4akomnehpetS: Police should leave all these boy abeg, they just want a better life, all na still hussle...At least na small pikin dem bury, no be adult..
May God give you the grace to celebrate the death of Your child
Nigerians have reacted to a video showing the interior of former president, Muhammadu Buhari‘s house in Daura, Katsina state.
Buhari and his family moved into the house following the end of his tenure as president.
The video showed Buhari asking questions about the air conditioner in the apartment and some Nigerians said that the house wasn’t befitting for a former president.
Just to draw away the attention of people from him following the thinking mentality of lotting.
I am 35 years old and everybody keeps reminding me that age is no longer on my side.
My fiance and I have been dating for more than one year and we are getting married soon.
My fiance is 40 years old and he has never been married.
The relationship was really good when we started but now that our wedding is in a few weeks time, he has shown how controlling he can be.
From the choice of the wedding dress, to the bridesmaids selection, to the colour of the day, he wants to be in charge.
He also wants his mum to buy the cloth for our engagement as well as buy our wedding ring.
He does whatever his family says without seeking my opinion and it almost seems as if I am not the one getting married.
I told my parents about how this makes me feel and they just asked me to endure because I am getting older but I really fear for what is going to happen after the wedding.
Are these not red flags I should run from?
I am confused, please advise me.
Well, it is not normal. Going to buy your wedding gown and Ring is really outrageous but just try and condol it because time will come when he will seek your advise before action. If your a working class Pearson that ends salary, I will be very happy because to him, you want to use the medium to exploit him or go after expensive things with considering his financial status. Learn, grow and never graduate cos it is the true definition of marriage.
I am 35 years old and everybody keeps reminding me that age is no longer on my side.
My fiance and I have been dating for more than one year and we are getting married soon.
My fiance is 40 years old and he has never been married.
The relationship was really good when we started but now that our wedding is in a few weeks time, he has shown how controlling he can be.
From the choice of the wedding dress, to the bridesmaids selection, to the colour of the day, he wants to be in charge.
He also wants his mum to buy the cloth for our engagement as well as buy our wedding ring.
He does whatever his family says without seeking my opinion and it almost seems as if I am not the one getting married.
I told my parents about how this makes me feel and they just asked me to endure because I am getting older but I really fear for what is going to happen after the wedding.
Are these not red flags I should run from?
I am confused, please advise me.
Well, it is not normal. Going to buy your wedding gown and Ring is really outrageous but just try and condol it because time will come when he will seek your advise before action. If your a working class Pearson that ends salary, I will be very happy because to him, you want to use the medium to exploit him or go after expensive things with considering his financial status. Learn, grow and never graduate cos it is the true definition of marriage.
Please i put up this post basically because of my elder brother. I sincerely want to know if i was wrong talking to him, or I could have just let him be. I wasn't myself ever since i talked to him, and i was somewhat having guilty conscience since then
I have an elder brother, he's 38 years old and also the first son. I am the fourth child in the family of five. The second child is a female and she's married. We lost our third child, that's my immediate elder brother some years back, while i have a younger brother. I came from a humble background. Lost my dad while i was in JS 3, even before his death we had been hustling on a daily basis for survival, and we live happily as one big family. My mother, siblings and i do hawk daily before we could eat. All thanks to public school in Lagos, my family wouldn't have had the opportunity to basic education. We hawk daily after school, weekdays and weekend. My family was bred and brought up in Ajegunle.
Few years after the demise of my father, we struggled to pay house rent. We had to leave Ajegunle to a local and developing area. I didn't allow my family conditions deter or weigh me down. Never! I believe I'd make it in life legitimately without venturing into crime, fraud, theft etc. After my secondary school, i was into all sorts of labour work. I worked in factory, building site, cleared bushes, laundry man , just to save up and further my education. I worked for 6 years after my secondary school, bought a bike from the little savings i had and proceed to school through jamb. I gave the bike to someone who often deliver #6,000 weekly for the upkeep of my family. I was in year 2 when i let go of the bike, it was on a higher purchase and the agreement we have had elapsed. I hustled my way through school and graduated. I'm done with service last year but couldn't land a job, probably due to my age. I'd be 29 this year and most graduate trainee often request for age below 28. Although, i had a 2.1. I'm only managing in a pure water factory to make ends meet, keep soul and body together and support my family
I sat my elder brother down and talked to him. He has been hustling like every other person in the family but i don't understand what's happening. He didn't futher his education nor learn a handwork. He's 38 but still live under his parents roof. He has been doing conductor work for many years. The family had talked to him several times to look for something else. It's fine you are hustling as a man for survival but doing conductor for many years without thinking of what else to do is wrong. A family friend of ours who later got to know what he does for a living had advice him also.
The bus he was following, the driver had misunderstanding with the owner and he collected his bus back. My elder brother had been idle for months, doing nothing. He claimed he has gone virtually everywhere in search of bus he could be working with but couldn't get any. This is a family that we all had to bring something no matter how little to survive. I was talking to him as a younger brother. I asked him why didn't he heed to people's advice when they were advising him then to stop the conductor work and look for something to learn, if perhaps he doesn't want to further his education? He doesn't believe in Nigeria education, because he could count graduates without job or those with petty job. My elder brother wear almost rag as clothes. I had to give him some of my little wears I'm managing. He has just one slippers. We don't wear same size of shoe or sandals, we could have been sharing that also. He sold his phone to feed sometime ago and had been without phone. I was initially saving to get my mum a small phone but i had to give him the phone instead.
