₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
I am afraid you are wrong there.

That's your opinion

HardMirror:
1. Are children of these days worse than the older generation?

I see a lot of myopic comments claiming the world has spoil finish. This is not true. Underage children has been engaging in stupid things from the days of Adam and Eve. Children that grew up in an environment where they learned about sex early always end up having sex early. When I was still in Primary school in the 1990s, I knew some of my classmates who where already sexually active and I attended one of the best schools in Jos.

The problem is the internet only makes it easier for children these days to get access to porn and things that corrupt them. Children will always do stupid things it is not a new thing or a big deal sef. They are children and need guidance.

Many of us judging these kids 2ould have used our phones to watch porn if we had smart phones back in our days too. Children are curious and porn would interest them.

2. Private Schools with wahala.
This Is another short sighted thought people are propagating. They think private schools are terrible in management.
They are talking of Dowen collage cultism and now chrisland issue. They say private schools are over rated. Well, they are wrong. If any child trusts you and tells you what happens in their schools, You will fear god.

Secondary school girls are doing runs in public schools and all their classmates know
The boys are doing yahoo.
They have cults too. Infact cultism from secondary school is very very old especially public schools.

3. Only girls are victims
people have been one sided judging matters always against the males. If not for the video leak, many Nigerians were already out calling for the heads of the boys. Women know they can always get public sympathy and they are abusing it. They are using it unduly to revenge and hurt people they dont like. They cry rape when they need to deal with a man. Is it not a possibility that it was the girl that initiated the truth or dare game? Do we even know if it was the girl that initiated sex with those boys? We dont have these answers yet people jumped into conclusion and many even insisted that the girl must have been drugged by the boys because they believe only boys can be bad. Girls are always good


4. Where did we go wrong?
Humans have always been bad, humans would always make bad life decisions. Children particularly would do things that are wrong because that is how children are. Exposure to social media is not helping them, giving them mobile phones is not helping, movies, music are all confusing them.

The worst influence on these girls are Ladies. You ladies always twerking online, always taking suggestive videos. The only thing you do on tick tok is dance and twerk. You sexualize every picture you take even pictures you take in church. The younger girls begin to develop the wrong mindset that sex is the most important thing most of you girls cannot take a picture without emphasizing your butt or boobs.
. The reason why I focused on women towards the end is because there is this assumption that it is men that sexually expose children. The moment a child is discovered to be sexually adventurous, the public begins to ask that all the men in the family including the dad of the child be suspected. This has been the way it has been for ages, men Are always the evil ones in the eyes of the society. That is why the mum of the chrisland girl came out to play the same old rape card instead of addressing the moral delinquency issue of the children involved

The answer to your first question is yes

Some good shots here

[quote author=macbeyland post=111631820][/quote]Will you have poco x3 Pro again?

Austinemark53:
Received my package that was ordered on 1st of March from aliexpress today. All thanks to @Noobody who helped to make the order.

How much

Mazinewmoney:
Just took out 17k USD profit. I feel like doing small give away. But I need to give it to people that will appreciate it not jokers like Denreledave

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MamiTer:
Hello good people of nairaland, I have a pressing issue and I really need your help.

A couple of years back I broke up with my boyfriend whom I really loved due to distance barriers. Getting over him was difficult for me so I had to go into a relationship with one of my toasters in order to get him off my mind.

I achieved my aim after a couple of months but the current guy was unwilling to let go, I didn't love him and couldn't get myself to love him despite trying to. I know I was selfish and opened up to him but he insisted that I would warm up to him with time and grow to love him.

The relationship was far from perfect, I was in it solely for what I benefited but we weren't compatible and it was from one issue to another. We were always at logger heads all the time. He insults me and my family at any given opportunity and talks down on me using secrets I shared with him as leverage each time we quarrel. He shredded my self-esteem.

He was insecure and attacked my male friends at any given opportunity including my lecturers, he would access my social media accounts and send derogatory message to any male contact he feels is making a pass at me.
All these attitudes made me fed up with him and I decided to breakup for good.

Early this year I met a guy online and somehow we vibed together quickly, we met physically for the first time and it felt like we've known for ages. Everything moved so quickly with this new guy that I started developing serious feelings for him. I was scared because I never knew I would feel something like that again after I broke up with my other ex.

This new guy makes me happy and treats me like a woman, anytime spent with him is always memorable and I don't feel like leaving. The chemistry that we share is super strong and everything seems so perfect.

Now to my issue, this new guy is a fresh graduate and not yet stable, I don't have issues with his financial status because he made me realize a Lady can actually be happy without money being thrown at her. But I'm still scared of going all full into the relationship he might go for service and never come back to me. I don't just want a repeat of my previous relationship that got shattered after my ex relocated.

On the other hand, the other guy is hell bent on getting me back, he's been pleading and sending people to beg me even though I told him I've moved on and has even had sex with the new guy but he still wants me back.

