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Righteousness2:
From the Scriptures which is our Guide, what is Permitted by GOD Almighty the institutor of Marriage is one man one wife.
See Matthew 19:4-9.
Your rightful wife is the first woman you Legally got married to. Every other woman is a Husband snatcher , Home breaker, Home Shatterer and Adulterer.

As long as the First woman you got married to is alive, she is your wife.
Now that you are Saved, you have to call them together, Probably with their parents or family representatives. You let them know that based on your Repentance and belief in God's word, you want to make things right.

You settle 2nd , 3rd, 4th and so on. You send them to their home of their Parents. The kids are your kids so they remain under your care.

The first woman you married is your wife.

Pleasing GOD is the most important thing to do in all our decisions if Making Heaven means anything to you

The offence has already been fully accomplished and it can not be restored!

By what means shall he pay for the damages sustained for deprivation of marriage, loss of marriageable quality, depreciation, loss of time, placing upon them the burden of Shame for Rejection, Shame for lowering of her souls worth, Shame from scorn and ridicule, etc.all these spanning all the years of their lives:

And this is just the list of offences against him from the wives alone I have not added those, of the children, her relations, neighbours, her True Male, (his own case worsens his charges), suitors etc

$200 Billion would still not cover all his damages and of course he does not have $200 Billion to begin to upset all those offences!

Princewell2012:
Hmm this is deep. God bless you.


so the right answer is to keep the three of them?.

I will meditate on these. Thanks.

The Right answer indeed is that you should keep the 3 of them and Do the Good that you can do to them all, while asking The Lord for the Forgiveness of Sin.

Grabezz:
How come the white men brought religion to us

They took all that they sold everywhere they could go and went.

Grabezz:
How come the white already know Christ while we are yet practicing idolatry??

Israel was in accordance with God's Word overtaken by Rome who ruled Europe and thus, the Gospel was first preached there.

Grabezz:
Biblically does it mean no Nigerian left Egypt with the children of israel

Children of Israel is the same former 12 Children of Jacob.

Grabezz:
Why are the whites always in front of everything (development, exposure etc) for a long time before it eventually gets down here

Because they are the children of violence, disobedience and rebellion proper Children of Satan and if they do not destroy the Righteous man, when the Righteous man sees that they are indeed evil, they shall be destroyed with the Support of God.

But they knew if they pretended that they were righteous, they could overtake the righteous man and escape with their evil ways. And It is Only Good and Very Very Patient God Who can Stop them.

Which they have successfully done today, which is why the whole world is now waiting for The Day of The Lord!

Kobojunkiee:
You, in transmitting this to others as if right, also commit sin against God in your ignorance

You Always Do This and I warned you severally such that you keep malice with me.

Have seen how it is and how it feels, now that you are complaining that someone else has done what you do?

Princewell2012:
Yes I willfully married them, but now that I have realised I did it in ignorance, should I still maintain my position that I have realized that I should or supposed to be with one wife ?

Ignorance (I know, but I refused to listen) is not lack of knowledge (I did not know at all and could not reasonable know about it)

Ignorance is not a D'Fence but Lack of reasonable knowledge is a D'Fence!

Therefore if it is Truly ignorance, you have already finished committing the offence and it is irreparable, therefore, Mercy is what you are playing for, and you do not want to increase your offences.

But if it is lack of knowledge, then no offence is committed. But you will be committing an offence in putting them away, to wit Covenant Breaker!

So either way, you are going to have to maintain your wives

Princewell2012:
Am actually here to learn, no be fight. So in your opinion I should keep the three of them even as a Christian? Is the Bible in support of it? am going to meditate on these. Thanks for your input.

I am not Fighting at all, I am just going about it in a Matter of Fact way.

"Consent is The Law"! You willfully took them up and made promises to them (Contract), they have altered their Status and become liable because of the marriage eg Death from Adultery! Therefore, you bound them and they are bound to you, thus, you can not put any of them away without a reasonable good cause.