He was crying when i was talking to him. I understand the situation of things in the country, which i myself is going through. I was just trying to know what other things he could come up with. I am not happy seeing him sitting idle doing nothing. The fact that he's the first son and found himself in this condition at that age breaks my heart daily. My mum had been so worried about his condition. I had to convince her that things will be better. I don't want her to develop high Blood Pressure that could lead to her untimely death.
Please guys was i wrong talking to my elder brother?
You never did anything wrong. If I read your words correctly, the respect you have for him is intact.......you never compared him to anyone or his age mates which is good. What I will advice is this, try to find out what you know will be good for him to learn and even if it takes you to borrow money for him to learn it. In so doing, your mum will be relieved cos mother's don't like seeing first child being useless. If he says he wants to drive, let him go to a driving sch and learn professional driving while you use your skill in applying for a driving job for him. " In a family where only one man is rich, known is rich" when the strong helps the weak, it is called family.
It is not bad to help people who are in need, doing so tells that, you show concern as fellow humans but when it comes to tithing, it should be brought into the storehouse of God. A priest pray over it by declaration. Though, in a critical situation where life is involved, you can borrow your tithe to save a life but you must pay it back.
Goalnaldo: Sometime ago during one of the crossing over service the holy Spirit descended heavily and asked each one of us what God will like to do for us. I said I want to be a great man of God. He said he has been waiting to hear this from my mouth.
Oil was poured upon me that night and I was mandated. Few years past, I never made any move to start the work of God, instead I keep applying for jobs, trying several things I learned from this forum but no one yielded anything positive.
Yesterday (Sunday) the holy Spirit descended again. He says one day I will do his work that the earlier I start the better for me. If not every other thing I put my hands on will fall.
I'm bothered because unlike other people that are called, I don't see any vision or revelation or anything that clearly shows me this path. What's your advice on this? Please I need your opinions.
Pray to God for him to give you a pastor after his heart which will mentor you. Jeremiah 3:15. Vision become clear when your with the assigned man of God for you. Samuel was thought on how to answer a call, how to speak etc. You may have been getting revelations but each time you wake up, you don't remember it again........the devil cometh to kill, STEAL and destroy.
He betrayed Jesus. Without him, some other person would have fulfil that purpose. He made himself available for the devil to use him. I have decided not to fall victim of Judas Iscariot sin by not going to God for forgiveness after I have wronged God. I will always go to God for mercy not minding the rate of the crime.
PossibleG: Rest on …..now my question is when people are on sick bed deep down in your mind u know it’s a 50/50 chance you might make it you might not ,so my question is when u give ur life to Christ due to the fact that your in sick bed and you don’t want to make hell …are you truly going to make heaven giving the situation that you gave your life to Christ due to the fact that your on sick bed ??
Caution only for Christians ,cuz some people now don day take an personal ,ordinary question o ,u can see this pics below
By my understanding, God looks at the heart. The man that was crucified alongside with Jesus felt the guilt of sins committed and psalm 51: 17b says " a broken and a contrite heart, he(God) will not despised " if we at a critical condition seek God, he knows the motive already. Permit me to say that, he proves us wrong in our believe system. Some recover from such terrible situation and fall back to previous sin yet die in the same sin still. But if we truly feel sorry for our sin not only because of our situation but how we lived our life, he( God) forgives completely and make it to heaven.
[quote author=Angel55555 post=111419261]You can only win a case that has been decided. As long as the woman is legitimately married to the man and her children are truly his, then his property automatically belongs to his wife and children. The law is clear on inheritance so I don't see how the family is "winning" a case that is yet to be decided Ma. [/quotme]
Stated above is your own judgement but not the naija chief judge we know. Fat pocket wins the case in court.
I have similar experience but in my case, some one transfered 1m into my acct but was withdrawn without permission from my acct within 4pm while balancing there accts
Her number( age ) will increase but her stature will still remain fresh if you choose to be happy and make her happy too. Even the sweet 16 can grow older than you when no peace in the marriage.
Wealthinwealth1: There are many factors to this. Prayer goes beyond just upper lips and lower lips overlapping on each other. Prayer is communication with God. How do you do that? -You give thanks for what He has done, doing and what He is set to do ( enter His gates with righteousness and His courts with praise. Ps 100:4) -Pray using the Word of God (direction) Thy Word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path Pray with and expectation. Your expectation will not b cut off prov 23:18 -Pray with Fath . -pray with prayer and fasting
N.B if u look at the things above, the wicked pipu does it to thier gods thus making dem believe in its potency thereby making dem receive answers that are temporary but because we are arrogant and dont want to go to the Priesthood (God) we are praying carnally. If Jericho is not destroyed, there is a barricade hindering the testimonies, that is why most pipu said they have prayed but answers are not coming cos there is a blockage between the one praying and the Source" when jerico fall, even your destiny helper will find you and see u at all cost. Jesus for 30yrs was calling pipus attention but Immediately God speaks when God said "hear ye Him" after baptism, everywhere Jesus go to is always with multitudes. My brother, prayer works in the speed of Gods power. Jst ask God for direction lobatan. Brother walk with God like you have never b4. Chai! Never say that again oo, prayer that some pipu get answers to even b4 uttering. Engage Kindom mysteries too
Try this and see what God do reading this Ex 25 16
They should just try and give him a certificate if truly he had won cases. What else will he be expected to learn cos his already in the system. 10 years is not 10 months
The family of the food server knows how to insult people. I. E See that brother that ate food in our house and washed the plate. Not even bone or soup was left for our fowl to eat. When there is a left over, you retain small respect in that, you were not 100% hungry
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