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Josephamstrong1:
I don’t really understand some schools this days. My baby girl cleared all her subjects with distinction, all As and she was given 3rd position. She has been sobbing uncontrollably since yesterday. Yes, she was promised Christmas gifts and present if she takes first position in class this term.
I think she deserves the 1st position. I want to go to the school on Monday and appeal for result recheck. It can’t be!
I am not taking this o! My baby deserves 1st position with this result.

With that kind of result, what is there to complain about?

adaperry25:
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

Trying foreign ladies might not be a bad idea.

Many Nigerians lady's are too bush for you to expect more from them. But that don't make them boring. You have probably only met the sorry ones

Keepamsafe:
Just this morning, my female neighbor brought this Oha Soup for me after I apologized to her yesterday over our last fracas. (I brought a girl home, and we had an issue.).

Please note, I have no entanglements with this my neighbor as im not sexually attracted to her even though she’s single and I am too.

I have started eating already, as this is my breakfast to work this morning.

Wife material. Goodluck, the stars are looking good for you to walk down the alter next year

Interesting15:
By Sunday Akanni

This is a continuation of this previous conversation https://www.nairaland.com/7908376/some-tricks-guys-use-luring

These randy guys are smart. They know how to exploit the emotional nature of women to the fullest. They know the average woman craves love and care and affection. So, either verbally or with their actions, they keep convincing you that they care about you. Once they successfully make the lady believe he's in love with her, they know she will become vulnerable towards and around him - she will want to reciprocate and do all it takes to keep him. He then exploits this mercilessly, making her crawl into his bed at his pleasure before ditching her.

My Counsel: I will counsel from two perspectives. The first one will be to encourage you to have an intimate relationship with the LORD and let Him teach you by experience what true love is - this will help you not to be a "love slave" (someone who is always thrown off her feet whenever any guy says he loves her). The second perspective will revolve around the fact that an average guy cannot love you truly if he hasn't first encountered God (Who is the True Love) and fallen in love with the Holy Ghost.

Firstly, you see, God is Love, and since we were created in His image and likeness, it follows that we are also creatures of love, created to love and receive love. We all have the innate desire to love (to give and show love to others), as well as to crave to receive love from others (to be shown love in return). This is a characteristic of a normal person created in God's image and likeness.

However, the error of many women lies with where they go to seek love, and what they fall in love with. Hence, many are in problem today because they fall in love with dangerous persons and things that were designed by the evil devil to carry out his evil mission - to steal, to kill and destroy (John 10:10). We can talk about alcohol and drugs; masturbation and pornography; immoral boyfriends and girlfriends relationships; materialism and mammon; etc. They thought these things were good lovers that would give them genuine pleasure and satisfaction. Unfortunately, these things only lead them to destruction, ruin, and regret.

Problem arises when you fail to channel your love to the right One - the True Lover. You are configured to love God your Creator first and above any other, and to receive love from Him above anything else. When you are saturated with God's Love and you find pure fulfillment inside of Him alone, it guides how you give love to those around you, and you are directed to like only the things He permits (which won't be harmful to you).

You can explore love inside of God (which is what you are destined to do) through faith in Jesus Christ. As you embrace Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, He sends a tangible Lover to your life - the Holy Spirit. As you grow in love with Him, He empowers you to keep attending to the business of love in the right way. I'm encouraging you to stop seeking pleasure from sinful and harmful persons and places and things. They are polluted counterfeits of the original thing - that you enjoy pure pleasure in your relationship with the Lord Jesus.

Also, if a guy is claiming to love you without having a loving relationship with the Lord, he is simply confusing lust and infatuation for love. God is Love, and only He can tutor a man on what true love is. So, if a guy does not know the LORD, and he is claiming to love you, what did he know about love, when it is even obvious he doesn't love himself (since he is living a defeated life by staying outside God)?

