. Was she the only witness to the said crime? can you imagine how the NPF worked at that time? there is a possibility he would have killed a police on foot patrol and those days police work with their partners ( as was the system of our colonial masters before things went ablaze) So how come he killed one police and the other didn't report it? or he killed the other one too? And to consider she said he thought he was a thief so she as a 6/7 years old girl in the village stood to watch a cold blooded murder or were they neighours that she saw it from her window or "balcony"? Bro that woman's story has a lot of weak points. But she seems to always say ridiculous things about well liked people e.g Pastor Adeboye, Olamide, Linda Ikeji all circumstantial unverifiable craps. so how neutral are u when you have and put all this information together.
All pastors aren't saints believe God not your clergy but I won't because bad clergy men have been found say all clergy are 'likely ' Guilty until proven innocent when the yardstick isnt the same for all non clergymen.

davseun2ta:
you mean the CIA is still looking for him? Well I have his address: km 46, Ibadan express way. I hope they have placed a bounty on him sha o.... see attached file for your perusal ODE!

na true sef. I no even first reason go there. CIA find sadam hussein,Osama bin Ladin as them hide reach but they are looking for someone that golds televised programmes every month, travels all around the globe for conferences and can't catch him? it's either he is not wanted, or his God that is supporting him is too powerful for them.
Abegiii give that guy 12 e- slaps.

neocortex:
Aren't you worried that he might decide to eat you up like he did those innocent kids ?

How can you hate what is not there ?

you my friend are in an even more interesting group than those who hate God. you are one of those who believe he doesn't exist. such a shame that this is not an Avenue to discuss that with you. would love to know your thoughts and facts on the matter. I on the extreme end of the spectrum do believe there is God.

aaronson:
Nigerians are so gullible and has the problem of cognitive dissonance, Yall gullible will never read and make researches but when some one who does comes out with an empirical fact, yall would begin to wild out displaying ignorance.

I done made the research Adeboye was a murderer and was also a gang member whom the CIA was actually looking out for. Yall gotta read, I mean READ! Its not illegal yet.

chairman wetin you write put for there? what kinda write up is that? what Language?
to what I could decipher from those strings of alphabets up there, you yourself have done research into this?( God knows how you came about that) and you found out the CIA is looking for Pastor Adeboye? habaaaa fear God, fear CIA, fear FBI fa. in fact fear Buhari sef at least one of this should make you reconsider your path of ridiculous lies.
what kind of CIA looks for MURDERERS and CULT MEMBERS? and not the FBI? has the CIA caught all the Al-Quaeda, ISIS in this world? but they go about chasing murderers and cultists? I doubt CIA (or even FBI) is looking for any cult even more global ones won't be announced on pages of Newspapers.
sure you got your research from Alaroye newspaper and silly blogs. See, you want to hate on someone please do so at your own fortune and peril. but to say all those beer parlour nonsense " I have done research " WTF man?!! what agency gave you their Intel for you to come brag on Nairaland?
see me dey frown for phone screen. abegiii no vex person jare. And he was shouting read read like he has something smart to say. Ogbeni Ja danu kuro Lori land yii jare.
for info, go read about CIA, FBI, Interpol and their portfolio and jurisdiction before you make a public mockery of yourself.
Nigeria has enough problem to be battling widespread ignorance and foolishness concoted with some measure of insanity.
As for Aunty Kemi, Madam Nothing do you dey mad dey go. this woman always cracks me up with her wild and silly Accusations. I wonder how she knows all these and she is not an accessory to any of them?!

neocortex:
That is a great CV for the "loving" god.

Oh so you too hate God? keep up the good work. Doubt your hate has any effect on him.

DaVinChiSam:
Hmm.

My toilet is where I read 80per cent of... Ehem... Of Nairaland topics...

Guess where this post is made from now...

baba na there be ur room?

I hope Eko no go later come baje now. really how do they plan on getting results with this approach?