Case in point Jacob, David and the Silence, not Absence of The Law Forbidding more than one wife!

You have already broken the first Law (He made them male and female) but you need not continue breaking more Laws eg Promise/Covenant/Contract Breakers,of which the Mercy and Grace of God is that we should STOP BREAKING LAWS, For We Have Broken Them In Our Times Past, but it must not continue.

SO I CLEARLY SAY, DO NOT PUT THEM AWAY!

Princewell2012:
So what you are saying in essence is that I should keep the three of them?

You wilfully made them your wives, they have become your burden and your responsibility!

livingchrist:
If your wives have children for you, you don't need to send them away empty handed.
I believe your first wife is your legal wife, keep her but you can also take care of your other wives and children.

All of them are legal wives!

Princewell2012:
Somebody should help out please, it is urgent.

Do No Wrong is the way of The Lord, So you can not send any of them Away without Reasonable Good Course!

You Promised to take care of them and do them good, so You Must keep your promise to the best of your ability!

Jokers! It shall not be better Until the Day of The Lord!

Tcwork:
Many things can make one die young. Is it a sin to drink coke? Coke is full of unhealthy sugars?

As long as thou doth not kill thine own self!

ictplotter:
So the 2nd samuel which state that Elhanan killed Goliath is false?

This is a different Goliath at a different battle. HERE DAVID IS KING not Saul!

In Samuel, David was a Shepherd!

Why no KjV in your proof of evidence? Anyway not required!

ejimatic:
. I just read now somebody said I called for a legal action against a dead person .That is the person s interpretation which did not originate from my submission.What I said here is that the woman should approach the court for the dissolution of the marriage.If the marriage is not dissolved the First Man is the husband legally even if he comes ten years after.The second man is just gambling in his union with the woman. Granted,It is painful and emotional especially when there are children in the second marriage Playing safe in a marriage matter is non negotiable.

Try it, go to court and lay this case, see if you would not be going Straight to Prison for being a Fake Lawyer!

detectivejones:
I expected some bible quotes to back this up

As real as "when a thief is discovered, he is ashamed or he that goeth in to his neighbour's wife. (hell)

When righteousness delivereth from death or when the blessings of the Lord is truly received and there is no sorrow in it! (Heaven) All taken from Proverbs!

kuuljay:
even water kills if you take it too much,it's called drowning

True, "Thou shalt not kill, even thine own self"!

Hiswordxray:
It's a question, not a declaration.

I know but it is a question only asked by either the uninformed or the Hater of God.

It can not be initiated or Commenced by a Lover of God we rather answer it!

ejimatic:
. A statutory marriage can only be dissolved in a. high court while a traditional marriage can only be dissolved in a Magistrate Court or customary court.... As for the divorce case I referred to it happened to somebody I know so well that I was even afraid when I saw it.AMqny things take in the application of the Nigerian jurisprudence. Additionally I am not here to win an argument but to explain what applies in the case study under consideration.Issues are presented in court with argument for or against .The court will decide based on the available evidence.

Now You are being Fraudulent! Changing ONLY the Errors, which I Willfully Pointed Out, Leaving many other Fatal Flaws.

And now, rather than stop digging, you sink yourself into more shame in Being Publicly called A Fake Lawyer!

NO GENUINE LAWYER CAN EVER EVER MAKE THOSE MISTAKES!

THE WORD IS "NEVER"! IT IS IMPOSSIBLE!

Even in the above post, your failure continues to shine like a flood light in the bush at night!

Nobility is Another Core Of Being A Lawyer and this is not Noble at all

Hiswordxray:
Happy Sunday beloved of God

Happy Sunday ! I think you should rephrase your topic's header. It sounds Antichrist!

