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Flexie: I received a text message from my girlfriend this morning saying dat:
Nofin is gonna stop my love for you , wat ever it may be, i promise neva to hurt you again, buh pls dont ask me wt i av done, jez knw dah i love you and will always do u mean everything to me . tk care!.
she traveled to enugu state for her friends Matriculation though i dint support it buh i had no choice dan to let her go. and now dis morning i receive dis text""shes a virgin o"" PLEASE PEOPLE WHAT DO I DO NOW AND FAST PLEASE

Since you claimed ur gf was a virgin,the meaning of message you received is that your girlfriend has been disvirgin by someone over there in Enugu. She was jst indirectly telln you,so that when you discover d truth,she could easily remind you.

The only thing that could make her open up is for you to demand for sex when she come back and see her reaction. If she actually does it, two things may involved,either she open up to you or put end to d relationshp. Wakup man this's 21st century,don't let any girl fool u with virgin palaver.

Flexie: I received a text message from my girlfriend this morning saying dat:
Nofin is gonna stop my love for you , wat ever it may be, i promise neva to hurt you again, buh pls dont ask me wt i av done, jez knw dah i love you and will always do u mean everything to me . tk care!.
she traveled to enugu state for her friends Matriculation though i dint support it buh i had no choice dan to let her go. and now dis morning i receive dis text""shes a virgin o"" PLEASE PEOPLE WHAT DO I DO NOW AND FAST PLEASE

Since you claimed ur gf was a virgin,the meaning of message you received is that your girlfriend has been disvirgin by someone over there in Enugu. She was jst indirectly telln you,so that when you discover d truth,she could easily remind you.

The only thing that could make her open up is for you to demand for sex when she come back and see her reaction. If she actually does it, two things may involved,either she open up to you or put end to d relationshp. Wakup man this's 21st century,don't let any girl fool u with virgin palaver.

Man,all that you lack is confident to approach them and probably the fear of being rejected/insulted. You must belief that ladies are human being like you and there's notn special about them. Secondly,try to be ursef and stop worry abt havn gf at least for now,dress well,always smile,look smart and improve ur swag.

And most important,check d kind of people you normally accompany with. Are they all slow/introvert or dull? If yes,man this is time for you to associate with people you feel would help overcome ur shynessless.

Except celebrities,i usually went for anything I admire. This is because a failure to do so might lead to depression.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]LOL @ perfectly working.[/quote]You cannot understand,do you think its easy to sell a used cars this days especially if needs money? I swear, my friend bought a very clean perfectly working 5month old used Honda(babyboy) with just 400k. The same car i bought 1.050 last year December.

Buy a car that worth 5m today and see if you get a buyers that will offer more than 3m in the next 5months. And if you seriously needs money at that particular time,you may not have a choice but sell it.

Infact this forum called Nairaland at time is not a place to seek for advise. I'm not suprise because we have many kids here who are not ordinarily suppose to contribute to a discussion like this.

@op, that 150k is enough for you buy a perfectly working second hand car for taxi. Just go to any realiable mechanic/dealer you know, am very sure you will get a good car suitable for taxi. For instance, i sold one perfectly working mazda323 for just 90k last year november.

Billyonaire: Boko Haram has to be declared a terrorist organization and their sponsors be alerted its a crime against humanity. Thats all I need the USA to do. Then we can take it from there.

Are you silly or something? So, if USA declared Boko Haram as terrorist organization, the problem would solved. Exhibit your IQ and wise up please.

ebamma: what are u smoking man?its not good for your health

The man is simply telling us the hiding fact about solution to Nigeria problem. Whether we like it or not, Nigeria is still going to spit into 4 or more different countries in the nearest future.

Please, can you give us example of a country that's comprises of over 250 ethnic groups and still develop?

rapmike: some are young boys while some are probably in their late twenties and are not ready 4 marriage

Late twenties(20's) means almost 30yrs of age. Therefore,a male of this age can be refers to as a man.

You can see now that every male regardless of age think about sex at one point in time. Ages has noting to do with our priority over sex, and that is why you see people in their 50's still wanted to marry.

Yomieluv: northern,western,or eastern Nigeria,we are all but one suffering from the neglect of yestayears by the so called looters

Who tells you we are one? Is it because we are in the same Wrong entity called Nigeria. Nigeria will know her future coming 2015, Aboki for president or disintegration.

Yomieluv: Lol,i cant help but laff at things happening in nigeria in 2012..we are indeed giant of Africa!

please stop pointing at Nigeria as whole,northern Nigeria is zero in term of civilization. This's rarely happen in other regions.

rapmike: i have seen guys talk or boast about gal they have had sex with, like the playboys and all that, and i noticed that most of them really dont want to think of a future with the gals,which due to my nature, i find it disappointing and a waste of time..though as u say, especially in this modern time, sex is ranked as important, but i dont see it like dat, and the way some guys have being talking about gurls is wat made me to say that..besides i notice things quite well at times

Fine,those guys you were talking about,are they all young boys?

rapmike: i agree that the instinct is strong..i have experienced it. but then some guys just talk of se as if its the only thing they can find in a woman...dat why i mentioned the difference between boys and men..men think far more than that(like the poster was trying to imply) while boys think of[b]ONLY SEX, SEX AND SEX[/b]

Yes you're right, sex might not be the only thing men want in women but serves a basis for every successful marriage.

