TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by duduade(m): 11:49am On Jul 26, 2021 |
sirqeeboi: Will you ppl just stop talking about past housemates is it tiring now....
Let face the presents ones...pls Thank you |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by duduade(m): 11:48am On Jul 26, 2021 |
I do not understand why we Nigerians like to live in the past...
So annoying.. Comparisms to Kim, Nengi, Mercy and co..
Abeg lets focus on the present and future.. And stop elongating the thread with useless comparisms to the past |
Romance › Re: How Can I Break Up With Her She Is An Ingrate And A Pain To Me by duduade(m): 2:07am On Jul 26, 2021 |
Why wait till the 3rd day... Be hoping for nonsense
Please break up immediately |
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Family › Re: How Did You Overcome This In Your Marriage? by duduade(m): 1:49am On Jul 26, 2021 |
To many Africans marriage is an achievement So they see the need to cut of their single friends as they are seen as irresponsible... Scout for married friends |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by duduade(m): 9:04pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
scondy: Arin may not be a eye candy....but her personality stands out the most from all the girls that came in ...at least on a first instance.....she seems to have substance ....so ejor...make una no cancel the babe cos of fine face.... Thank you |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by duduade(m): 8:25pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
peacettw: Looks like the taxi driver is the only one with a real job here Loool |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by duduade(m): 8:24pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
Eeghe: I love Saskay’s intro hair I love her looks! So far! Adamawas tried Shes cute damn |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by duduade(m): 8:23pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
HIGHESTPOPORI: Next housemate is the Popular Chidinma we know. Biggie how come? I actually heard shes on the BBN media team |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by duduade(m): 8:09pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
Romanoff: I no know where them see these girls but them no just follow. You that you talking How you be Stop talking down on humans abeg |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by duduade(m): 8:09pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
Demnan: With that her grandma getup?  Looool Abeg try cut her some slacks |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by duduade(m): 8:00pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
bentenny: I now know why BBN decided to bring in the guys first.....Aside Maria,peace and Jackie,the rest of the female HMs no follow!  Arin kinda looks classy na |
Business › Re: How Do You Relate To Your Bank Account Officers Please? by duduade(m): 7:25am On Jul 25, 2021 |
A man will always think with his wandering diiicccckkkkk |
Politics › Re: APC Sweeps Lagos Council Polls As Results Trickle In by duduade(m): 9:31pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
After the money they paid to Jagaban why wont those particular persons win |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by duduade(m): 9:27pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
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TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by duduade(m): 9:27pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Obi Cubana says he ran a restuarant... So cooking for all of them wont be a p |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by duduade(m): 9:00pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Drama go plenty oooo |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by duduade(m): 8:59pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Welcome Cross |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by duduade(m): 8:58pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Librakid: I think the women will be introduced tomorrow Yes |
Family › Re: Well, She Called Off Our Wedding. by duduade(m): 11:49am On Jul 24, 2021 |
don4real18: Some months ago, I was supposed to get married to a lovely lady (Alias-Celia) whom I thought the universe made just for me. I find it unfortunate that this beautiful story was just never meant to be. This write-up is my story. ______________________________________________ Five years ago, while we both stared at the moon sitting in my compound and telling tales of our childhood, I studied her profile. She had a perfect-shaped jaw with rounded edges, full lips, and her ability to smile with so much ease. Her skin glowed against the moonlight, and her aura filled with so much innocence. It was no surprise when I finally popped the question asking her to be my girlfriend.
Four days later, I got a yes as her reply, and it became a beautiful relationship. Our companionship was a show of true love, or so I thought. She taught me to be a better kisser, and I made her be a better lover. We did almost everything together, and when challenges came, we solved them even though she was stubborn; A bit more than me.
Many moons down the line of love and sometimes distrust, she was to relocate to the FCT, the state where her family resides. I knew I was going to miss her, and it wasn't easy letting her go.
We did part ways at the airport, and ever since then, we were always on calls. I did notice later that I did most of the calling, and as time went on as it must, the regular calls became once in a while, and soon, it became longer.
I did play a little with other girls and tried getting into a relationship with others, but it just didn't work out. Perhaps, I wanted the kind of love that they could not give in return. It was no surprise when years later, my calls with Celia became regular and, I didn't mind doing most of the calling.
Soon, I traveled to Abuja, and she didn't seem enthusiastic about seeing me, even though my love clawed at my heart with a renewed burst of energy. This time, I decided that I wouldn't let go. I stayed in FCT for a while, I met her family, and I guess her feelings returned.
I returned to Lagos to continue working, and some months down the line, I was in Abuja again to see the one that I loved. We agreed that she would have to come to Lagos, and some months after I left Abuja, she arrived in the rowdy Lagos.
