MrBrownJay1:
- misplaced ego
- failed society mindset
- religious brainwashing
- stupidity

as for your friend who "supposedly" love the woman but is willing to HIDE her mother status, he is no better than the deluded people who look down on single mothers

Well said. You are totally right especially the part of "stupidity"

Being the chosen one is like getting a penalty kick with no keeper. You simply cannot miss.

Ubunja is right about a man being the trophy although I got to say the thrill of the chase just ain't the same, as opportunities begin to fall on your doorstep without you evens trying.

This is definitely a good write up that I think women should really pay attention to and view it without invoking their emotions as I'm sure some people will get triggered.

Setting standards is easy but enforcing them is a lot harder. The power of women when it comes to the men their in relationships with cannot be underestimated.

She is not your girlfriend. I get that you like the girl and want her to have a good time with you but it's clear to see that she is using you. The sooner you get yourself away from her the better you will be.

I don't blame her, she basically playing the game and seeing which man will best suit her(hypergamy at its finest). Maybe one is the dick, the other man for the money and the last one for emotions.

*Hate the player don't hate the game

DrCruz:
I met this girl since 2017, then I was working while she had nothing doing. She even moved to my place, which I didn't buy the idea. In the process, I got to know her parents and I was responsible for everything she needed as a lady.
2018, she started learning a trade, which I supported financially and otherwise.
December 2018, I lost my job and since then I started noticing infidelity on her part, but she kept denying. Now she has finally gone to stay with the guy when I need her the most.
I'm experiencing this for the first time. Please I need your good advice, 'cos I can't sleep and my head is as heavy as the weight of 100 men tied together.

Be grateful that she is not your wife. Use all that anger that you feel to focus on yourself. Chase new girls.Talk to your trusted bro's. Whatever you do just don't take her back especially when you have success.

Dickson09:


whch one be 80/20 rule?

80% of men are not desired by women while 20% of men get the majority of women. Why do you think players are so liked by women, it's because players are in the 20%

Swizbank:
I will try to be short and simple.

I'm the president of a my campus fellowship.
One of my members has caught my attention. She is a new member. The first day I saw her, it was like a a fulfilment come true. Every feature I want in my potential wife is in her, including profession.

Am ready to do anything to secure her before another man does that. But how to do it, without getting "No" as an answer and without giving a wrong msg to other members of the house, is a problem. She is aged 18, am 28.

I even just spoke with her now, but I maintained the discussion at , "How is your prayer life" levels.

Pls I need hints!

Whatever we tell you to do you won't listen. You clearly are in love with a her so just follow your heart. Come report back to us next year.

kenzysmith:
Good day. Am im my mid 20's inlove with a girl in her early 20's, i meet her last year febuary so i ask her out she agree to date me, i was patients all this while i never demand for sex until early febuaury on two occasions which she bluntly refuse am very worried because she my girlfriend i have spent twenty something thousand on her head i havent even seen her pant for once she claîm she love me do u think she is just suffering me or what am i too in a haste ? please advice me what to do am confuse.

You need deliverance. Twenty thousand on a girl who ain't evens your girl. The fact that you spend so much on her without realising that your "Mr money" and not her "lover" makes me seriously doubt that you are ready for a relationship.

Do yourself a favour and dump her immediately. She is not your girl. Go find another girl who will appreciate you. Search "Miseducations" on this forum.

Google the 80/20 rule between men and women. Sexdolls have been banned in a lot of countries .

What whole load of nonsense is this. The amount of time spend typing this essay could have been used to do something thats worth more. Mistakes are made and forgetten or forgiven sometimes not at all. Everybody got to things that they regret doing.

I just got 3 things to tell you
•He needs to focus on himself ,heartbreak happens
• Their are some wonderful single mom's out there but unless he had kids of his own then there is no point in being in a relationship with a single mom.
• Spending all that time and most definitely money
made him look like a weak dude who's life revolved around her

WTF! She ain't his girlfriend only a crush. That gift was just for attention, which he probably won't receive in the way he wants it.

He's got too much RESPECT. I do appreciate he's attempts to get to know her but the way he went about it is just....sad. The lady was damn right about it not being an interview.

Ubunja is back at it yet again!! This excellent piece of writing deserves a salutation from all men who have had their minds been made awake to the nature of women.

Before I knew female nature I always used to wonder "why was it that girls gossip with each other." All the men that I know at some point ask themselves the very same question but since finding the Redpill and the world class writing pieces of Ubunja I have understood the reason. It's amazing the things that girls tell you when they see you as non-judgemental, you get access to a whole load of information on people and people's relationships.Beware of the "pillow talk" those moments when its just you and her are some of the most honest times.Be the guy who just gets it (player)

The female "propaganda" is a vast yet deep intelligence network that will continue to be in existence.Its just as Ubunja says young girls start learning in what ways to manipulate or study men way before dudes are interested in the opposite gender.

Thanks for the write up Ubunja.

You are acting like a love struck puppy. Its not the love that you want from her its the sex. Get your sexual needs sorted.

Fast for 40 days and 40 nights then come back and read the Miseducations.

Another great masterpiece.Reading all of this is makes men see the world in a much better way. This a must for all aspiring men.

This is a wonderful write up. There have been so many times in the past that this would have definitely helped me. Reading this is must infact all of Ubunja post are a must for any man who wants to improve himself.

RUN!!!
Dont go to the meeting this is a scam. You have to look after #1 which is you and your safety.

Facts

Tell her that your not looking for anything serious. The only thing is that you must ask yourself the question "Will i regret this later if I dont do anything now?" And if the answer is no then just continue with your life.

She used you as an emotional tampon. You were too nice and basically your life revovled around her and what she wants. Its cool to care about your woman but as a man your life should come first.

If she was raped then that is a criminal act and justice must be served!
You got played as she was ignoring your calls and messages. She most likely knew this guy but she won't tell you as that would make her look bad . Your a young man and still got your whole life ahead of you, use this expierence to better yourself and do what you can to become the best version of yourself.

Eminem is the best which is the ABSOLUTE TRUTH. There is no other rapper out there that is better than him.

Enjoy your single life while you can but just know that if you dont got a man by the time your 30 you will be considered old because men with a high income,social status,power won't be looking at you but at the younger more fertile women.

I admire the fact that woman #2 told you early on in your meeting with her that she has a kid. It shows honesty and thats something you won't find alot. They are a countless amount of men who only find out years later that their women has a kid with another man.

Its entirely your choice whether you want to begin a relationship with her but since your a single man with no kids I highly recommend that you DONT DO IT. Heres a few reasons why:
•You will never be her first priority
•The child is not yours biologically and never will be
•The social stigma that you will get from men may be a bit too much
•Its sounds as if your giving them too much emotional access to you early in the relationship.

This is a master piece. It is will help the Chinese economy and attract people from all over the world. This airport will certainly contain the latest tech.

I so wish the we as africans would catch up to America and China as they are monopolizing the 4th industrial revolution and if we are not carefull we will be left behind.

This is all very true. I have learned from expierence that when you present yourself as a man who is sexual and adventurous woman naturally pick up on this. They may not tell you directly what it is that makes them attracted to you but they will certainly drop hints and clues that shows you that their enjoying the sexual energy that you are presenting to the world. The only problem is that most guys are unable to read and speak "womanese".

Before I was clueless about what women say about guys that just gets it but from observing players and guys that are good with women I saw that they talk "dirty" and are not afraid to tell their woman or women what they want .