Now, let me tell you this about males, and it's easy to tell you this because I'm one too. Due to the configurations of the male body, if he refused to submit to the Holy Spirit, he will be driven by an intense urge for pleasure and fun, and he is ready to go to any extent to please himself (including adopting criminal actions like rape, drugging his victims, etc). Trusting a guy who isn't submitted to the Lord is foolish because even the guy can't help himself.

https://www.instagram.com/p/C0EAepNI9nK/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

BS

She is right..
we as guys should learn to control ourselves when it comes to sex..

When we try to make a move and she rejects or tell you she is not in the mood,, a real man should respect himself and let her be..

Sometime in life,, we are not just in the mood for sex,, it is not every time that we will be demanding sex from our girlfriends,, at times a decent conversation and a shoulder to lie on are all she needs.

Sorry I don't agree. Not that it matters what I think but she shouldn't come to my house and get naked if she ain't asking for it.
She doesn't want it and she can get naked outside my door

Codepain:
Isreal reign of terror is almost over.
It is only a matter of time before the cowardly transgenders army met their end

You talking shit

MrSundry:
Source: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12766215/Female-boxer-Canada-withdraws-trans-opponent.html

The bio female made the right decision. If the Transwoman wants to box, let her box in her own category. They should create one for them

Godoverevery:
For good 2 months me and this lady spoke extremely about the kind of relationship we both want.
I don't need to sit her down and table cos it seems that her mindset.

She clearly know what she is doing cos the last time I actually had a discussion about this act with her.

Then set your foot down and allow her make her choice if the relationship is important to her moving forward

Godoverevery:
Note- this not a post to bash ladies.

A pattern I noticed with most working class ladies have dated from 27yrs old upward.
At the earliest stage, they claim to be tired of relationship, they are fine without a man.
They are doing fine without a man and in fact if not for pressure they don't mind not getting married...(mostly lies)

They say am financially ok without a man, i bought my phone, paid house rent etc without any man and i can never depend on any man hence why they can never be liability since they are working..(mostly lies)

Most claim to be doing fine during the wooing stage but immediately we start dating things turn out differently from what they claim.

Am dating a lady currently who works for a fashion house on the island...During the wooing stage we actually spoke alot for about 2 months and she claimed to be financially ok and doesn't need a man money. Infact she told me how much she paid weekly which is very decent with free accommodation and feeding.

We just started dating not up to 3weeks and this lady have been making demands which I find very childish and too disgraceful for an adult working.
She always complaining of money despite earning above minimum wage weekly.

This morning she called and i didn't pick........I chatted her up and she telling me her cream have finished and i replied hmmmm.
This a pattern have noticed with most working class ladies have dated......they tell you am an independent woman during wooing stage but once relationship start it just seems they are working and not earning with the way they demand and still be pressuring you with marriage talks.

(just want to know if am the only experiencing this or is just normal)

Note: this the fourth time this lady is demanding from me in 3 weeks and they are embarrassing to me for someone who earns.

Sit down and table the issue. That you are dating someone doesn't mean you have to be their bank.
Remind her what her words were before the relationship and make her understand how it has changed during the relationship.
Let her know you also have your expenses and would prefer she handles her money matters without disturbing you about it. It's that simple.
If then you care to give her something on the side, that's your own wish to do so and not your obligation.
I don't know why men shy to make their stance surgically clear on this issue.

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You are a spirit poster

press9jatv:
The arrival of Sen. @NatashaAkpoti in Kogi Central after being sworn in as the senator representing the good people of Kogi Central.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eY_H5e3369E?si=7JL8ABI_MUJdKEkg

Who is her husband?

Jewessgratitud3:
It's amazing how I was contemplating making this post before a member here requested or should I say started asking me questions in that line and being a very free and open person, I promised I was going to post about it.

Well... Let me start from my background and up bringing which also contributed indirectly to my nonregrettable actions that has left me in this wonderful marital status.

I grew up in a Catholic christian home where good virtues moral values were instilled in us by engaging us in christian children activities from an early age. The Most social part of my childhood ( apart from school) was around the church then back home with close monitoring. So there was no room for nonsense even up to our secondary and tertiary level. the monitoring was topnotch. So we didn't really get to do shit like our mates who got exposed early to certain lifestyle,; dating number one.

