₦airaland Forum

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
I no dey go ashawo joint, na only clean toto I dey chop

Good for you. I no dey judge person for their orientation

nlfpmod:
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-67577223.amp

Lol, I was waiting for when someone would come showcase this man's antivac stance.
I wonder how his followers would try to defend this one

God1000:
https://c.newsnow.co.uk/A/1225596775?-2809:1022


US imposes new sanctions on Iran after attack on Israel



https://c.newsnow.co.uk/A/1225634124?-14432:11

Lol, a case of hold me oh, let me fight, like thouts in a market square. If you knew you didn't want to fight,why attack Israel?
Israel will retaliate before they come to the table

GistMedia0:
In a viral video circulating on social media, a cultural exchange turned into a moment of astonishment as a white man questioned his Nigerian wife about the process of making fufu, a traditional West African staple dish.

The video, which has sparked both amusement and debate online, captures the husband's candid reaction as his wife demonstrates the intricate steps involved in preparing fufu, a dish made from fermented cassava.

"So you eat rotten cassava?" the husband incredulously asks, his tone a mixture of surprise and skepticism.

The wife, unperturbed by her husband's reaction, patiently explains the fermentation process that gives cassava its distinct flavor and texture in fufu-making, emphasizing its significance in Nigerian cuisine and culture.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1COBFPIHQ5A

BS skirt. They know cassava is fermented to make fufu. Just like milk fat is fermented to make cheese.

VinnyBaba:
In my Secondary School and University WhatsApp groups,
I hardly Comment or make contributions.

I see them online talking about social media trends, Our School days, Visitations,etc and I always Wonder 'Do these Pple have Jobs and ambitions?'.

I talked to a Friend of mine About this and he said 'I am Anti-Social or an Introvert'.

But Really, I see those Alumni WhatsApp Groups as an Organization of Time Wasters.

HOW ABOUT YOU?
Comment.
Nplfmod.

Not all, my alumni uni group is very active and has helped communities. My sec school not so much. It depends

Wawelexy:
What kind of rhetorical question is this? You say legal wife... Any reasonable person should know the legal wife is the third wife that did court wedding. Court = Legal

He can't do church wedding and court wedding with two different women without divorcing one of them. Reason being that the church weddings are taken to court to legalize so question is a no-brainer

thesicilian:
My joy is that the smart men are watching and learning

*
What's there to learn?
Marriage is not by force. No one should be in a union that is toxic

ednut1:
the women are mostly looking for guys with papers and good jobs. Which many of the newcomers don’t fit into that category

Exactly. That's why this topic is outdated. Cos many guys I know just change girls here like toilet paper

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
This is one of the reasons why I don't want to relocate to Canada, I know it will be difficult for me to be getting steady supply of fresh toto

Not true. If e scarce scarce, red light district never finish

ednut1:
I see a lot nairalander fantasizing about being hot cake abroad when they haven’t been there. The truth is women there are only interested in 20% of men. If you are not good looking, tall, with good job and swag. Nothing for you o. In Nigeria you could use your 3k or indomie and egg to get babes. But for abroad the babes are equally working so your money has to be long to entice them. 🤣🤣

Not really. Naija ladies are lonely so it's free for all but as usual they would expect you to spend. Most times you only need to have a nice car and good job and you go chop tire. If that is your game.
I know a guy that concentrates on those ones that have been rejected asylum. They are usually desperate to stay and there he does his census.
All in all, you need to be at the right place and at the right time. Then it depends on what you are looking for.

orohbiro:
A guy. Help me with paltry 20k yesterday and he have d effrontery to ask me what he will get in return. Why is broke guys like this? can't you just help and leave in return finish him there Big fool

Em! Hope you gave the money back? If you didn't then you should be grateful he decided to help your poverty ministry so STFU

siofra:
Every sensible human knows Okafor's law is fake. Only insecure foolish men that can't move on from their exes, FwB, one night stands etc believe that rubbish law.

