Car Talk › Re: 10 Cars That Can Easily Take You Above 320,000 Kilometers - Consumer Reports by DrObum(m): 7:09am On Mar 25, 2018 |
If there is no Peugeot 406, Opel Vectra and Golf 2 and 3 in that list, just take it down. |
Education › Re: University Of Ibadan Plans To Increase Clinical Students Fees by DrObum(m): 7:03am On Mar 25, 2018 |
Quiet unfortunate for the average Nigerian.
Would there also be an improvement in facilities and learning |
Politics › Re: Police To Declare Dino Melaye Wanted If He Fails To Appear In Court by DrObum(m): 10:23pm On Mar 24, 2018 |
Wetin una still dey wait for to arrest him |
Crime › Re: 10 Nigerian Yahoo Boys Arrested In Ghana (Photo) by DrObum(m): 4:38pm On Mar 24, 2018 |
Na their age be my own concern oooo!
Wahala dey for our generation oooo |
Romance › Re: How Do I Stop My Next Door Neighbor Male From Visiting My Room by DrObum(m): 9:44pm On Mar 23, 2018 |
Help Nairaland
Na we give am your number
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Travel › Re: Nigerian Air Force Plane Crashes In Kaduna State (Photos) by DrObum(m): 7:03pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
dukeprince50 : no be by force to comment, read ur comment again, so as learned as u are, u think an automobile crashes only when you see fire? NA u we suppose send go daura, not pmbUnderstand sarcasm  Or just built rude  Pick a struggle bruh |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Air Force Plane Crashes In Kaduna State (Photos) by DrObum(m): 9:25pm On Mar 19, 2018 |
It didn't crash, it only fell from the sky. -Defence HQtrs |
Politics › Re: Dino Melaye Reacts To Withdrawal Of Policemen Attached To Vips by DrObum(m): 6:02pm On Mar 19, 2018 |
So, make all man begin carry police escort because they pay tax be that nah.
Make them share reach all civil and public servants and all tax payers ooo Foolish SINator |
Celebrities › Re: EXPOSED) Wizkid Has A Shrine In His House (photos) by DrObum(m): 11:44am On Mar 17, 2018 |
So, what's wrong with having a shrine at home
Some folks have chapels at home but you don't have issues with that. The white man has fooled you into thinking that African traditional religion is necessarily evil. |
Politics › Re: Senator Ali Wakili Is Dead! by DrObum(m): 11:40am On Mar 17, 2018 |
Nigerian politicians
Burn burn burn MF! |
Politics › Re: Owerri Is Currently A Construction Site by DrObum(m): 5:17pm On Mar 11, 2018 |
Na one road you snap come dey shout for here. Them dey worry you  |
Family › Re: Man Abandons His Young Wife And Kids, Moves In With Another Lady. Photos by DrObum(m): 9:24am On Mar 11, 2018 |
Amarabae: All those saying that the wife may have made the house uncomfortable for him are very stupid. Weak ass men are becoming many dis days. I have said it before and I am saying it again, No woman born of a woman can snatch my husband from me, I will eliminate the husband snatching idiot spiritually from the face of the earth. That thing wey you think say you sabi, no be only you sabi am ooooo. Na still person carry you go there, na still person tell you about the place. If you know, you know! |
Career › Re: IPPIS Reduces Police February Salary By Over 15% Nationwide by DrObum(m): 10:59pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
schoolmaster: There have been a serious uproar among the ranks and file, officers and civilian staff working with d Nigeria police force as February salary has been grossly debited with huge deduction by IPPIS in d name of Fed govt new tax policy.
Yes huge disaster because of d fact dat people are already complaining dat salaries are no longer enough in dis (Buhari) regime and require upward review, but all they could get is huge deduction is dis fare APC. imagine deductions as high as 10k, 20k & even >30k, how can we survive dis? please affected personal share ur experience, mine was 23k. what do we do? Also is dis new tax policy also affecting other civil and public servants? Una own just start, ours have been since January 2017 |
Romance › Re: My Twin Brother Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation. Help! by DrObum(m): 10:50pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
Nairalandtwins: Hello Nairalanders. Pls pardon typos and blunders incase of any because I am grossly angry right now.
My twin brother has been addicted to pornography and masturbation for some years now, although I started it since 2006 and stopped in 2016 since I noticed the terrible negative effects on every aspect of my life. All efforts to make him stop proved abortive.
In 2016 he had psychological issues and was admitted in the hospital for a month and he was fine and back to his normal self. At the hospital I read an article here on Nairaland that masturbation can cause brain issues then it dawned on me that that was the cause for his illness but I didn't disclose it to the doctor and my parents...
He promised and swore to me to never to masturbate again. I've been watching him closely and studying him and I am still noticing signs, he probably has stopped masturbating but he still watches porn which also has negative effects on his brain....