We were overprotected and shaped with these guidelines that a mindset was formed that boy and girl relationship is a taboo ( and it's true). So we knew better than to toll that part.

In the long run, after I have come off age, it became very difficult to date. This was at age 21. Whenever I manage to give a man a listening ear and he mentions sex, I'll run without looking back because that was a danger sign we were taught to look out for. So i was always running away from men because of premarital sex. It got to a point, after looking like that's the only way to get a husband and I was already in my mid twenties, a time when a girl should be getting ready to settle down, I said ok, let me see if I can bend the rules a bit for this one. This man was a chronic responsible bachelor. So I felt it could work out since he's ready to settle down. He was in his mid 30s the and never married. We were in the same compound. So I gave in and we started dating. Mind you there was no pressure from both parents to get married. My parents will never pressure you to get a suitor.

Being a novice in the game, I never knew men could double date or even knew how to handle one when it happens. So, on this fateful day the randy goat came home with another girl. It was our last born that came and told me some girl came to look for him because everyone in the compound knows us together. I was heartbroken and right there I broke up with him without even finding out who or if what they both have is serious. Though I made him cry cos I started entertaining other boys that have been chyking me and bringing them to the compound but I never had anything with them or knew any of their houses. I was just using the to pepper him. Once they say hi, I'll drag them to the compound and we will sit on top of his car sometimes until he now confided in one of our neighbors who now told me to stop that the man is always crying. E never cry. I showed him two can play that game. He tried coming back but I bulshit him.

After that I locked up and never trusted any man. I began to see why my dad was being overprotective. I didn't date again for almost five years and then men were coming but that was when my own shakara increased. I mean responsible well to do men o. That was when men had good jobs from banking, investment and oil companies in ikoyi and vi both staff from five star hotel like Eko hotels and suites, federal palace cos those were the places I worked so I had many suitors and friends but the moment they mention relationship, Ill take off.

Part 2

It continued like that and I was enjoying my life with peace of mind that I forgot about time or didn't bother about it cos I don't care.

When I entered mid thirties, I said let me loosen up a bit but because Ive gotten used and enjoyed single life with peace of mind to that age, I found it difficult to commit again because anytime I tried, I'll start having anxiety. The thought of him cheating on me or even as little as admiring another woman will just make me unsettled and I'll think of aborting mission before it's too late.

So I said to give one man a chance, he too brought another girl in my absence. I found out from the sister and that was it. I called it off he begged and begged that the lady was forcing herself on him and sending him money bla bla.. he made a conference call with his family begging, my mind was made up I dumped him and moved on to a Choir boy Ive been admiring who was also trying to talk me into a relationship. I truly loved this guy and I think I was older than him in age . Though he refused to tell me his age but I was able to deduce from his Facebook profile cos he wrote class of 2006 while I finished 1999 but because I don't look my age, we just looked like age mate and we loved each other.

I met him when he just finished serving and was squatting. I was out of job then but one thing that made me stick with him was, even though he was not working, he shared whatever little he had with me. We were together when a very rich young pastor came asking for my hands in marriage. I told him about it and he started feeling sad that because he doesn't have a bearing now some guy wants to take me away from him. I on the other hand don't really fancy the pastor but wanted to force myself and see if it will work but it wasn't working because I didn't have feelings for him. To now make matters worse, he started showing stinginess. In the three months we courted, we didn't get to sit together because he's a pastor so we only see in church, stand and talk very briefly and disperse and each time he kept posting me about money I asked for to enable me travel for Xmas and the day was fast approaching. It was my Choir boyfriend that wen to borrow money from one girl selling recharge card to give me to travel. Now coupled with the fact that I don't even like him, i just texted him to look for another sister. The highest he ever bought me was two two hundred naira recharge card a stinkingly rich ajebota pastor for that matter ( 2014) but he would always call me.