Joyfulguy:
Let’s examine the word righteousness under the two Testaments and find out its standing in both Testaments. Righteousness in the Old Testament is regarded as the righteousness of the Law, which implies that it is righteousness obtainable by observing or keeping the law. So one is declared righteous based on his ability to keep the entire laws and as the system stipulates one is required to keep all and a failure to keep one means a failure to keep all (James 2:10, 4:17). In that case, the righteousness of the law is regarded as “the doing righteousness” (Romans 10:5) and as a matter of fact no one under the face of this sun was able to keep those laws at the same time until Jesus Christ came and became the end to the law (Romans 10:4).

Thank you for Speaking the Truth and giving One Testament by joining what people wrongly call the old testament with what they wrongfully call the new testament

Joyfulguy:
He became the end to the law in that He came and fulfill the requirements of the law for us and in us (Matthew 5:17 – 18, John 19:30, Romans 8:4). Obviously, this kind of righteousness is placing a demand on people who do not have the ability to fulfill the laws hence the massive flaws in the system (Exodus 19:5).

Wrong, Brother! They Never Wanted to Keep The Law even right from when they left Egypt, They were A Very Disobedient And Stubborn People. Exodus 16:4

"Then said the LORD unto Moses, Behold, I will rain bread from heaven for you; and the people shall go out and gather a certain rate every day, that I may prove them, whether they will walk in my law, or no."

Did they pass this simple Test of Obedience? No, They Failed Spectacularly and Woefully!

Joyfulguy:
Then Jesus said to him “Yet lackest thou one thing: sell all that thou hast, and distribute unto the poor, and thou shalt have treasure in heaven: and come, follow me.” (Luke 18:22). This shows that those who practice the laws always lack one thing and in the case of this young man, his response to this statement shows that he does not love his neighbours though he claimed to love them.

Wrong!

It is Written

"Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he. Proverbs 29:18

Great peace have they which love thy law: and nothing shall offend them. Psalm 119:165.

But this man did not have these things,why? Because Another important element or requirement was missing and Jesus Showed him and us what that was! It's as simple as that.

Joyfulguy:
No one under the conduct of the laws was able to keep them and as a result of that, people were kept far away from God. The stiffness of the demands of the law made the people to become debtors before God (Romans 4:4). Because they depended on their effort to accomplish the requirements of the law, but the more they try harder in their effort, the more they find out that they are bankrupt and in fact needed help, because of the weakness in their flesh.

Wrong!

Romans 10:3 reiterates what Exodus 16:4 Complained About and All the Prophets Complained About, which is that they Put Away The Rightness and Righteousness of God from themselves to take up Unrightness and Unrighteousness (which they called rightness or righteousness) as their own way.

"For they being ignorant (Ignoring what God Hath Said) of God's righteousness, and going about to establish their own righteousness, have not submitted themselves unto the righteousness of God."

Joyfulguy:
Let’s examine the word righteousness under the two Testaments and find out its standing in both Testaments. Righteousness in the Old Testament is regarded as the righteousness of the Law, which implies that it is righteousness obtainable by observing or keeping the law...l

Is "Righteousness" Not About the Doing of That Which is Right and Good? So there are No Different Rightnesses,

ThiagoKid:
when the God said this?

"Houses and wealth are inherited from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the Lord".Proverbs 19:14

ThiagoKid:
So, God has been giving people bad wives since ages past?

God Does not give and can never give you any bad thing, it is Impossible. It is you who did not know that the options out there are bad, as men have spoilt it, therefore, you are choosing out of those bad options, as HealerH told you.

If you were truly Following God, you would have long known how needful it is to be Close to The Lord, so That you can see His Face continually, that you will identify the Good Things He Sends your way. For what is available and common is bad and evil, which is why God keeps complaining that the "Whole Earth is Full of Evil" as man has chosen to plant only evil deeds!

This is what the Right Do and their Steps are Guided As God Promised!

ThiagoKid:
So, if you do not keep His Rules and you are not His Friend how can you have a Good Marriage? It is not possible!

Are you saying those who keeps God's rule don't have broken marriage? shocked

Yes,! I SHOUT IT OUT, YES, THEY DO NOT, PROVIDED, that None Does Lot's Wife!

hopefulLandlord:
Without an observer, how do we know it's his will?

