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Lmao this is such a pitiful thread.

First off Seal has better songs like Waiting For You, Dont Cry & Prayer For The Dying

anyway

a grave isnt eaxctly a nice lively place. It's dark and gloomy. A rose brings color and life to a grave so his comparing her kiss to the presence of a rose on a grave.

Get it now?

$Play, she's half Irish and her father was Jordian Arab. Considering she's still somewhat in the I-s-l-a-m-i-c faith, I believe that has alot to do with her mentality

Lmao @ that's a lie, you and Ritchie are the only ones that didnt/don't believe that situation, Ritchie sef believed it til the husband came knocking on Nairaland.

oziomatv:
are you trying to tell me that every missunderstanding that take place in your matrimonial home should be tabled in front of unknown invissible creatures in which you get some animalistic advice from town never do well people, then come back and expect a merit award from the same people? that's why I love my IGBOWOMEN not that we Igbomen are damm good but they tend to be homely and cultural and secretive.
They only come out to very intimate friends to sick for advice that relate to their family.

Leilah doesn't deserve that from a man he called her husband but it left for her to stand firm in front of that bastard (if proved) and say , boy enough of these trash and you have to behave yourself. Onething women has to bear in mind is if you don't make yourself clear to men they'll not understand and respect who you are.

In case you have forgotten, leilah is white. She's not Nigerian or African. Most Africans believe in keeping matromonial problems a secret, white people have no problem telling whoemever all in the hope of getting advice so stop comparing her to us. Just because mentioning all that is happening doesnt mean it';s not true, it just means she is from a completely different culture from us

As for standing firm, the girl obviously has shattered esteem, was forced into marriage to an Imam now to some brute for over 3 years and let's not forget she was raised in Islam for the most part where women are NOT allowed to "stand firm", Im assuming the teachings are what is stopping her for respecting herself and moving on.

Trying to dismiss her situation because her husband is Igbo is pathetic. No one had a problem believing shapey's story or the others around here so why is hers so out of the ordinary. Like I said, there are men that have no problem disfiguring their wives and these men exist in Nigeria, being in denial isnt gonna change anything

Im laughing at you. Is that a problem?

4 Play:
Never mind asking for condoms,haven't you met those who insist you don't use condom? You will be shocked by these women. . . .let them keep pretending.

This sincerely confuses me. Is it that they have a death wish abi wetin?

Lmao dude you give yourself too much credit. Romeo to the rescue. Rofl  

ozii, why is it so hard to believe Leilah's situation? Are you saying guys cant be that malicious or is it cos he's an Igbo man?

Regardless of tribe, an evil person is still an evil person. I remember in the late 90s when there was an "epidemic" of men throwing acid on their wives in Nigeria, would you say their wives caused it?

Gross

Um is that a joke? REAL hospitals can tell when a person had a surgery and it can also check sperm cvount, good ovaries, yada yada and the most important is blood test, all these ignorant people with their SS children(no offense to sickle cell people), point is these things can be avoided if people werent so desperate an din a rush.

He must be very fine cos that's harrassment right there

Aw I love Sonique.

Sterility isnt but lying is.

Either way doesnt matter, Nowadays only desperate idiotic couples get married without undergoing a full physical checkup

Im sure if it were a Yoruba or Ijaw man, ozii and co wouldnt have any problem believing Leilah's situation.

lol poor frustrated debola

[quote author=N4$ link=topic=112823.msg1957899#msg1957899 date=1203063671] Abeg make una give answers jo!

Mine is, pretend to be a stranger, ask for for somewhere that u think she might be heading to, then say something that might catch her interest. Ask her if she is a movie star, tell her she looks like one and maybe she should consider joining acting, bla bla,[/quote]Only in Nigeria sha

dot, why exactly are picking on michelin?

cos you're ashqamed of putting your own pic up or what? and shouldnt you be crying about Lukka or something?

then you leave.

Same way I'd tell a man to leave if the wife waited til after the wedding to tell him such a thing as well

Such issues are important and everything should be out before walking down the bloody aisle else you are entering a web of lies.

Did he tell you about this surgery before the marriage?

That is the important question

You can look through all you want, romeo, you wont find anything

I like how you are trying to avoid my point Btw. I gave you a good example of people telling an Igbo boy to runa way from marrying a Yoruba girl and the most you can say is "uh dont let me look in your profile yada yada"

Like I said that island of denial must be nice. Is it sunny? Do you get to drink pina coladas with little umbrellas by the side? White sandy beaches?

Jealousy is the root,

This thread is putting me to sleep.

so you comparing me with that unstable trollop abi?

We're not cool anymore 4Play.

4Play, when you gte married, we will listen to you. Olodo

Im suspecting that will be in 15 years time when you go back to your village for your child bride

osisi, see how these lame babies are trying to intimidate moneybags. Jealousy sha

greetings to mr osisi, I personally hate flowers

Enjoy the rest of your day/night

yea people are happy for him indeed. Denial must be a lovely island.

where did he say you should bribe? since when is not only being nice to the wife in hopes of getting sex the same as "bribery"?

Do they still teach English in schools sha?

I dont even understand how a dude enkjoys sex when the other person isnt even into it at the moment and you KNOW she isnt.

I fear some of you

FKseun:
Textbook love or better still "M&B" love. Why won't ladies pray for someone like moneybags. What you all should do is ask him if he is married, for how long and get his wife to give you a load-down on him.

If you can read, you'd see that moneybags said he's been married for 5 years.

and what is this "some things work for some people", what is so abnormal in what moneybags said that shouldnt be a UNIVERSAL thing for all couples?