The last three lines of your comment is what i will never ever agree with. Beside, what make you belief that boys always think about sex, or are you a boy talking from experience? For you to insisted boys always thought about sex or men think beyond it, you must have some reasons/hiding facts. Can you please expatiate your point,so that we learn.

rapmike: SOME GUYS DONT KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BTW BEING A BOY AND A MAN. A BOY ONLY THINKS OF SEX AND P***y AND PUNNY AS IF THEY ARE TOYS , WHILE MEN THINK OF THE FUTURE AND THINK BEYOND WAT THEY SEE

That is not true my friend,every male irrespective of age think about sex at one point in time. If you say men think beyond what they see in the women,then why did some men rape in the first place? Why did some men impregnate their house maid,sister in-law or even their blood relatives?

Sexual instinct in men are so strong that they can go extral mile to satisfy their intimacy desire. Infact sex seems to be the desired of man after food. To prove me wrong,let your intimacy organ stop working and see whether life will be meaningful to you or not.

@op, you are really on point, for you to become a man, you needed all those qualities.

born2fuck: I pray he does, population to much to stop the silly people.
Just do me a favor, the candle night important to me and 8 days rememberance should his family decide to do bean cake so I can carry ijebu garri along, call me or announce here

You are here again spewing rubbish. @op,if the reasons you stated above were actually genuine,then i will like to say that your boy friend is simply a fool. You've already made a good decision by letting him be,so that he can progress in life.

If at all you'll go back to him,please dont do so because of his promise to comit a suicide. He's simple a fool with no focus in life.

[quote author=Mynd_44]What can you do about this OP? The girl is not under aged, not complaining and from the looks of it, you can't replace her "uncle" when it comes to her bills[/quote]@op,i think this's the most intelligent answer to ur post. Since u cannot replace her uncle when it comes to financial aspect, no amount of advises from u wi b relevant to her. Beside she's not underage, definitely she knew what she was doing is wrong but due to the fact that this so called uncle was the only person to pay for her bills, the only option left for her is either to stay or leave.

Pls dont mind those says you should open up to her mother,if you mistakingly do such a thing, you will regret till the rest of your life. If you cant help her financially,why not run for your life.

robinhoodd2: OP u r being biased. what happened to MOSQUE? add d missing link

den no dey meet partner for Mosque. Men and women ar usually separated in d Mosque,so na pray and go den dey do.

acidtalk: Oya na who do the following?

Burgar
Pizza
Shawama
Fries
Whisky
Vodka
Brandy
Buns
Kulikuli
Ofio
Donkwa
Eyin alangba
Noodles
Wine
Barbeque
Roasted yam and ground nut
Cocaine



$50,000 (Zimbabwean) for the person that can get every single one correct.

Burgar - Burgaria
Pizza - Italy
Shawana - India
Fries - France
Whisky - Germany/Dutch
Vodka - Russia
Brandy - Dutch
Buns - America
Kulikuli - Hausa
Ofio -
Donkwa - Hausa
Eyin Alangba - Yoruba
Wine - Greece
Burbeque - America
Roaster Yam&Groudnut- Yoruba
Cocaine- Spain

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]ewa agboyin - yoruba[/quote]hmmm, omo odo agba.

* The consequence of kleptocracy.
* Elites and the state.
* The journing must end.

born2fuck: " ant wey no dey hear words go follow deady body enter grave"I hope say I no go regret my entire life for future becos person wey okada man hit, wey stand up by himself and laugh say nothing do am and he hold hand, make una no follow im laughter, na inside im body he know say imself get injury and pain, Na so my case bi.

I bi pikin wey sabbi book before ex-girlfriend palava enter im life,love wa tin tin nearly kill me remain small but Baba God no gree,I bi holy holy before! becos of this babe wickedness,I turn devil by force

I bi date the babe for 3 yrs, 2004-2007,na suffering and smiling bi di 3 yrs relationship. na so so money I dey dropped to her like person wey dey do contributors with alajo but no returns ,
if money no dey,na wahala day. Small broke come happened and money no gree come easily, the babe wey love me turn to my enemy. She say," she no wan si mi for her life again if I not fit take care of her, the result of my father christmas for 3 yrs land in vain, I land inside room over night begin cried quietly make mama no hear. Later I begin drink shayo with help of friends,where I graduate to iya alaje side begin take sepe join my beer and I bi dey take ciggar coole body join too and begins do ashewo tins,na there I sabbi 406,dragonaire,ipodo come graduate to page,pekers,sandra bars,jollyfriend make I no talk all names of them finish,all because I wan force myself forget dis babe patata patata, even a time, my brain go begin sing jingo funmi!jingo funmi!!her name nearly turn me to mad man,I go try wan call her beg but I stayed strong and take shayo killed thinking because I don beg many many times tire already. Everytin between me and dis babe finally end january 2007 which make me vexfully collect school form as new challenge