HateU2:
heheheh
Y u dey step back to see manifestation
Waait there and see it nah
Lazy pastor

hehe wait and let you de-robe me? not a chance. I'll rather step in to top it up once in while than stay close and risk if all.

Ecoterrorist:
The height of quota education

chai chai chai only u talk this one??! haba.

teechudleyy:
If that were the case... we wouldnt be here. Worse things have happened. Worser things will still happen. You will look at your children and say... "chei... in my days things were not this way. Things were better."

Im telling you nature always finds a way to repair itself

that alone miss, makes me fear, pray and hope for the best. if now will be better than the future, don't you think it's going to be because the yard stick( standards) have been extra sufficiently reduced? in other words, stealing won't be just bad again, but stealing ones only car is bad but if you steal one out of his 5 cars you haven't done bad he has 4 others. hope you understand where I'm coming from?
Don't you think at some point Nature will be over whelmed?

teechudleyy:
Thats my mantra. Honestly, live and let live. The feminist view is flawed. Women have been culturally engineered and re engineered for ages, they keep doing and out doing themselves, subjugating themselves and making complaints on being subjugated. In short. I would rather not debate the issue because so much has gone so wrong for so long.

Maybe later in the future we will have more information to give a wholistic view of the issue but until then I'm okay to sit and observe while things unfold.
but in all I like how you take your stand on issues vis -a-vis argument. Approaching the issue ALONE and not some biased sentiments.
if truly you are a female as shown in your moniker, I tip my hat to you ma'am. Please don't ever lose your sense of reasoning and logic we need more in this country. Gallant idiots everywhere.

zaralady:
And she was married??.....

did you not see one publication of a couple that have been married for 10 years and not had sex? yeah. it's not her in the news but anything could have explained it.
if we remove the fact that she was once married,would it still have made sense then?

myfantasies:
It seems u did not read the writeup

She said 2011,5yrs ago

see don't try again. Someone pointed to him that it was in DECEMBER 2011 but then, he picked the December and left the 2011. you know, I'm beginning to believe that expression " people see what they want to see". Funny tho.

IamMissMarvel:
I am so looking forward to the day i can also face one old he goat that victimized me in school.

Same Uniabuja.

In my own case, the Dude started bothering me in my first year, i got home, told my mum and she thought it wise to buy me an engagement ring, hoping it would scare the man aware.

The man left me after i told himj i was engaged, in my 4th year, during our project defense, the guy simply told me i wasn't going to defend my project and that was it o, (He was HOD at that time).

I cry tire, beg tire, my colleages begged, he didn't even bulge.

Well it was an extra year that was worth it, i learned a skill during that time.

I submitted the project to the department that same week and it was logged for the next year's defense.

*In Batman's Voice* He will bleed.

sorry about that.
but miss you too like comics jare. missMarvel as a moniker then Batman imitation sure your reply will come with hulk or Amazon lady's voice.
Victimization and bullying of students has always been in our institutions. but I think it's reducing though.

GoodDieYoung:
.Hol Up hol up hol up, Bb bold 2 worth #58k in this age and time? Is the phone gold-plated?

it happened in 2011.

lepasharon:
The whole story

you could only know if you were the one in question. was it you? patiently waiting to see how this plays out.

MoneypassGod:
How come no one has mentioned barging into d bed room only to see mum and dad in action. Happened to me a lot of times while growing up. Once my dad told me to leave his house and never come back until i'm ready to marry.

Damn mehn tough one. sorry mate.

So government owes this much to nepa but they want to increase Tarriff paid by the citizenry to fund the improvement of Nepa? Nigeria please brain. let's do the right thing and not make things unnecessarily hard.

teechudleyy:
Women have been cultured to do and enjoy so many things thru d course of time. And they get the benefits yes. Its called being used. Im not naive to say it isnt happening. But u cant be a murderer simply because someone is obsessed with death and desperately wants to die.