What a queen! She has made us proud 😍

Hope her experiment was successful

Quality20:
One major reason is because they know that they could easily b caught and besides its a thing of shame for her husband to discover on the wedding night that she isn't a chaste as expected. Its also important to remember that Hausa Fulani girls are very religious and not wayward, intact most of the girls are even more religious than the boys. They are also under less economic pressure ,so they have no reason to go out in search for money

Not true, go to the north and see for yourself

Seun:
The idea that every woman in every marriage should be submissive offends me. No one should be allowed to demand for that. Anyone who is truly submissive will surely be taken advantage of. When I love someone, the last thing I want to do is to try to subjugate/infantilize them. I feel so sad when women are talking about the "struggle" to achieve submissiveness in their marriage because of some ancient religious texts.

I want a strong partner. I don't want a subordinate. I don't want an unpaid domestic employee. Equality in diversity is the way to go, in my view.

Yes, that is where we all confuse the meaning of marriage. Our African mentality really can't exist in Morden times. The idea of submission in marriage does not have to apply to only the woman. Marriage itself is submission. You submit yourself to the other person for the progress and success of you both.

AoifeNightfall:
I see hot takes on women being submissive especially after that mummy Zee's stuff on Twitter.

But I want to ask, in this modern era where women contribute financially too in the home, should a woman still submit?

I think we should be talking about reciprocal respect now, not submission because the world is changing. Concepts that worked in the past may not work anymore in the present era.

Please don't submit to anyone especially your husband. It is not by force to marry. If your husband insists you submit to him, give him a slap. After all he didn't train you or give birth to you.
Don't even submit to yourself.
The only people you should submit to are your pastors. In fact don't even submit to your pastors, those people are now rapists

WebOracle:
I made a post on my Facebook about my accommodation issues in school and how I needed help with a new one.

This guy went to my DM and asked me to delete the post, that he’d help me.

Asked me to come to Umuahia from Calabar, I asked for tfare, he asked me to come first with mine, after all na me dey find help.

I traveled down two days later, got to Umuahia only for the guy to tell me to find a place to lodge and he’d join me later because he had to attend to an emergency.😳

I managed to lodge with what I had which was even a deposit and told the hotel receptionist that my host will balance up when he comes.

He came later in the night with “Nutri Milk and Bread”.😡

He coerced me into having $3x with him based on say I dey vulnerable to his help.😭

4am he took excuse to rush to go for another emergency.

Na so Orjiako Emmanuel Japa from the hotel and left me stranded o.🙆🏽‍♂️

Balance of hotel e nor pay.
Food e nor give me chop.
Transport e nor give.
Money for rent e promise e nor give

Blocked me everywhere and left me in more vulnerable and terrible state.😭😡

Nobody treats any human like that no matter what
You don’t ride on people’s desperation to make yourself feel good.

Orjiako Emmanuel is a terrible human and he should be famous by force!!!

Here is his number

He cannot block the whole world!”


Source: https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid02EiZU9md1JwvN4dHLJ9VxCVGprtYNYcqt84HJLJujrynodkeGo1hnXZYyRmWvUHXHl&id=100001866995599&mibextid=2JQ9oc

Me am still not understanding what happened?
What did she say happened again? Can someone please explain better.

Odewaleadesoye:


DAILY POST

I doubt anyone cares

[quote author=trutharena post=127874171][/quote]How the naira has fallen

Bobloco:
https://dailypost.ng/2023/12/25/japa-we-should-all-stay-back-fight-for-nigeria-defence-chief/

Check where this one's kids are?

ObaKlaz:
Wake me up when they at least bring Diezani to justice ⚖️.
Before April 2024, we'd forget there ever was an investigator or investigation. The dust would settle and it would be back to business as usual.
Useless 'cruise' country!

Diezani is over and done. She is gone. Nothing Nigeria can do to her anymore

Keepamsafe:
I feel so sad and devastated. Why are ladies treating good men like this

Today, I had to borrow money from 3 different loan app because im meeting a new girl today.

Luckily, we met and had our date and I spent roughly 45k I borrowed from loan app and still gave her 5k for pocket money and yet, she refused to follow me home.

Im home now, lying in bed alone and sad.

Hook up 7k, but I spent 50k today because i wanted to build soul connection. yet I gained nothing. Absolutely nothing. Not even sex and im now in debt, broke like a church rat and no woman to console me. I feel scammed.

