₦airaland Forum

EKONGKING:
I laugh whenever anyone mentions that politicians are the problem of the country as if they are coming from Mars.

Nigerians think everywhere is like Nigeria ,where none follows rule .

Politicians our problem, let them make our law work, you will see positive changes, you see a country where law works, you break the law and you get punish that how is suppose to be, politicians are the major problem we have, if the law can hold the politicians, who are the masses the law can not hold

concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe

On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers

The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out

A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad

She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .

I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again

You are not a man, but if you are then you are blind, may be when they don kill you before your eye go open.

[quote author=Seyiemath post=122381840]See What My Ex Girlfriend Did To Me (FULL STORY)

OMO FEAR WOMEN O.

On the 27th of December 2019 around 4:30pm I went out to do a POS transaction, after imputing my 4 digit pin into the almost-dead POS Machine.

I noticed 4 men in black with guns walking towards my direction, at first I thought it was armed robbers. The POS operator quickly ran away leaving his Card machine at the desk. When I noticed this guys were coming for me, I activated the Husain Bolt in me, this men ran after me.

I knew all the short cuts in my street so it was easy to disappear in no time. I ran towards an estate in my area, the plan was to get help from the security men stationed at the estate and vanish in no time. The men who were chasing me knew they can never catch up with me in this world or next. Before I could take a left turn heading to the estate.

I heard gun shots, I was sure these guys shot at me. Omo, I stopped running immediately to avoid been killed at the spot. The men ran towards me and informed me that they are men from SARS. I knew I was in a mess, not because I committed any crime, but because it’s a Friday evening. Which simply means I can stay in there cell till Monday (if you have been in law enforcement cell before you should understand what I mean).

One of the guys gave me a dirty and resounding slap. Out of Reflex I returned the Slap ASAP. I shouldn’t have done that but it was just reflex, nobody messes with me with out getting double of the dose. lol.

The other three men jumped on me, I was beating properly before dragged to the van. While been dragged, I saw my girl friend staring at me amongst the crowd. She did not look surprised at all. I did not read meanings into it. When we got to there station I was thrown in there cell with out questioning or been allowed to call anyone.

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God really save you

You for not resign your Job, rather find a way to improve in other for you not to be sack, as long the man your husband is not beating you

Nice

SultanOfPuna:
Niger Delta are the biggest fools in Nigeria.
A state sitting on billions of oil
But is looking like Syria and Afghanistan
Now Dem don use and dump una

I disagree with you my friend, put it this way, Niger Delta Leaders are the biggest fools in Nigeria. They have all the resources but the leader fail to use it for their benefit rather they continue loots Niger Delta dry every day.

LegendHero:
Source: https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/589365-just-in-peter-obi-files-petition-against-tinubus-victory-seeks-five-prayers.html

I can only see 4 instead of 5

Chinelo154:
Good afternoon to everyone my mum is really suffering in her marriage and I really need your advice , I am the first child in a family of 5 children I was born in 1998, my mum is a midwife in a local hospital and my dad is not working for like 10 years. My mum is the breadwinner of the house with her little salary , and I am also working my salary is 12k , out of my younger ones only one is in school the last born 14 years the burden is too much on my mum she cannot afford to train all of us to the university , we thank God we are ssce holders one of my brother is a bricklayer we are stuggling to survive sometime i cried alot when i see my mum stressing herself to put the house in order but my dad doesn't appreciate all her effort . The issue of ground is last wk Friday i returned from work only to find my uncle , his wife and their 5 children in the house , they came from the village i was shocked because we were not aware of their coming , I greeted them and went straight to my mum room, she was in a very bad mood , I asked her if she was fine she didn't say any single words to me, she was badly affected with the coming of my uncle and his family, I felt her pain because she is struggling to keep the family up and in the order side my dad is bending it how asked myself how are we going to survive in a 2 bedroom house with 14 0f us plus feeding and everythng will be in my mum head , my dad has instructed me and my 2 sisters to leave our room for my uncle and his 2 daughters , while we moved to their bedroom and my 2 brothers and my uncle 3 children will sleep in the parlour. How can a big woman like me to be sleeping in my parents room, I did not complain we went to the room we packed our belonging and moved it to my parents room. That night I didn't catch sleep seeing my mum loosing sleep she didn't say anything but she was awake all night , she was trouble a lot was going through her mind , in the morning I heard my uncle wife and mum having a discussion she told her , if she knew the condition we were living was this bad she wouldn't have come , she said my dad has told them to come because things are fine with us and she was disappointed with what she saw , so my mum asked her so my husband was the one that convinced you to moved in the city she said yes , my mum shook her head she didn't say anything else and I become very angry I confronted my dad asking him why did he do this to my mum when he knows the condition is not good, why did he tells his brother to come not just him alone but with his family, he started shouting at me I am not a wife material if I bring this my character of not liking my inlaw to my husband house he will send me packing and he will not allow me back to his house , I have told him he is very wicked he want mum to die so he can bring him another woman , he stood out he went inside the house he started shouting at my mum how dare she ask me to confront him and what's wrong with him bringing his brother to his house, my mum did not send me she is a quiet type and I am not i co fronted him by my own will , he said my mum is wicked woman he was shouting in the presence of my uncle and my uncle has started insulted me too , telling me the house belong to his brother if I am not happy seeing them in the house I should go and rent my own house because he is not leaving anytime soon , if I had somewhere else to go I would have left the same day but I had nowhere to go, I went inside my room crying and later on my aunty was telling me to not mind my uncle , she don't blame me for standing up for my mum because as a woman she is she will not tolerate it she told me she don't know if my dad and her brother are curse they are just lazy and they have left all the responsibility to the wives , she said she can't tell me everything she is also passing through the same thing with my mum , I thanked her for her understanding and for not supporting her husband and my dad. It is been few days now I don't greet nor talk to my dad and uncle , I go to work as usual and when I come home I sleep in the parlour with the boys me on the sofa them on the floor , I am not happy with my dad and I don't think I will ever be happy with him again , did I overreacted for confronting or I did the right thing I am just asking for your advise so i will know the right thing to do after please do not insult me I am wearing the shoe I know where it pinch

