Richpet85: Please do not mind my english consider any error as typo but I honestly needed a sincere advice.
My marriage will be 8 years by September 2022. The journey of marriage has not been rosy and sometime I feel I made a very huge mistake by marrying my wife. I met her in April that year, we date for 6 months and we finally got married Sept same year. Prior before we got married I took her to meet with my siblings since my both parents were late specially our 2nd daughter who her husband sponsored my secondary education. She was cool with my family and never raised any concern during this period of courtship.
Suddenly a night of our wedding everything changed. That same woman that took care of my family as hers turned into directly opposite of who she used to be. To cut the story short, she started dispising my family and the thought of their sight irritates her.
She started by complaining about my sister's son living with me before we got married, her mum and other of my siblings to the point that anytime my eldest sister visited she will leave my house with tears.
My wife also ensure she send all my siblings and relations away from me and my house no go area for them. But what confuses me was that she doesn't behave in a similar manner whenever her own siblings or her mum visits our home. Her behaviour towards my family has destroyed the joy we once had as siblings. The marriage has produced 3 kids of which my last child is less than a month old. Anytime she put to bed her mother has always been the one coming for OMUGOO. None of my siblings can come to my house because of her attitude towards them.
I can't tolerate it further am dying silently as am typing this msg her mum, her immediate junior Sister are in my house and every where is very peaceful. If they were my mum or sibling my house would have been burning by now.
I made conscious effort to kill and ignore this feeling but anytime I see her mum and sister. I feel very depressed in my own house. There are other ill behaviour she have which I can tolerate but seeing myself separated from my siblings because of my wife is my greatest Marital night mare.
I am sincerely fade up with her but my kids are my greatest weakness. The thought of leaving my house and go far away from her or rather travel abroad and leave there permanently has recently overcrowded my mind. But I can't stop thinking about my kids, their future and what they will turn into if she is to raise them alone.
Don't forget I have provided her with everything needed to be comfortable in marriage, house, cars, business etc mostly importanly I am not cheating on her, I don't smoke, I don't keep late night and I don't have friends because she has sent everybody close to me away from my life.
I need a mature advice and no insult please.
I am emotionally trumatised and feel so depressed.
You are a disgrace to menfolks.. You are a very big disgrace to menfolks... Spits
There are ladies that don't keep female friends, their friends are males and they don't fvck them. They know where to draw the line. Contrary to what romance section will make you believe, some women are faithful to the core.
You are so naive... Nigerian girls will chew you up and spit you out.
Mylife89: I and my gf started a new relationship and it's been going well, two weeks ago which was her birthday, we both came to lagos to spend quality time and have fun for two weeks.
while on the vacation, I checked her phone and noticed there was a guy who wished her happy birthday and told her he had a gift for her, she responded and deleted the message
The next day I checked her phone, I didn't see the chat with the guy and I was sure my eyes saw an unread message the previous day.
Four days ago she told me she wants to go she a female.friend, when I confronted her she then mentioned that she wants to go pick up the gift from her male friend, the same guy that she earlier told me about that he is just a friend.
I'm sad cos with all the love I'm beginning to show towards her she isn't satisfied but thinking about another guys gift and attention.
We both quarreled over the issue and I made it clear that if she ever goes to see the guy and I find out it will be the end of our relationship.
Women are truly strange.
Just continue enjoying her until you get tired.. Then leave
walkbrazil4k: I was listening to a song and it hit me, African leaders are just wicked and heartless and I mean I am in the hospitality business so traveling and politics would always mix because the industry depends on politicians and the decisions they make, so I must always talk about politics, but I am smart enough to know that all politicians are the same, I certainly can't die for any politician I can only die for the flag, so I won't take any side all I want is good governance, cheap gas, free education, free health, as long as you can provide that I have no problem with you.
The government of Brazil changed the image of the favelas and they pumped in money to make the place where tourists can visit and that was a smart move.
Don't you know people in the hospitality business always lobby the government because they make money from tourism?
Africans are now endangered species outside the shores of Africa because of bad leaders, people are leaving Africa in droves, the Mediterranean swallowed many and the Darien gap jungle did the same thing.
The worse part is that the western countries are a part of the problem especially America and France, the brits really don't have any strong influence if America wants something the brits would fall in line, western leaders support corrupt African leaders.
African leaders please steal but use that stolen money to build infrastructure and build manufacturing companies, don't take that money abroad because you are making the western countries richer, make Africa great again so that the Mediterranean and the Darien gap jungle would no longer swallow our people.
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