Fahvvy: 1. Just as she doesn't care what people think, she also shouldn't care when people perceive and treat her a certain kind of way ....
When you dress a certain kind of way, know that people will perceive and treat you a certain kind of way too....
If you see a person with a military uniform, you don't need a prophet to tell you to behave, naturally there's a certain "respect" you will Accord that fellow...
If you see a person with NYSC uniform, you also don't need a prophet to tell you that, that fellow is most likely a "federal government pikin" and thus you will treat the person accordingly...
When you go out without a bra, you'll be perceived a certain way, so I sincerely hope that you also wouldn't mind being treated that way ....
2. What people go through in life isn't an excuse....
People (especially women) feel that when they misbehave people should "understand" that, they are going through something and that should be reason enough to overlook their excesses...
But my dear... THE WORLD DOESN'T OWE YOU UNDERSTANDING
If you act a certain way, you will be treated accordingly... If you see someone that cares about you enough to call you to order, take corrections o ...
[quote author=slawomir post=116701264]Damnnn niggar I have this feeling that bros op is also uncle Gabriel [/quote Normal! I frankly agree with you.By their fruits you shall know them!
joyH: Please guys I need your help. @mod pls help me move to appropriate section.
I am confuse, needs advice on what step to take next.
The whole thing begins on 25th July when i had unprotected sex with my bf. before then my last period came on the 17th of July. so i had sex just about a week after.
Since then uptil now i have not seen my period. Initially I worried i may be pregnant but after several urine and blood test it all turns out negetive. what could be wrong here? This is the first time i am experiencing this.
I have done 4 test myself using pt test strips. but all came negative. Yesterday I went to a private lab an de used my blood and urine sample for pregnancy test, it still came out negative.
Abeg any medical expert or any one with past experience should assist with advice on next step please.
Note, my boyfriend is aware of the whole situation. he himself is confused. plus I am 23 yrs old just incase my age will aid in the diagnosis.
No problem.Since there are no signs of pregnancy,get Tab primolut-N 5mg tds 10/7, Cap doxycycline 100mg bd 10/7,Tab ferrous 200mg od for 14/7,Tab vit C 100mg tds for 14/7. Go to a very good pharmacy and show them,they will sell and prescribe for you. ##Avoid sex with your partner when taking the drugs for the time being,Avoid alcohol/sepe and drink lots of water. Good day!
EmperorTolson: Please house, I need the advice of all medical personnel in the house and any help I could get. I have a friend that is battling with pelvic inflammatory disease.
According to her, she got to know in year 2020 and she's treated it countless time since she discovered but the infection keeps coming back.
After recent treatment again, she couldn't sleep yesterday due to a pain in her stomach (she felt like her abdomen is going to cut) and when she seek medical advice, she was told that its due to the infection.
Please, how can this infection be treated once and for all? What does she have to do? She's been to two hospitals already.
Let her carry out Urine MCS and HVSMCS lab tests. The result will show her which perfect drugs to use.
DaddyGideon: Good day Nairalanders I've been a regular member in here but I'd decided to open a fresh account for the sake of privacy, and please pardon my typographical errors or probably correct them for me cause I like learning.
So here's the thing, I've been working for someone as a labourer for the past five years in a small private company. A very stressful work and very time consuming that I see no future in it and its affecting my health at the same time causeI always look stressed up, however I've been able to save a little over 3 million within this period of time. But your man is getting old, am 27 and by now I'm supposed to have a sable business of my own I should be doing.
Now am planning to leave the work cause to me it seems like I've wasted all this years cause I don't have any single skill to start with, I have no knowledge of any business to venture into and if I decide to go and start learning handwork it will take me more time, hence my confusion.. So many thought have been going through my mind. if I should relocate, buy a small car and start uber business or if I should look for a way and leave the country, or if I should just venture into business.
omenka: This is rather farfetched egbon Wike, the slayer of IPOBidients.
Meanwhile, I'm kinda curious, has the word zoo been expunged from the English lexicon? This word which used to feature prominently around every thread here just months ago has suddenly vanished into thin air.
IPOB, what happened?
It is true.I have observed the zoo word is not in usage again.Hmmm.........!
Zarinad: TO THE LAWYER IN THE HOUSE AND EVERY CONCERN PARTIES.