Fast forward to what happened this evening. Before I tell you what happened lemme tell you this too. He doesn't have any vision, no plans, no idea, he just sits at home and wait for his twin bro to bring money home or call mom and dad to help him with cash all these things irritates me so bad. Funnily enough he always talk about having a girlfriend, he tells me being single doesn't make sense and I react and tell him, which lady will stay with you when you have no vision and plans for yourself let alone for her..
Back to the matter, this evening I returned back home from hustle with some good profit... I can't remember when last I made such money in a day since this government took over... So I transferred 5k out of the money to his account to help me withdraw from the bank and pay some debts. After spending hours out there I decided to call him and he says "bro I went to see my babe" 30 mins later he calls back
Him: Hello bro, something happened o
Me: what happened
Him: I bought drinks 2k for me and my babe
Me: what the heck? My sweat? I'm very infuriated
Him: pls bro I am sorry bro pls..
Me: *calms down* I have heard you
Him: bro can I go and chill again and relax with another 2k
Me: I give up do whatever you like... *ends call*
How can I help him pls
Mods pls move this to the front page so people can see the negative effects of masturbation and porn and I also need help for him. Thank you Masturbation has not caused any damage to anyone's brains. Forget those bloggers, no reputable study has proved anything. However, some mental illness can cause increased libido and that's why you could have noted the addiction to masturbation as he probably needs an outlet to channel the increased libido. If I may ask, after his prior breakdown, has he continued to see a psychiatrist and continued his treatment? Many of the mental illnesses are managed for a long time and would require regular follow up care and adherence to medications. His current behaviour, both the sexual and the lack of motivation are typical symptoms of some mental illnesses and not because he consciously chose to be that way. So, my advice is, take him to a psychiatrist. |
Education › Re: Science, Maths Teaching In Indigenous Languages To Begin Soon –FG by DrObum(m): 12:38pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
No be indigenious language those teachers dey use teach everything including english language  So, how's this news? |
Education › Re: Science, Maths Teaching In Indigenous Languages To Begin Soon –FG by DrObum(m): 12:37pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
How's this news  |
Politics › Re: Aliyu Akwe-Doma Is Dead by DrObum(m): 11:12pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
You all know what I wish Nigerian politicians, don't you
Burn! Burn! MF! |
Politics › Re: 7 APC Governors Who May Lose Re-election In 2019 by DrObum(m): 11:09pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
EnglishPolice: When starting a new sentence always start with a capital letter. More so, it is Benue not benue. Thank me latter 'Later' bro |
Politics › Re: Burial Poster Of Soldier Killed By Boko Haram In Borno (Photos) by DrObum(m): 8:08pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
RIP Gallant! |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Lizzy Johnson Suleman's Shopping Mall, Petrol Station Birthday Gift From Apostle by DrObum(m): 8:11pm On Feb 26, 2018 |
Subsidizes the school from his own pocket indeed!
What's his source of wealth to subsidize fees
He should just admit that offering money subsidizes the fees |
Politics › Re: Senator Dino Melaye Builds Gada Bridge In Kogi West Constituency (Photos) by DrObum(m): 1:15pm On Feb 26, 2018 |
This one na gutter nah |
Culture › Re: Alaafin Of Oyo Welcomes Twins (photos) by DrObum(m): 1:21am On Feb 25, 2018 |
Hahahahahahahaha! Olori wehdone oooo!
If you know, you know jooor |
Politics › Re: El-rufai Sues Shehu Sani For Defamation For N2 Billion by DrObum(m): 10:45am On Feb 24, 2018 |
Make una kill unaselves!
Ndi ara!!! |
Politics › Re: Accident Involving Kabiru Ishaq Sa'id, #IStandWithBuhari Campaign Executive by DrObum(m): 8:42pm On Feb 20, 2018 |
God don give am warning, make him kwontinuuuu! |
Politics › Re: 2019: Don't Listen To "Empty Barrel Elite" - Lamido Tells Buhari by DrObum(m): 8:37pm On Feb 20, 2018 |
How can no one be blamed for the abandoned water projects
Is he already tired of blaming Jonathan?A |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Dele Taiwo And Doyin His Wife Welcome Their First Child (Photos) by DrObum(m): 1:48pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
GGirll: Biologically girls usually take the genes of their father's n d boys takes that of their mothers in this case only God, food n prayers can work it out cos science is flawed with d things of the spirit. Happy Sunday peeps. Your assertion about biological inheritance is flawed. You may need to re-visit your mendelian texts to understand better before people here learn the wrong stuff from you. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Dele Taiwo And Doyin His Wife Welcome Their First Child (Photos) by DrObum(m): 1:45pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: There’s No Job Better Than Police – AIG Reveals Why by DrObum(m): 10:24am On Feb 09, 2018 |
Of course, there is no job like police work nah.
50 naira from every motorist na beans |
Romance › Re: Do Nigerian Girls Still Accept Flowers As Valentine Gift? by DrObum(m): 9:01pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
Chikita66 : No, I don't accept grass  .But you carry grass for head for pinshure  |
Education › Re: These Psychology Tricks Will Hack Anyone's Brain by DrObum(m): 7:13pm On Feb 07, 2018 |
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