I'm confused and don't know what to do, my heart is with the new guy but the other guy is making things so difficult for me and almost driving me insane. Can I still grow to love him?? Though I've been unable to after almost a year.

Should move on with the new guy?? I've known him for barely two months but it seems I've known him for ages, my feelings are exploding and I can hardly control them which is making me scared.

I'm sorry for the long epistle but I had to let it all out.
Please advice me.

I don't see an issue here sef.. First of all you don't love him I see this as a good enough reason to stay away from him even though you were being selfish I mean isn't that how most people are? Difference is you are just being honest about it. Secondly he's abusive and that isn't healthy. If he disturbs you too much tell it to someone and try and be resting in all things

dukeo:
Just redmi 4..

Anybody? Screen for this redmi 4

KunlexyInc1:

Boss I de find redmi note 9s like this o.

repairpalng:
Redmi 4x?

Still waiting for your reply

repairpalng:
Redmi 4x?

Just redmi 4..

Because it is right one person's eyes does not mean it is vice versa.

It happened

Make everybody rest.

repairpalng:
available

Can you deliver redmi 4 screen to Makurdi?

Spider20:
Download MEXC app
Then You hit me up

Show us too na boss

Good morning here. Please those that know of and use Paybis can you please confirm that it still works? Been trying it for two days now without luck

OpenHeaven2019:
How do u get rugged in a free mint. Anyways It was a degen play as I stated.

For me every NFT is a degen play. Keep your heads up and keep pushing knowing NFT can easily make u life changing money, I wish I can promise to drop more NFT plays here but no time for that. Follow the NFT space and take risk accordingly.

I have personally made over $10k just playing flipping NFT between Jan and February

I have 80$ I got from one airdrop and I want to invest this one, multiply it but not sure how to. Please school me

OpenHeaven2019:
https://discord./bQxFxHUW

Join the above Discord, it a free NFT mint launching soon.

I’m dropping that link because I need 10 invites and because it’s a free mint so those with little liquidity can join.

Since I need y’all, I would also explain my silence for the past weeks.

I bring a lot of value to this thread but to do that i have to research my ass off. I’m a very responsible person so I don’t want any one losing money so I research and research before I drop any project here but now I have to focus on my Life outside crypto and grow it - the insults made the decision a very easy one tho.

Trading wise i have not been trading any tokens, as a matter of fact I only hold Dope War Paper.

But I have been making mad money flipping NFTs, from Pixelpets to Quirkes, etc. I even got another mint on Monday - tubby cat NFT. These mint are expensive tho costing upwards of $300. There are free mints too, the link I dropped above is one and as matter of fact free mint usually do better than paid mint and there zero risk for you. I nor wan make person mint and it doesn’t go well and I get insulted here.

So if you wanna start your NFT journey with $0, use that link and join the discord!

Thanks for this. I got WL and await the minting but I have a concern, the free minting does it mean no gas fee?

I think it is easier for a guy to than a girl

Spider20:
What's painful is
A simp will kneel and propose marriage to such sacrifice(girl) that has already been condemned a long time ago.

Survey has it that 94.36% of Nigerian ladies has been a sacrificial lamb, all walking dead.
Feel sorry for guys that will mistakenly end up with them
Spits...............

Source of the survey please.. Want to use it in my article

Infor4free:
VivaMadrid send a mail to richardodi49@gmail.com for link

I've sent a mail

SolarE:

300$

Boss does access visa work on moonpay? Any idea?

Cyril009:
Good morning,
which exchange is similar to binance with P2P.
I am Into arbitrage buy low/sell high.

Can I mail you?

Pandorah:
WRONG information. Not ALL phones are shipped via Singapore. My last 4 phone parcels were all shipped via AESS and delivered via SpeedAF. My current phone is also en route Speedaf.

Which store did you order from?

Anyone capable of unlocking 9mobile mifi?

Optics MIFI HL-430

Spider20:
A coin is slated to make MiLLIONAIRES these year.
Buy, Hold and relax.............

What coin?

Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

There are a lot of things that I can think of that may be his problem.. First of all you need to make him communicate, tell you why and until he talks to you I suggest not getting down

But the elderly, young and kids respect him.

Singapore1:
you guys have chased openheaven2019 away

What happened?

Rakiticbarca:
Dell Precision 7760 Workstation
17.3" IPS UHD 120Hz 500 Nits
11th Gen Intel Core i9-11950H vPro 8-Core up to 5.00GHz
64GB RAM
1TB NVMe SSD
Nvidia RTX A4000 w/8 GB GDDR6
Backlit keyboard
Laptop and Charger
Brand New



900K
LAGOS

Do you have any Lenovo x1 carbon?

Wapgod:
Standard Chartered has physical branches in Nigeria although they just closed many of them recently.

Any idea why?

Romanoff:
You see all these financial institutions wey no get physical office, avoid them.

E get why.

Except standard chartered

NB: I'm not a marketer

Singapore1:
if enough people show interest

Interested o

Ibime:
That's The Moon crypto. All his YouTuber friends were promoting it.

See what binance sent me