Extrance exam waka come and go,time waka join,I passed enter school by force becos of say I lose babe make me remember school again.
september 2007,I found new babe in school,God must be wonderful here becos I don think say I no fit see babe again for life when ex girlfriend dey wave me goodbye,a new babe come happen in just short term,small time go and come again, I begin bring the new girl for my area do yanga because she yellow like pawpaw! When news break inside my ex girlfriend ear say I don hammer new babe, na so she begin send text begs me!she flashed till she forced me break my sim card buy another one! She even come my house do begging!I no gree hear her anymore because her fry pan to fire don turn grass to grace for my life

As sadness go!happiness follow, dis new babe no dey ask money at all,instead make account full again , Na baba ijebu palava enter my life again O in 2010,cigar wey I dey smoke because of ex girlfriend stop,ashewo no gree stop but reduce badly while drink limit.

My new girlfriend bi dey warned me now make I no dey play lotto again as she caught me with lotto paper but ever since I don chop #24,000 with just #100, Na wire I dey wire #1000,#2000 on top daily or 2 to 3 weekly if broke small, I wire so tay run my bank account finish again the second time. I even joined site for facebook group"Baba Ijebu pay me my dough"maybe that group member go helep me collect lost money back, I played their number, I no gree chop, later ashewo reduce patapata for my life and no even fit drinks bear again like before but my mind no commot for lotto until I land inside hot water on saturday national,when I wan finalise lotto ,I lost #8000 to national with annoyance say I must chop all my money back by force,not even a single leg commot from all their bankers, result don land..Na total lost, my girlfriend bi dey warn me but I no dey gree hear words,I go hide paper her.I go use style play lotto and put paper for inner pocket,the amount wey I don lost entirely inside the lotto past #200,000 and I never chop reach #30,000. I should have stopped this tins but greedyness to double my 2400 times bi day kill me, because dem say if I stake 1000 # for 2 sure, na #240,000 bi dat, even me self don chop #24,000 with just #100 but na only once, one day I go chop na im I dey always think not knowing I am killing myself . why bad things full my blood.. Na me go bleeped ashewo, na me go drink , na only me don smoke for my family, Now Baba ijebu don kill me again after ex girlfriend palava but dis my new babe since 2007 still dey till I dey type..I hope say I no go lose the babe for my mess up,which kind life I dey self. Na im I dey think while writing dis to people, I bi don share my story many times but annoyance of yesterday lotto final make me type this to people, abi da devil dey push me self,I know no.even if I regret typing dis tommorow,- will never stop saying truth about me.believe me or not but pray for me on sunday for church tommorow and if you read this after church,pray for my life O

your own don finish, u dont kno sey na course be dat. Beta go to cele or alfa now,make dem comot d tin b4 it too later.

logicboy01: 1) the question has been answered

2) you werent the one that asked the question in the 1st place.

Answered by who? You or who? Firstly, i dont see you as a strong atheist,secondly you dont normally contributed to atheist thread,or are you one of them using new id? I recognised logicboy not logicboy01.

Since the question is directed to atheists,i expect the like of 'Logic mind,kay17,martian and other stronger atheists to share their view.

I'm still expecting those stronger atheists to respond to this question.

D sage: I thought 'Logic Mind' was an atheist,now i know he belief in God.

SOUL =internal drive,influence our actions(body).

SPIRIT = external drive,influence our thought(insight).

Logic Mind: Buzugee is wrong as usual.
There is a huge difference.
Spirit is everywhere. There are good and evil spirits, there is a holy spirit, an amadioha spirit, etc. No soul equvalents. Ever heard of the Holy Soul?.
Spirits can exist on their own and interact with the living. It is your virtual self. Souls live inside people and record everything for judgement.

Put is this way: the soul is the internal hard drive god put in you to record all your actions. When you die, this data is transfered to the mobile external drive called spirit. It is the spirit that wanders the earth as ghosts. It is the spirit that will stand judgement based on its data. And it is the spirit that will enjoy heaven or endure hell.
The bible made clear that souls die. Spirits never die.
Ezekiel 18:20, "The soul that sinneth, it shall die."

I thought 'Logic Mind' was an atheist,now i know he belief in God.

thehomer: Who are these atheists? Or are you also joining the religious in creating straw-men?

Who told you,he's an atheist?

Unlike you,the guy is now receiving/experiences inspiration of God.