Lastly, in 2016, my bobo got a job in Chevron with a nice apartment in lekki. Before then we had a small quarrel and we're not in talking terms because I requested for money for hair to attend my twins introduction and he told me no money but he didn't tell me he was saving for an apartment. Even then, how much? So, after months of not talking, he called and invited me over to see his new place. A surprise I guess. I got there and we had a nice time. He tried to make it up to me. He gave me his short and polo to wear that day and took me to a pepper soup joint. **Smiling**
later we got back and ad I was about to shower, I saw a used shower cap in his bathroom. He now handed me a new one from his wardrobe where there were many more. I asked him who used the one in the bathroom, he said baby don't start again. I held my peace.
The following morning he did something that I can't say for sure what really happened.

I slept over because there was no way I could go back from lekki to the mainland that day. That night he came to disturb me and I told him you know we can't be doing this. Please let wait till everything is formalized. When he wouldn't let me be, I left him and went to sleep on the floor. In the morning he woke up and was saying you, you, I was just looking at you as we were talking someone knocked on the door. It was a ladies voice. My ex went to meet her and they were together for almost 30mins before he came back inside. Me i didn't talk. I suspected he went to do nonsense because his thing was up when he left only to come back and it has come down.

We prepared and left together that morning for work. When I got home, I called and told him off. Na small thing dey vex me. He didn't believe it. So many things on my mind that made me take that huge decision. Men are not worth my type.

Since then till date, I stopped anything relationship especially if it's not a born again and I must like him. I faced my God ever since and decided to give myself peace. I can't stand a cheating partner. Disease dey town and I don't want to end up a baby mama.

Now, with the way things are, no jobs, the few decent men can hardly fend for themselves let alone catering for a family, I just decided to let sleeping dogs lie. Make person no come enter from fry pan to fire. Some family men now are dumping their family and running away from their responsibilities leaving the women to carry all the burden. So tell me what will make marriage enticing to me again? Abi na domestic violence? Biko Biko.

Lol, I only prefer replying posts that soul searching and can help people learn life's experiences.

Your story was a deep one. Didn't make much sense to me though but ofcos one can't claim to see through your eyes as to understand the reason behind your decision.
Anyways if you can live what yourself after all your epistle and won't regret the mistakes you may or may not have made before you got to this position. Then no one has the right to question your decision.
Cheers

EBMedia:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ukN3L5p9KGo



https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cw9bG8et3_d/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Lol, this woman shouldn't use her promiscuity to evaluate other people. She should say no woman in her circle of friends and influence. That makes the case and not extend it to other people who have no knowledge of what she is talking about

XtraFortunes:
I am a Christian but this makes no sense. A church just bought the land opposite my compound. Since then they just disturb with their speakers

In the daytime one can bear, but this all night disturbing is what I really dislike. You can do your all night without blasting your speakers to disturb people..

Churches and mosques should be forced to make buildings sound proof. Or hold service without speakers .

With all this disturbance Nigeria is still terribly corrupt. We have to make laws banning this torture. It is inconsiderate

Easy ways to solve that problem. Try to be creative without committing a crime

Interesting15:
by Sunday Akanni


Kindly reflect upon the story of a guy named Fred:

"Fred was a very intelligent and talented guy in his mid-twenties. His parents were strong faithful Christians, and their faith influenced Fred greatly. His parents' faith and influence molded him into a responsible guy who ignored the pleasures of the world (fornication, wild parties, clubbing, alcoholism, etc.) but focused squarely on his future. And so, Fred was obviously on a path to greatness in life.

As at when he was in his final year at the University, he was still on a first-class and was still enjoying various sponsorships from various organizations. In fact, one of these organizations - a multinational company - already promised him a lucrative job immediately after he graduated from the University. The job was attached with lucrative packages, including an official house and an official car. Fred was the envy of everyone in his school, everyone recognized the fact that he had a very bright and glorious future ahead of him.

The problem started when Fred crossed paths with a lady called Vivian. Actually, Vivian was Fred's ex-secondary school classmate. When they were still in secondary school, Fred and Vivian were always contending for the first position each term. They were obviously the brightest students in their class, though they weren't close friends.