Many Pointers and Signs! His writing, the contents, His Life Style, Beha8 and Practice, His Personal Laws... Many pointers and signs!

ejimatic:
. I disagree with my friend who said it is not possible to divorce the dead. It depends on your prayers before the court.Some people in Nigeria have been divorced even without allowing the second party to appear in the court.

Non-appearance is not Dead!

ejimatic:
. A man for example got a divorce paper from a court for his wife who left him with his children.She only woke up and got a divorce paper.

Divorce paper? You must not be familiar with the divorce process.

ejimatic:
The point I am making is that the court does address anger or emotion but interpretation of cases within the gambit of the law.

The word is "res" and Cause of Action!

ejimatic:
If a federal high court issues a death declaration it can also address the divorce case of a marriage between a woman and an assumed dead husband after seven year.

Federal High Court? Divorce? Divorce Papers?

No wonder!

Respectfully, My friend, you are not a Lawyer but you are welcome to engage in legal issues and I do encourage you to become one.

You have argued admirably and properly even if you were wrong. And your wrong is based on the fact that you are not Truly a Lawyer, for you would have known the many reasons why the case advocate for, will not get past P.O, not to talk about the trial itself!

ejimatic:
Additionally I want to reiterate that death declaration in this matter is just an assumption not a certainty.

See, that's why you are not a lawyer! Let me not go on to see the remainder of your work. But I do admire the fact that you intend to do Right but you would not be able to do so without proper training!

hopefulLandlord:
Who was the lawyer when he was writing this will?

It is Allowable for a Person to write His own Will!

ThiagoKid:
....the will of God in marriage.

A lot of Christians, Gospelers precisely, will be conversant with this phrase; "pray for the will of God."
It's even 'commonest' amongst Deeper lifers, no disrespect.

Now, here is my Question; is there anything such as the so-called "will of God?"
What about the "will of the devil
Marriages been broken today, ain't some of them "the will of God?"

Lalasticlala, is your lovely wife the will of God?

Clarification would be 'ppreciated.

First, God has made known and disclosed His Wills!

Secondly, God clearly told us that "Good Wife" no dey, at All!

Thirdly, "Good Wife" is given by Him!

So, if you do not keep His Rules and you are not His Friend how can you have a Good Marriage? It is not possible!

Kobojunkiee:
I am afraid you are wrong in your conclusion. It is worse to assume a thing a sin,

Mr. Fake Lawyer, if you were a real lawyer, surely you would never have offered that foul food.

Surely, you would have known what lawyer Paul meant in Ephesians 5, "Err on the Right side of Law is Always Better"!

Kobojunkiee:
And voila !... the problem I was just addressing rears its ugly head.

Where did God specify that it is not to be rolled and with fire attached to an end to inhale and blow out smoke?

Stop being a Foul Fake Lawyer, as the movies have taught you, Every Lawyer, as Lawyer Paul said, knows The Law is Above and Beyond the Letters or Statute, it is Spirit and it must be interpreted in the Spirit of The Law!

essenjack:
Please I need a spiritual/Biblical answer to this question, cos in a society like ours, most Christians tends to judge and condemn smokers.
I smoke (only Marijuana) for obvious reason(s) known to me.

"Thou shalt not kill" (even if it is thine own self). Thanks to kingPhilip! (It is already proven and settled that Smokers are liable to die, whether old or young)

Not to even add the sin of murder when another soul is killed by their smoking!

Myer:
Have you ever seen a mother that said her child is ugly?

Oh, yes! I know 2!

Myer:
As long as you're a Christian, you will keep defending God blindly...

The same can be said for you, that is you indiscriminately and blindly attack God simply because you claim you are an atheist! But I do not need that cheap shot, I'll rather defend God on Reasonable Merits!