Im in a dilemma. help please.

I doubt tis story is authentic.
I mean only reason to borrow money is if one is investing in a sane program. Borrowing money for a date makes no sense cos one gets no returns from the results of that date. Unless the lady in question is wealthy and the man in question sees her agreeing as the monetary investment that would pay monetary dividends to pay back that loan

Ubenedictus:
The pic is authentic.
Yes the pope said the blessing of people who are irregular couple should not be liturgical, it should not be done in a place, with gestures, or vestments or signs or anything that will make people confuse it for a marriage or scandalise people.
It should be a spontanous blessing

Exactly and that is why when I see statements like on this thread, I ask if people even understand what was said before they start arguing.
Very well said, bravo!

Ubenedictus:
It is a matter of avoiding that “something that is not marriage is being recognized as marriage.”[5] Therefore, rites and prayers that could create confusion between what constitutes marriage—which is the “exclusive, stable, and indissoluble union between a man and a woman, naturally open to the generation of children”[6]—and what contradicts it are inadmissible. This conviction is grounded in the perennial Catholic doctrine of marriage; it is only in this context that sexual relations find their natural, proper, and fully human meaning. The Church’s doctrine on this point remains firm.

5. This is also the understanding of marriage that is offered by the Gospel. For this reason, when it comes to blessings, the Church has the right and the duty to avoid any rite that might contradict this conviction or lead to confusion. Such is also the meaning of the Responsum of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, which states that the Church does not have the power to impart blessings on unions of persons of the same sex.

Yep, thereabout close to the general meaning of things. Yes, the church has the right to bless whoever the want, wherever they want. But the catholic doctirnes doesn't support homosexualism and hence they can't directly show support for it cos it goes against those doctirnes. And the Pope stated that as such in the last paragraph of that statement. Why people misunderstood that baffles me.

Ajmoziz:
Okay here I have handed you what the Pope said,easily accessible if you look.
Now who is peddling wrong information
https://www.vatican.va/roman_curia/congregations/cfaith/documents/rc_ddf_doc_20231218_fiducia-supplicans_en.html#

Hallo, I know exactly what he said. But like I stated you need to look closely at what the Pope spoke about. If it's still unclear to you, then look at the last sentence where he stated something about church grounds and what not.

Naijanascam:
Really?

Now this is surprising.
The question here would be does the church house not fall into any catholic approved grounds or did the Pope mean that such blessings should only happen outside the church itself?
That would need to be clarified, if that pix is authentic

BlueStripper:
The Catholic Church in Africa is doing everything possible to remedy the situation.


We all read the communique from the papacy.

If the Pope comments were misconstrued, then what exactly did the Pope say to you?

Na wah for Africans and understanding.
Means that you people read the communique but didn't understand what was said?
Na wah for una

abhosts:
Them go explain taya. The African Catholics are doing damage control because they know Africans are not receptive to homosexuality.

But there is no damage to control.
The Pope did state publicly that Priest are allowed to bless homosexual couples.
But read the statement yourself then you would understand the undertones of the statement

buygala:
Archbishop should rest .....


We heard the Pope and the Vatican loud and clear

African Catholics go explain taya

Please ignore the tabloid clips and look out for the new exact statement

buygala:
Archbishop should rest .....


We heard the Pope and the Vatican loud and clear

African Catholics go explain taya

No mond them. But the pope's statement was completely political to the core so don't interpret it 1:1

Xscape1993:
I knew from the beginning that it was not true.

You need to ignore the bishop and look directly yourself what exactly the Pope said.
This Bishop that says the Pope didn't say what was reported he said but didn't quote the Pope himself is also peddling false information

Carefulwind3:
Do watch these video on how to know if you are dating an Ogbanje (water/ marine spirit) girlfriend or boyfriend, and be enlightened.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nt_ZY8-veto

You are an Ogbanje

Carefulwind3:
Do watch these video on how to know if you are dating an Ogbanje (water/ marine spirit) girlfriend or boyfriend, and be enlightened.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nt_ZY8-veto

You are an Ogbanje