And so, Fred was surprised when he received a call from a strange number who later identified herself as Vivian - his former classmate back then in secondary school. She told him she was within the environs of his University and asked for his address.

Afterward, she started visiting him frequently, obviously trying hard to establish a relationship between them, even bringing him cooked food just to make him comfortable with her.

Then, on an unfortunate day, she visited his room on a cold rainy evening, putting on a revealing provocative dress that threw Fred off balance. She lured Fred into having sex with her, and that day, Fred had his first sex right there on his bed.

However, immediately after that encounter, Vivian stopped contacting or visiting him. In fact, she ignores his calls intentionally whenever he tries reaching her. Weeks later, Fred was experiencing changes in his body system. He was frequently getting sick and was losing a lot of weight, getting leaner and dry. His frequent sicknesses made him miss numerous tests and even his final exams. It was when the multinational company that had offered him automatic employment decided to treat him in their private clinic that they discovered the main problem. Fred has contracted a dread sexually transmitted virus! The news quickly spread around the school. Before Fred died a humiliating death, he was subjected to stigmatization and constant ridicule - especially from those who have always been jealous of him.

And that was how Fred, the youngster with a very bright future, thwarted his life just because of a few minutes of pleasure. Indeed, the graveyard is the richest place on earth, as it contains numerous unused potentials and talents.

What Fred never knew was that Vivian, a promiscuous lady, contracted the virus from one of her numerous sex partners. As soon as she became aware of this, she swore not to die alone but to share the virus with various other people, especially those with a promising future.

She drafted a list of those she knew were endowed with talents, intelligence, and a bright future ahead. Then she began getting closer to them one by one, luring them into sex and sharing the virus with the unsuspecting folks........

This is the unfortunate story of Fred, and I'm sure you will have drawn a lot of lessons from it. I want you to understand something. You have a bright future ahead, and you are meant to achieve and do great things in life. I'm confident of this because your Creator - God - created you gloriously.

However, the devil, who is your adversary, hates you bitterly and is bent on destroying you and your destiny. Nevertheless, you are guaranteed safety and immunity when you live your life only within the confines of God's Will by His Word.

Don't ever forget that the devil has numerous agents meant to lure you into sin and get your life ruined. That beautiful lady around you might actually have an ulterior motive towards you, while you think they are innocent. Life is not as shallow as it seems, but very deep. Let the Holy Spirit keep leading you to victory.

You really should change your approach.
This cock and bull story they used to tell teens in the past should have by now lost its effects.
Try to be a little more creative.
God bless

PythonTutorial2:
It seems USA is the one gingering Isreal to put an end to Hamas once and for all.
But even if Hamas can be destroyed (which will be very hard!), the real problem is that some other Palestinians will rise up against Isreal again, sooner or later.

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No probs, if Israel gets to put a major dent in them ability to rise again. They will probably leave Palestine once it gets to hot for them and resurface elsewhere as another group.
You know Islam is all about revenge so they will most definitely come back

dre11:
Punch newspaper


US Rejects Mideast Ceasefire Calls

The United States warned Monday that any Gaza ceasefire by Israel would benefit Hamas, as the European Union considers a call for a humanitarian pause.…



DAILY TRUST

No ceasefire! It would be counterproductive.
Use this opportunity to get rid of them once and for all

officialwdhtv:
I feel so lonely. I feel so sad- Nigerian lady residing in Canada weeps as she recounts her life after relocating

#wetindeyhappentv


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWSftpQCZO4

Crocodile tears

Cantonese:
While using Obi to make his daily income, Obi matter dey kill Omokri slowly slowly.

Omokri can also use part of the mo ey that he has been earning on social media with Obi’s name to help Mr. Ibu.

Obi will respond

Kobicove:
Is this a real incident that actually happened or one of those Twitter lies?

Twitter lies. You should know fake story when U see one

guobe:
There are some things you hear you will just be like how pathetic can this be.

You are a married woman, you are working in Immigration, you are well paid to some extent as a federal worker.

