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romeo:
I've made my point sha, Nairaland is not the place to seek advice about igbo husbands because you'll be wrongly adviced and [B]they where going on that direction when i re-directed them back to topic[/B]

Where? I hope you dont mean the whole mess between mamaput and the OP?

Btw, have you ever read this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=106876.msg1891065#msg1891065

Please do and focus on the comments your brothers made.

omoge, they are all just bitter jackasses with their "My girlfriend stinks" threads.  I've checked my IM archives and realized thatout Blatant is one of those people I've blocked in the past. Let him keep nursing those wounds. You've seen who before? Ori e ti baje. Oloribu, omo ale. You have a "wife and children" yet instead of taking care of your home, you are jumping randomly into threads attacking females for no reason? You are fooling yourself. Agbaya.

4 Play:
@TOH

No mind these Nairalanders.They are just horn dogs

No bite me o

Na you cause these bastards to be running their mouths. Plenty of others with pics, let them go and bother them. Dont need cowardly imbeciles on my back. I warn you o, no make I bite your head off 

Paraki, I know you want my wahala today but I wont give in. Pele

Happy Val's Day

darfur:
anyway, i think romeo made the comment as a preventive or predictive measure. he probably thought someone may end up igbobashing but he didn't need to. the thread was unusually kind to igbos. very unusual in nairaland, if i may add.

As opposed to

"Yoruba Girls Are Dirty"
"I Would Never Marry A Yoruba Chic"
"Yorubas Are Not To Be Trusted"
"Yorubas Are Obanjes With 7 Colors/Powers"
"Every Yoruba Woman Is Divorced"
"Yorubas Are Jealous Of Nollywood"

etc

Abi?

Actually if he was the first person to post, that would have made a lot more sense but hey whatever

And you sef, wetin I ever do you? This is the second time you are causing morons to yarn dust about me like Im the only person on NL with pics on her profile. I offended you abi wetin? Dont let me bite you like I do the otehrs jare  

His sluttiness has surpassed that of Sweet T and Doyin13. It's unbelievable.

4Play can you see the bullshit you are causing on here? Btw shouldnt it be "are" and not "is", maybe your vienna weenie has taken the blood supply required for your own brain sef.

Btw who the hell is Blatant? I don't know you, just because I denied your so called "getting to know you" garbage on YIm doesnt mean you should be running your mouth about me. Oloshi. Bloody babies don't know how to handle rejection like a man, have to go around yarning dust about the girl in various threads. Omo lasan, ikeji aja. Ko ni da fun e ninu odun tuntun yi.

4Play, the comment still doesnt make any sense because once again no one said anything bad about the Igbos in this thread and she didnt even make the thread all about her husband being Igbo hence "Nigerian husband", anyway whatever, I just found the outburst to be quite weird esp since from page 1, many people praised Igbo husbands.

otele, I'm glad you know the comment was intended for romeo and not you. Now you want to run away from the question, amebo 

otele:
his point was that nairaland is the wrong place to ask of the character of her igbo husband b/c there are many igbo haters in nairaland who will say negative things about her husband and encourage her to hate him. (his opinion though, not mine)

That would make sense if someone had actually done that on here. Care to quote any examples on this thread?

4Play, shut the hell up jare.

Perhaps you can tell me why romeo picked this thread of all threads to discuss the anti-Igbo "ness" of Nairaland

Olodo.

Um I understand that he's referring to NL in general, but what exactly does it have to do with THIS particular thread? That is why we're confused

Um who the hell is dot and why is she using michelin's picture as her own?

You craze?

Busta what hazppened to Debo?

thought abi taught?

illusion2:
Jo je kin fisi fun e lat'eyin.

Rofl

. All I'm saying in my post is that the way you treat your wifey matters. You can't expect to ignore her all day long for whatever reason and then come home expecting her to be all in the mood for sex. She'll soon begin to feel like she's nothing more than a sex object to you. And again, i'm not saying treat her nicely only when you want to have sex with her. Make it a habit of treating her like the queen she is. Pay attention to the little details in her life, talk to her, do your best to please her. The key is making that a habit. Afterall you married her, and it's in your best interest to make her as happy as can be,

So my point is: if she's pleased with you and sees herself as someone who's cherised (as opposed to some object who only gets attention when sex is desired), she's unlikely to refuse you sex on a regular basis -- and i'm not referring to women who are frigid -- that's a medical condition -- or to women who use sex as a weapon (that's a crazy condition ). Your wife is a person with feelings and emotions, and from studies i've done, women do need lots of communication -- it's as important to their well being as sex is important to ours, so the more you meet your wifey's needs in those areas that are critical to her, the more willing she'll be to meet yours.

Again, remember, this is not a manipulative tool. Because if you only talk to her and pay her attention when you want sex, she'll soon figure that out and begin to see you as a jerk. Meet her needs unselfishly, and you'll see her opening up to you (both literally and figuratively of course ).

Once again, moneybags knows what's up.

can you plz go back and follow this thread from the beginning instead of posting prejudiced comments.

99% of the posters/responders here are either Igbo, half Igbo or married to Igbo. So who are the Igbo bashers and where are you seeing Igbo hating?

The only person being bashed unequivocally that I can see, is Leilah. People were raining abuses on both her and her husband. And she was told the quality of her own man is less than others, since nobody on Nairaland or even Nigeria itself has ever done anything her husband may be doing.

I don't know what you are reading here.

I agree, tpia. Dont know what Igbo haters have to do with THIS particular topic esp since none of the so called igbo haters have even replied this thread unless of course, I skipped a page. Maybe in general on NL, it's "true" but I dont see how that has anything to do with this thread.

Lmao. It's the kool-aid

;d

haha asiri ti tu

well toyin i can only hope you dont disgrace me and Ekiti state again like you did in that thread where you wewre begging her not to insult you and asking her to call you lepa instead of orobo like anything that tart says bloody matters. I shall blame that on you being drunk at the time

wahala e ti poju toyin

deo doesnt deal with my enemies

moneybags:
No woman will constantly refuse sex from her husband, especially if it's pleasurable. The problem a lot of men have in this regard is that they don't know how to meet their woman's need. For a woman, sex doesn't just start in bed. It's in the way you treat her all day long. Little things like paying attention to the kids, helping out around the house, holding her hand (in a non-sexual way) and talking to her about her day, and just generally doing all you can to make her happy certainly do turn a woman on . You can't expect to ignore her all day long (all in the name of "i'm too busy at work", come home and then expect her to suddenly be in the mood for sex. It don't work that way! Women are wired differently from men and to them, romance is important. Of course, it's only the men who take the time to understand this important difference that will enjoy their female companion.

Exactly. No one would deny something if it's sweet. If she says No, she's either angry, sick or bored of you.

Peole still go outside even if the wife gives it 24/7 so enough of the lame excuses cos she can easily go outside too or even meet the younger houseboy and get it on. shio.

I am still waiting for you animals to come and beat me. Yea it's a challenge.

What the hell

where did you get that from, Texcee?

Rofl

Lmao

So cute. The two 4s complementing each other