She met my family, and I popped the question, "will you marry me?" in a romantic atmosphere, and she was so happy that she was going to spend the rest of her life with me.
We made plans until the event of Corona took place, and it greatly affected my business. I became broke, but that didn't stop me from traveling to 3 different states to meet her family members and her pastor in FCT.
We did agree that we were going to have a small wedding, and the day of the introduction came, and I traveled with my family, spent a lot of money on hotel bills, etc. It did go well, and that was when it started.
She reneged on our agreement on the size of the wedding. She told me that she wanted to have her dream wedding although she had no money. I could not bring myself to spend so much on a wedding only to end up eating hand to mouth in my marriage. It became a back and forth argument. Her dad wanted it small, but her siblings wanted it big. My mum did try to advise her, but she felt my mum shouldn't have a say in her wedding being a supposed generation Z.
I did have to look for ways she would be happy without spending too much. Then the counseling issue came, and I was informed to come back to Abuja by her pastor. It was inconvenient, so I told her to recommend virtual counseling because I'm not ready to go and spend a lot staying there. She was mad at my response, saying that it was disrespectful, suggesting such to a supposed man of God, making it disrespectful to God.
I did try to let her know that we could use the money to do something else, but she was adamant. After some time, I did succumb to her demand, but she felt that it should not have led to an argument in the first place and decided to call the wedding off. I tried calming her down and even suggested that we postpone it, but she wouldn't budge with a reason so petty. It hurt at first. It made me lose focus for a while, but I guess I've pretty patched up now hence my decision to share with you all.
God bless us all. This is what happens when you try ending up with someone so immatured |
Politics › Re: 2023: Tinubu Could Emerge APC’s Consensus Candidate – Osita Okechukwu by duduade(m): 8:16am On Jul 24, 2021 |
Ole oshi
How much has tinubu given you |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 33yrs, ND Holder Without Job Experience ;any Hope? by duduade(m): 8:14am On Jul 24, 2021 |
360command: I see why you don't have a job nor business @40. Keep waiting for God.  You see am too No shame And i am sure he isnt in anyway disabled or crippled.. Maybe depending on folks giveaway money No hustling spirit nothing Tufiakwa |
Romance › Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by duduade(m): 12:03am On Jul 23, 2021 |
You still have a long way to go Sir |
Family › Re: Married Men In The House Please Advice Me by duduade(m): 10:35pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
Liability loading.. Loadin din din |
Sports › Re: Tokyo Olympics 2021 Live Updates Thread by duduade(m): 2:38pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
Yay
Olympics my fav |
Computers › Re: Anyone With With Direct Link To Download Microsoft Office by duduade(m): 3:33am On Jul 19, 2021 |
I need Microsoft office any version is fine. Thank you |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Martine Moise: Injured Widow Of Slain President Returns To Haiti by duduade(m): 10:16am On Jul 18, 2021 |
[quote author= post=103825092]She was critically wounded during the fatal attack on her husband in the early hours of July 7. She suffered gunshot wounds to her arm and thighs. She was rescued by unidentified individuals who arrived an hour after the attack and took her downtown to the General Hospital.
First and foremost, We thank God for her life.
Secondly, she is a very strong woman for returning to the country just 10 days after the brutal and senseless murder of her husband.
Well, we want to believe her sudden and unannounced return could well be to attend the funeral of her husband next week.
Amen �.[/quote]Yes o... Cant compare her to the wife of your mannequin at the rock... Ordinary small drag she went to sit down in Dubai for more than 6 months exhausting our laboured taxes
Trash |
Politics › Re: Kidnappers On The Loose In Kogi Communities With Daily Abductions, Killings by duduade(m): 7:48am On Jul 18, 2021 |
Bello that has done absolutely nothing in his State is dreaming of ruling Nigeria..
He must be a joker... Him and his cohorts |
Family › Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by duduade(m): 3:23pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
A 19 year old male who already has the mentality of entitlement to his parents wealth...
Dont go and hustle too as you also go to school...
Annooofiaaa |
Career › Re: Unpopular Tech Jobs That Pay More Than The Popular Ones by duduade(m): 2:50pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Remitush: Yup. Send me an email with the phone number you used.
My email is {itchycart} @[gmail] .(com) Sent and the phone number like you requested for |
Career › Re: Unpopular Tech Jobs That Pay More Than The Popular Ones by duduade(m): 7:38am On Jul 17, 2021 |
Remitush: It's on Android too I downloaded it.. But it says i need to be invited or something |
Career › Re: Unpopular Tech Jobs That Pay More Than The Popular Ones by duduade(m): 9:51pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
How do they join the clubhouse on its app...
Me i dont use iphone |