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TDB sure pass

Acidosis:
There's a difference between a career and a job. Those who worry about "halting their career" because of children/family more often than not do not have a career. What you have is a job and you're scared of losing it. Those who have real careers or career goals to pursue do not worry unecessarily. Meaningful careers already make provisions for the two to work in tandem, with sound work-life balance. In essence, careers and babies can work together.

We need more lectures on this

Beverlyjean:
We are creating a dangerous society by women building their careers . Leaving the children unattended to. Freelancing, content creator is a good one cos ud soend more time with your kids. Leave the offices for men. If you check the society of today compared to the 50s , ud see that leaving kids to be raised by people with unknown characters is killing society. Children of these days are being too violent and disrespectful

Valid point
Covid has taught us the inherent possibilities in WFH.
EARLY PLANNING is key

pocohantas:
Whatever works for her, the kids and her family.

In a place like Nigeria, it might be hard for her to get back into the system whenever she is done with childbearing.

There are husbands that make their wives feel safe. If one is blessed with a man like that, you can afford to make certain sacrifices and not feel like your very essence was taken from you.

Sadly at my last count there are just 5 of them in Nigeria.

Habaa woman
Be calming down na

Heartbreak finally took it's toll. May our loins never birth Efulefus.

Iseeeee!

Amaechi
True King in the North

nedekid:
I messed up.
All that was in my mind then was to get my money.
I could have cashed out big time.

If na me, I will go to hospital collect medical report say I have developed BP and mental problem.
I will liase with DPO to apply maximum pressure and push to court.
When we land court, I will apply for damages max 10 million
Then I would hope for approach for out of court settlement.
Nothing concern me with banking officer and her husband because I will close the account and relocate before the whole fracas ends

nedekid:
Na long story.
I was driving along akowonjo road one hot afternoon when I received debit alert. Roughly 400k in benefit of a strange name. Kehinde or so.
I rushed to my bank branch and complained. Apparently, someone cashed my cheque at airport branch of the bank!
I asked of the cheque details because my cheque book was with me. Omo, when I heard the cheque number that was used see shock!
Now about 9 months before, I was on my way to cotonou, just after Badagry, during gist in the car, someone spoke of his experience with the bank and how his money was stolen though missing cheque leaf. How his cheque was cut.
I put a call to my wife to go count my leafs. Miraculously, she called me that a particular leaf was missing. As in eg 75.
Howw.
I called my banking officer, to block that cheque number. She said I should come and write a letter. I explained my travelling. She then told be to send her a message via text. (that was my trump card). I sent the text quoting the number.. One good thing about me is that I do not delete messages.
Back to 9 months later. In the bank, they ignored me after my report of missing money making me feel as if I did magomago.
Anyway I went to police station, they said wrong jurisdiction, I had to trance the proper one.
It became correct police matter. Dpo was happy ie na the kind case him like. Say those banks de Bleep up, but today them don enter him trap! They went to the bank the next day with betta invitation letter. Arrested banking officer and one other person. See, the bank sent team of legal people from the head office to handle the matter.
Do you know it was that cheque leaf I complained about 9 months earlier that should be blocked that was used to steal my money? They waited and monitored my account for months until I used the booklet close to that number, then faked it and presented.
Anyway police took up the matter.
Banking officer after getting bail land my house 6am with her husband to plead for settlement that she could loose her job. They invited me to the bank. Say make them pay me. I said I have ran expenses. Them say make I name the amount. I talk. They prepared a draft from my money and pleaded for me to sign to end the matter because of my banking officers career. Them bring my expenses money in cash.
All I wanted was to get my money so I agreed.
The next day, I went to the police station to see the dpo and thank them that I had settled. Dpo almost had heart attack! Him and the top officers de shake head. The dpo said Kai, I made him loose a lot of money, that no wonder they called the bankers to come and they ignored them. Did I sign any documents for settlement? I said yes. Dpo shout! Say I spoilt his cashout! He said even the bank lawyers will cashout claiming they ran big expenses to end the matter, meanwhile na them chop the money.
Anyway, I presented them half of the "expenses" money and walka commot.
Now, the lesson of this all was that then you had a syndicate in that particular bank. When you collect your cheque book you sign a document saying counted and collected by me. This exonorates the bank. But do you really count? An insider would have used a blade to cut out one or 2 leafs neatly from the stub. Next thing, the monitor your account, when it approaches the number they prepare it and give an accomplice to cash the cheque.
You cannot complain, because you have signed you counted your booklet!
My saving grace was my text message.
NB: SORRY FOR THE LONG STORY, YOU ASKED FOR IT

Chai, you should have worked with the willing DPO and punish the bank severely. Even claim better serious damages. This was God given opportunity for you to balance. You go play Mercy said No!