Chinelo154:
True can you just imagine i got home from work, my mum is already asleep and my sister took me outside the house , she was telling me that my dad had insulted her for feeding them indomie 3 days in a row ,and he was shouting at her if tommorow is indomie again she will not like the outcome , he doesn't even care for the fact that she is trying her best to feed 13 mouths where does he expect her to get the money to feed 13 mouths in this economy , me i ate at my workplace. i am angry with him i wish i could talk sense to him, but i had to keep quiet for my mum sake. I swear if anything happens to her, I will never forgive him, he will suffer for the rest of his life

Behavior mature and save your mother, she is looking up to you for help and you are not helping matter at all, do all your best and rent one room far from your father and let your mom stay then see if your your father will not find work or drive away his visitors, if your mom refuse to adhere to your advice then let her be and suffer, your father have no faults there, is your mom who choose to suffer

Chinelo154:
True can you just imagine i got home from work, my mum is already asleep and my sister took me outside the house , she was telling me that my dad had insulted her for feeding them indomie 3 days in a row ,and he was shouting at her if tommorow is indomie again she will not like the outcome , he doesn't even care for the fact that she is trying her best to feed 13 mouths where does he expect her to get the money to feed 13 mouths in this economy , me i ate at my workplace. i am angry with him i wish i could talk sense to him, but i had to keep quiet for my mum sake. I swear if anything happens to her, I will never forgive him, he will suffer for the rest of his life

Behavior mature and save your mother, she is looking up to you for help and you are not helping matter at all, do all your best and rent one room far from your father and let your mom stay then see if your your father will not find work or drive away his visitors, if your mom refuse to adhere to your advice then let her be and suffer, your father have no faults there, is your mom who choose to suffer

Pierced:
I hope he wins.

What is going on in Delta?

I know Atiku won Osun...... Adeleke tried.

I am scared but my prayers are for him to win.

Don’t worry, Delta Vote are for Obi, I’m from Delta

Just been treating infections with native medicine, don’t use English, once that but of native medicine finishes, go for more active one, that will work very well, always change from more active native natural medicine to another until there is no infection and pain, then go for infection test again

Norah199:
She’s tried everything. I don’t just buy her talks and that’s the problem. She believed I have been bewitched. She has said several times I have been giving love portion

Guy man, the matter don settle already, just continue to help your mom financially and don’t discuss anything concerning your wife and marriage with your mom or with your mother-in- law don’t discuss with them, you and your wife keep your Marriage and don’t listen third party concerning your marriage

CoronaVirusRelo:
Another malnourished set of people!

Why are Peters supporters always looking hungry!

Peter should be feeding them before the long walk in harsh weather.

Even water won’t be bad!

Why is Akagum so stingy! Is he taking money to heaven.

You are insulting them because they see what you fail to see, for the good standard of living for you and your children children to come, black man too like suffering.