It all happen about two weeks ago on 17/8/2022 at about some minutes to 10pm. There was a tipper trying to make a U-turn and my keke was on the right hand side trying to allow the tipper to pass as another tipper was coming from behind. Suddenly, another keke came from behind with speed to zig-zag to beat the trailers. In the process, its side mirror hooked mine own. In the process to disentangle, my keke fell while another trailer was approaching from behind. People came to our rescue and carried the keke up in order to save us. I came to my senses quickly, i picked my phones but loss fund. The keke that caused the accident escaped, i was told he stopped at the tip of the bridge in front of us thats about 8 to 10 plot to where we had accident. Out of the three passenger at the back, I remembered, two men and a woman. This woman was coughing from the point of conveying her to where the accident took place. When were rescued the woman was complaining of her leg. I thought she broke her leg. Another person used my keke to conveying her to hospital while i was in an another keke.
I got to the hospital on time while i was waiting for them. I quickly bought pain reliever from Aboki across the hospital. We went to 2 hospitals and she was rejected since it was bone complaint. We were directed to go to General Hospital.
At the second hospital, she complain of peeing. i carried her to stand she peed before sitting down. Her daughter came to meet us at the accident spot before heading to the hospitals. While we were rejected, they came up with a local bone setter.
On getting to this bone setter, we took her inside. She was placed on bed. She was holding her buttock (Yansh). She said she was feeling pain there. I told her to bend her toes, she did. I told her to bend her knee, she did. Now, am confused. If were bones, she will undergone some pains while trying to do what i requested of her or unable to achieve it.
I noticed she had previously had accident on her right leg which was stitched and bulged. The doctor said formm should be procured, her daughter was looking at me. I had to pay 1000 from 1250 left on me (which were 50's).
The doctor was filling the form. He asked "who was the suspect". I told him, i was not a suspect because I myself was a victim of the accident. No way i can be come a suspect. She was just a passenger in my keke. He told me to write my name, phone number and address at the back of the form which i did.
He then asked for N20,000 for registration. The doctor said, the 20k is not bill that what is on the ground was not 50k or 100k. I start to sense a game plan here. The woman was a former patient. They have something in common.
The woman' son had came to meet us at the bone clinic. The children were unable to produce money since they were looking at my face again. I called him outside, that the man said that what we are looking was not 50k or 100k. He was expecting me to pay and i told him i dont have such money to help because i too was a victim of the accident. I was not drinking or under influence of drug. I told him on my street, everyone knows who I am. I dont take alcohol or paraga even every kids knows that. If i am tested, you can find any 1% alcohol. In the process, the doctor locked the gate of the clinic. I was locked inside to pass a night there.
In the morning, i couold nto find the woman kids and the guy who conveyed the keke to the bone clinic becuase they weree with my keys.
I sensed that they might have taken the keke to police station. I left the place to call the owner of the keke since i was on hire purchase.
Fast forward....
In the afternoon they came up with an x-ray that her pelvic was broken. That we need to deposit 450k. Later on the woman kids with their elder sisters said they have begged the doctor that the money has been brought down to 300k.
I am told to bring 150k that the bill will be share to 2. The IPO did not do any investigation of the accident neither i was arrested. All the they were saying was i produced the money or the case will be charged to Court.
To my understanding, there is no way her pelvic could have broken. She would have been holding the vagina side or belly not buttock. On the tenth day of the accident, the doctor touched her on her left tight no sign of her feeling any pains. It look as if they are friend nefore or acquaintance.
The police have not taken any statement from me expect explanation which i made above.
What is my chances, if i opted for court?
I want the house to educate me and let me know my fault and chances of escaping this conspiracy.
Why are you sulking yourself. Take her to general hospital near you. I am a Doctor.You must go and tell the doctor that he should give you a referral letter to Igbobi or any general hospital near you. He should refer you to the Consultant,Accident and Emergency of any of the institutions you want her to be referred to. “”#she is alright from my observations.They want to rip you off## Goodluck
ArchiLimited: Dog: you didn't buy Cat: you said no Parrot: you didn't want Even goat: you were offended Then you were asked what pet you wanted: you said snake.
I've been having this sudden increase in heart rate since morning and I don't seem to understand what's wrong. Is it a common problem or should I be worried?
No problem bro. You need to take aspirin(vasoprin) 75 mg daily for life or you will suffer from heart attack in future. Goodluck.
gloryhomemaker: In this cook with me video, I showed how to make bitter leaf soup that you can't get over with.
Bitter leaf soup known as Ofe Onugbu, mainly for the indigenous people from the south eastern part of Nigeria, is one soup that is very healthy due to the vegetable used which is called bitter leaf.
It's healthy, nutritious and very delicious, let's cook together.