My only question is... all the antics is for whose pleasure?

Men encourage and even pay women to do all this because sex sells. A woman advertises moto oil half naked... who are the largest moto oil customers in d demography? Men.

Amber, kim, etc... they succeed do u thnk its cos of der female fans or male?

A woman takes whatever she can get to give a man what he likes.
Its a mans world no doubt.
all im saying is, men shd b able to see a woman and not see sex. The same way women can look at a man mst times.

on a lighter note, Be careful how you say "it's a man's world no doubt" some Feminism crusaders will be on your neck before u say jack!
when you say more men are the ones who benefit from Engine oil advert is like saying women are the ones who benefit from advertisement of head wigs or Sanitary towel. it comes with the territory.
yes sex sells but women are the agents used to sell it the most( what I mean is that in a case where sex is not the commodity, it is the currency) .
women being objectified, sexualized etc is a rather complex subject because they have featured in many aspects of our society.
when you look at it, it is into many aspects and now it seems the good looks and hot body are the first parameter, then others follow.
As for saying they do it because men are buying it is not wrong. but then it's not totally right. because the lines are now blurred so that men are adjusting daily to what is obtained e.g the definition of hot and sexy 3 years ago is not same today. please take a quick survey on IG, more ladies now snap with their back side in view no matter the number of pictures in the collage, the one with back view MUST be there. and now ladies try to out do each other. why is this? they have seen that those ladies do it and they are getting more attention. Now why are they getting more attention? because even our society now criticises heavily anyone who doesn't support the popular view.
it's just there in our faces. I don't support the objectification of women, but then I don't criticize it too because it's okay with but the doer and those applauding as long as it doesn't affect my life and my family I stay in my own lane.

teechudleyy:
u are looking for a pic. You are one of the ills of society, sexualising a woman. Leave the womans body alone. When the bill is passed... u wnt need pic. We wd all b flinging it everywhere!

I like your view up on till you wanted to condemn that guy on sexualising women. see, Even women want to be sexualized. women are celebrated coz they are sexualized, they get rich being sexualized.
Now I know you might want to disagree with me on that so consider these examples.
1. Kim Kadashian
2. other Kadashian women
3. Amber rose
4. how a woman in swimsuit gets to the advertisement of Engine oil
you see I don't even give time to these issues and debates any more so I don't have ready-made examples in my head ( though I have seen enough examples).
N.B I have not said all women have enjoyed sexualism in their trade without achieving excellence without their talents (I dare not say so). but my point is do we really want to blame people for sexualising women when the "victims" enjoy and benefit from it and don't see any ill done against them?

Bluezy13:
What goes around, comes around.
Man started naked in the garden, man is going back naked

That's one way to look at it. just for humour, Even now there is heat. every unnecessary piece of garment should be flying off right now.

ritaoritza:
Look at it as a girl trying to flaunt her 6 packs like you guys do!!!

got me thinking,
but guys don't cover their 6 packs in embarrassment when ladies come around. so I'm not sure the bags are equivalent of the packs. if they are, them let them fly... if u know waramean.

myfantasies:
Wat matters is approach

Some will insult u instead of correcting u in a mild manner, forgetting dey too make mistakes once in a while

yeah. I agree. the aim shouldn't be lost to the approach. That really should not bother you coz such unsolicited attack is a reflection of themselves and not you. Those things don't bother me esp in an online forum. naahhh!! not worth it.

myfantasies:
We all make mistakes once in a while

Tanks for the correction

cool. you are welcome. thanks for taking it with civility.

DIVINE78:
Some wake their dads with sliding tackle.

sliding tackle? oga your football life no be for here. got me laughing crazy. *sliding tackle like serie A tackle the papa don cast.

myfantasies:
Where are all dese handsome guys hiding dat one can't seem to find dem

Will love to rub my cheek on those sexy bears

sister how come you are so scared of the D that u left it out? bears don't have chill o. but beards, you are in for a treat.