Amayabor1:
As much as i want Peter Obi to win this election, let's be truthful to ourselves; Obi can't win this 2023 Nigeria presidential election.. He can not! It is better we put hands together to vote in Atiku than allow Tinubu win.

Continue deceiving yourself, why can’t we put hand together and make Peter Obi win, pretenders every where.

Shetemi12:
Peter Obi has shares in Fidelity and Access Bank that's why he is not talking!

Imagine a presidential candidate giving 2B to Church for mobilization. Lol

Peter Obi is just a fraud!

With People like you, Nigeria will remain the same without positive change, the man you called fraud is fighting for you and and betterment of the Country but you are still blind folded with tribalism, even it is confirmed that is fake news, in the same Nairaland you are typing this your trash from but you still hold unto the fake news, for your mind you are doing yourself good, better change your mentality and join hand with other Nigerians to change this country for good, rather than attacking any Presidential candidate.

This People are gathering together to bring in another Northern again, Northern sabi Politics pass ona, all this their gathering are not for the better of the Country.

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I will not deceive myself like my fellow Christians rooting for Peter Obi because every sane Christian knows he can never win. Peter Obi's chances at the polls is just like the chances of a gambler who played correct scores. It will surely end in pains. We Nigerians Christians reject the candidacy of Peter Obi.

PDAPC, Ona don start again

BigDawsNet:
Congratulations Nigerians

We need more of this...

International companies should come and invest ...

Everyone deserves to get a good paying job

yes oh

It is well

Op is saying the truth, I stayed there some years back

I believe you are woman in man clothed, you are seeing your death and you are entering, now only goat does that, our forefathers was not like this generation men who are so weak when they see women

Just be a man, you have no advice at all if you can’t stop her from working and then gather money and open a shop for her close to the house then you are not serious to be call a married man, stop her from working OGA

Thinkam:
It is easier for tinubu to stop bedwetting than Obi to win 2023 elections

Lol, I don't even understand how a Nigerian that saw how buhari won elections twice will believe Obi will win this election, what delusion.

Obi will drop out of the race latest January 18

Atiku is coming

Nor Be before December again now January 18 now

jconsulting:
Bro I pity you , sit down and search your heart do you really love this lady or is her breast and buttocks you just want to have access to, from your writing single mothers are deadly and very wise, she will reap you and go for someone better when you can't take or meet her needs again, sleeping with different men is not new for them so why staying with a man that is poor after all she has a kid.Just test her for 3 months and pretend things are bad for you and see if she will be ready to help you out

Your type is hard to find, good advice

Is only a goat, can behave the way you do, when your pocket dry, you go get sense, you are not a man but a fool woman in man form, change your way this new year woman, and meet a better lady and not hoe

You don’t know much about women, not every things woman tell you to do, you will do, is just a trap to end the relationship and you fall for it, no one is against her but against you because you foolishly took her advice, are you are her father or mother, a woman can tell you something now and the same time blame you for doing that if it goes wrong, that is women for you, you just have to understand women and let them be.

��� when they start action, you just Dey shout haaa meee ohhhh doh fire more just with a Loud voice, it will make them to wonder, continue to do it whenever Dey doing that, even though they have stop, you should continue for some extra minutes, this will force them to stop or confront you that they are not sleeping, I did not tell you to fornicate oh but just shout oooh

All this will stop, if the senate through the help of the president lobby and pass a law for the local government autonomy, every money pay to local government Account and also INEC not the state to conduct local election per each state in Nigeria in different period, then this problem will stop, Then you have cut out the State Governor from filling his/her Puppet as local chairman/Chairperson in the local government, then you will see different political party winning local government elections in different local government in the state. If federal government are ready they can stop the state with the above

Opposition are quick to call PO a liar, or kinds of Names, without understanding the word; To Have,
PO did not say a Dollar is 1000 to Naira, this is not a failure of Nigeria School, that make understanding hard to what PO said, but the mind set of those, who which not to understand English, but quick to criticize

It is well

It is well

KaluwisxPRO:
You’re telling me the majority of those arrested by Sars thrown into Jail have evidence You’ve probably never encountered a police problem before so I won’t want to have an argument with you. Back in the day as a young man, during Christmas period, police goes about raiding people on the streets into their danfos, only those who got immediate cash are let go, the rest you go sleep cell next Monday you go to court, from there to remind for late night movements.

I’m talking about real life situations here, Police stations are filled with cases that shouldn’t go to court, Judges don’t know anything about the case except you have money to spend on the Police IPO, the judge will send you to jail for remind with one flimsy excuse from the IPO.

Most People here don’t know how the country works, until they fail victim of what is happening to others, before they can believe or protest against it