Ingredients used:
Beef Assorted meat (Offal) Kpomo Bitter leaf Ede (Cocoyam) Ogiri Igbo Yellow and red peppers Crayfish Palm oil Stock fish Dry catfish Seasoning cubes Salt to taste
Faithellafranci: My brother insist that I follow a Yahoo guy. He was like trying to tell me some things and my kind of person I don't like it and I have a guy already who I love so much and that also loves me so much and wants to marry me at all costs.
The guy is gentle, caring, and I have this believe that he is going to be a nice person. Our meeting was just too sudden. It was God that brought him to my way.
At first I have been into a relationship that it will be going well at the beginning but later on it will lead to misunderstanding and then break up will follow.
Believe me guys, I have this feeling like something keeps on telling me that this guy is going to be a good man for me. I love him so much that living him will be like losing my own life and above all he is a Christian, a very strong one at that and though he is not that financially bouyant yet but he is trying just that Nigeria don't know the value of graduates in this country. He went to school, he is a graduate.
I don't want to follow my brother's advise. I love this guy so much since we started dating. I know of what I have not ever notice in my past relationships that am noticing now he doesn't shout at me he is just too different.
Please guys I need your advice. I have asked so many people for their opinion on this but now am asking you guys now please help me come out of this confusion I on my own I have said it and I have made up my mind that I am not going to follow my brother's advise and ready to struggle with this guy to make it am ready to build a future with him money is not everything in life and I so much believe that we are going to have so much money he really wants to marry me and I have already agreed to marry him guys please I need your advice because soon he is coming to see my family.
GOFRONT: Hmmm........On that day, Obicracy will come to Action............Obicracy.
What is Obicracy??
Obicracy is a system of government where the YOUTHS have CHOSEN a competent leader WITHOUT structure AGAINST incompetent and corrupt politicians with FULL and SOLID structures....
Regardless: Hey guys, Pardon the long post. So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.
I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.
When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..
Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.
It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.
I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...
My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house. I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded.. I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything..... I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..
Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.
Bro,please do not try it.it is none of your business.
Please I need you to help me have a third eye into a personal matter. Although, I have taken a position, I just wanted to be sure I never overreacted.
I am a guy based in Europe and my wife is in Nigeria. I have only been away for a year.
There was a day I was calling my wife on phone and her other phone was ringing which I asked her to pick up but she never did only to say that it was my friend calling her. I was surprised and asked her immediately how did my friend get know her other number. She gave some not-so-convincing explanation but I let it slide.
Curiously, when I returned to Nigeria, I discovered that this friend sent money to her and she never told me about it. The so called friend also didn't tell me anything. In fact, he has always acted as if he wasn't having any contact with my wife.
When I saw the transaction, my wife wanted to manipulate the situation to make it look like I was invading her privacy. I stood my ground to know what purpose the money was meant for but no reasonable explanation.
I called the friend too to know what the money was meant for but only retorted if he couldn't give my wife money as a friend. He couldn't offer any reasonable explanation. With high sense of modesty, this is a guy that would wish to be in my position economic wise and I have always been very generous to my wife when it comes to money. Therefore, financial lack could not be an excuse.
After this experience, I severe my friendship with the guy and rein in on my wife too. I felt that was not the kind of friendship any reasonable person should keep because I felt betrayed by his actions and inactions in relating with my wife behind me. I also see both of them (friend and wife) to be dangerous to my well-being.
Please I will like to know if I overreacted.
Thank you.
MOD please take it to front page for wider views and opinions
No it at all.You did not overreact. They are sleeping together.
Something happened 9 months ago, I decided to keep mute or probably just wait for the right time to commence my investigation to actually know what is going on between my step brother and my wife.
So I'm 9 years already into my marriage, and we have 3 kids. My step brother who is the 2nd of my mum has temperamental problem.
He's bossy and very vulgar plus he's controlling, everybody knows him for that, he was married 13 years ago, however after his family relocated to the USA, he later found out that his 3kids aren't his, the marriage ended like that, ever since then he's been traumatized, emotionally and any other way one can describe him as. Sometimes in order to at least feel that children presence around him, he would ask me to have my children come over to his place for some days, and I could witness how that really helped him over time, but then I noticed the absence of his wife started making him familiarize with my wife in certain odd manners which I was not really down with.
For example, if he comes to our house, most times comes around with a friend, either female or male, my wife seems not to be the attache type who would sit with us in the living room, she will rather be upstairs in the room, I have witnessed cases where he will shout at her, saying how can everybody be here and ur there upstairs?