Myer:
...even when he himself said
I kill and I make alive.
I will show compassion to whom I will show compassion.
He chose to destroy Jobs properties and kill his family just to win a bet with Satan.

How has He Done anything different from you? Did you not use your phone to crash each other to see which one is strongest after boastings?

Did anyone question why you did such? Why?

Because, that is the Right and Power of a Creator!

That statement is a Warning to foolish creations that He has the Right and Power to do whatever He Likes without question Exactly as you do over your own creations!

[quote author=Myer post=101091/16]Honestly, I wish I still had your religious blindness cos it's actually cute to see [/quote]Many claim Christians and are not in Truth, but they will not hear of it, hanging on to Selected and Apportioned Truths and sweet sounding Lies, never knowing for themselves that which is True nor ever entering into the Full knowledge and Understanding of God!

And they make up between 90-95% of those who claim "Christian"!

But Christianity is not founded on emptiness or Hopes, or darkness (Blindness) but it is Found in Light, on Good High Reason, Full Knowledge and inexhaustible Power!

truespeak:
Hmm!

This is Intellectual Property and subject to Copy Right Laws, therefore I reserve a percentage of revenue derived from it's use at any point of use, in any place or time, in any form or manner, whether used wholly or partly, whether in its present form (as is), or any variation thereof which can reasonably be inferred to have been derived from the said Property

Eh, Counsel! I am speechless! Erm, we shall have to take a date for further consideration of the matter.

truespeak:
This is Sweet @ the Bolded.

Exactly as a Court Ordered Winding up of a Company Results in the Statutory Death of that Company for it Terminates and Extinguishes the Company!

The Company cannot be heard to come back to say it is still alive and that the Court Ordered Death/Termination is not a Death!

It is and as such the Company can no longer act as a Company as a result of that Pronouncement!

For it is Dead in the eyes of the Law!

Same for the former husband, he is dead in the eyes of the Law in relation to marriage to the affected woman!

Thus, her later contracted marriage stands in the same eyes of the Law!

Yes, the Marriage has been Winded Up! Beautiful view!

This is a case of Voluntary Winding Up of Marriage by the Supervision (Order) of the Court!

I am going to use it in Court!

ejimatic:
. ...The court will not ask the woman to go and remarry because the first marriage is still intact

How can the Court Order her to remarry, eh? Is marriage a court ordered affair? Or does The Law Compell marriage?

ejimatic:
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...and even after legal declaration of marriage is sought and given the first husband is still the REAl husband under the law.

What kind of filthy statement are you saying, even after you could not get past me?

I am Sure you have not heard this Law "An Extinguished Right, Does Not Revive!"

ejimatic:
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The second thing for her to do is to apply for the disolution of marriage with the run away husband.

A Declaration of the Death of A Spouse is A Final Judgement and A Judgement on the Merit, therefore it operates as a Decree Nissi.

It is not possible to divorce the dead, the Presumption of death operates as a dissolution of marriage when granted, for it was rebuttable (Decree Nisi) for 7 Years and it became irrebuttable (Decree Absolute) upon the continuous absence of the missing spouse.

After all, when a spouse dies, does the surviving spouse still approach the Court for a decree of dissolution of marriage?

ejimatic:
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Thw dissolution is usually approved on a compassionate ground.With the dissolution of marriage the woman is free to remarry now.After her remmarige if the missing man resufaces the second man is the REAL husband.

You are Wrong! Extinguished Actions Do Not Revive!

ejimatic:
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In some cases some women go into second marriage without dissolution of the first marriage relying on declaration of Death which is not marriage dissolution only to find out that the second marriage is null void.

This is not True.No such case exists, it is a creation of your own personal thinking.

ejimatic:
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Granted a case like this is emotional and disturbing but the opinion of the law on remmariage is sacrosanct.

And The Law Clearly Says, "An Extinguished Action, Does Not Receive" A Case of eating your cake, having it and still putting it in the freezer" as Jimi Dish would say!

Advertise yourself if you want to advertise yourself but let your basis be True!