You communicated with your ex boyfriend abroad that you will be able to do his passport when he comes to Nigeria and when he eventually came you did the passport for him and insisted on reigniting old time flame by sleeping with him.

How pathetic can you be gush.

Do you have proof? If you don't have one then keep quiet.
For all you know she probably went to pray with him

OLAADEGBU:
https://www.analyzingamerica.org/2023/10/700648/?utm_source=myc

This won't deter Israel but rather harden them. Hamas bite more than it can chew on this one

HonNL:
SOURCE


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vc-BriedNsQ

I told people that this was one mistake Hamas was going to be allowed to make once, then Israel would be forced to annex Gaza. They were telling me rubbish. It's happening Infront of our eyes now

cl0r0x:
As Israeli dead reach 300



https://www.rt.com/news/584288-israel-strikes-alleged-hamas-command-sites-in-gaza-mosques/

I told them that this attack on Israel was a mistake. No negotiations, Israel would hit back hard and fast. This would probably be there excuse to annex Gaza once and for all

Truths9ja:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/10/igbo-migrated-from-ife-ooni/amp/

Taaa, Igbos came from Iri which was there before Ife.

motayoayinde:
THINGS WILL BE DIFFERENT THIS TIME AROUND INSHA ALLAH.

Yep the same God that Israel serves right. Hamas is not ready for this war but Israel is.
Watch the part two

Truthday:
Israel is doing down

Actually Hamas is going to be annihilated after this. History has shown how Israel takes care of these kind of things. Complete destruction of the enemy.
Israel has been preparing for this for ages, the attack may have been surprised but the initiative never left Israel. Their counter would be bloody for every lives they have lost so far

Artiiclebeast:
My initial comment was silly to the extent that your brain could function.

You don't know, don't wanna know, and will never know....

Yenyenyenyen...

Most of you missed it when you traveled and it is understandable to see you guys confused or kinda envious that other people could find it easier than you did with the right information without your nonsense fixation about "skilling up" to be able to earn a living.

Stop the quoting and move on, please.

You got nothing to teach me. I'll encourage anyone that wants to seek a better life to make the move armed with the necessary information and knowledge on how things work to be able to survive.

No one ever told anyone it was going to be easy but it is not always gloomy and impossible...scratch that...

Lol, you are funny but still talking shit.
Let me give you some free advice and schooling.
You can't be across the fence and know what's happening on the other side.
Many people that already experienced the other side have seen both worlds and should usually be able to advise better.
Problem is Nigerians are their worse enemy and never give other Nigerians honest informed advice.
Most of us that travelled earlier saw hell, probably why they give biased advice based on those experiences.
I myself don't give advice cos I know things have changed,...for good or worse, I can't say.
I though encourage everyone to try their luck but do draw the line on crossing illegally.
Schools ends here....
Cheers

Artiiclebeast:
This is as far as your knowledge can take you.

If you don't know, you simply don't know and ignorance becomes bliss.

Looking for a rejoinder, after making a very silly comment. Good for you and good luck with that.
If you want insults I can give you that.
But if it's serious discussion on the issue in question, we can also do so without insults. Though that doesn't exonerate the fact that your initial comment was very silly. I am just saying.
Cheers

Artiiclebeast:
You are calling a closet enemy a friend?

I pity you, bro.

He gets a hard-on from reading about and knowing that he's doing better than you economically and material-wise and all the respect and worship you've been according to him will become a thing of the past.

Most of them hate competition and always revel in the reality of being the ones at the center of all attention.

Even if you are 50 and able to move to the U.S., get serious, work legitimately for the next 5-7 years, and call it a wrap, you will have successfully settled your downlines and created a wonderful retirement plan for yourself with proper planning.

Move, if you can, and with the right plans and connect.

It is good to skill up, but if you ain't got it, you ain't got it and it isn't the beginning and end of life.

There are a ton of zero-skilled jobs where you can make the equivalent of what you currently earn in a month in Nigeria in just a single day..yeah, you heard me right, in a dayyyyy.

Very stupid comment here