There was even a time when one of the visitors he came with sighed and made face in a way that defined, wow, "was that necessary". Or times when he will ask her to cook stew for her, if she forgets or probably didnt want to do it because she knew it isnt her duty, she will be yelled upon, you'll here things like, where is the egusi i told u to make, even the one you made last time, u didnt put enough this and that
Now yall might think am a dullard or a simp, or someone too relaxed as gentle and as patient as I am, I be original demon, if I start my madness, the result will end in eternal damage, and our family background from my mums side where this my brother was born, we tend to uphold unity over adversity, so when things like this occur, mum would rather have us calm and not fight so unity can continue.
So sometimes last year, the major issues started grooming that made me start to think if there was something going on with my step and my wife, it started with when the kids were with him, so madam and I were suppose to go for outing, so we decided to branch at his place to check up on the kids, on getting there while in his living room, he said to my wife "I like your hair" she responded thanks, he was like are u guys going out, I was like yea am taking her out, next thing she asked my madam, so when are we going on our own outing? I shrugged and didnt understand where that came from, though she didnt answer him.
While we were leaving, I was waiting for her to bring up the topic and put it to me that why did ur brother say such a thing, even if its a joke, its too expensive, but she didnt, I brought up the topic, and she was like shes surprised too that she never thought he would say such a thing.
5 days later, we had a family party in his house, my other brothers, cousins and my mum, my children were there, while the caterer were cooking outside, and we were all in his living room drinking, he opted to get some meat to dish and give everybody to at least be chewing something, he served it round but when it got to my wives turn, the one he already bit off from was what he gave her, funny thing is, it was only my mum and myself that saw the scene, my wife was not aware, that was when I knew something could be going on.
Afterwards, I put the ish through to my wife, she acted disgusted and said she cant blv he would do such, that although my mum already called her to say the same thing. So I asked details of what she discussed with my mum, she said my mum advised her that whenever he calls her, she shouldnt pick, that when he knows its obvious that shes avoiding his call, he probably would want to report to her, and then she will now break the silence of what she my wife have been experiencing with him thus her refusal to pick his call.
So I called my mum and I was like being calm, patient and cooperating with the useless policy of the family doesnt mean that the recent things happening won't seat any longer with me, that am gonna have to confront him and put him in his place. My mum begged me and begged, cos she's 76 years old, I considered and I had no choice but to cooperate with her advise.
The funny thing is, after this whole ish, I asked her that if he calls, will you pick, she answered yes I will, but I will have to see what he has to say first to know if I will continue the conversation or not, I was like for real? You must be kidding me, it means something that I am not suppose to know of is happening, she was like oh well its ur fault, why didn't u confront him instead of listening to ur mums advise.
Since then, I have let it slide, but what actually made me bring up this issue again, was when I went to my bros house to pick some stuffs my sister sent from the USA, madam was off to the market, I called her to ask if she would like the only size 10 of the shoe I saw cos she wears 9, she didnt pick after calling like 4 times, immediately my brother called her with his own phone, she picked and was like sorry when you called I try to pick but it was nt connecting, I just weak at that moment sey wetin dey sup.
Guys, ladies, from deep experiences u guys must have gone through, what do u think could be wrong and what do yall think I should do, something could be happening that if I dont unravel early, it might be the cause of ones demise or destruction.
The deed has been done. He achieved it when he gave the same meat to your wife. He will start sleeping with her and she will fall for it. Your mother will know later but she will be you to forgive them. If you are not careful,he will kill you. Good day!
Ssddff: Loan app? If it is about counting loss, I bought another iPhone, all I want is this criminal facing the law. And a warning to guys as well. I believe she will continue with this act. A thief is a thief.
tsephanyah: African Americans and southern Nigerians are hated everywhere.
Smuggling and selling drugs in China, India, middle east, Europe, US and Africa.
Stealing and looting around the globe.
Highest in Rape
Cultism.
Menace.
Dirty.
Ugly
Smelling awful.
Uncultured.
I don't know why. I av traveled to many places around the globe, as a northerner other races respect me, but southern Nigerians are literally hated around the globe, maybe because they're copying the thug mentality of uncultured African Americans. I really don't understand why though.
virginprincess: Nigeria men are the most wicked and heartless set of people i have seen on this planet earth,she doesn't gives you attention,why don't you break up with her and get another girlfriend who would give you all the attention in this world,instead you decided to cut her life short,seriously some nigeria men are beast in human form,i honestly pity girls dating nigeria men,they go through a lot,anyways my prayers are with them.
Romance › Re: When A Lady Hardly Wears Bra And Goes Around Bra Less She Doesn't Care What You by drdeath: 11:07am On Sep 16, 2022
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