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Dozis:
Mail cpd@cbn.gov.ng then tag Kuda and see your problem solved with lightening speed

Thank you bro

Koleb:
u should have opened another order with same buyer or report to binance. U lose guard yourself

Pls can you explain in a more detailed way

INDUSTRIALFAN:
Don’t say what you do not know. kuda has an office at Herbert Macauley way, Yaba. Its by the road and even on the map

Would you go Lagos from Calabar when you have issue with your bank account?
Mr ITK

nedekid:
2013 or so them thief my almost 400k for bank. I go bank then de do me shakara.
By the time I start wahala. Na with beg them take give me my money.
Banking officer sef come my house 6am with her husband come beg make wahala end.
I tell them say i don run expenses. Them pay my money with expenses join.

Bro
Did you involve court, CBN or police?
Pls inspire us with details

utenwuson:
Me at UBA lokoja, wanted to withdraw money to travel, next thing my atm got trapped, I went into the bank and ask for my card, after 40 minutes they kept saying I should wait, when I told the customer service girl to give me my card which was visibly in her hand, she says she want to verify, I lost my cool and almost slapped her, I dragged all the three cards in her hands and slam her computer, the idiott manager ran out, I told her to resign, she says camera is there that I should calm down.... I insulted everyone in that bank

You are a MAN!
Love the energy display.

damiloladuke:
Gtbank app had glitch, sent N205, 000 to a bastard on Binance escrow, money refused to go... I canceled Binance order... Money went through after 30 minutes. Merchant refused to refund me. Smh

This one is painful mehn

Emmy3:
FCMB
Acc#: 6379796011

There was a failed transaction for about $36 in August/September 2021 that I was debited.
It was a payment for a domain hosting for a client I needed to deliver her work urgently. This was the only means to pay because of $100 monthly limits on cards.
I called, called and wrote several emails to the bank but to no avail to revert the said amount.

Then I waited patiently and took a loan of about 36k from the bank with no repayment intent because of the inconveniences they caused me.

Later in October I changed my mind to repay only to get a message that additional 6k was added from a system error.

Na so I take give up on the account and bank.
Till today they even haven't rectified the errors or reverted the said amount.
Right now; I no longer use Nigeria banks.

How did you obtain loan without collateral?
You mean that the bank has not made any attempt to retrieve their money with you?
No police or EFCC tracking you

Aidejay:
Walked Over 2km To Get To An ATM. When I Tried To Withdraw Money I Discovered Bank Had Removed Some As Charges. So The 1k I Was Hoping To Withdraw Had Become 500 Naira And The ATM Wasn't Dispensing N500. So I Had To Walk Back Home. Hungry & Depressed.

Kpele o

During my NYSC, my roommate enter bike to Ikot Ekpene on credit to go withdraw from ATM. Visited 5 banks no network, racked up 1k bike fare.
Omo my guy turn beggar o, he even had to squat somewhere for the night
Very unpalatable experience

illicit:
I once recharged on an atm and didn't get the airtime till date

Access Bank ATM Tanke junction Ilorin

https://www.nairaland.com/6996196/giveaway-2-winners-10-each#110407262

Nigerian banks are crooks
All of them

Short of words

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1 UBA
Lost my ATM card in 2006, had to pay 520 naira for withdrawal slip each time. As a student o. Imagine I had to close the account and port to GTB


2 FIRST BANK
Tried to open account, this people even requested for birth certificate, baptismal certificate etc I pick race comot banking hall

3 ACCESS BANK
Hmm, lost my phone. Trying to link mobile app to new device. Mogbe! No OTP. Back and forth banking hall, emails, twitter dragging for 3 months. I just deleted them.


4 KUDA BANK

FEAR ONLINE BANKS O! It's sweet at early stage until you have an issue and there is no physical office to lay your complaint. Na so my 20k trap for the account. I cannot withdraw, they don't answer emails, their phone number doesn't connect.
Does anyone know how to contact CBN so I can petition?

Even me wey dey 9ja never slapp

Village people pro max
Better deportation loading
Even me wey dey 9ja with all it's lawlessness never slap person

uchaymart:
THIS CUTE ABIOLA HAD BETTER PUT PEN TO PAPER AND LEAVE NN ELSE HE WOULD BE SENT OUT TO THE FAR NORTH EAST IN THE POSTING OF TROOPS..............

SUPERIORS IN THE ARMED FORCES ARE FULL OF HATRED AND JEALOUS MINDS.

MY COUSIN IN THE NA HAS BEEN SENT OUT TO THE NORTH EAST 4 TIMES NOW BECAUSE HE BOUGHT A CAR AS "PRIVATE" IN THE NA AND SOMEONE HAS BEEN HATING AND WANTS HIM DEAD.

Dem no dey telli person

VERY SIMPathetic

You will have 24/7 light free browsing and calls
We are all praying for this opportunity
We can swap if your mind no reach am

You born Ishmael, come later born Isaac. Which is your first son?

He wants relationship, u don't so free him na